Innholdsfortegnelse for 26 February 2015 i Drum English

NGIDABUKELA abangekho abangasizwa’ [I pity those who are absent who can’t hear us speak], said President Jacob Zuma at this year’s much-talked-about State of the Nation Address (Sona). I was there, outside Parliament, on the steps with EFF and DA MPs as the President delivered his Sona – mostly to ANC MPs and those aligned to the ruling party. And from the Parly steps, where the ejected EFF and DA members (who had walked out in protest) had gathered, we could hear the President’s ominous laughter as it echoed throughout the precinct, thanks to the loud speakers. After the chamber was cleared of those regarded as disruptors – and without even acknowledging what had taken place – he resumed his speech as if nothing had happened. We have a serious…

In light of the recent developments at the State of the Nation Address, Speaker of Parliament Baleka Mbete referred to EFF leader Julius Malema as a “cockr oach“. Is it wrong of the Speaker to use disparaging words like this when referring to political opponents? To vote on your cellphone, go to our website by typing www.drum.co.za on your browser from a WAP- enabled phone. Find the poll on our website homepage and select Yes or No. YES 30 % NO 70 % “We say we’re free, but what kind of freedom tramples on other people’s rights?”AMOS TEBEILA, E-MAIL…

THE WORD “ayeye” brings a lot of bad things to mind, such as trouble, problems, police and just plain bad luck. But that might be about to change. Vuzu Amp’s new drama series, Ayeye, deals with the lives, heartaches, fears, disappointments and dreams of three roommates working in the creative environment of an advertising company. Now, everyone’s talking about the Monday night series – and its popularity is storming social networks. And with quite a few famous faces in the cast, it’s no surprise. THAPELO MOKOENA, MPHO “POPPS” MODIKOANE, STHEMBISO “SK” KHOZA, Somizi Mhlongo, WARREN MASEMOLA, Jessica Nkosi and Zola are all part of the line-up. DRUM spent some time on the Ayeye set and got to chat to its cast about life on- and off-screen. This is SK and…

THE FAMILY of wealthy, married KwaZulu-Natal sangoma and maskandi musician Zamokwakhe “Bhaka” Nzama are allegedly worried about his relationship with controversial musician Kelly Khumalo. According to Bhaka’s close friend, who asked not to be named, they believe the troubled songbird has cast a spell on him – and they’re afraid the same fate that befell Senzo Meyiwa could befall Bhaka. Bhaka’s father Siyane (72), who is battling cancer, is said to be under severe stress, but the family is afraid to confront Bhaka and tell him to leave Kelly because he’s the sole breadwinner and they do not want to lose his support. Neither, it seems, does his wife Jabu. Bhaka made his money treating men and women with sexual and other problems and is credited with developing the traditional…

IN ONLY a few minutes, you can ensure your family has all the assistance they need to bury you in a dignified way one day. Nobesuthu Tonyela (28), from Gugulethu in the Western Cape, is an avid DRUM reader who recently took out a DRUM Protector Plan for the day she passes away. “We all know how important it is to have funeral cover.To me, the most important thing is that I can trust my funeral policy to provide for me when I need it to arrange a dignified funeral. I’ve been reading DRUM for years and I trust their DRUM Family Protector Plan.” She says taking out the policy was an easy process. “I took it out over the phone. I just sent them an SMS and the KGA…

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PITTAS WITH BROCCOLI AND BRINJAL PREPARATION: 15 MIN COOKING: 15-20 MIN SERVES 4 2 large brinjals 45 ml (3 tbsp) olive oil salt and pepper 1 head broccoli, broken into smaller florets VINAIGRETTE 45 ml (3 tbsp) dukkha 15 ml (1 tbsp) apple cider vinegar 15 ml (1 tbsp) olive oil salt and pepper ASSEMBLY 4 pittas, cut open 125 ml (½ cup) cream cheese 10 g rocket Preheat the oven to 200 °C. Grease two baking sheets with non-stick spray. 1 Slice the brinjals (not too thickly) and arrange on one of the baking sheets. Drizzle 30 ml (2 tbsp) of the oil over and season with salt and pepper. Coat evenly and roast for 15-20 minutes or until golden brown and done. 2 Arrange the broccoli on the…

