Innholdsfortegnelse for 13-Oct-16 i Drum English

IF PEOPLE desperate for a miracle aren’t eating snakes or grass, they’re drinking petrol. My husband is a pastor, and he often tells me that he meets many people who want quick fixes without caring much about the word of God. He has a term for them: “microwave Christians”. Like a microwave plate that turns constantly, these microwave Christians don’t mind moving around from church to church, as long as they get quick miracles. Does this mean we are a nation obsessed with miracles? For the past year our office has heard quite a lot about Prophet Shepherd Bushiri – both interesting things and controversial ones. Then there was a video that went viral which showed him appearing to walk on air while praying for someone. And after that, the…

BONGANI RADEBE YES Something is not right here. You can miss such information when hiring a teller at a liquor store, but not in her position. This is a clear hook up and it shows the corruption and the state of our country when it comes to serious issues. HAPPY NTAMU YES Every record is digitised these days. For them to miss such crucial information is not a mistake. When she goes to jail, the person who hired her should also follow. TSHEPO KAISA YES As much as everyone deserves a second chance, I feel that her conviction leaves much to be desired, especially as SA is under siege from drug dealers. We need positive role models, especially from our leadership, and more so from people representing our country. FIND…

A MOTHER’S love is a vital component of any child’s life, so imagine being abandoned by your biological mother at a very young age. That’s exactly what happened to former Rhythm City actress Nokuthula Ledwaba. At the tender age of two, Nokuthula’s biological mother left her to be raised by her adoptive mother, her mother’s cousin. The 34-year-old star sits down with DRUM to talk about how mending her relationship with her biological mother and learning to forgive has helped her become a good mother herself. We observe during our interview that she is one of those rare actresses, who despite her acclaimed career, doesn’t appear to have an ego. We ask her how she achieves this balance in her life. “I grew up in a very loving home and…

NAME: Max Motekoane AGE: 34 OCCUPATION: Professional chef FROM: Soweto, Johannesburg MAX’S STORY I’m a typical chef who works odd and long hours during the week, so when the weekend comes all I do is rest. I hardly have time to follow fashion trends or explore what kind of looks would work for me. I needed a glimpse of the season’s must-have items as well as how to put together a rather laid-back look. MAX’S REACTION Awestruck! I never knew that a floral bomber jacket can be a focal-point fashion item yet be toned down with a white T-shirt and blue jeans. I learnt how to coordinate a clean look for my weekend afternoon outing and that’s special. CROTCH PANTS Rock these fashion forward low-crotch pants with takkies and a…

HE’S CHEATING ON ME Q I dated my daughter’s father when I was at varsity and he never told me he was married until I fell pregnant. We’ve been together for 10 years now after he left his wife. I’m working in Pietermaritzburg and he’s in Durban. I recently found condoms in our place, but we don’t use them. I asked him about it but he kept quiet. He’s been acting very weird, switching off his cellphone or not answering. What should I do? T, KZN A Although it’s not a consolation for his infidelity, at least he is taking precautions by using condoms. The distance between you is a major factor that might be contributing to the challenges you’re experiencing. A long-distance relationship takes a lot of energy, understanding…

POTTERING in the garden sounds like a pleasant way to spend your time. But it’s so much more than that. The benefits of gardening are seemingly endless. Not only does all that digging, pruning and weeding improve your physical health by increasing your activity level, it has wonderful mental health benefits too. A study done in the Netherlands even found that gardening can fight stress better than other relaxing leisure activities such as reading. But there’s another potential benefit – it can provide you with fresh, healthy, organic produce. What could be more satisfying than picking crunchy lettuce, juicy tomatoes or fragrant rosemary right outside your back door? You don’t even need that much space. You can plant a decent vegetable garden in a space the size of a kitchen…

Qualities needed A fair amount of experience in the field accompanied by business, strategic and entrepreneurial skills. Curiosity, discipline, a solution-oriented mindset and resilience will serve you well. Qualifications needed There are no specific qualifications for being a CEO, but mainstream professional qualifications in analytics, commerce, engineering, finance, law and risk are advantageous. A three-year Bachelor of Actuarial Science (BEconSc) at Wits University costs around R41 500 per year. Career prospects Lee quotes his wife: “Like with any other job, career prospects are anything you put your mind to.” With an actuarial qualification, you can work in life assurance, retirement funds, investments, marketing, health insurance and medical aids, regulation and administration. Salary CEOs aren’t paid according to their title, but usually based on the scope, scale and complexity of their…

