Fairlady Mar/Apr 2023

I think Louise Perry’s story on women being betrayed by a culture of porn gone wild (page 24) is fascinating, not least because I could feel my mind changing as I read it. My instinctive position is to baulk at the idea that attitudes towards the act of sex are informed by the sex you are, but by the end of it I was questioning myself as to why that is. I read a while ago that an increasing number of young women were choosing to become nuns, and I thought then what an anomaly it was to choose a highly regulated, contemplative life in a world that values neither quality (unless the contemplation is directed squarely at your own navel). Perry’s much smarter view is that, far from being…

WINNING LETTER RESPECT! Dear FAIRLADY Team, I’ve lived in this country for almost 30 years, got married, raised three children and love South Africa with a passion that exceeds my feelings for my home country (Germany). And yet, for the past 10 years, many things have felt so wrong. Increasingly so, I’m afraid, whether you look at the circus of South African politics, the economy, the energy situation, effects of climate change, mind-boggling youth unemployment, crime, corruption – the list seems endless and the picture is bleak. And yet, most of the time I’ve chosen to remain quiet. Being the outsider, the foreigner, the non-citizen always stopped me from being too outspoken and critical (other than in private). So I salute people like Karyn Maugham who decide every day that…

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Bedside manner About nine years ago, during my DIY phase, I bought a set of bedside tables and painted them. It seemed like a good idea at the time, but to be honest it was a disaster from the get-go: the drawer was so small that you could barely fit anything in there, and the paint made it even harder to open. It’s been bugging me for nine years. So when I spotted these locally made beauts on Instagram, I knew the time had come – they had to go. Now, two Baileys have pride of place in my bedroom and I just love the detailing, from the reeded glass door right down to the Scandinavian-inspired spun wooden feet. Bailey bedside table (R2500) Coal Interiors – Liesl Care package Every…

Kendra Hunsley DIGITAL TRENDS ANALYST, CONTENT CREATOR ‘I would describe my style as relaxed and always with a bit of edge. I spent a couple of years living abroad, which brought on my passion for understanding human behaviour, travel and living a life of ease.’ Emma Jordan FOUNDER AND OWNER OF NARRATIVE PR ‘I think my style is very difficult to pin down. Some days I like to dress up and some days I don’t. I’m not conservative – I will often go for something that is strong and bold.’ Suki Tong OWNER OF LUCKY BAMBOO, @REDEGGBLOG, FORMER FASHION MERCHANDISE EXEC, CONSULTANT ‘Casual luxe sums up my style: mixing designer items with good basics. I believe in quality purchases that have the potential to become your personal vintage collection.’…

Kendra Hunsley ◗ What are some of the most-loved pieces in your wardrobe? My Levi’s 550 jeans that I thrifted in New York. I don’t think a week goes by without me wearing them. And my Doc Martens, which seem to go with everything! I’m so thankful that they’re durable, because I wear them so often and they’re still in pristine condition. ◗ For you, what does the perfect pair of jeans look like? Loose-fitted, mid-waisted dark denim jeans for the win! ◗ Is there a specific style, cut, print or colour that you are drawn to? I’m usually drawn to oversized items, items that have interesting textures and silhouettes. And I gravitate towards earthy tones. ‘The key is just being yourself, and not taking yourself too seriously.’ ◗ You’ve…