Innholdsfortegnelse for 03 December 2015 i Drum English

IN THIS issue, we feature a very inspiring woman who has been raped by a neighbour, overcome Aids and beaten cervical cancer. If there’s one woman who should join the list of people who are walking icons in South Africa, it’s Martina Motaung. She has shown us that there’s nothing as powerful as the human spirit which does not accept defeat. Now, as we commemorate World Aids Day, we should remember that it was more than 30 years ago when the HIV virus came into our lives as an uninvited guest. It took away our families and loved ones. As people of South Africa, we never gave in to it but continued to believe we would beat the pandemic. Today, we applaud the ANC Government for ensuring that many people…

Cosatu is holding its long-awaited conference to elect leaders and to find solutions to the problems that have plagued the federation over the past few months. Do you think the time is right for Cosatu to withdraw from its alliance with the ANC? NKANYISO NGCOBO YES I think they should. They have been a good team. The people who run the country never think, they [Cosatu] think for themselves. They don’t have a bigger scope. PRIMOSE DITHEBE YES It’s only a good thing if they’re going to be doing something differently. With what the ANC is doing, surely there are reasons why they want to part ways. So if they will be doing something better or improving some of the things the ANC hasn’t been doing, then they should part…

POLYGAMY might be a traditional practice, but it is not for everyone. And in Ukhozi FM presenter and sangoma Ngizwe Mchunu’s (35) case, it looks like three’s a crowd. Last week, his two traditional wives dragged him to the Durban High Court, seeking the court’s help to nullify his civil third marriage, which took place without their consent. The court ruled in their favour, in the absence of the DJ and his third wife. The DJ traditionally married his first wife Sphelele Nxumalo (26) in May 2012. In November 2014, he married fellow sangoma Lindy Khuzwayo Mchunu (22) in a lavish traditional ceremony at Nkandla in KwaZulu-Natal, where Sphelele says she was forced to join in the celebrations. But then the two wives found out that he’d also gone behind…

THE NOISE is coming from the back of the house: that’s where a nine-year-old boy is banging scrap metal and plastic buckets with sticks made from branches. Nothing new about a kid making noises, you might think. But what is new is the reception he gets – smiles of appreciation and admiration from his family. And luckily for little Sihle Maseko, his yard in Winterveldt, north of Pretoria, is big and the houses are far enough apart that there are no complaints from neighbours. BUCKETS AND TINS The Maseko family is quick to break into a song. Their favourite genre is gospel, and it’s not unusual to find them tapping their fingers on the table as they sing and hum together. However, for a long time no one knew they…

THE MESSY UPDO WHY YOU SHOULD TRY IT A chic style that adds a touch of romance. Terry Pheto wore this look to the premiere of the movie Ayanda and the Mechanic. She paired her updo with an elegant dress and kept her accessories minimal. You too can pull off this star-quality style. GET IT The trick is to get your hair in a loose updo. You’ll need extra extensions; pin them in your hair and, in no particular pattern, start to wrap them around to form a messy bun. OCCASION Wear this look on a night out to dinner. It’ll also work well for a formal function. PRODUCT Motions Marula Natural Therapy Hair & Scalp Oil R75,99 adds lustre to hair without weighing it down. Marula oil also renews…

ALL IN ONE CHICKEN SAUSAGE PASTA BAKE Pasta is quick and easy to cook, plus you can serve it in different ways. PREPARATION: 10 MINCOOKING: 35 MINSERVES 6 15 ml (1 tbsp) olive oil 1 onion, diced 2 cloves garlic, chopped 250 g bacon, diced 500 g chicken sausages, skin removed, meat crumbled 1 x 400 g can chopped tomatoes 250 ml (1 cup) chicken stock WHITE SAUCE 50 g butter 45 ml (3 tbsp) flour 500 ml (2 cups) milk 400 g penne pasta salt and pepper 100 g white Cheddar cheese 2,5 ml (½ tsp) nutmeg Preheat the oven to 200 °C. 1 Heat a large frying pan over medium heat. Add the oil and gently cook the onion with a pinch of salt for 5 minutes or…