E-mail Dr Nomteto at doctor@drum.co.za or SMS the keywords DR NOMTETO, followed by your question and name to 34926. Each SMS (160 characters) costs R2. MY BABY’S NOT EATING My 18-month-old son cries every night but he doesn’t want food. He can go for three days without eating. Is there something wrong with him? WORRIED MOTHER, E-MAIL DR NOMTETO ANSWERS Your history is vague because if your toddler is not eating at night at 18 months, it’s not a problem at all as long as the baby eats during the day. However, it’s not normal for an 18-month-old baby to go without food over a 24-hour period for three days. Do not hesitate to take the baby for a medical assessment for a diagnosis and further management. HE HATES CONDOMS…

NWABISA NOKO NTOZIMBI No woman should marry somebody who hasn’t sorted himself out. We should never settle for less. If he’s still married he must stay away from you until he settles his divorce. If he cares about you, he won’t waste your time. LEBO SELOPE These situations can be avoided by making sure that the person you’re marrying is single. Make sure there is no “nyatsi” or “makhwapheni” business going on, even if it means going behind his back. You’re not intending any harm, after all. DONNY MAKANATLENG Simply do some research, find out if you have a legal leg to stand on if the worst happens. Go to Home Affairs to make sure your husband is not married to someone else if you have to. FIKISWA OYISA VIMBELO…

PISCES 19 FEB – 20 MAR Since the scene is set for a week of magic, free-flow and few demands, you’re bound to be in your element. However, be mindful that your sensitivity is heightened, making you more susceptible to the woes of the world, the influence of others and the vibes around you. It’s important to put your own needs first right now, and your highest priority should be your personal growth and development. YOUR LUCKY NUMBERS 16, 26, 32, 10, 7, 18 ARIES 21 Mar – 19 Apr Taking responsibility seems to be the theme for this week. It’s also time to reach out to others, rather than to be selfish. You may have to put your own interests on the backburner, as someone close to you may…

OUCH! Today Bafana Bafana visited an orphanage in Soweto. “It was amazing to put a smile on the faces of a group of people who constantly struggle and have little hope,” says six-year-old Njabulo. FAMILY TIES I told my dad to embrace his mistakes. He cried. Then he hugged my sister and I. IN A BAR A guy meets a lady of the night in a bar. She says, “This is your lucky night. I’ve got a special game for you. I’ll do absolutely anything you want for R300, as long as you say it in three words only.” The guy replies, “Okay.” He pulls his wallet out of his pocket, and one at a time lays three R100 notes on the bar, and says, slowly, “Paint . . .…

GRACE and beauty combine with athleticism to perfect this extraordinary sport. It requires balance, flexibility, coordination and strength, as well as the ability to cope with pressure and the discipline to practise the moves again and again. A tough choice, you might think – and you’d be right. “We have to learn intricate shapes and dance moves that incorporate the use of ropes, hoops, balls, clubs and ribbons,” Grace Legote explains. As South Africa’s number one rhythmic gymnast, Grace is by name as she is by nature. And she has worked very hard to reach the top of her game. She has been named North West Sports Woman of theYear for the past four years. And her talent and endurance have been recognised around the world. Last year was a…

15.3 % South Africans are now employed. About 29 000 employers have claimed R2 billion from the Government’s youth employment subsidy, creating 270 000 jobs. Government’s expanded public works programme has created 850 000 “job opportunities”, falling short of its projected 1 million. It aims to create 5 million jobs by 2019, when Zuma’s term ends. Government will give Eskom a R23 billion bailout in the 2015/16 financial year. Eskom will switch its generators from diesel to gas to curb rising energy costs. About 3,4 million households are still not connected to the electricity grid. About 4 000 MW of renewable energy has been sourced from private producers; 2 400 MW of coal-fired power will be sourced from independent producers; and 2 600 MW of hydroelectricity will come from the…

AFTER 12 years on air, NOELEEN MAHOLWANA-SANGQU will be leaving 3 Talk on SABC3. Now the show is said to be getting a revamp – with Noleen being replaced with fresh talent. A source told DRUM the new presenters will include television star MINNIE DLAMINI and branding expert and social commentator KHAYA DLANGA. When asked if Minnie is joining the show, her manager Pumza Nohashe says she knows nothing about the development. “I didn’t know the show was ending,” Pumza says. “Minnie is busy with other projects, but as far as I know 3 Talk, or any talk show, is not one of them.” Khaya says he has not been contacted by the SABC about any show. “I’m focused on my career and my upcoming book titled ‘To Quote Myself’,…

