Innholdsfortegnelse for 25-Jan-18 i Drum English

FOR OUR CHILDREN WHAT is it you dream for your children? What do you want them to be in life? What kind of person do you want them to be one day? Here at DRUM we care very much about the issue of children. In this edition we look at ways you can help your child if they’re being bullied by a teacher (page 42). We talk to a little boy who wouldn’t give up despite losing both legs to a devastating disease (page 20). And we have the delightful story of Generations: The Legacy actor Junior Singo and how he bonds with his cute daughter, Ayamaah (pg 18). We’d love to hear how you feel about these stories. Email us at letters@drum.co.za Until next week, THE DRUM TEAM We…

SHE shocked fans when she announced she was quitting Muvhango after 20 years on SABC2’s flagship soapie. Viewers wondered, would her beloved character, Thandaza Mokoena, be killed off? Would the veteran actress retire? And, if so, where would they get their daily fix of Sindi Dlathu? But it turns out Sindi’s supporters have nothing to fear – the popular actress will feature in Muvhango until March when her character exits the storyline. Until then, fans will get a double dose of Sindi once her new show, The River, debuts on DStv’s 1Magic at the end of January. DRUM speaks to the woman who brought Thandaza to life for so many years in between filming scenes for The River where Sindi says she’s thrilled to be playing a cold-hearted killer who…

BRAAI BASTING STICKY PORK RIBS SERVES 4 PREPARATION: 15 MIN COOKING: 15 MIN (SAUCE), 1 HR 15 MIN (RIBS) 1-1,5kg pork ribs, portioned 2 onions, quartered 1L chicken stock SAUCE 45ml (3T) olive oil 2 onions, chopped 4 garlic cloves, crushed 1 chilli, chopped 1 bay leaf 5ml (1t) cumin seeds, toasted 5ml (1t) smoked paprika 30ml (2T) tomato paste 250ml (1c) dark-brown sugar 60ml (¼c) Worcestershire sauce 30ml (2T) balsamic vinegar 125ml (½c) orange juice salt and freshly ground pepper TO SERVE 1 lemon, cut into wedges fresh coriander leaves Preheat the oven to 200°C. Put a wire rack on a large baking sheet and grease with non-stick spray. 1 Put the ribs and onions in a pressure cooker and cover with chicken stock. Secure the lid and cook…

We Can 24 Our model is Lihle Jim (19) from Khayelitsha in Cape Town, winner of WeCan24’s DRUM photoshoot competition. Lihle is a WeCan24 cub journalist who’s taking a gap year. He works at Ocean Basket and is an aspiring rapper. Educational digital network WeCan24 empowers young people to share their stories. To win a photoshoot, visit wecan24.co.za TIP Take your look up a level by pairing a comfy hoodie and joggers with a blazer. TIP Weara T-shirt, shorts and sandals with a blazer for a relaxed look. TIP Ditch the long-sleeve, button-up shirt in warmer weather and opt for a golfer and shorts with your blazer to keep cool. TIP Turn a casual outfit into a formal one by wearing a blazer with dark trousers. TIP A…

MY FOOD HABITS Richards Bay dietician Nelile Nxumalo shares her top food tips and suggestions for those living with HIV/Aids. What’s your typical meal? A slice of low-GI, high-fibre bread with peanut butter that has no added sugar or salt. It’s high in energy and completely balanced, as it contains a decent amount of protein for muscle development, healthy carbohydrates and fibre to keep you regular, and good fats. Low-GI (glycaemic index) foods make you feel fuller for longer and don’t raise your blood sugar levels quickly. What’s your favourite dish? I’m a serious breakfast fan as it’s the most important meal of the day. I enjoy rolled oats, which I soak overnight in milk or water, served with plain yoghurt and fresh fruit pieces – usually an apple or…

IF YOU’VE tried debt counselling (see last week’s Your Money) but are still unable to afford your monthly loan and credit repayments, debt administration could be the way to go. It lets you pay back smaller amounts, which could make it easier for you to get out of debt. Repaying the debt as quickly as possible could be a good strategy, but there are things to look out for. Your Money spoke to Inge van der Merwe, a registered debt counsellor, and Mariana van den Berg of Dikoloto Administrators about how it works. 1 WHAT HAPPENS FIRST Debt administrators’ information can be found on the internet. You qualify for administration only if your debt is less than R50 000. Take along proof of income when you see a debt administrator.…