Q MAKING LOVE HURTS I cannot understand why it’s so painful to have sex since I had a baby. I no longer enjoy having sex and I’m losing interest in it because I don’t enjoy it. Could it be because I’m HIV-positive? I need to sort this out immediately because I want to get married. HURT, JHB A Painful sex is not necessarily a physical pain experience only, as sexual activity involves all the faculties to experience satisfaction. The mind needs to be at ease as well, so when one’s mind is clouded with other emotional issues and concerns there is not just one solution. Firstly, being HIV-positive has no bearing on painful sex after delivery. And a low libido is not directly related to being HIV-positive and having a…

OUR EXPERT Gerald “Mr G” Mwandiambira is an award-winning financial planning professional, financial services executive and wealth manager with extensive international experience. Catch Mr G on Soweto TV on The Money Show on Wednesdays at 6.30 pm. To book a visit or talk with Mr G, e-mail events@wealthwisdom.co.za, SMS 071-071-8996 or visit www.askmrg.co.za or follow him on Twitter @MrGeezo AS YOU prepare for a few weeks of well-deserved rest with family or friends, criminals are preparing for a busy period of theft and other illegal activities. These criminals are after your hard- earned cash and it’s important to exercise vigilance during the festive season. There are various ways criminals can target you so it’s important that you’re aware of their tricks and schemes. Here are some potential problems you might…

SAGITTARIUS 22 NOV – 20 DEC A busy social schedule, family requirements and professional demands all contribute to a rather hectic week. Even though this could make inroads on your freedom, try to take things in your stride. It’s a good time to think big. It would, however, be advisable to pay attention to detail when entering business deals. A slapdash approach could end up costing you dearly. YOUR LUCKY NUMBERS 15, 44, 7, 22, 34, 24 CAPRICORN 21 Dec – 20 Jan Taking control is a defining Capricorn trait. However, be mindful that you can’t be everything to everybody. Shouldering too many responsibilities can take its toll. This is a good week to let go a bit and take the backseat. If the workplace is a warzone let those…

1. IN WHICH CITY WILL YOU FIND THE CASTLE OF GOOD HOPE? A. Kimberley B. Cape Town C. East London D. Bloemfontein 2. CHIFFON, MARBLE AND BLACK FOREST ARE TYPES OF WHAT? A. Fabric B. Tile C. Paint D. Cake 3. HOW MANY TIMES WAS ACTRESS HALLE BERRY MARRIED? A. Twice B. Once C. Three D. Four 4. PROFESSOR JONATHAN JANSEN IS THE VICE CHANCELLOR OF WHICH UNIVERSITY? A. University of the Free State B. Wits University C. University of Cape Town D. University of Pretoria 5. WHICH BOOK IN THE BIBLE IS THE LONGEST, ACCORDING TO VERSES? A. Genesis B. Isaiah C. Psalms D. Jeremiah 6. WHICH MINERAL IS DESCRIBED AS “A GIRL’S BEST FRIEND?” A. Topaz B. Quartz C. Diamonds D. Ruby 7. WHAT IS THE TITLE OF…

THE 2015/16 KFC Mini-Cricket Kids vs Proteas Tour is in full swing and with cricket heroes Graeme Smith, Neil McKenzie and Mfuneko Ngam on board to coach the youngsters, it promises to be the biggest and best season yet. Former Proteas captain Smith can’t wait to meet his team. “I’ve tasted success as a KFC Mini-Cricket coach in the past so I can’t wait to see what this season holds for my team. The Proteas are on fire at the moment and won’t be easy opponents, but I have full confidence my kids will give it their all.” Smith brings an impressive pedigree to the tour, as the most-capped and successful captain in international cricket history. Having captained his country for the first time at the age of 22, he’s…

Arthritis is inflammation of one or more of the body’s joints. The main symptoms of arthritis are pain and stiffness in the joints, which typically becomes worse with age. Other symptoms include swelling, redness and decreased movement. The most common types of arthritis are osteoarthritis and rheumatoid arthritis. Osteoarthritis causes cartilage (the tissue that covers the ends of bones where they form a joint) to break down. Rheumatoid arthritis is an auto-immune disorder that targets the lining of the joints. Uric acid crystals, infections or underlying diseases such as psoriasis or lupus, can cause other types of arthritis. Treatment varies depending on the type of arthritis but the main goal is to reduce symptoms and improve quality of life. (SOURCE: WWW.MAYOCLINIC.ORG)…