TATA Nelson Mandela once said, “Education is the most powerful weapon which you can use to change the world.” And that’s exactly what BHOZA MPHELA, founder of Bhoza Event and Entertainment, plans to do. Even after 15 years in the business, the well-known artist manager has enrolled for a Business Principles for the Music Industry certificate at the University of the Witwatersrand to learn more about it. “Music is universal. We have to change how our music is received around the world,” she says. “I have the practical experience but also need to know the theory part of this industry.” She hopes that understanding this area of the music business will help her understand what the South African music scene is doing wrong, which in turn will make her become…

Only fans and groupies can expect to be snubbed by a celebrity, right? Wrong. Celebs also get the cold shoulder from their peers. When singer INDIA ARIE tried to greet award-winning singer LADY GAGA at the 2015 Grammy Awards, security wouldn’t allow her to get near Gaga. India even got a slap on the wrist for tapping Lady G on the shoulder. The 39-year-old I Am Not My Hair songstress, who claims to know Mother Monster personally was justifiably upset by the snub. The incident also got a lot of people talking on social media.…

EVERYONE was runway-ready at The American Foundation for Aids Research (amfAR) Gala held in New York recently. And with some of the world’s most famous supermodels in attendance, it was sure to be a superglam event. These are some of our best looks of the night. At 44 supermodel NAOMI CAMPBELL still rocks! She flaunted her flawless figure in a purple Pucci number with a daring thigh-high slit. Another supermodel who made us green with envy was OLUCHI ORLANDI, who showcased her lean frame in an understated black-and-gold floor-length gown. Also going for the minimalist look was reality-star-turned-model, KENDALL JENNER. She looked ravishing in a red Romona Keveza sleek asymmetrical gown. Kendall’s big sis’ former BFF, PARIS HILTON, was elegant in a lacy, black Mac Duggal gown. Showing the younger…

Write to us at PO Box 653284, Benmore 2010, e-mail us at letters@drum.co.za or SMS 32113 SICK STATE OF THE NATION President Zuma delivered the State of the Nation Address (Sona) and what a sick story it turned out to be. The poor masses are not interested in listening to the President flooding plenty of promises that will remain a pipe dream. Unemployment remains the yardstick by which the majority of the ANC’s constituency measures the Government’s performance. Surprisingly, they are still promising people jobs even though they failed dismally in this regard.This made the Sona very boring. Don’t make promises you can’t fulfill. Failure to use the tax system to redistribute wealth must rank as the greatest disappointment of our democracy. It’s about time that the President shows the…

The Nkandla issue continues to haunt President Jacob Zuma. Should he agree to pay back a portion of the money used for upgrades to his home and put the matter to rest? Do you think the Nkandla saga will hurt his legacy as a President? LESEGO POTO, MEREDALE YES He has to pay. His reputation was destroyed from the beginning with all the scandals that came out when he became President. He might be written off by his own people because there is a lot he has failed to do. All he has done is to make us question, doubt and lose faith in the ruling party. MULAYO TSHIKALA, KENSINGTON YES He answer our questions, give us what the money was spent on. Now many people don’t trust the Government…

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LONG HAIR Viola Davis arrived at this year’s Sag Awards showing off her natural hair. The extraordinary actress switches between her own hair and wigs, but we love her natural look so much more. GET THE LOOK To achieve Viola’s texture, start by washing, conditioning and detangling your hair to ensure that there are no knots when you have to blow dry it. Use a moisturising hair oil to hydrate your natural tresses. To stretch your hair out with heat, divide your hair in small sections and twist or braid. Then roll and tuck to keep the ends moisturised. Keep in until your hair is completely dry, then undo the twists. Don’t use a comb to loosen the twists, just pull them apart with your fingers. Apply a generous amount…

