‘IF I AM HAPPY, I EAT. IF I AM SAD, I EAT MORE’ MARRIAGETALK ANGERS HIM
Q I’ve been in a “vat-’n-sit” relationship for three years.
Whenever I bring up marriage, my boyfriend gets angry and defensive. He says I’m ungrateful as I already stay in his flat. I want to get married because I want to start a life with him and have children, but he doesn’t explain his anger. How can I get him to talk about our future in a calm, positive way?
FRUSTRATED, EMAIL
A It’s good that you want to talk about your future. It’s something couples should discuss openly from the beginning of a relationship to ensure you’re both on the same page and have the same goals. Then, as the relationship continues, you…
