The first time Jennifer Lopez fell in love with Ben Affleck, she lost control of the narrative. Bennifer 1.0, an 18-month pairing from 2002 to 2004, defined a rougher moment of tabloid culture — and with every public display of affection came a counterreaction from the celebrity press and the early blogosphere. Lopez and Affleck, who were both in their 30s at the time, became a punchline, hounded by the paparazzi, stalked and robbed of any privacy. In a final indignity, their two movies together — the infamous “Gigli” and Kevin Smith’s “Jersey Girl” — flopped.
It’s amazing, then, that this Hollywood sequel two decades in the making has had a happy ending. Lopez and Affleck, both having long since climbed back from “Gigli” and now at the top of…
