Innholdsfortegnelse for February 2017 i True Love

Love can be simple or complex. But I believe if we accept it for what it is, relationships wouldn’t be as complicated as we make them to be. Personally, I’m an old-school kind of girl. Just keep things simple, especially in these times of social media where we’re all on a futile quest to portray our love as perfect, putting us and our partners under pressure to appear flawless. But, which relationship is? As people we’re imperfect. What will make your union special, however, is to accept your man as he is and not try to change him into a romantic movie character. As my wise aunt once said: ‘Baby girl, you can’t dismiss love because the man bringing it is wearing white socks. Date him and then go shopping…

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Expert tip: Spray a soft bristle brush with spray to pull in all the stray hairs for a neat polished finish, says TRESemmé ambassador Orlando Pita. GET THE LOOK 1: Start with a pre-wash conditioner to soften the hair, then use shampoo to wash away the dandruff. 2: Apply a small amount of mousse from the roots to the tips. Step 3: Using a round brush, blow dry the hair to increase the volume and body. Step 4: Part hair in half and tie the top layer in a ponytail. Pull out one inch sections of the bottom half and curl in a flat zig zag motion. Release the top ponytail and repeat the process. Step 5: Spray the hair with a generous…

“As someone in the public eye it’s not easy disclosing a private matter, but I believe my story will help other women. Within black communities infertility is taboo, and associated with witchcraft, sexual promiscuity and abortion. Despite criticism from other women, I aim to let people know that infertility is a medical condition and that there’s still hope for some people to conceive, if they are diagnosed early. Sadly, not everyone is so lucky, but that doesn’t make you less of a woman. The biggest challenge for me has been the lack of support and information, even from the handful of specialists in our country. I was wrongly diagnosed and had to endure unnecessary pain. I come from the small village of Nhlengani, near Malamulele in Limpopo, and was raised…

It’s bigger and better than before. Come celebrate with us a day of networking with like-minded women, and for updates on the latest trends in beauty, hair and fashion from our partners Lancôme, Sta-Sof-Fro and Edgars. You’ll get the opportunity to visit the Lancôme skincare and make-up workshop, Sta-Sof-Fro hair station and the Edgars fashion pop up. Host for the day media personality Pearl Modiadie will interview TRUE LOVE celebritiy friends Zaziwa-style, singer Unathi Msengana will perfom her great hits, and DJ Zinhle will be on the 1s and 2s. The TRUE LOVE fashion and beauty team will dish out their best advise. #TLINSPIRED2017 is a platform for us to connect and share as women, while enjoying a delicious lunch, entertainment and a glass of champagne. Space is limited. See…

Having a professional relationship with your boss encourages a healthy working environment. However, they still remain your superior, so there should be boundaries in your relationship. Knowing what not to say goes a long way to keeping things on a good footing. Here are clues to guide you. FINANCIAL WOES Your boss is responsible for your pay cheque, and whether or not you get a raise. However, this doesn’t mean you can pop into her office and start venting on an increase since the cost of living has gone up or how you can’t keep up with your children’s school fees... Life and business coach Janice Hanly says: “When it comes to asking for an increase, never do so randomly as there are procedures on how to go about. If…

PLUM AND NECTARINE PAVLOVA Serves: 8 – 10 Prep time: 15 minutes Ingredients 3 ready-made SPAR Freshline Pavlova Shells 250g punnet SPAR Freshline Plums, pitted and sliced 250g punnet SPAR Freshline Nectarines, pitted and sliced ½ cup SPAR Icing Sugar 1Tsp vanilla extract 1Tsp fresh lemon juice (squeezed from a SPAR Freshline Lemon) ½ Tsp ground cardamom 150g punnet SPAR Freshline Blueberries 3 cups SPAR Long Life Cream 2Tsp SPAR Castor Sugar Method 1. In a saucepan mix plums, nectarines, icing sugar, vanilla extract, lemon juice and cardamom. Cook until sugar dissolves completely. 2. Uncover and simmer until all fruits are tender but still hold shape. Leave to cool and chill. 3. In a bowl, beat cream and castor sugar until stiff. Spread fruit onto the first layer…

Self Saucing Chocolate Pudding Ingredients 4T butter, melted 1 egg 1 cup self-raising flour 2T cocoa powder ½ cup brown sugar ½ cup milk 2T cocoa ¾cup brown sugar ½ cups boiling water 2T butter Method 1. Preheat oven to 180°c. Mix milk, butter, egg and lightly whisk. Sift in flour and cocoa into a large bowl. Stir in sugar. 2. Slowly add milk mixture and whisk until well mixed and smooth. Bake for 35-40 minutes. 3. Separately in a saucepan mix cocoa, brown sugar, chocolate, water and butter and bring to the boil. Simmer until liquid is slighltly thick and reduced. 4. Pour the chocolate sauce over the cake immediately when taken out of the oven. Chocolate Brandy Balls Ingredients 3 cups chocolate cookies ½ cup hazelnut 1 can…