WHAT DOES it take for a woman, who hasn’t even had a wedding of her own yet, to devote so much passion and dedication to pulling off others’ perfect day? For Glory Maseepe, one of the country’s top wedding planners, the answer is simple: what she does is very close to her heart. In fact, the 36-year-old Limpopo-born entrepreneur and owner of Nkapeshane Events & Deco sees her career as a calling. She laughs heartily when we quiz her about the absence of a wedding ring on her finger, as she welcomes us to her upmarket Centurion home. “It’s absolutely not about whether I am married or not,” she explains. “I know this will sound clichéd, but one doesn’t need to be an alcoholic to own a successful liquor business.”…

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SHE’S a woman of many talents: having made a name as an actress and musician, now she can add author to the list too. RAMI CHUENE recently released a book titled We Kissed the Sun and Embraced the Moon. “It’s all about being able to deal and live with the good and the bad that we experience through life,” she tells us. “Some circumstances are not ideal but we appreciate and embrace them. When all is well we rejoice and savour those moments.” The book, a compilation of essays about how she grew up and dealt with life’s ups and downs is said to be an easy read with “crazy and fun” moments, yet it also deals with “hard issues society needs to deal with”. “I always say there is…

WHEN Viola Davis won the Emmy for Outstanding Lead Actress in a Drama for How to Get Away with Murder earlier this year, she didn’t only make history: she probably changed the future. Viola couldn’t have said it better in her moving acceptance speech, “Black actors can’t win awards if there are no roles for them.” Based on this year’s smoking hot TV series, it seems that Hollywood has heard the call to create and cast more black roles. Now a new generation of black television stars know they can be recognised for their hard work and talent. Here are our top picks for some of the year’s leading black stars in television: ANTHONY ANDERSON, 45 Emmy nomination for Outstanding Lead Actor in a Comedy as Andre in Black-ish. What…

TIME TO FIX THINGS So things just didn’t work out the way you’d planned. Maybe you failed to get a job or that promotion you wanted. Maybe you failed to walk out of an abusive relationship or to achieve all the things you had planned. Perhaps you lost a loved one and can’t come to terms with their death. Hey, 2015 wasn’t a bad year for you only. Keep calm and carry on. Everything you went through this year was all to prepare you for next year, 2016 - the year to fix things. Your best days are still to come. This was to teach you the secret of life. Keep your head above the water. BAKANG SEBATJANE, E-MAIL CRIME DOESN’T PAY The school year is almost over and it’s…

THIS fresh-faced presenter keeps viewers glued to their screens every Sunday morning on SABC1’s gospel show, Gospel Gold. But before landing her dream job on the show, Sthembile Mhlongo (30) moved to Johannesburg and had her sights set on being a gospel artist. Fate, however, steered her in a different direction. She found herself in marketing and public relations (PR) both behind and in front of the camera and now she’s found her niche. We meet up with the KZN-born star to find out more about her promising career and what keeps her going in the unpredictable entrainment industry. Who is Sthembile? Sthembile is an inquisitive person who loves joking around. People say she is dramatic but I disagree. A child of God, a decent person who loves fun –…

PEGGY’S STORY Peggy Ncitha (32) is a receptionist from Lower Crossroads, Cape Town: “When my personal relationship ended, my dress sense took a nosedive. I lost all confidence and gravitated towards wearing dark clothes. “Summer is here and I think it’s time I dusted myself off and added a little bit of colour to my wardrobe. A sore point is that I’m not as gifted in the bust area as my friends and I would like to be able to dress nicely yet feel adequate in that area.” PEGGY’S REACTION “The choice of clothing made me feel good about myself. They showed me how to be presentable, fun and flirty. The hairstyles made such a difference as they made me look even younger. I’m really looking forward to trying these…

Q I DON’T ENJOY SEX I’m in a happy relationship but every time we make love I either I feel nothing at all, or pain until he ejaculates. He romances me and exercises foreplay, which I enjoy, but I don’t orgasm during lovemaking. I haven’t bought any lubricant as I’m not always dry. Is there something wrong with me? THULI A There might be nothing wrong with you. It could be that you only need extra lubrication during your lovemaking so buying a good lubricant from your pharmacy might be the solution for you. Most women do not get an orgasm during lovemaking without extra stimulation. You or your partner can stimulate your genitals during lovemaking and/or you might want to buy a vibrator or penile ring with vibrator from…