PERSONAL development is fundamental. Most people don’t realise that if you’re not empowered, you limit yourself from reaching your full potential. Personal development can be split into two categories: the development of your personality and the development of skills. Honing your skills will make you excel in what you do, but having a good personality will make you exceptional. We look at five elements to personal development and its significance: 1 VISION Having a vision means you have a clear picture of your future. One might even say your vision is your dream. It is said that vision is the audacity to see the invisible. Proverbs 29:18 reads: “Where there is no revelation, people cast off restraint; but blessed is the one who heeds wisdom’s instruction.” Vision is simply answering…

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1. WHICH LOCAL POLITICAL PARTY WAS CALLED “THE RAINMAKERS” AFTER THE RECENT ELECTIONS? A. UDM B. Cope C. IFP D. EFF 2. WHICH ANIMAL IS ON THE R5 COIN? A. Lion B. Cheetah C. Buffalo D. Elephant 3. WHICH TOWN IS CONSIDERED THE COLDEST IN SA? A. Bloemfontein B. Sutherland C. Winterton D. Graaff Reinet 4. THE CAPITAL OF UGANDA IS . . .? A. Kampala B. Madagascar C. Addis Ababa D. Luanda 5. THE NEW BRITISH PRIME MINISTER IS . . . MAY? A. Heather B. Margaret C. Theresa D. Cheri 6. IN THE BIBLE, WHO ASKED: “AM I MY BROTHER’S KEEPER?” A. Moses B. Cain C. Jacob D. Reuben 7. WHAT KIND OF ANIMAL IS WINNIE THE POOH? A. Fox B. Elephant C. Kangaroo D. Bear 8. WHAT…

IN SOCCER, the role of a striker is simple: score goals.The inability to do it can make any striker’s life difficult, with the hard-to-please fans often labelling him “inkomo” or “kgomo” (a cow). Fortunately for Cape Town City FC striker, Lebogang “Lebo” Manyama he doesn’t belong to that category. He’s been a menace to opposition defenders and his goal-scoring prowess speaks volumes about his quality. So it’s little wonder that the bosses of the newly-formed Mother City club didn’t think twice about retaining the 26-year-old, who comes from the Mpumalanga Black Aces squad that became part of the new Premier Soccer League outfit. In fact, they’ve made him team captain. And the soft-spoken former Ajax Cape Town and SuperSport United striker admits he’s happy to be back in the Cape,…

OUTGOING host of Our Perfect Wedding THEMBISA MDODA is not a happy lady. The presenter recently appeared on Vuzu Amp’s The Cover, hosted by SIYABONGA NGWEKAZI, where she opened up about her break-up with actor Atandwa Kani. She also revealed some details about her new bae. But as exciting and insightful as viewers found the show, Thembisa wasn’t impressed with the way it was edited, and the emphasis it put on her tempestuous lovelife. “I wasn’t impressed with how the show eventually turned out,” our source overheard Thembisa say. “The way it was edited made it seem like the whole show was about me clearing the stuff that has been said by my ex about me and about my divorce.” The source adds she was visibly unimpressed as she spoke…

UNEMPLOYED YOUTH Unemployed youth can learn skills such as baking and hairdressing to start their own formal or informal businesses for their future wellbeing. The youth can apply for funding at the National Youth Development Agency for their businesses. This agency also offers entrepreneurship development programmes. The youth can also apply for free computer courses at NGOs and NPOs where available, as well as volunteering for work experience. Visit your nearest Labour Department for information on free life skills, entrepreneurship and job interview workshops. You can stay positive by reading books or playing sports, as unemployment can sometimes lower one’s self-esteem. MEREDITH GOEIEMAN, E-MAIL MENTAL ILLNESS AT WORK South Africa, next to the United States, has the highest statistic of people suffering from mental illness. Unfortunately, most people fear disclosure…

IT’S HIS passion for the word of God that made Lazarus Botsi choose gospel as his genre of music. He says he finds joy in doing God’s will and fulfilling His purpose through his music. We catch up with the star to chat about his album, Modimo O Lerato, the challenges he’s faced in releasing the album, and his upcoming nuptials to the woman of his dreams. Where were you born? I was born and bred in Brits, North West. When did you start your music career professionally? I started in 2005 and last year in October I released my debut album. Take us through some of the challenges you encountered while trying to pursue your dream. I faced financial challenges. My house was broken intoandtheytook everything–even my car was…

BEARD BASICS Max’s scruffy beard needs neatening up to match his undercut style. EXPERT ADVICE Sheldon Tatchell, a Johannesburg barber, shows us how to achieve the ideal undercut hair trend and how to trim your beard to match. Sheldon maintains the manes of Riky Rick, Anatii, Reason, DJ Dimplez and Masechaba Lekalake, so we couldn’t wait to see what he’d pull off with Max and learn a trick or two! HOW IT’S DONE STEP 1 The length of Max’s beard is reduced and evened by shaving it. To avoid ingrown hairs and skin irritation, shave in the direction of the hair growth. STEP 2 His beard is then edged up. This is when a razor is used to trim and create a perfect outline of the beard. STEP 3 A…