When choosing a shaper, stick to your underwear size. If you go for a smaller size it will cause bulges and make you uncomfortable. High-waisted styles guarantee a smoothlineall the way up your torso. Buy shape wear with a cottonblend to help keep you cooler. OUR MUSE Sara Blakely, founder of Spanx blessed us when she reinvented shape wear for the 21st-century woman!…

Hers "Fragrance is the only thing that's about your being, your soul, and it's for people size zero to 22 and ages 12 to 90." – Michael Kors His "Women expect a fragrance to match their personality and highlight it. When I think of putting on shoes, a shirt, a tie, it is to express what I am all about. I believe a fragrance should do the same thing; make you feel more yourself." – Massimo Ferragamo…

no.1 Bionike 15 Fruit Xsense Multisensorial Oil R230 Powered with fresh notes of mixed florals, and vitamin A and E, Bionike 15 Fruit Xsense will nourish, tone and hydrate. Apply and watch our skin devour it. no.2 Estée Lauder Youth Dew Bath Oil R685 If you want a luxurious massage and to relax, add a few drops of Estée Lauder Youth Dew Bath Oil to your bath, or dab some on the body. no.3 No5 Chanel The Body Oil R1 440 This top-end oil offers a moment of refreshment, promising relaxation and soothing of the skin, leaving it delicately scented, soft and moisturised. no.4 Lipdol Cleasing Body Oil R79, 99 This elixer cleanses the dirt away and strips the skin’s natural oily layer. It’ll leave you with fresh, clean and…

Halle Berry is one of the most strong-willed and articulate women in Hollywood. In the course of a brilliant career that includes an Oscar triumph for Monster’s Ball, a stint in The X-Men films and a stunning bikini-clad turn as the ultimate Bond girl in Die Another Day, Halle has made her mark in a wide variety of roles. Recently she starred in the CBS sci-fi series Extant and has completed work on Kingsman: The Golden Circle, the sequel to the hugely successful spy spoof starring Colin Firth. Next up, however, is Kidnap, a taut drama that sees the actress play a mother determined to stop at nothing in order to rescue her kidnapped daughter. A fiercely devoted mother of two children herself, anyone who has seen Halle play wronged…

Driven by a passion for exquisite clothing, Anisa Mpungwe has indeed made impressive strides in the fashion scene. Her clothing label, Loin Cloth Ashes (LCA), is an African-based fashion brand for women who want modern, functional, relevant clothes with a neo-African twist. “I am proud that I’m still standing. After all these years I still create jobs,” she says, despite the challenges the fashion industry faces. LCA was one of the first SA clothing brands to widen access to ready-to-wear designer garments. In one interview Anisa revealed that: “Stoned Cherry really inspired this movement for me, so there wasn’t any fear about it,” she continues. We’re different because we understand the physiology behind why people like prints, and there are many reasons. Some even shock me but I’m glad to…

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“OUR DEEPEST FEAR IS THAT WE ARE POWERFUL BEYOND MEASURE. IT IS OUR LIGHT, NOT OUR DARKNESS THAT MOST FRIGHTENS US.” – Marianne Williamson, American author and lecturer Reality is that you can’t prevent two people from falling in love. But what if it happens with that colleague in your office? Relationship and career experts advise that you maintain your professionalism and not make your co-workers to feel uncomfortable. Read on to find out how: 1. First check your company’s rules and regulations regarding an office romance. If it’s strictly prohibited, you could lose your job. Is it really worth it? 2. The stolen kisses, being intimate and or flirting with one another should be limited to outside the office. 3. Always respect each other’s space and…

 When it comes to satisfying your sexual appetite, there are countless avenues that can be explored. You can ride on the kinky minx bullet train, strut down sensual seductress boulevard or settle safely somewhere in between. Whichever route you choose, you can bet that your personality traits and day-to-day activities will influence your decision. “It’s the open-minded and outgoing women with a lot of energy who are more open to mixing things up a bit and trying new experiences.” This is because the way we express ourselves between the sheets says a lot about our lifestyles and who we are. Intrigued and want to find out more? Read on. THE WILD CHILD There is plenty that can be said about the femme fatales who fall into this category – those…