Consider the following tips for food and water: Always wash your hands before touching food or water. Wash all vegetables and fruit thoroughly. Avoid touching farm animals. Boil water rapidly for one minute and store in a clean, closed container or use bottled water. Cook all meat, fish and eggs completely before eating. Avoid raw fish, e.g. sushi, raw chicken and raw meat. Use only pasteurised milk and dairy products. No mouldy foods, e.g. mouldy cheeses like blue cheese. Buy all foods from reputable suppliers and store food correctly. Thaw all foods in the refrigerator and not at room temperature. Keep shelves, counter tops, other kitchen utensils, sponges and towels clean at all times. Use different cutting boards for foods intended to be served raw and for foods that will…

QUALITIES You need to be numerical, analytical and, most importantly, a team player. You work in a team and usually there’s debating and compromise that has to happen quite often, so one needs to know how to handle that. You also need to be organised and have great verbal and written communication skills. QUALIFICATIONS There’s no formal qualification needed. Retailers usually have in-house programmes that they offer to graduates to bridge that gap. The University of Johannesburg offers a three-year Bachelor of Arts degree (between R29 000-R33 000 per year) and a BCom in economics and management (between R29 500-R33 000 per year). CAREER PROSPECTS When you have the necessary experience, you can be a planning manager or executive. SALARY It’s dependent on the company you work for, the experience…

ALL OUR years of experience at the SABC as anchors of a programme dealing with marital issues, has stood us in good stead and we’d like to share some of our knowledge and lessons with you in the last of this two-part series (Work on your marriage, 26 November). FIVE TIPS FOR A SUCCESSFUL UNION 1 Respect each other’s rights. Remember that each one of us is entitled to his or her opinions and choices. Each person is unique and has all the right to be treated as an equal partner in this relationship. You’ll never find a perfect husband/wife on this Earth. Respect is of utmost importance in a marriage. How you talk to your spouse shows how much respect you have for them. Peter 3:1 says, “Wives in…

OLD GOAT A young couple invites their aged pastor for Sunday dinner. While they’re in the kitchen preparing the meal, the minister asks their son what they’re having. “Goat,” the little boy replies. “Goat?” replies the startled man of the cloth. “Are you sure about that?” “Yebo,” says the youngster. “I heard Pa say to Ma, ‘Might as well have the old goat for dinner today’.” HELLO – AGAIN From a passenger ship, passengers can see a bearded man on a small island who is shouting and desperately waving is hands. “Who is it?” a passenger asks the captain. “I’ve no idea,” replies the captain. “Every year when we pass, he goes mad,” THE TEST Some residents in a mental institute are doing a test to check their mental state.…

DOUBLE TROUBLE Malika and Khadijah Haqq (32) are identical twins of Afro-Iranian heritage. But they also had identical older twin sisters. One of the older twins died at the age of 18 and Malika and Khadijah lived in fear that they’d also die at 18. “It profoundly affected me and Khadijah,” says Malika. BEAUTY AND BRAINS The Haqq twins are models, actresses and business managers. Malika shot to fame as Khloé Kardashian’s assistant/BFF in Khloé & Lamar. But she and Khadijah have starred in movies like Sky High, ATL and School for Scoundrels. Malika also modelled for Rob Kardashian’s sock line, Arthur George. FAMOUS FRIENDS The girls have been friends with Khloé Kardashian since they were 15 – before the fame and reality TV. Malika used to date a boyfriend…

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Prof Bhana’s study revealed that there is anger and hatred among boys towards older men, because they take their girlfriends and potential girlfriends by offering them material things that the boys can’t offer. We asked some of our readers if they think this is true and what can be done to curb the scourge of sugar daddies. STHEMBISO TIP RIMBS A woman who knows her worth will never be misled by material things. Loyal women stay true to their partners no matter what happens. LEBO MOLOI If these boys know how to provide for their girlfriends, they wouldn’t just use them. SELLO MAHOWA You can’t until poverty is no more and until we really educate a girl child to stand on their own. Some run away from their laziness by…

HE’S BEEN around the soapie block – a sought-after doctor on Muvhango, a no-nonsense lawyer on SABC1’s hit drama series Sokhulu & Partners, and the high-flying businessman Phenyo Dlomo on Generations. He hasn’t done too badly with women either. His fame, combined with his well-toned body, sexy voice and a charming smile have made him a popular target. He seemed to have it all. But the good life of actor Melusi Yeni soon started to unravel. From baby mama drama to rumours of depression, from being fired to a highly-publicised hospitalisation at the beginning of the year – it’s safe to say that the popular actor has been going through hard times. However, we’re delighted to report that the 38-year-old actor is finally making his comeback. He’s crawling out of…

