Long-time recognised as an experience conducive to catching up, sharing, laughing, getting to know someone better – enjoying the company of friends, families and colleagues – 'coffee-ing, lunching or dinner-ing' is an integral part of both our personal and professional relationships. Yet, when you observe our behaviours in cafes, restaurants and in some homes, at the dining table, we are on our phones. Either in conversation, texting or publishing our latest exploits on Facebook. Are we in the moment – listening and responding? Are we reading the nuances of our engagement with others – the smile that does or does not reach the eyes, the facial expressions that tell the story beyond the words? On the beach, in the cinema, at the theatre, in business meetings, at sporting events they…