Spaghetti and meatball sauce Serves: 4 Prep time: 60 minutes Ingredients 600g beef mince Salt and black pepper 1 onion, grated Handful sage, finely chopped Handful parsley, finely chopped 1T garlic, crushed 1 egg ½ cup parmesan cheese ½ cup sunflower oil 1 onion, finely chopped 2 tsp garlic, crushed ½ cup red wine 1 can tomatoes, chopped 2T tomato paste 2T sugar Method 1. In a large bowl, mix mince, onion, sage, parsley, garlic, egg and parmesan cheese. Season with salt and pepper. Shape into medium-sized balls. Place in the refrigerator for 10 minutes. 2. In a large saucepan, heat oil. Add mince balls and fry until browned. Drain excess fat on paper towel. In the same saucepan, pour out used oil and only leave about 2T…

FIFTY SHADES DARKER Release date: 10 February The second part of the trilogy has arrived! Anastasia (Dakota Johnson) has broken up with businessman Christian Grey (Jamie Dornan), but is still in love with him. Christian faces up to his traumatic past, while Anastasia confronts her envy of the women who came before her. FENCES Release date: 24 February Set in the 1950s, this is the story of an African-American father Troy Maxson (Denzel Washington), who struggles with race relations in the United States while trying to take care of his family. His wife, Rose (Viola Davis), is supportive of her husband’s struggles and forces him to deal with his demons. This tearjerker is directed by Washington. TABLE 19 Release date: 27 January This hilarious film stars Anna…

FREE FALL: WHY SOUTH AFRICAN UNIVERSITIES ARE IN A RACE AGAINST TIME by Malcom Ray Book Storm, R320 A focus on the current education crisis. Ray expresses uncomfortable truths that serve as a lesson to all South Africans. BORN A CRIME by Trevor Noah Pan Macmillan, R285 In the long-awaited memoir of the celebrated comedian, a mischievous boy grows into a restless young man as he struggles to find himself in a world where he was never supposed to exist, and exceeds expectations. You’ll laugh out loud. CONVERSATIONS WITH A GENTLE SOUL by Ahmed Kathrada Picado Africa R175.00 In a series of discussions with Sahm Ventre, Kathrada shares his insights and experiences of apartheid and beyond, revealing a man at peace with himself.…

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One muse Sexy actress Amanda Du-Pont is definitely our fitspo. She makes working out look effortless in simple yet chic gym outfits. Be inspired to also also look fashionable on the treadmill.…

SMASHBOX INTERNATIONAL MAKEUP AND ARTISTRY EDUCATION DIRECTOR, WILL MALHERBE, TALKS TO US. What’s the focus on makeup in 2017 “Lips! Lips! Lips! For me lips are the microphone to let the world know where it is.” What about brows? “Brows will always be key. My worry is seeing the brow lose its personality. Once you start losing the appearance of the hair then you have gone too far.” Tips on foundation application? “Assess why you need foundation. There’s no need to wear a heavy face every day. Work in layers. Customise your foundation for different events in their lives.” Are we still contouring? “Contouring won’t go any where any time soon. Find your star features and show them off.” What’s you fav product? “Red lipstick. It’ll take you from day…

FUTURISTIC This season we’ve seen mascara make a huge statement. At Marni and Giorgio Armani S/S17 eyes were left clean with the focus on exaggerated lashes. At Marni, super long falsies were applied in a sparce spidery manner, whilst at Giorgio Amarni they were thick and long but only applied to the upper lid. MASTER THE FALSE LASH At Marc Jacobs S/S17, thick feather-like lashes were applied to the top lid, and at Siblings S/S17 the same technique was applied on the top and bottom lids for added drama! These are the steps to get catwalk perfect lashes at home. 1. PREP Remove any access oil with an eye make-up remover. Apply eyeliner as close to the base of the lashes as possible. This closes the gap between your natural…

BODY ACNE Lavender’s antimicrobial and antioxidant powers are great to soothe and nourish the skin. Mix 1 cup of sea salt with 3 springs of lavender, 4 drops of lavender oil and a cup of grapeseed oil. RADIANCE Lemons are packed with Vitamin C. They help decrease free radicals in the skin’s cells. Mix 3 cups of sugar, a quarter cup of olive oil, juice of two lemons. Apply to skin and say goodbye sun spots! STRETCH MARKS Aloe vera contains enzymes and minerals that repairs skin and increase its elasticity. Mix 1 cup of salt with 1 cup of sugar, half cup aloe vera gel and quarter cup of palm oil. Appy to problem areas. MOISTURE Bananas are great moisture boosters and have loads of potassium and vitamin E…

With little success in the way of garnering mass appeal from the release of her first two albums, singer and songwriter Lungi Naidoo finally got her big break in 2016, thanks to her third musical offering, Black Diamond, and a role in Akin Omotoso’s film Vaya. The album title came about as a result of her having overcome challenges in her personal life and music career, and regaining her self confidence and belief in her talent. “This album was a Godsend for me. It came at a time when I had just recovered from my victim mentality after I had sworn, two years earlier, that I wanted nothing to do with the music industry ever again. But I managed to dust myself out of my misery, and made contact with…

