Innholdsfortegnelse for December 2019 i True Love

I remember the day our Content Editor Kemong Mopedi, passionately pitched the idea for the Music Issue – basically our version of the Top Hitmakers in 2019. My first thoughts were, it’s an amazing idea BUT it’s almost impossible to pull off! How are you going to get the crème de la crème of Mzansi’s music industry in one studio for a shoot? As skeptical as I was, the wheels were set in motion with the features team calling musicians and our fashion team scurrying around to organise clothing. The closer it got to the actual date, the more nervous I became – artists cancelling, missed flights, some not wanting to pose for group shots, musicians preferring to communicate only in SiPitori aka Pretoria lingo [chuckles]. Anything that could possibly…

How would you describe your personal style? Very boring and predictable [chuckles]. Call it basic or classic. I like normal-looking clothes that are functional. Whether casual or smart, it must be the right size – loose or fitting. Define the JJ Schoeman brand? It's all about the “Oomph” factor. Stylish and classic, luxurious and with a "wow" factor. The focal point could be one of many things – the legs, the back, the face, the fit or something that defines the look. What's your favourite part about being a designer? Being a designer is so complex and multifaceted, I think that's what I like most. Meeting different and wonderful people. The fantasy part of it allows you to dream and create, bringing realness to fantasy and vice versa. What's your…

GET THE LOOK 1. Use a good scrub to exfoliate your lips and get rid of dead skin cells. Ensure that they are hydrated, smooth and ready for make-up. 2. Create a solid base with a lip liner that matches your lips’ natural colour. Line the border of your lips and fill out the entire pout. This will prevent your lip gloss from bleeding. 3. Apply a lip balm that doesn’t have an oily texture to add moisture. A product that has a waxy consistency is preferable to ensure that the lip gloss doesn’t slip off. 4. Dab a little concealer on your lips. This will subtly bring out the shade of your natural lip colour just before you put on the gloss. 5. Apply the lip gloss and smack…

Extra, extra large hair – which includes braids and locks – is all the rage this summer, as seen on local BET presenter Nomalanga Shozi and on the runways of Paris Fashion Week. Want big hair of your own? Invest time, lots of patience and plenty of TLC to promote growth and volume. Follow these simple steps to reach your hair goals: MOISTURISE Keeping your hair well-nourished and moisturised will enhance elasticity and shine, and curb brittleness and breakage. Use a hydrating moisturising lotion or mask every day that will leave no greasy residue. With natural hair, spritz your hair with water daily for some added moisture, and apply a leave-in moisturiser or conditioner before going to bed. WRAP YOUR HAIR BEFORE YOU SLEEP A silk scarf will protect your…

FLORAL NOTES Eager for something delicate and calming with a hint of the orient? Finding your preference won’t be much of a mission. Choose from the note of a single flower or a combination of essences enriched with amber and woods. CHOOSING THE CORRECT SCENT There are different odour elements created within a perfume. The top note is what you smell instantly, while the middle and base notes emerge after wearing it for a while. Decide beforehand which scent families you like best, by spraying the fragrance on a piece of cardboard or paper. This allows you to smell and identify the individual notes or scent families. CITRUS NOTES Fruity, fresh and perfect for the hot weather. The essence of these scents is energetic and light. The uplifting notes of…

Research. Find out what the gaps are in the field that you want to work in and how you plan to fill those with your unique solutions. What are your roots? Understand the framework within which you want to operate. For instance, everything I do is rooted in human rights which is why I can get thrust into a debate at any minute and thrive. Understand the arguments and theories within your environment. Don’t obsess about having a mentor. I believe in following people’s work and not necessarily having their specialised attention. Have fun. This is the one thing I was never told. Take time out to do what’s joyful for you. Our mental health and wellness are important.…

No industry is easy to break into, but that is especially true for clothes manufacturing. But Zershi Gonzalves, a 52-year-old mother of two from Port Shepstone, KwaZulu-Natal, decided to take a leap of faith and followed her passion. Her decision to establish a clothing manufacturing business and to work alongside her husband, Bernard Gonzalves, is paying off handsomely. “My husband and I started our business, Juan’re Clothing Manufacturers, in 2000 and our children, Juanre and Chanaye, joined us between 2014 and 2016,” Zershi says. The company employs 250 people. FROM HUMBLE BEGINNINGS As the eldest of four siblings, Zershi spent most of her childhood surrounded by family. “Our lives were centralised around making the most of what we had. We found joy in simplicity, appreciating the little things in life,…