MUVHANGO Vho-Masindi is suspicious of Konanani. Livhuwani has fears about getting pregnant. Tragedy strikes Imani and the Mokoenas. Ranthumeng makes a difficult decision. Konanani has a surprise for Susan (MAUMELA MAHUWA). Livhuwani and Tendamudzimu kiss and make up. The police have a lead but Imani is struggling. RHYTHM CITY Gail (PAM ANDREWS) finds that standing up to David can be tough. Sabelo is vulnerable in prison. Suffo’s family is in danger. Pearl goes against David’s wishes. A weapon is sent in Suffo’s direction – and the weapon is Sabelo. Sabelo is forced to attack Suffo. Quinton goes missing. Emmanuel has reason to celebrate. ISIDINGO Gabriel comes up with a plan to protect his children. Lerato is on the warpath. Hendrik takes a harsh decision. Nina’s revenge plot is in full…

Black Panther will mark the first time in the Marvel Cinematic Universe that the studio will integrate multiple original recordings created specifically for the film. A tracklist for the soundtrack has yet to be announced. This isn’t the first blockbuster to have a soundtrack produced by a pop star – Lorde curated the soundtrack for The Hunger Games, Jay-Z did Baz Luhrmann’s The Great Gatsby – but it’s the first time Marvel has hired a star or commissioned original songs for a film. Marvel has made serious cash off the much-hyped retro soundtracks for Guardians of the Galaxy and Guardians of the Galaxy Vol.2 – the latter was one of the top-selling vinyl albums of 2017.…

A WRINKLE IN TIME BY MADELEINE L’ENGLE (SQUARE FISH) R219* What it’s about: When scientist Dr Alexander Murry goes missing while working on a top-secret government project, his teen daughter, Meg, embarks on a journey through time and space to find him. She’s accompanied by three otherworldly companions, Mrs Whatsit, Mrs Who and Mrs Which. Based on the much-loved 1962 novel, the film is directed by Ava DuVernay, known for the Oscar-winning Selma. Starring: Around 70 girls auditioned to play Meg – Storm Reid (12 Years a Slave) was eventually cast. Reese Witherspoon plays Mrs Whatsit, Mindy Kaling is Mrs Who and Oprah Winfrey plays Mrs Which. Release date: Friday 9 March. Did you know? It’s the first time a black female director will direct a film with such a…

“My dad used to tell me every day, ‘You can do anything you want’. I used to think as a kid he was lying. But now I do stuff and he’s like, ‘I didn’t think that was possible!’ ” DONALD GLOVER (34) CLAIM TO FAME He started his career as a comedy writer for the show 30 Rock before branching into acting and winning a Golden Globe last year for his role in the TV comedy Atlanta, about two cousins involved in the city’s music scene. Donald is also a talented musician – he raps under the name Childish Gambino – and was included in Time magazine’s list of 100 most influential people of 2017. And in case you were wondering – no, he isn’t related to big screen legend…

BACKSTABBING, name-calling and free-for-all insults – it’s the kind of behaviour you might expect from politicians, prizefighters or reality TV stars. Now you can add the guys at the helm of two of the biggest glamour clubs in soccer to the list. In recent weeks Chelsea coach Antonio Conte and Manchester United’s José Mourinho have been hurling slurs back and forth, labelling each other “clown” and “little man” in a war of words that’s overshadowed both teams’ Premier League performances. Sure, the rivalry between the two clubs goes way back – and at the time of going to print United was second on the log to Chelsea’s third. But it seems the feud between the two coaches is wholly personal. It all started with Mourinho’s comments in reaction to rumours…

SHE loves playing the troublesome Dintle on e.tv’s Scandal! but MAPASEKA KOETLENYOKONG is relishing her new role as a businesswoman. Mapaseka (28) and her husband, Nelson, recently opened a coffee shop in Sandton, Joburg, where she revealed the business came about thanks to her new healthy lifestyle. “The inspiration behind buying the franchise is that I started adapting a healthy lifestyle after I gave birth to my little one and Gorge Grab n Go Café was a place I’d go to buy sandwiches.” Mapaseka, who became a first-time mom to daughter Nema in September 2016, says she’s traded the sandwiches for detox juice to help her shed the kilos she piled on during the festive season. We asked the actress to play a foodie-themed round of Would You Rather. WOULD…

MONIQUE AND KATLEGO TV presenter KATLEGO MABOE and girlfriend MONIQUE MULLER surprised and delighted fans when they announced they’re expecting a little one later this year. The adorable couple, who’ve been together for almost two years, shared their happy news on social media with the hashtag #TheKatsOutTheBag. “We are excited to announce that there’ll be a new addition to our family. Thanks to everyone who’s wished us well and continues to pray for our little prince’s safe arrival #Proud Parents #June2018 #BunInThe Oven,” Katlego said on Instagram. Monique, who works as a sales consultant in Cape Town, expressed her love for her man with this touching post last year: “Better than I was, more than I am, and all that has happened, by taking your hand.” Aren’t they adorable? Fierce…