FAMILY and community stigma impedes HIV prevention and access to care, and also lowers the quality of life for people who have been diagnosed as HIV-positive. While we know that stigma exists, we know little about its effect on HIV prevention and care, and existing interventions to reduce the stigma. Personally, I have come across people who’ve experienced this stigma in a very subtle manner. I’m sharing it with you so that you can reflect on it and talk to your friends so that we can try to put a stop to it. I’ve yet to come across a detailed report or study examining community understanding and experience of HIV stigma in urban and rural areas in our country. However, I’ve seen people with whom I associate get asked whether…

Need advice? E-mail sisdolly@drum.co.za or SMS the keyword SIS DOLLY followed by your question and name to 32113. Each SMS (160 characters) costs R1. AM I BORING? I’m a 32-year-old woman. I have a friend who doesn’t respond to my calls when I phone her. She comes up with excuses the next day. Am I boring her? CONFUSED, SMS SIS DOLLY ANSWERS There are two possible things going on here: either she does not want or value your friendship, or she is actually busy. If it’s the former, then she has shown you over and over again that she doesn’t value your calls and friendship. If you need to hear it for yourself then ask her and be prepared to hear the truth. If it’s the latter, I don’t understand…

GENERATIONS: THE LEGACY Kyle is too happy to realise he’s being used. Smanga assures Tebogo he’s not resentful, but it’s a lie. Gaddafi punishes Lucy for messing up. The elders agree Karabo hasn’t done a good job with the boys. Cosmo warns his sister they’re playing with fire. Thuli gives all the necessary information, not knowing she’s being played. Tshidi hates having to go along with what Nolwazi says. Getty is worried when Mary spells out her plan. Lucy finds another use for Kagiso. Mazwi is mesmerised by a woman, but it’s not his woman. Tau has a visitor . . . in his bed! Cosmo pressures Mr Sokhulu into doing what they want. Kyle realises Namhla was using him all along. Jonathan (JT MEDUPI) and Angela are roped into…

SUMMER spells lots of fun in the sun – and you wouldn’t want to be caught without quality eyewear to protect your eyes from the harmful African rays. Complete this week’s Picture Puzzle correctly to enter and you could win a brand new Guess Eyewear collection hamper. The recently launched range draws inspiration from runway trends and classic vintage styles and boasts popping colours and ornate details. Each hamper contains three pairs of Guess ladies sunglasses and two pairs of Guess men’s sunglasses with cases. Guess is giving away four eyewear hampers worth R3 000 each. For more information on the latest Guess Eyewear range visit www.sdmeyewear.co.za HOW TO ENTER To stand a chance of winning, correctly complete the Picture Puzzle and unscramble the letters in the blue blocks to…

WHAT YOUR FRIENDS WON’T TELL YOU You’re commitment-shy and hard to pin down. It doesn’t take a lot to lead you up the garden path. You’re a dreamer, not a doer. You’ll choose an escape route rather than deal with what’s unpleasant. You easily feel sorry for yourself, and revert to victim mode. You live in your own world. Financial savvy is not your strong point.…

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Take antibiotics only for bacterial infections. Use antibiotics strictly as prescribed. Don’t keep antibiotics for when you might get ill next time. Never use anyone else’s prescription antibiotics. You can also combat antibiotic resistance by preventing the spread of infections. Always wash your hands thoroughly with soap and water. Ask your parents if you’ve had all the required inoculations to prevent disease so you don’t get sick and can avoid using antibiotics. Also rather stay away from school when you’re sick, because that way you can avoid spreading disease.…

BREATHING through our nose is something we take for granted, and usually only become aware of when we have a cold. However, for Amukelani Innocentia Bekwa this simple action was almost impossible.The 20-year-old from Limpopo was born with the rare condition arrhinia,which makes her one of only about 50 people worldwide who haver been born without a nose. Amukelani is recovering from an intensive five-hour operation to correct her nasal defect when DRUM’s sister magazine,YOU, visits her in hospital. “I’m still not used to it,” a beaming Amukelani says while showing off her new nose. “It’s a bit hard [to the touch] but it was a beautiful feeling to breathe through my nostrils for the very first time.” Only one other South African – Ennica Makhge – is recorded as…

Zuma failed to condemn the recent xenophobic looting of foreign-owned shops in Gauteng. The speech also failed to say where the money will come from to finance the new land restitution claims. Zuma also failed to reveal his plans regarding the repayment of a portion of the infamous Nkandla money. He also failed to say what plans were in place to close Government’s growing budget deficit, which will saddle future generations with the debts the current one is creating. The R1 trillion nuclear energy project alone is set to cost the country dearly.…