1. Wear clean underwear, especially cotton panties which keep the vagina airy. If possible, don’t wear any panties at all. 2. Keep your hands and nails clean to avoid spreading harmful bacteria to your partner during and after intimacy. 3. Clean your sex toys with water and soap to disinfect them and keep them safe. 4. While washing immediately after sex is optional, taking a bath or shower with your partner strengthens your bond. 5. Pubic hair exists to protect your nether regions from infections and friction, while the hygienic benefits of shaving remain unproven.…

“I met Siya in 2003 at a social gathering when we were still nursing students, and we had a great chat. We then bumped into each other that December and at the first opportunity he got, he told me that he was in love with me. Initially, the feeling wasn’t mutual but I gave him my number nonetheless. He was persistent in his pursuit and such a lovely guy. I felt I wasn’t ready because I had just gotten out of a hectic relationship, but he was so patient, and his character made me reconsider my stance. I had been burnt before when I met a guy to whom I disclosed my HIV status. He promised to love me but ended up rejecting me. Rejection is a painful experience, so…

We’ve been through a lot. This year has been a long, tiresome occasion. It was an election year, after all. That might tell you part of the story. If it doesn’t, I will, shortly. Let me start with a bitter thanks to the capitalist gods, that December has finally come. This is that special time of the year when black people would retreat to the homelands, back in the thick of apartheid. Today, it’s the time when we all let out a collective sigh of relief that we’ve safely made it this far. President Cyril Ramaphosa’s “New Dawn” became “The Long Night” this year. The economy was tough. Do you remember the Clifton Beach sheep slaughter? Ja, no, we need to heal as a nation. Which is why this festive…

EASY LAMB AND VEGETABLE STEW Serves: 4 Prep Time: 20 mins Ingredients 3 T sunflower oil 1 onion, finely chopped 2 cloves garlic, crushed 2 tsps ginger, crushed 3 T medium curry paste 2 T dried rosemary 1 pkt brown onion soup packet, mixed with 2 cups of water 400 g leftover lamb chops 200 g leftover roasted vegetables (corn, courgettes and carrots) Method 1. In a large saucepan, heat oil and sauté onion, garlic and ginger. Add curry paste and rosemary and stir to combine. Add soup packet mixture, bring to boil, reduce heat and simmer until slightly reduced. Add lamb and roasted vegetables, stir to combine, and simmer for 15 minutes or until the flavours have been infused. Serve. COLD ROAST PORK AND AVOCADO SANDWICH Serves: 2 Prep…

How did you fall in love with food? When I prepared a meal that I thought didn’t look great for family and friends, but everyone enjoyed it. Putting a smile on someone’s face through a plate of food makes me happy. What's your favourite childhood food memory? My mom teaching me how to make butter biscuits at age nine. Licking the leftover batter was the best part. When did you start being conscious about the food choices you make? When I discovered that we are what we eat. Indulging is so pleasurable, but I kept asking myself if it was worth it. Whenever I had junk food, it affected my skin and metabolism. From then onwards, I ate what was good for my body instead of what I craved. What's…

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Kemong Mopedi, Content Editor “The Music Issue shoot was like being in entertainment heaven — except there was no time to be starstruck! I’m still recovering from the anxiety I felt every time an artist would call to say they were late or cancel at the eleventh hour [chuckles]. Oh, but it was worth it though! Palesa Vilakazi, Beauty Editor “I will never forget watching the legendary Mam’Ribz teaching other gospel singers – Mahalia Buchanan, Dr Tumi and Lebo Sekgobela – how to ‘vosho’ correctly. It was a full-on masterclass that had everyone in stitches. What a truly memorable day this was!” Sisonke Labase, Journalist “When I saw our local artists jamming and dancing during their group shots, I knew we had pulled off the Music Issue successfully! The stress…