‘You only have one life and one body, so take care of them’ LIVING WITH HIV AS A TEEN Q I’m 15 years old and I’m HIVpositive. I got it from my mother and I can’t deal with it. Sometimes I don’t take my medication. ANONYMOUS, SMS A I’m sorry you’re the product of mother-to-child transmission. However, today there are multi-disciplinary medical teams available to manage situations like yours. South Africa is now in the process of setting up “survivorship walk-in clinics” for people who need to create balance in their lives after a diagnosis that requires chronic treatment and management. In your case, it’s quite urgent that you are thoroughly equipped and educated on why you should take your medication at the same time every day. You have to…

GENERATIONS: THE LEGACY The Diales are shocked by what Getty reveals. Mazwi demands answers. Lucy doesn’t have good news regarding the diamonds. Xolelwa is totally out of her depth at the party. Wandile has lost his will to live. Jack (VUSI KUNENE) is not happy when Sphe stands up to him. Two colleagues finally give in to their passion. Tau has to give the diamonds back. . . or else! SCANDAL! Ndumiso arrives at a late realisation. Scelo (MBULELO NDLAZILWANA) has to admit he might’ve misjudged someone. It appears Romeo might finally have met his match. Lerumo receives some information and wonders if his family is even more twisted than he thought. Maletsatsi plays peacemaker. Layla is thrilled to receive an offer. Lerumo owes someone a serious apology. Scelo is…

SCORPIO 23 Oct – 21 Nov Making sacrifices seems to be part of your week. It’s possible that you might have to take care of a relative or friend, be asked to help someone in need or be expected to forfeit leisure time in favour of a charitable cause. It’s also an apt time to focus on how to proceed to develop positive attributes and let go of self-sabotaging habits. YOUR LUCKY NUMBERS 34, 8, 27, 35, 12, 11 SAGITTARIUS 22 Nov – 20 Dec Venus moves into your sign this week, which should make it easier to attract the attention of the one you’ve set your heart on. Since first impressions count, make sure you make an effort. You might even want to be generous and pay a visit…

FOOT IN MOUTH A metro policeman pulls Sipho’s car over and tells him that, since he’s wearing his seat belt, he has just won R5 000 in an Arrive Alive safety competition. Sipho can hardly believe his luck. “What are you going to do with your cash?” asks the traffic cop. “Well, I guess I’m going to get a driver’s licence,” Sipho answers. “Oh, don’t listen to him,” yells Bongani from the passenger seat. “He tries to be smart when hes drunk.” This wakes up Rodger in the back seat, who takes one look at the cop and moans, “I knew we wouldnt get far in a stolen car.” ASK A SILLY QUESTION Question: What kind of ship never sinks? Answer: Friendship. Question: What did the pencil sharpener say to…

1 Get to know yourself. Who am I? What do I enjoy? What would I be good at? Talk to your parents, teachers, friends and family members to learn more and be honest with yourself. It’s important that you choose a career you’ll enjoy. Passion is key to succeeding in any career. 2 Research different career opportunities online and consider rare skills and careers that are in high demand. See where there’s a gap in the market. Look at career opportunities and job descriptions advertised on job portals and consider the daily duties of each career. 3 Consider volunteering or job shadowing. Your parents might have a network of contacts; ask them to help you get exposure in various work environments. Use job shadowing as an opportunity to find out…

‘I knew she was wife material and that she would look after our family’ IT IS abundantly evident that spring is upon us: the sun is scorching hot overhead as we drive towards Ga-Rankuwa, north of Pretoria. We’re on our way to meet award-winning singer Lucas Maloma, and when we arrive he flashes a wide smile and greets us warmly. The gospel star has a lot to smile about as his debut album, Melodi, has earned the coveted title of Best Praise Album at this year’s Ingoma Awards. Very few artists manage to nab an award with their first album, so for Lucas (37) this achievement is a blessing. “This award means that people are receiving my album well, and I’m grateful to God,” he says. “I still can’t believe…