KAIZER CHIEFS Head Coach Stuart Baxter is a thorough professional. He takes no chances, plans very carefully, and is not easily satisfied – always looking to improve his team. Some might say that the Absa Premiership marathon is as good as over, thanks to Amakhosi’s 15-point lead over Mamelodi Sundowns, who are in second place and have a game in hand. But it would be wise to consider that Chiefs have a taxing Caf Champions League campaign starting soon – they’ll be facing Botswana’s champions,Township Rollers, in their opening match in this grueling competition. But welcome news for the Glamour Boys is the return from injury of star goalkeeper Itumeleng Khune, who adds so much to the cause of the Gold and Black.Then there’s David Zulu, a real talent in…

FOLLOWING presenter MO FLAVA’s departure from e.tv’s music show Club 808: Make Some Noise, NONHLE THEMA is allegedly being booted because “she’s too old for the show and cannot up the ratings,” says a source. The source, who spoke on condition of anonymity, told DRUM that the producers held auditions last week, which were mostly attended by girls under the age of 30. Our source adds that the controversial presenter bragged about how much the show had grown since she joined it last year but “she’s not aware of her looming exit”. However, the 33-year-old refuted the claims, saying, “I have no idea what you are talking about; I’ve just signed a new contract with e.tv.” Michael Pocock, a publicist for the free-to-air station, confirmed that there were auditions taking…

HE HAS four successful movies under his belt, he’s the youngest son of actor WILL SMITH and he’s reportedly worth about R88 million. Not bad for a 16-year-old. One would therefore think that JADEN SMITH would have a closet the size of an average home, but not so according to his dad in the latest issue of Esquire Magazine. Jaden’s superstar father has revealed that the teen only has one pair of shoes, three pairs of pants and five shirts. “He has refused to be a slave to money. I respect that,” revealed the actor. “The younger generation is less of an ownership generation, anyway,” he added. TIGER WOODS recently revealed that he’s taking an indefinite leave of absence from golf. “Right now, I need a lot of work on…

I FEEL it’s important for young people to have vision and understand that success won’t come to us on a silver platter. I often hear of individuals speaking of how they want to live lavishly like the celebrities that flash their riches and boast of how they’ve obtained all this at a very young age. This distracts us from the fact that it takes hard work and tenacity to get where we want to be. Shortcuts and asking for favours are likely to bring only temporary joy. Let’s understand that it’s better to work hard and struggle for everything one wants, than to always have someone remind you that you wouldn’t have this or that if it wasn’t for them. Give yourself time, do things for yourself, and don’t force…

THULI MADONSELA @ThuliMadonsela Fellow South Africans, how did we get here? JAMES INGRAM @JamesIngramsing Thank you South Africa, the band and I had a great time at the #theloveconcert. Your love filled the room and... LEANNE MANAS @LeanneManas “Parliament is one of the most important institutions and it’s dignity must be preserved. There are rules that must be obeyed.” JASMINE INGRAM @JasmineIngram So overwhelmed by the love South Africa is showing my Dad at #theloveconcert, they are singing every… JAY NAIDOO @Jay_Naidoo Parliamentary rules will not solve a political problem.Only political will, political leadership & political accountability will.…

ANGRY residents surround the courthouse chanting, “No bail, no bail”. They are shocked by the horror that has occurred on their doorstep, and they stream into the courtroom hoping for answers in this sickening case. Acting on a tip-off, police made their way to a New Brighton location in Mthatha in the Eastern Cape on 2 February. There, they made the grim discovery of a number of frozen little bodies that had been stashed in two freezers. One freezer that stood in the dining room contained three bodies. The other was in the kitchen and its ghastly contents had been carefully hidden under some cakes. Once defrosted, the police were able to identify the four icy balls as the bodies of four babies and a foetus.The foetus had stuck to…