The 2019 TRUE LOVE Night of Style held at The Galleria in Sandton was all about glitz, glam and high fashion. The theme – City of Gold – was beautifully captured on the runway, as well as by the A-listers that graced the evening! In August, all roads led to The Galleria in Sandton for the second annual TRUE LOVE Night of Style. The theme, City of Gold, was peppered on the celebrities' ensembles, the glamorous lights on stage, as well as the designer looks displayed on the runway. #TLNIGHTOFSTYLE The paparazzi swarmed the A-list guests as they hit the red carpet, decked out in all things glitz and glam. Our sponsors –Bernini, Sofnfree and Revlon – created beautiful Instagrammable moments at the various photo booths and touch-up stations. A…

GET THE LOOK 1. Prime your face by using a glow-enhancing lotion that illuminates and instantly hydrates your skin. Use it on its own, or under make-up. 2. Add glow-boosting drops to your moisturiser, concealer or foundation. 3. Apply multiple highlighters on different spots on your face, or mix a few together for radiant skin. Using a fan brush, sweep your favourite shade(s) onto the high points of your face, including your cheekbones, brow bones, the bridge of your nose, cupid’s bow, and the inner corners of your eyes. 4. Spritz some water on the brush you’re using to highlight your face. Make sure it’s damp but not dripping wet, before dipping it into a powder highlighter.…

GET THE LOOK 1. Clean and prep your eyelids with a non-greasy eye cream before applying sparkly make-up. 2. Use a primer on your eyelids before applying glitter or glitter-based eye shadow to minimise the fallout. 3. For precision and a neat look, use a flat synthetic brush to pat glitter eyeshadow into place. 4. Allow the glitter to set and dry without creasing by keeping your eyes closed for a minute. 5. If you do happen to have glitter fallout, use small strips of scotch tape to remove the excess glitter, keeping the sparkles concentrated on your eyelids. 6. To complete your look, use a setting spray to prevent both fading and fallout.…

A song that makes me get up and dance… Go Dance by Afro B featuring Busy Signal. A song that humbles me… Thandiswa Mazwai’s Abenguni. Everyone in my family loves Thandiswa — from the youngest to the oldest. The song reminds me of my family and that I have more power than I can see physically. Songs that I want to be remembered for… Banomoya with Prince Kaybee and My Name Is with DJ Zinhle. Local artist that we’re sleeping on… Nokwazi Dlamini. Local or international venue that you’d love to perform in… I hardly think of venues but more festivals, so Afro Nation Festival in Portugal it is. My best performance to date…When I launched my record company, Majesty Music at Max’s Lifestyle, a popular shisanyama in Durban. I…

1 ELIZABETH ARDEN SUNFLOWERS SUNLIT SHOWERS R460 This fragrance conjures up images of getting caught in a sun shower, with juicy mandarin and sparkling bergamot aromas all around. Rain-kissed magnolia and summer peach mixed with musks, sandalwood, and amber contribute to its freshness. 2 PACO RABANNE OLYMPĒA LEGEND R1 350 Sea salt, plum and apricot open this fragrance, which builds to a spicy, floral heart, and winds down to a full base of warm, gourmand notes — marking a summer scented by oriental and floral aromas. 3 MUGLER ALIEN R1 080 Made up of amber, floral and woody notes, a combo that makes for a mysterious, enveloping and captivating perfume. 4 JUSTINE MIDNIGHT PERFUME R365 A sensual scent made up of rich, spicy and oriental top notes followed by classic…

“It seems to me that the more successful women are becoming, the more violent some men are getting,” said journalist and broadcaster Lerato Mbele-Roberts at the Brunch with Maxine event hosted recently. So much rings true of Mbele-Roberts’ statement, especially in a country whose societal dynamics are changing at near-lighting speed and where men who had been socialised one way suddenly have to live and accept that women are their own powerful beings, capable of making their own decisions and that they are worthy of respect. Of course, these are things men should not have had to “suddenly” accept in the first place — they should have just been basic rights adhered to by everyone. Allow us to safely announce that the time for women to be viewed as brainless…