AFTER OPRAH WINFREY’s stirring speech at the Golden Globes, Hollywood – and the rest of the world – was aflutter at the idea of O running for the US presidency in 2020. A few months ago there was also a lot of excitement when there were hints, rumours and murmurs that the People’s Champion, Dwayne Johnson, could be contemplating a similar move. And while the idea of a reality TV star in the Oval Office may seem like a novel one (or just a very bad idea), President Donald Trump is just one of many entertainers who made the move into politics. Ronald Reagan, US president 1981-1989 The former actor, best known for his roles in TV series and movies, served as the governor of California from 1967 to 1975…

THE Chinese say: “If you want peace, go to the heart of the problem”. And it’s crucial that we go into this New Year with caution. Any challenges we don’t overcome will surface, full force, in future. Therefore we must engage challenges and setbacks with zero tolerance because if we compromise our standards, we’ll be the victims of the same challenges when they come back to us. If you hide your head in the sand by abusing alcohol and drugs, you’ll just be giving your challenges longevity. Let’s take full responsibility and defy any form of excuse as we work on transforming our lives positively. All the best. NORMAN MAHLANGU, MTHAMBOTHINI THE WINNING LETTER RECEIVES R300. Letters should be about 100 words. Write to us at PO Box 653284, Benmore…

HIS dreams are as big as his smile is wide. Like many nine-year-old boys, Ubuko Mpotulo is determined to play soccer whenever he can and loves a kick-about with his friends. He also enjoys swimming, wants to be a doctor when he grows up and his favourite superhero is Spider-Man. In fact, Ubuko loves Spidey so much his hero’s face is always on his legs – yes, his legs. Unlike most nine-year-olds, Ubuko has no legs of his own. He’s also missing several fingers as a result of cryptococcal meningitis, a devastating infection of the lining of the brain and spinal cord he contracted at the age of two. The disease ran so rampant through his body, doctors had no choice but to amputate his fingers and legs to prevent…

WE SPOKE to Norah Hudson from Ell269 Plant Based Foods in Hermanus, as well as Marina Evans and Corné Jooste from Plant Based Health SA about their six guidelines for healthier eating that’s still tasty and enjoyable. In essence they suggest eating more wholefoods and fresh food, such as vegetables, fruits and wholegrains, and ensuring fat and protein are of the healthy variety. They also recommend avoiding refined grains and processed food where possible, as these contain many additives and preservatives, and drastically reducing sugar and salt. 1 MORE FRESH FRUIT AND VEGETABLES Apart from containing essential vitamins and minerals, fresh fruit and vegetables also provide fibre, which helps maintain a healthy microbiome (the collection of good bacteria) in your gut. This in turn helps prevent infections and irritations which…

AQUARIUS 21 JAN – 18 FEB Towards the end of the week, Mercury – master of the mind and keeper of the tongue – enters your sign, for better and for worse. On the bright side, you can look forward to a period where rational thoughts will flow with ease and logic should prevail. If you’re a typical Aquarius who has a strong mind, independent opinions and no qualms about speaking your truth, you might just find yourself stepping on some toes. YOUR LUCKY NUMBERS 22, 29, 27, 33, 9, 3 PISCES 19 Feb – 20 Mar Courageous and assertive Mars moves into your professional horoscope, so it’s a time to be dynamic about the outer aspects of your life. Pull out all the stops in terms of fulfilling your…

From a mild-mannered mathematician in Hidden Figures to a mob hit woman in her new movie, Proud Mary, Taraji P Henson is flexing her acting muscles. She plays Mary, a contract killer whose life is turned around when she meets a boy whose path she crosses after a hit goes wrong. While the role is something of a departure for Taraji – probably best known these days for her part as Cookie in Empire – it’s not the first time she’s played an assassin. She carried a big gun and kicked ass in the action comedy Smokin’ Aces (2006) as one half of a team of killer ladies, partnered by singer-actress Alicia Keys. Taraji says she was drawn to the role of Mary because “it’s just different from anything I’ve…

AT THE foot of the majestic Langeberg mountain range, next to the banks of the Breede River lies this hidden jewel. The Bontebok National Park is situated next to the N2 near Swellendam, and its natural beauty is sure to take your breath away. It may be the country's smallest national park, but its diverse flora and fauna, the comforts you'll find here, and the activities offered should move it to the top of any nature lover's list. Originally built to protect the threatened bontebok species, experts quickly realised it’s the only place in SA where certain threatened plant species (Erica filamentosa, Aspalathus burchelliana and Diosma fallex) still flourish. Come and experience the breathtaking sunsets, picture-perfect walking routes, and the untouched natural beauty of the Over-berg. The park is roughly…

