Innholdsfortegnelse for Oct/Nov 2022 i True Love

The sun feels warmer, the grass is greener and there's that familiar and comforting smell of raindrops pattering on the ground. Among the many beliefs that my generation needs to unlearn is that "money is a necessary evil” or “money cannot make you happy". And this is exactly the root of all our money problems, even when we have money to burn. We subconsciously believe that either we don't deserve it, or that it won't lead us to what we all so desperately want: happiness. And that's why some experts believe we make catastrophic money mistakes. Although as Black women we're not alone in the struggle for financial freedom, our struggle is particularly unique because we have endured. While the system is systematically rigged against us, we receive fewer wealth-building…

STYLE TIPS: ▶ Sassy flared bottoms and short shorts are on the radar. They are playful, flirty and oh, so sexy. ▶ Bermuda shorts not only look great when paired up in a suit combo, but also pull off a relaxed holiday feel when matched with a cute crop top and sandals. ▶ Denim shorts are an essential. Ripped, dyed and different cuts will work for all kinds of casual occasions. ▶ Invest in vibrant prints, faux leather, and crochet styles to add an edgy touch to your ensemble. STOCKISTS Ackermans (011 467 1527 / www.ackermans.co.za), Adidas (www.adidas.co.za), Cotton On (www.cottonon.com/ZA), Edgars (www.edgars.co.za), Excelsior Lusso (www.excelsiorlusso.shop) Equilibrio (www.equilibrio.co.za), Mr Price (www.mrp.com/en_za), Witchery and Woolworths (www.woolworths.co.za), Zara (www.zara.com)…

Eyes The hottest makeup trends for spring are all about colour! So if you’re wondering: “Can I mix and match eyeshadow colours? Can I wear eye embellishments outside of Afropunk? Can I wear the cat-eye lash lift for work?” The answer is: yes, yes and YESSS again! Bring the drama with strong, statement eyeshadow. These euphoria-inspired make-up trends are here to stay. Whether you choose to have a striking, colourful masterpiece on your lids, or opt for slashes of electric neon or metallic eyeshadow – go big! But if you’re only dipping a toe into the colour pool, try a shimmery, prismatic pastel shade on your eyes, or a vibrant green, shimmery pink or periwinkle blue. But remember, darker skin tones need a colour that pops against their complexion. The…

What are your beliefs about money? They’re probably buried so deep in your subconscious that it’s possible you don’t even know you have any! We all have money beliefs that affect the way we handle our money, and this can have a big impact on our psychological and emotional health and wellbeing. If you’ve been trying to change your financial future for the better but just can’t seem to get anywhere, it could be because your money beliefs are sabotaging your efforts. If you want to stop stressing about money and have the financial peace of mind and security you deserve, there are five key money beliefs you need to “unlearn”. #1 YOU CAN’T HAVE MONEY AND BE HAPPY Money and happiness aren’t linked – it’s possible to have no…

Hi, I’m Sihle and I’m a pansexual person who identifies as a woman. My pronouns are She/Her. I’ve been trying out dating apps, and I found HER to be the least intimidating. It requires verification – you have to upload pictures of yourself and then immediately one is scanned to check if you’re catfishing. What I love most is that I hardly ever come across creepy men on the app. On other apps, you specifically ask to be matched with women, but then stumble across a profile that’s clearly a man who’s only titled his profile “woman”. I also like that the app is so diverse. I think that many women feel more comfortable on this platform and so it’s easier to make connections. I prefer bisexual women, so I…

PULLED SALMON TORTILLAS WITH RED CABBAGE SLAW Serves 4 Prep & cooking time: 30 minutes FIVE INGREDIENTS ▶ 1 /4 small red cabbage (200g)▶ 3 teaspoons chipotle Tabasco sauce▶ 8 small white corn tortillas (200g)▶ 1 bunch fresh coriander (100g)600g piece skinless, boneless salmon fillet STAPLES 2 tablespoons red wine vinegar2 teaspoons caster sugar 2 tablespoons extra virgin olive oilsalt and pepper METHOD 1. Preheat the oven to 200°C/180°C fan. Line an oven tray with baking paper. 2. Shred cabbage finely. Whisk ½ teaspoon Tabasco, the vinegar and sugar in a large bowl until sugar dissolves. Add cabbage; toss gently to combine. Season well. 3. Wrap tortillas in foil; heat in the oven for 10 minutes. 4. Pick coriander leaves from stems; reserve. Clean coriander roots, then process roots and…

STYLE TIPS: Add an extra edge to your look by opting for hats made from interesting fabrics. Nylon, faux leather, denim and crochet are the hottest options to try now. Fringed and ribbon-detailed versions complete a feminine outfit with ease. These also complement warm-weather vacation pieces. If your style is a more classic vibe, you can’t go wrong with a short-brimmed hat that channels the 90s perfectly. A graphic print in striking colours makes for a cool summer look that’s second to none. STOCKISTS adidas (www.adidas.co.za), Converse (www.converse.co.za), Cotton On (www.cottonon.com/zA), Dickies (www.dickies.co.za), Hemplove (hemplove.co.za), H&M (www.hm.com/za), Mango (shop.mango.com/za/women), Woolworths (www.woolworths.co.za), Zara (www.zara.com)…