1. Stay calm. Think of what would distract them and and look for them there first. 2. Find a mall employee and ask them to alert security immediately. Tell them your child’s name and what they are wearing. A recent photograph will help a lot! 3. Stay within the vicinity of where you last saw your child. This is often where they are found. Don’t be afraid to loudly call your child’s name. 4. Call the police for assistance. Especially in big open spaces and where there may be no employee or security guard on site.…

“My nursing background helped me understand my wife’s journey better because, as they say, ‘knowledge is power’. Being well-versed on HIV/ AIDS and having witnessed a lot in my line of work, I was open-minded about her status. I thank God for giving me the strength because, when we met, the stigma around HIV/AIDS was very high. However, for me, it was love at first sight and there was no way I’d let her go — love has the power to overcome everything. I was already in love with her, so nothing they said could’ve changed that. All the negativity fuelled me to love her even more. She was and remains my comfort, solace and happy place, irrespective of her status. To this day, if people do say anything negative,…

WIN A SUGARBIRD GIN HAMPER WORTH R1 142 Sugarbird Gin brings you their full seasonal range in this giveaway. The gin pack contains five colourful baubles each containing 40 ml of the Sugarbird® Cape Fynbos Gin range. Also included is a mini advent gin calendar of some of Mzansi’s finest gins, as well as a range of Sugarbird gin crackers to bring a some spark and colour to your dining experience. Through the new Sugarbird recycling bins, we’ve made it easier for you to make a difference. Visit dayoneforchange.com to check where you can drop off your empty gin minis, and other PET plastic, and stand a chance to win amazing prizes. The hamper includes: Sugarbird 1L Bottle of Original Fynbos ( R449) 5 X Gin Crackers (R39 X 5…

HERB AND BUTTER CRUSTED ROASTED LOIN OF PORK Serves: 6-8 Prep Time: 2 hrs 45 mins Ingredients 1 1/2 kg Pork Loin rack 125 g butter, soft Handful sage, finely chopped 2 cloves garlic, crushed Salt and black pepper 8 large potatoes 1 cup duck fat Method 1. Preheat oven to 200°C. Place the pork on a roasting dish, score the skin with a sharp knife. 2. In a small bowl, mix soft butter, sage and garlic together. Rub over the loin on skin side until thickly covered. Place in oven and roast skin side up for about 2 hours. Remove and set aside to rest. 3. Slice the potatoes, and cut them into shapes using a star cookie cutter. In a deep oven tray, pour duck fat and heat…

Rethabile ‘Retini’ Ramaphakela, 32 Retini is a writer, producer, director, and co-owner of Burnt Onion Productions and a voice artist famous for saying “Seriously” on V-Entertainment. Why Coachella? To celebrate my 25th birthday — I attended my first one and again in 2015 and 2018. It was awe-inspiring seeing Beyoncé live on stage. Top Coachella survival tips: Book your accommodation at least a year in advance – use Airbnb. Plan your outfits, the more, the better. Go earlier in the day to see some new acts. What stood out for you? Discovering new artists, like Frank Ocean, in 2012. In 2015, it was Charles Bradley and in 2018, it was exciting to see a lot more Africans, from Jidenna to Black Coffee. Gugu Khumalo, 31 Gugu is a teacher in…

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SAGITTARIUS 22 NOV – 21 DEC Your mixed bag of experiences has kept you busy this year. The month of chaos is over, it’s time to focus on bringing that sass back as you launch into your birthday celebrations. From the 9th, you take over the floor, your moves, ideas and plans take priority. LOVE: If you can be quiet for a minute, pay attention to your lover – do some reverse spoiling. If single, a secret rendezvous brings delicious mystery and passion. WORK/MONEY: Money rushes in. From the 3rd, you’ve already figured out how you’re going to spend it. Unexpected opportunities are the best, do it just for the thrill of it. CAPRICORN 22 DEC – 20 JAN A suspicious mind makes you tense, unless it’s serious, forget it.…

