Contrary to what the title of this article might suggest, I do not traffic in essentialist identity politics. For the record, when I meet someone for the first time I assess him, her or they (if that’s their preferred gender pronoun) on the quality of their character, the contours and intricacies of their individual personality and ultimately what he, she or they stands for. Race, ethnicity, gender, sex, sexual orientation, or socio-economic status are merely extraneous data points – that while certainly noted – do not colour (no pun intended) my perception of who an individual is at their core. And I expect, nay, demand the same in return.
The fact that I am a proud gay man of Indian extraction is merely incidental or ancillary to my identity. Meaning…