Who is HempLove? HempLove is a female-owned hemp fashion and lifestyle brand, founded in 2018 by Loré Botha and Lara Blevi. We represent sustainable, slow fashion, with specific focus on the benefits of hemp textiles in the fashion industry. We cater for people who believe in buying quality over quantity, who value knowing where their garments come from, who believe that each choice has an impact on the health of our planet, and who appreciate timeless, high-quality designs. Sustainability and transparency are essential components of the brand. How do you bring these concepts to life? Our textiles and trims are sourced carefully. We vet our suppliers to ensure we are sourcing our textiles from ethical companies, and are proud to know where our fabric comes from. We are transparent about…

Blushes Spring is here and this season’s beauty looks are oozing fun! The focus is on cheeky experiments that boldly take centre stage. Now is the perfect time to experiment with different blush applications. Whether you shoot the works with bold, vivid colours, or add surprising accessories – you do you! While blush is usually used as an accent to highlight cheekbones and brighten the complexion, going all out with your blush application is now the hot trend. The latest thing is to sweep the blush lightly through the eyeshadow to the temples, underneath and above the cheekbones. Start with a sheer gel-cream based blush that you can build up as you go until you achieve the effect you’re going for. Check out the viral videos for statement blush to…

The average person will have six to eight careers in their life. This means that we need to master the art of career change and become comfortable with transitions and the processes involved. From identifying the next role, understanding the existing skills gap, rallying resources, job searching, interviewing, negotiating employment contracts and excelling in the new role – all are critical to the progression of a career change. There are few dances between two parties that are as calculating, nerve-racking and exciting as the dance of negotiation. It’s about getting as much as you can without being unreasonable or being seen as unrealistic or uncompromising by the other side. This often plays out in our professional careers when we negotiate our contracts. “Remember that a negotiation is neither a dictatorship…

UNIQUELY AND PROUDLY SOUTH AFRICAN – WORLDWIDE In October, the world celebrates Pinotage, a distinctly South African grape varietal red wine. Simonsig’s Redhill Pinotage 2019 vintage is one of this year’s ABSA Top 10 Pinotage winners, and its dark red colour immediately tantalises the senses. Beautiful violet floral notes are the first aromas you notice, followed by layers of white pepper with a light toast of oak. Cranberries, tangy red cherries and fresh strawberries wash over the palate, and it has a dark fruit core. It is a finely detailed, elegant wine with a lingering acidity – pair it with Cape Malay bobotie, pork belly, oven-roast rack of lamb, stuffed aubergines, or grilled mushroom sosaties. Available at www.simonsig.co.za and leading liquor retailers. SUN-KISSED, NOT SUN DAMAGED We are often told…

VEGAN HAIRCARE Discover silicone- and sulfate-free haircare inspired by Africa. This new & improved curl protection range from Iwori Beauty is enriched with organic African Marula Oil, rich in Vitamin E and known for its conditioning properties, together with coconut oil and protecting plant proteins. This curl-nourishing range helps to soften curls, enhance natural shine and eliminate frizz, for defined curl protected from future damage. Vegan. Made in South Africa. REAL FRUIT, REAL TASTE Fruits of the Forest from Clover offers a range of high quality, low-fat dairy snacks that are creamy and full of nutritional goodness. They’re a source of 10 vitamins, with bigger fruit pieces for that real fruit flavour. Choose from a variety of popular flavours including Strawberry, Apricot, Fruit Cocktail, Mixed Berry, and more! There are…

TRAVEL For as long as I can remember, a trip with the family meant heading from Gauteng to the warm city of Durban. At the end of every year, my mother and her friends would gather all their children and book us into an affordable hotel near the South Beach coastline, where we would go swimming in the sea or visit the nearby tourist attractions. Needless to say, as we got older, KwaZulu-Natal became more monotonous and less exciting as a destination. So you can just imagine how excited I was when South African Tourism invited me and other media representatives to showcase the activities on offer in the southern part of the province. We visited the resort town of Port Edward, which is situated on the south coast of…

STYLE TIPS: ▶ Kimonos are the perfect lightweight cover-up and add an elegant finish to otherwise plain jeans or pants. ▶ The elegant versions, especially in silk fabrics, are super glam. Complete the look with chic summer sandals or heels. ▶ Kaftans are also a great alternative, as they are similar to kimonos in that they are roomy and flowy, so don’t overlook these simple finds in the shops this summer. ▶ A bright, white kaftan is a summer favourite, as it allows for a variety of stylish additions in the form of an accessory. STOCKISTS Equilibrio (www.equilibrio.co.za), Excelsior Lusso (www.excelsiorlusso.shop), H&M (0860 690 707), Romaria (www.romaria.shop), Royal Vintage Clothing Castle ( 064 523 2776), Zara (www.zara.com)…