INNOCENTIA NKADIMENG Age:21 Occupation: Student and Media Intern “I wanted to move from my laidback style to a young, glam and fun ‘Dezemba’ look that would take me from the office to a cocktail bar,” Innocentia shares. HAIR “Innocentia wanted something refreshing and fun, so I immediately thought of my 14 inch mid-parting wig. The shape of her face suited a bob and complemented her personality. I moisturised her natural hair with hair food to ensure it stayed nourished under the wig. I cut and shaped the wig according to her face, then ins the wig, laying the edges with a taming gel. Hair serum gave the fibr shine and I straightened the hair to keep it sleek, hairstylist and o made wig brand Lo MAKE-UP “I started with a…

Who can deny the amazing power of South African music? If it’s not making us dance, then it’s ever-evolving or the lyrics give us something to be nostalgic about. From hip hop rising from the ashes to become one of the most listened-to genres, gospel turning over a new leaf, to our soothers sounding helluva better than Maxwell on a good day; our neo jazz artists awakening the genre from what has too long been perceived as a ‘deep slumber’, and the new kids on the block leaving our jaws on the floor with admiration and how grateful we are to those who introduce us to good music. Don’t even get us started on our dance music! To New Age Gqom, house and Amapiano (kwaito reborn), thank you for helping…

I meet Dr Tlaleng Mofokeng, or Dr T as she’s popularly known, while she’s in the midst of settling into her new office at the Commission for Gender Equality (CGE) at the Constitution Hill in Braamfontein. The book, Medical Apartheid, by Harriet A. Washington catches my eye amidst the piles of boxes — something I process to mean that this is no conventional medic. In fact, she is the epitome of how the world always, eventually, embraces those who show conformity the middle finger. As a child, toy shopping sprees for Dr T would always end up in her buying first aid material — from bandages to medication. “And whenever there was a minor medical emergency in our street, people would always say, ‘Ask for help at Tlaleng’s house, she…

In addition to the above, SABRIC recommends that we adopt the following simple habits: Review your account statements regularly and query disputed transactions with your bank. When shopping online using your card, ensure you only place orders on secure websites — do not compromise on this rule. Don’t ever send e-mails that quote your card number and expiry date. Keep your transaction slips and check them against your statement to spot any suspicious transactions. Subscribe to your bank’s SMS notification services as this is the quickest way to inform you of any transactions on your account.…

Virgin Active’s Active Bands combines the fun of a group class with the energy of a high-intensity interval training (HIIT) session. WHAT IS IT? Developed with fitness entrepreneur Rachel Holmes and Virgin Active national product manager, Ceri Hannan, Active Bands is a 45-minute group exercise class that uses exercise bands – placed slightly higher up on the thighs – and combines mat-based Pilates and HIIT – think jumping jacks, mountain climbers and jump squats – to give you a full-body workout. WHAT’S IN IT FOR ME? It’s a calorie burner, works on your lower body and core, and decreases the risk of injury. WHERE TO FIND IT? To find Active Bands classes in Cape Town, Gauteng and KZN, go to www.virginactive.co.za.…

King Xerxes, a wealthy and prominent king who ruled over 127 provinces, decided to give a banquet for all his nobles and officials. For a full 180 days, he displayed the vast wealth of his kingdom and the glory of his majesty. Then for seven days, he gave a banquet for all the people. It was a time of fun and festivity. On the final day of the banquet, the king called for his queen, Vashti, to come wearing her royal crown to display her beauty for the people and nobles because she was lovely to look at. She refused. The king burned with anger. Upon consultation, law experts and the wise men, advised him that a royal decree be written which cannot be replaced. Vashti was banned from ever…

STRENGTH AND QUALITY Sit down, relax and enjoy a cup of the new Joko Rooibos Tea. Available in Caramel Marula, Chamomile Marula, African Marula and Honeybush Tea, there’s a flavour to suit everyone’s taste. Now available at leading retailers. A NEW LOOK The Glenlivet, the world’s original single malt whisky, has unveiled a new look . The new packaging features the image and signature of founder George Smith, who spearheaded a Scotch revolution back in 1824. Loyal drinkers are reassured that the whisky itself remains unchanged, and that they will be purchasing the same single malts they’ve come to know and love. The new design packs will be available in SA from 1 December. BURSTING WITH FLAVOUR No more juicing, thanks to Rugani Juice extracts. They’re wholesome, healthy and full…