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READER’S RECIPE BEEF STEW WITH CHILLI MANGO Noluthando Chisane from Durban sent us her favourite beef stew recipe. We added a touch of mango and chilli, similar to achar. PREPARATION: 10 MIN COOKING: 1 HR 25 MIN SERVES 4-6 2 × 410 g tins of whole cherry tomatoes 2 red chillies, chopped 2 cloves garlic, finely chopped 5 cm ginger, grated 2,5 ml (½ tsp) mustard seeds 5 ml (1 tsp) coriander seeds 1 kg beef, cut into pieces 250 ml (1 cup) water 2 green mangoes, cubed 10 ml (2 tsp) sugar toasted bread 1 Put the tomatoes and chillies in a blender and blend until smooth. 2 Put a pan over medium heat and sauté the garlic, ginger, mustard seeds and coriander seeds until fragrant. 3 Add the…

STARTING A DRIVING SCHOOL I’m a good driver and want to start a driving school. How do I do it? JOHNNY, BOKSBURG JOSHUA ANSWERS I’m happy to hear that you consider yourself a good driver because there are many unnecessary accidents on our roads due to bad driving. You can open a driving school as a sole proprietor, through a partnership or as a private company. However, the most important legal requirement is not which legal entity you use to operate your driving school business, but your registration as a driving instructor. To become a legally recognised driving instructor in South Africa you must be registered with your provincial Department of Transport. In order to do so, you’ll need to go to the nearest driving licence testing centre with your…

Have a problem? E-mail testotherapy@drum.co.za, Tweet us @Testo_DRUM or write to Testo-therapy at DRUM, PO Box 653284, Benmore 2010. SHE WANTS A DIVORCE I’ve been married for 15 years and have three children. In the past three months, my wife has started sleeping at another man’s house. I’ve called our families to intervene and asked her to go to counselling, but this hasn’t changed anything. Now, she tells me she wants a divorce. I’m hurt and disappointed. How can get my wife back? SOLLY, E-MAIL BRA MO ANSWERS If there’s no spark from her side, you might have to start thinking about a life without her because it seems like she’s already made up her mind. I suggest you go for counselling on your own, whether it’s talking to a…

Don’t let love cloud your judgement if you are considering entering into a traditional marriage, says Nthabiseng Monareng. “Be realistic and make sure your man doesn’t already have a wife or if his divorce has been finalised by the court. Being separated has no status in front of the law. Ask family or friends for more information if he is not open,” she advises. Or, just take his ID number and check with Home Affairs, says Pearl Ramotsamai, a FAMSA counsellor based in Durban. “This is the best way to find out a person’s marital status,” she adds. You can SMS the letter M followed by the person’s ID number to 3255. An SMS will be sent back to your cellphone to confirm your marital status and the date of…

BEST MOVIES OF THE WEEK ANGELS & DEMONS MYSTERY (e.tv Thursday 21:00) A professor (TOM HANKS) is summoned to Rome and must race against the clock to solve the murder of four cardinals – and stop the Vatican from being attacked by the Illuminati, a terrorist group. THE EXPENDABLES ACTION (Mzansi Friday 22:00) A team of mercenaries are hired by a CIA operative to overthrow a South American dictator. Once there, they discover that they’ve been double-crossed and their target is someone else. Starring TERRY CREWS. LIGHT IT UP DRAMA (e.tv Saturday 21:55) A shooting at a rundown school in Queens, New York, leaves a cop wounded and taken hostage by a group of teens who are demanding that the authorities improve the conditions at their school. A negotiator tries…

1. CHOREOGRAPHER AND ACTOR SOMIZI MHLONGO WILL BECOME THE FOURTH JUDGE ON WHICH REALITY SINGING SHOW? A. SA’s Got Talent B. Strictly Come Dancing C. MasterChef SA D. Idols SA 2. AT WHAT STAGE OF THE 2015 AFCON DID BAFANA BAFANA CRASH OUT? A. Quarterfinals B. Semifinals C. Group stages D. Third-place playoff 3. FROM WHICH COUNTRY DOES THE DRINK TEQUILA COME? A. Japan B. Mexico C. Spain D. Argentina 4. HOW MANY MINUTES DOES AN AVERAGE SOCCER GAME LAST? A. 90 B. 80 C. 60 D. 50 5. WHAT INSTRUMENT IS MUSICIAN HUGH MASEKELA’S SPECIALITY? A. Guitar B. Trumpet C. Piano D. Drums 6. IN WHICH ANIMATED MOVIE DO ALEX THE LION AND HIS THREE FRIENDS END UP ON AN ISLAND? A. Mauritius B. Reunion C. Madagascar D. Seychelles…