HE ALWAYS looked invincible. Words like “big”, “powerful” and “fast” didn’t do Jonah Lomu justice; when he stepped out onto the rugby field he looked superhuman. Unstoppable. Which is why fans were so stunned when the news broke recently that the New Zealand legend had died of a heart attack at his home in Auckland. He was 40. “It is with great sadness that I must announce my dear husband, Jonah Lomu, died last night,” his wife, Nadene, said in a statement. “As you can imagine, this is a devastating loss for our family.” Although he’d battled a rare kidney condition for almost two decades, his family say his death was “totally unexpected”. Lomu looked the picture of health just over a month ago at the Rugby World Cup in…

THERE’S a new kid on the block: actor LAWRENCE MALEKA of Isibaya has secured himself the job as host of Mzansi Magic’s Clash of the Choirs South Africa. The 22-year-old television personality is set to replace radio and TV personality BONANG MATHEBA, as the host of the third season of the much-loved music reality TV show. Queen B had been with the show since its inception in 2013. In the second season there were rumours her contract wouldn’t be renewed, but this later proved untrue. Although it’s not clear why the host of Afternoon Express won’t be returning to Clash of the Choirs, what we do know is Lawrence is ecstatic about his new gig. Sphumelele Sibeko, Head of Entertainment for M-Net’s Local Interest Channels, confirmed that Lawrence will be…

HOLLYWOOD moms are under a lot of pressure to bounce back to their flawless bodies post-baby, but there are a few who flout the “rules”. Actress KERRY WASHINGTON is one of those stars. And rightfully so, The Fixer’s leading lady was honoured for activism, philanthropy and support of the non-profit organisation BABY2BABY at its recent gala in California. The annual event is about raising funds for low-income families and non-profit organisations to buy nappies, clothing and other essential baby items. Kerry, who’s mom to a one-year-old daughter, blossomed in her black Giambattista Valli Haute Couture ballgown with bold flower detailing. Other yummy mommies taking time out for themselves were actresses JESSICA BIEL and JESSICA ALBA. Mrs Justin Timberlake rocked her post-baby body in a dramatic pink Monse gown with diamond…

Rather than dwelling on your hardship, choose to be thankful for blessings. Gratitude is a way to remind yourself how lucky you are to have the freedom to be yourself, eyes to see, feet to walk, hands to work, brains to think, and a heart to love. Show gratitude for all the opportunities you’ve been afforded. Be thankful for your health, strength, a sound mind, for the roof over your head, a full plate, a loving family and friends who help you through problems without giving in, even when you’re being unreasonable sometimes. Many people don’t have any of those things. Gratitude is an attitude that you have to live with day after day. It’s the foundation, the pillar, and the shelter of every right achievement. Do it with your…

THE MOTORCADE outside the home of the popular television actress in Bramley, north of Johannesburg, is a decidedly expensive one. Top politicians, business people and celebrities dressed in black outfits emerge from a predominance of German sedans – accompanied by the inevitable blue-light brigade – and comfort each other. Health Minister Aaron Motsoaledi, ANC spokesman Zizi Kodwa, TV personalities Katlego Danke, Meshack Mavuso, Nokuthula Ledwaba, Maduvha Madima, Liopelo Maphathe and Lebo “Elle” Tisane among others then join the sombre gathering at Bramley Primary School and sing hymns. They’ve come to pay their last respects to 18-month-old Prince Masakona Matsila, affectionately known as Masa, the son of TV star Florence Masebe, who drowned in the family’s swimming pool on Saturday 14 November. A MIRACLE THEN HEARTBREAK Judging by the large crowd,…

SHE REMEMBERS the day that she was raped 11 years ago as if it was yesterday. Before she speaks, she takes a sip of water to calm her nerves. Breathing deeply, she begins to tell us her extraordinary story of pain and recovery. “I was working at a Protea Hotel in Pretoria on a Saturday afternoon,” Martina Motaung (43) recalls. “One of my colleagues called and asked me to work her evening shift, so I stayed there until late. When I finished, I took my regular taxi home with a driver that I was familiar with. I didn’t realise that he would rape me.” The journey home to Soshanguve, a township north of Pretoria, was long. The taxi stopped many times to drop off passengers along the way. Eventually Martina…