MZANSI’S talent is taking on the world and TV personality and actor AARON MOLOISI is living proof of it: he has just landed a role in a Hollywood blockbuster. “I have exciting news, I just shot a movie, Queen of Katwe, which is due for worldwide cinema release,” he told us excitedly, adding that it was the highlight of his career. “It’s a humbling experience for me as it is a milestone. I can’t wait for South Africans to see it. Who would have thought I’d be in such a big movie.” Many local stars are making it big in Hollywood, with funnyman TREVOR NOAH flying the South African flag high as the host The Daily Show. And more recently, actress PEARL THUSI made her US debut after landing a…

EVERGREEN MAM’WINNIE FEW CAN dispute the role Winnie Madikizela-Mandela has played in the struggle against apartheid: first as the wife of the late Madiba, then throughout her banishment to Brandfort – she was a very controversial activist before the dawn of democracy. Now, as she celebrates her 80th birthday, one has to salute her for her tenacity and longevity. If she’s looking for a new cause to keep her busy, perhaps she can talk to the students who are set on destroying the very institutions they want an education from. It’s worrying that these are the leaders of tomorrow and that their preferred way to resolve conflict is through destruction. Please talk sense into our youth, Mam! WENDY KHUMALO, E-MAIL…

‘I’m praying for miracles, but then I’m also working very hard’ HE PULLS up in a stately Bentley, with a pair of high-end German cars tagging along. “There’s always a motorcade,” someone from his team tells us. “The prophet never travels alone.” Making his way to the terrace, Prophet Shepherd Bushiri of Prophet Shepherd Bushiri Ministries looks a bit thinner than he does on TV. He greets us like one of those corporate types who considers a firm handshake a sign of good character. We meet the Malawian expat at his house in an estate off the R55 in Midrand, Johannesburg. As expected, it’s very large and very grand, equipped with state-of-the-art design and décor. All in all, it’s rather overwhelming. During the course of our research, we find out…

‘We don’t know the reasons for the disbandment’ DESPITE apparent internal divisions, it seems the African National Congress Youth League (ANCYL) is attempting to plug the cracks and shield President Jacob Zuma until the ANC’s December 2017 conference. This new show of unity has been carefully constructed by staunch Zuma supporter and ANCYL President Collen Maine, who has come down hard on dissenting leaders in the Eastern Cape and the Greater Johannesburg region. The ANCYL National Executive Committee, which is steadfastly ensconced in the Zuma-aligned “premier league” faction of the ANC, recently announced the disbandment of Eastern Cape provincial and the Greater Johannesburg region structures. ANCYL spokesperson Mlondi Mkhize says the Eastern Cape leadership was axed so the League’s National Working Committee could strengthen its structures. However, this came after…

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GLUTEN-FREE FLOURLESS CAKE The cake is ready when the centre is still slightly wobbly. PREPARATION: 10 MIN COOKING: 45 MIN SERVES 6 250 g dark chocolate, chopped 185 g butter, cubed 80 ml (⅓ cup) cocoa powder, sifted 60 ml (¼ cup) strong coffee 6 eggs 230 ml (1¼ cups) caster sugar 200 g ground almonds cocoa powder, to sprinkle Preheat the oven to 180 °C. Grease a 22-cm springform pan and line the base with baking paper. Put it on a baking tray. 1 Combine the chocolate, butter and cocoa powder in a heatproof bowl over a saucepan of simmering water (don’t let the base of the bowl touch the water). Cook, stirring occasionally, until melted and smooth. Remove from the heat and stir in the coffee. Set aside.…

ONE IN 29 women in South Africa will be diagnosed with breast cancer, according to The Cancer Association of South Africa (Cansa). But the good news is there’s an excellent chance of recovery if it’s picked up early. That’s why it’s vital to go for mammograms and do breast self-exams regularly. October is Breast Cancer Awareness Month, so we’re helping you to understand how to detect this dreadful disease early. WHAT IS A MAMMOGRAM? A mammogram is a special X-ray exam to detect lumps in the breast, and it’s the best way to pick up cancer in the early stages. In South Africa, it’s recommended that a woman has her first mammogram at the age of 40 if she has no risk factors. But if you’re at higher risk (see…

THERE is no specific study programme for becoming a CEO, yet Lee Mhlongo (35) managed to get there. He’s armed with a background in actuarial science (calculating commercial risks and probabilities involving uncertain future events, for things like insurance), but today Lee’s role consists of coaching the best and brightest experts in their own chosen disciplines as he heads up the FNB Housing Finance team, and steers them towards their common goal. It takes a lot of listening, reading, studying, understanding, analysing and imagining. “My role has evolved from a job to a passion,” he says. “I’m constantly looking for ways to sustainably improve SA’s housing backlog – which is estimated to be over two million homes and growing.” Lee says a typical day begins with some reflection on the…