She’s no stranger to the big screen with roles in Bring It On: Fight to the Finish and American Pie, but Christina Milian is taking the small screen by storm with a new reality show. The 33-year-old luscious Latina documents her family life, motherhood and music career in the series Turned Up. The first season of the show sees her baby sister Lizzy converting to Orthodox Judaism and sister Carmen trying to find a happy medium managing Christina’s professional life, which is bound to unleash some drama! While Christina’s main focus is raising her four-year-old daughter Violet, whose father is singer and music producer The-Dream, she’s also reviving her music career by signing with Lil Wayne’s label, Young Money, and putting out new music later this year. Turned Up has…

If you have a problem and would like advice from other teens, e-mail teenspeak@drum.co.za and we’ll get our panel to help you IS SHE TOO YOUNG FOR ME? I’m 18 and dating a 14-year-old girl. It’s been five months now, but I’m worried about her age and her schoolwork. She’s in Grade 7. I love her and she loves me too. What should I do? MUHLE KATLEGO MCHUNU (18) REPLIES You should stop dating this girl, immediately! You’re breaking the law as the age of consent in South Africa is 16 – if you’re having sex with her, you can charged statutory rape. Furthermore, at your age you’re more ready for certain things (like sex) than she is and no matter how mature you might think she is, she’s still…

A mobile phone jammer is a device that scrambles cellphone signals to prevent people from making or receiving calls, and from using social networks like Twitter, Facebook and Whatsapp. These devices can block the signal within a 50 m to 120 m range. Costs range from R3 000 to R50 000, but they are illegal in SA and their use can result in a criminal conviction. The Independent Communications Authority of SA (Icasa) says only State Security cluster departments can use jammers for events such as state security functions. They are also used in high-security prisons.…

IN 2002 People Magazine named him one of the 50 Most Beautiful People in the World, and women go weak at the knees at the mere mention of his name. Boris Kodjoe (41) also felt the full glare of the spotlight in 2000 as Jason in the movie Love & Basketball. Now the Real Husbands of Hollywood star returns in a new movie, Addicted, a compelling erotic thriller about sexual addiction based on a best-selling novel. Boris plays Jason Reynard, a devoted father and loving husband who is shocked by what he discovers about his wife. In an exclusive interview, DRUM chats to Boris about his character, his life and career. How did you get involved in this project? The producer and director called me about it.We later met after…

BUCCANEERS striker LEHLOHONOLO MAJORO isn’t just a perfect scorer on the pitch. The soccer star, who recently joined Orlando Pirates after a controversial transfer from Kaizer Chiefs, is going to be a daddy. If you think the lucky lady is either Jessica Mafayisa or Pearl Mooi, the models who were reportedly fighting over him two years ago, you’re wrong. Lehlohonolo’s long-standing girlfriend DHIVIA NKHATA is his baby mama-to-be, and he has been flaunting their relationship by posting her pictures for all to see on his social media profiles. DRUM has learnt that Dhivia, a Zambia-born stunner, is still in the early stages of her pregnancy but the couple is clearly enthralled with their future bundle of joy. “They have moved in together and they look very happy,” said a source.…

DRAKE just pulled a Beyoncé on us. The Started from the Bottom rapper took a page from Queen Bey’s book and launched a new album without saying a word. Just like Bey did in 2013, Drizzy managed to keep the release of his album If You’re Reading This It’s Too Late a secret from the public. The 17 track surprise album came out on Thursday 12 February, the same day as his short film Jungle. Media reports are this album is just a prelude to his highly anticipated Views from the 6 record, due for release later this year.…

It looks like all of LAMAR ODOM’s attempts to win ex wife KHLOÉ KARDASHIAN back and his refusal to give up on their marriage have finally paid off. Now, the reality television star is allegedly trying to “fix” things with her estranged hubby Lamar. The 30-year-old beauty is allegedly hooking up secretly with her basketball player spouse at a luxury hotel close to her Calabasas, California, home. Khloé filed for divorce in 2013 after four years of marriage, when Lamar’s drug and cheating habits were revealed. Early last year the youngest of the Kardashian sisters started dating French Montana, but later broke it off and reunited with him several times. We hope that the leggy brunette can make up her mind whether to stay or just move on, for good…