STYLE TIPS: ▶ Pastels and neon brights top the list of hottest colour trends. Delicate blues and pinks, as well as dazzling hues, give every outfit that necessary pep. ▶ Classic retro designs such as minimalist high tops exude effortless cool and radiate chic finesse when combined with tonal tailoring. ▶ Sneakers with metallic, glitter or sequinned accents turn a basic shoe into a bomb. And styled right, they add a touch of sparkle to your entire ensemble. ▶ Knitted sneakers are the ultimate in sporty chic. Not only are they comfortable, but they also possess year-round appeal. STOCKISTS Adidas (www.adidas.co.za), Converse (www.converse.co.za), Edgars (010 593 8359 / www.edgars.co.za), H&M (0860 690 707), Louis Vuitton (www.louisvuitton.com), Woolworths (www.woolworths.co.za), Zara (www.zara.com)…

INCLUSIVE AND CAPTIVATING OUTCAST BLUE, a woody and spicy fragrance for women and men, is now available in South Africa. The fragrance glows like the iconic colour of Ex Nihilo’s hypnotic blue, with a heady, captivating blend of ingredients. Inspired by a new generation of artists, its saffron and paprika top notes give OUTCAST BLUE a spicy and invasive shot of sensations, while its heart of cedarwood teases the senses and provides a sensual thrill. Its hard-line base, a blend of patchouli, vetiver, oakmoss and an addictive hint of tobacco, add a rebellious twist that complements the fragrance’s silage elements. Available from Skins Cosmetics online and in the shop. CLEANSE, SOOTHE, CALM, HYDRATE Epi-max has expanded its Epi-max Original, Baby & Junior and Oatmeal ranges to include pH-balanced, emollient body…

Hands & Nails It’s all about colour – so take your nail game to the next level with a beautiful new manicure. Show off your fingers this season with a popping pastel mani. Pastels are very IN right now, so whether you opt for a rainbow of colours, creamy lilac, sage green, sky blue or a classic pretty pink, you’ll be bang on trend. Pair your pastels with trendy nail art such as smileys, half daisies or checks – and elongated acrylics and pastels feel fresher than ever. And if you’re usually conservative with your nail colour, the colourful Frenchie trend is a great way to bring in some bold colour to your nails, as it’s only on the tips. HOW TO GET SOFT, SUPPLE HANDS NOW Are your hands…

2010S: MOTHERLAND-INSPIRED CRAFTSMANSHIP The leading African designers of the previous decade give way to Khosi Nkosi, Palesa Mokubung, JJ Schoeman Gert-Johan Coetzee and Gavin Rajah. Thula Sindi is particularly prolific in this decade, and we witness the rise of African-inspired and Africanempowered design. The introduction and popularity of African couture and traditional African materials (knitwear, Ndebele designs, Esther Mahlangu prints, kente cloth, Maasai clothing, isicholo, doeks, etc.) are affirmed on international catwalks for their time-honoured beauty, and are woven seamlessly into our local African fashion. This is also where off-the-peg luxury fashion becomes more mainstream, and in the latter part of the decade we’re introduced to brands such as SCALO Designer and MaXhosa. We also see many instances that showcase the synergy between African and Western fashion elements in our…

As the world slowly gets back to normal after the COVID-19 pandemic, many industries have reopened. One of these is aviation, which took a hard knock when local and international travel was banned so as to prevent the spread of the virus. However, in 2022, the aviation sector is managing to recover and ensure sustainability. In her role as Assistant General Manager (AGM) for Customer and Passenger Services at King Shaka International Airport, Azwifaneli Mphaphuli is playing her part in boosting passenger confidence in this exciting boom in local and international travel. ‘Fani’, as she’s affectionately known, has worn many hats within the aviation industry, beginning her career as an engineer and now leading a team that ensures a seamless end-to-end travel experience for airport users. “I’m currently responsible for…

South African food has always been a wonderful blend of cuisines, and a reflection of our rainbow nation. To celebrate South African flavours, we’ve taken a look at TRUELOVE’s food pages from over the years and now bring you a selection of our favourite recipes. Food is at the heart of every home, and that’s why we’ve always been passionate about bringing you recipes that you and your family can enjoy. We’ve got something for everyone, from delectable recipes from the unforgettable late MamDorah Sitole, who was known for her innovative dishes and was a key figure in South African culinary culture, to something trendier and more modern from our own celebrated former food editor Tumi Mushi-Sebopa, who’s a star in her own right, and more recently from our trusted…

WHAT TO WATCH THE MAN WHO FELL TO EARTH – Showmax, binge from 1 November An alien comes to Earth to learn how to become human and finds the woman who can help save his species. They discover that in order to save his world, they must first save ours. This much-anticipated series – based on the novel of the same name by Walter Tevis and the 1976 film starring David Bowie – stars Chiwetel Ejiofor and Naomie Harris, who are nominated for the 2022 Black Reel Awards. Ejiofor’s performance has been praised as “... bursting with tenderness and humour, and the requisite level of oddity”. NDLOVU YOUTH CHOIR – ARTSCAPE THEATRE, 07-09 OCTOBER Since its inception in 2009, the Ndlovu Youth Choir has become one of South Africa’s most…