There are dark corners of the internet where lost and lonely wee guys gather. They arrive there (mostly, I maybe naively think) looking for pals, looking for some other equally down-on-their-luck people to talk to, looking to feel a little less alone. Looking, perhaps, for answers. These are incels. An incel is defined by the Oxford English Dictionary as, ‘a member of an online community of young men who consider themselves unable to attract women sexually, typically associated with views that are hostile towards women and men who are sexually active’. A portmanteau of involuntary celibates.
These guys can’t get girlfriends. They can’t, they say, even get women to look at them without feeling sick. Maybe because of their lack of height, their race, their hairline, their jawline, even the…