“CONSISTENCY IS KEY! SINCE I DANCE EVERY WEEK, I WON’T REALLY DO CARDIO AT THE GYM SO INSTEAD, I LOVE TO LIFT WEIGHTS...”– Grace Gealey, American Actress FOOD FOR LOVE According to the author of the The Better Sex Diet, Lynn Fischer, foods low in fat are a great sex booster. “Eat lots of fruits, vegetables and grains while adding some meat to your diet. Do this for at least six weeks and your libido will hit the roof,” writes Fischer. Clinical sexologist, Ava Cadell further states that if you want to spice things up a little more, be specific about what you eat as it’ll get you in the mood for love making and also turn you into a better flirt and lover. “Different foods have different nutrients and…

Whatever your choice of workout, the right diet is key to helping you fuel your body and reach your weight loss goals. And it’s no different with yoga. For thousands of years, practitioners have been perfecting a way of eating that feeds their body, boosts prana (energy) and enhances their spiritual wellbeing. “The yogic diet is influenced by ayurveda – the traditional Indian system of medicine,” explains yoga teacher and ayurvedic practitioner Joanna Webber (ayurvedicyogi. com). “It looks at the subtle influence food has on your mind, as well as the more obvious effects it has on your body.” This lacto-vegetarian diet is designed to give you the same light, energised feeling you get from doing yoga, and can also help you maintain a healthy weight. Both yoga and ayurveda…

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As most women plan Valentine’s Day outings and outfits this month, some are less excited about the most romantic day of the year. “Valentine’s brings a drop in business,” sighs Chico, a 26-year-old Durban escort. “Guys spend it with their wives or girlfriends, so girls like us get put on hold. But they appreciate us more afterwards! Last year, a regular flew me to Jozi the Friday after Valentine’s for a weekend at Montecasino, and bought me a gold pendant. And I still got my normal fee!” That fee is R8 000 a night through one of a growing number of high-end escort agencies attracting young South African women intent on enjoying a glossy lifestyle. After all, this is the age of social media, where stars are admired for their…

It’s almost a year since Senzo Mncadi opened the doors of Love Revo, his vibrant, laid-back and eclectic restaurant in Maboneng Precinct. The name Love Revo comes from the term “Love Revolution”, which is a revolutionary concept he took when designing the restaurant’s interior. Senzo reveals that a lot of preparation and planning went into the official opening of the restaurant. “I invested money into the look and feel of this place and it paid off,” he says that it took him and his team months to get ready for the opening of Love Revo. Though he admits: “You’re never really ready until you open the doors of your establishment.” He adds that there were a few challenges he came across. “After I launched, the reviews of our food were…

It’s often said that most winning contestants on Idols usually fade from the spotlight. My current album, Mr Serious, is so-called because it’s my message to the country that I’m here for the music, and more than anything – I’m here to stay! On my playlist is: The Soil, Sjava, Robbie Malinga, The Muffins and Layla. A regular number on my call log is that of my dad. I speak to him daily because he’s a solid foundation in my life. Talking to him gives me perspective. Life after Idols had its bittersweet moments and some bumpy rides. I had to learn to take a step back and relook at everything with the experience I gained. Working with Robbie Malinga was a great experience and so humbling.…

AQUARIUS (20 Jan – 18 Feb) Valentine’s month showers you with ideas, new responsibilities and a fresh start. From the 7th put your razor sharp mind to good use – map out the journey you want your year to follow. Love: The Lunar eclipse indicates a relationship game changer. Be your very own heart architect – you decide what’s best. Work/Money: The blinkers are off and so are the gloves – no one can stop you chasing your true north. PISCES (19 Feb– 20 Mar) Potential is oozing from you and through you, so now is the time to make your mark. If you need help, ask. Love: If you’re looking for love, aim with purpose and with great precision – not anyone makes your heart flutter.…

He’s best known for his collaboration with Black Coffee on the song We Dance Again. His first album, Brave Confusion, received four nominations at the 2014 SAMAs, where he was crowned Newcomer of the Year. Born Nakhane Mavuso, he uses this hero, Malian guitarist Ali Farka Tourés name. An accomplishedauthor,hisdebutnovel,PiggyBoy’sBlues,touches on homosexuality in rural Eastern Cape and is lauded by the likes of Zakes Mda. “Growing up in Port Elizabeth, I was passed around between aunts and other family members,” he says. “My parents aren’t here to explain or defend themselves. All I know is they met at church but church was against their relationship, so they fled to be together. It never worked out, and I was raised by my grandmother and later, by my aunt. Music was always…