I wanted to be an equal partner in planning, preparing and skippering our sailing trips I’ve grown up sailing, and even worked as a dinghy instructor for six months, but my yacht sailing career started as a competent sunbather on family charter holidays in Greece. Later, I progressed to longer trips in cooler climates with my boyfriend, now husband, Theo, where, being just the two of us, I had a more active role and learnt far more. We have done multiple trips on different boats: I have rounded headlands, dodged fishing vessels and stood night watches. As with many sailing couples, however, I defaulted to crew and left much of the navigation and pilotage in Theo’s capable hands.
My recurring nightmare when planning sailing trips with Theo is, ‘What would…