LITTLE Lulu and Luca Roux from Pinelands, Cape Town, wanted to move into a bedroom together, so their mom converted an unused room in their home into the perfect shared space for the siblings. WHAT WE DID: As it’s a rather large room, we painted three of the walls navy and the other one a lighter greyish blue. If you want to do the same in a smaller room, we’d suggest painting only one wall navy and the other walls a light colour. We added splashes of yellow, coral and light blue on some of the furniture, and made a room divider to separate the sleeping area from the play area (see next page). The walls were painted with Harlequin Washable Matt in It’s Blue, from R350 (for 5L). The…

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Q SCARED TO LOSE MY GRANT I’m 39 and HIV-positive. I’ve been on an ARV regimen since 2004. The medication is effective but I have negative side effects. I’m not working and now Sassa is threatening to stop my grant. I can’t take this medicine on an empty stomach. I’m afraid my condition will worsen because of stress. What should I do? NOMVULA, E-MAIL A Do you have family that could support you with food for now? If the Sassa payments have not stopped yet you need to stop stressing about it, and rather use your energy to find out how to reapply for your grant. I know the grant isn’t much, but while it’s coming in you could try to buy some foodstuff that will last a little longer.…

Learn to concentrate and get ahead. Many people find it hard to focus and concentrate at work, especially if they’re tired, are going through a personal crisis or are stressed or demotivated. But by learning to concentrate, work becomes more rewarding. Do one thing at a time. It will help you to concentrate if you give one task your undivided attention. Multitasking is distracting and is also an ineffective way of doing things. Do something as if it’s the first or last time. Approach your tasks as if you’ve never done them before or are doing them for the last time. This way you’ll be more observant and might notice details you would otherwise have missed. You’ll also gain new insight into your job. Write down problems. If you’re trying…

GENERATIONS: THE LEGACY Mazwi is rattled by what he discovers in Simphiwe’s belongings. Siya’s words give Zola some serious food for thought. Cosmo steals money in order to help Esther. Karabo and Angela (LEBOHANG MTHUNZI) are shocked by an unexpected outburst. Tau hopes the dark cloud hanging over the family will soon be gone. MUVHANGO Ranthumeng (BRIAN TEMBA) wants to divorce Thandaza. Ranthu proposes a civil divorce in order to take both Imani and Thandaza as customary wives. Lerumo gets positive feedback on Carol’s whereabouts and shares it with Nthabeleng. Vho-Mukondeleli fears that Mulalo’s life might be in danger. Shonisani receives a gift she thinks is from Mulalo. SCANDAL! Thembeka makes a demand which Quinton (BRIGHTON NGEMA) refuses to agree to. Stokkies reveals the truth about his relationship with his…

WHEN IT comes to celebs, do you consider yourself a fan or a stan? So what’s the difference? Well, a fan is a devoted supporter of artists. Whereas a fan will actually buy their favourite artist’s album and play it on loop for at least three months, stans (a combination of a stalker and fan) buy 10 albums to hand out to friends and family. See if you fit into any of these fandoms . . . ARIANA GRANDE  F ARIANATORS Arianators are individual f pint-sized pop princess wh themselves part of the Ari The Ariana Army recen show host Wendy William their idol “too short”. Fans then began to tre #CancelWendyWilliam you shouldn’t mess wit ANS: ans of the o consider ana Army. tly blasted talk ms for calling…

IT’S BEEN a bumpy ride for this top soapie since 16 of its top actors were fired last year. It lost viewers and, ever since, the revamped Generations: The Legacy has been trying to cast a sparkling new lineup to regain its former glory and number one spot as the country’s most-watched soap opera. It’s really upped its game with the exit of Simphiwe (played by Asanda Foji), who dies tragically on her wedding day. Her death will surely ensure more drama, vengeance and hatred between the Moroka brothers. We sit down with Asanda, Musa Ngema (who plays Mazwi Moroka) and Moopi Mothibeli (who plays his half-brother Smanga) as their storylines intensify. A DRAMATIC EXIT Simphiwe had been cheating on her fiancé, Mazwi, with Smanga for a long time. What…