You don’t have to be a criminal to require the services of a lawyer.Legal disputes can arise at any time and can affect anyone, e.g. a dispute with your neighbour, labour law issues or contractual disputes.Protect your rights without a scary bill at the end of your matter. Rights24 by DRUM has been designed for you, to help alleviate the financial stresses that come with consulting lawyers. Whether it is a civil, criminal or labour matter, the following benefits are available to our members: 24 Hour Services Professional legal services are available to you 24 hours a day. We have a network of qualified attorneys and legal advisors ready to assist you. 24 Hour Legal Call Centre Our call centre is available to you 24 hours a day to give…

‘His hands are her hands, familiar and remembered’ ‘She must search and search until she can face everything‘ IT’S NOT easy coming back from the dead, Tjipuka thinks, lying on her bed looking at her sleeping husband, Ruhapo. Somewhere in that dead time things got lost, things changed. What she thought she knew so well, the things engraved on her heart, were not true any more, but she knew it was wrong to say that out loud. Many people lost everyone after the scattering, so she and Ruhapo were lucky, lucky to have found each other again. Lucky – and she should not make people angry, make the ancestors who had protected them angry, by questioning the parts of her husband that now seemed strange, that now seemed wrong. So…

LIBRA 23 SEP – 22 OCT The sun is still in your sign, meaning it’s a time when you should be comfortable expressing yourself with the true Libra ease and grace. Since it’s a time where you’re likely to make an impression on others you might want to look your best, so do take time with your appearance. On another note, while it’s a week to expect the unexpected, which could be exciting, it might be quite difficult to keep your balance. YOUR LUCKY NUMBERS 20, 9, 39, 42, 49, 6 KHANYI MBAU 15 OCTOBER ASHANTI 13 OCTOBER USHER 14 OCTOBER KEYSHIA COLE 15 OCTOBER EMINEM 17 SEPTEMBER NE-YO 18 OCTOBER LIBRA: WORK AND MONEY Spends money on beautiful objects and must have luxury. Is the peacemaker amongst colleagues. For…

IT’S IN THE GENES While older sister Refilwe Modiselle (30) is famous for being Africa’s first albino model, Bontle (25) is also a trailblazer: She was the lead actress in Hear Me Move, South Africa’s first dance film. Baby sister Candice completes the trio of talented Soweto-born sisters and is fast making a name for herself as a YoTV presenter. CUNNING LINGUIST The co-host of SABC’s reality talent show Showville says the series improved her Afrikaans. She was on the road for three and a half months trying to uncover talent in small dorpies across the country. “Comfort is a terrible place to be in. The show challenged me. My Afrikaans had to improve,” Bontle quips. “It was substandard and now I can hold a conversation.” PIN-UP GIRL With her…

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SHE’S THE first to admit her big, loud personality can be a tad over the top, but it’s a trademark that’s served her well. “I’m animated when I speak and whatever I don’t tell you, my face will,” actress Lusanda Mbane says with a giggle. It must have been this larger-than-life persona and unbounded confidence that made the producers of e.tv soapie Scandal! sit up, and cast her as Boniswa, the wife of Kingsley (played by Hlomla Dandala). Having recently joined the show, the former Generations actress has been a breath of fresh air and has already won the hearts of millions of the soapie’s fans with her great acting skills. So how did she land the part of Boniswa? “I actually auditioned for Scandal! in 2015 for the part…

WHEN international stars come to our shores, we like to think that they’ll leave with a lasting good impression. A certain American actor affirms our hopes and tells us he loves his time here. We meet Darrin Henson on the set of his latest movie, Zulu Wedding, where he plays the male lead, Tex. Best known for his role as ex-convict Lem Van Adams in the long-running drama series Soul Food, he still looks as good as he did in 2004. FAST-FORWARD 12 years and Darrin has been in SA for a while now and on the whole, he’s been dazzled by the warmth and smiles of South Africans. However, he’s not too impressed with Cape Town. “I was in Cape Town and I was so taken aback by the…

SPORTS stars were honoured for their on-field achievements at the this year’s annual Gauteng Sports Awards. As expected, celebs came in their numbers to support the athletes. The event was held at the Silverstar Casino in Krugersdorp, and Minister of Sport and Recreation FIKILE MBALULA was in full “Razzmatazz” mode as he cracked jokes while he celebrated with the stars. Proteas bowler Kagiso Rabada walked away with the coveted Sportsman of the Year award, while 14-year-old Olympic silver medallist Ntando Mahlangu bagged the Sportsman of the Year with Disability gong. Rabada, who had to miss the party to play in the second One-Day International against Australia, tweeted after his win: “Thank you everyone for the support, it is much appreciated.” Far from the sporting world, we spotted actor and singer…