IT’S taken a year and a lot of negotiation but Mamelodi Sundowns coach Pitso Mosimane’s patience has paid offafter he netted his new star player. Last year he put in three bids for Aubrey Ngoma, but the 28-year-old’s former club, Cape Town City, rejected them all. Now, after coughing up a reported R8 million, Mosimane got his man and Ngoma will finally don yellow and green to play for The Brazilians. The transfer couldn’t have come at a better time: Sundowns recently lost the triple threat of Keagan Dolly, Leonardo Castro and Khama Billiat, who led the team to glory in the Absa Premiership, Telkom Knockout, Caf Champions League and Super Cup in the 2016/2017 season. As the top contender for the 2017/2018 PSL title, Mosimane was under pressure to…

Fans of TV darling Khanyi Mbau had plenty to say when she revealed she and her long-time bae, Tebogo Lerole, had split up. DRUM readers weighed in on the news. What is heartbreaking here? Your life is lived in media . . . when someone asks you out it’s in the media . . . it’s karma. What would be heartbreaking would be Zodwa Wabantu breaking up with fans. THEMBELANI MATHUNJWA He was just a toyboy, he had nothing to offer her. FELLO BONJESI Khanyi on the loose – hold on to your men, ladies! MAIKANO C MAILA Kids, not every happy pic on Instagram means happiness behind the scenes. LEAH LINK I saw this coming a long time ago. THABSILE AZANDA She’s so beautiful and got money . .…

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1 Clip acrylic storage R240, Woolworths. 2 Glass jar with rose-gold lid 1L R19,99 and 3 Glass jar with rose-gold lid 500ml R14,99, Checkers. 4 Glass jar with wooden lid R129, H&M. 5 Prince Albert Extra Virgin Olive Oil Karoo Blend (500ml) R109, yuppiechef.com 6 Oil and vinegar set R260, Woolworths. 7 Coffee, tea and sugar set R339 and 8 Grey canister R199, @ home. 9 Large glass jar R49,99 and 10 Pasta canister R59,99, Checkers. 11 Afro Future canister R129,99 and 12 Embossed canister R89,99, MRP Home. 13 Storage tin with bamboo lid small R160 and 14 Storage tin with bamboo lid medium R180, Woolworths. 15 Label Me storage jars (set of 3) R129, @home. KEEP IT TIDY First things first – unpack the cupboard and check expiration dates. You’ll…

MY HUBBY OR SECRET LOVER? Q I’ve been married for four years but I’ve been having an affair with a married man for about a year. The married man’s wife knows about us and she knows her husband isn’t prepared to break up with me, so she’s filed for divorce. Now I’m stuck with both my husband and the other guy – who won’t leave me alone. I’m afraid my husband will find out about the affair. What should I do? EMAIL, MN A I wonder why you started an affair, as you’ve put yourself in an impossible situation. How can you expect the guy to leave you alone when he’s lost his wife because of you? You’re the only one who can fix this by deciding what you want.…

MOVIES BADLY EXPLAINED The Shining: A family’s first Airbnb experience goes very wrong. The Lord of the Rings: Group takes nine hours to return jewellery. Titanic: Everyone tries the ice-bucket challenge. Beauty and the Beast: Stockholm syndrome works. The Chronicles of Narnia: Kid comes out of the closet. CASHING IN A guy pays for his shopping at a supermarket. The cashier rings up his items and tells him it comes to R49,06. The guy hands her R50. “Do you have six cents?” she asks. “Sorry,” the guy says after fishing around in his pockets, “I have no cents.” “Finally,” the cashier mutters to herself, “a man who can admit it.” CAREER OPPORTUNITY It’s bring-your-pet-to-work day at the office, so a guy takes his cat along. The cat checks out the…

STAR WARS BATTLEFRONT II XBOX ONE, PS4, PC This game should be a cautionary tale for developers. It improved on the original by adding a solid single-player campaign, more multiplayer modes and almost four times as many multiplayer maps. The core shooting and mechanics in the game are fun and well thought out but there’s a dark side in the form of loot crates with items for multiplayer gameplay, tied to player progression that forces players to buy the crates. The purchase option has since been removed after protests, but it now leaves no other option but to unlock crates via the poor progression system. – GARETH SEILER NEED FOR SPEED: PAYBACK XBOX ONE, PS4, PC Payback is a solid entry in the Need for Speed franchise but it fails…

NIALL HORAN FLICKER One Direction’s Niall is on a roll. His first studio album, Flicker, debuted at number one in Ireland and the US. The early strains of the lead track, On the Loose, hint at an under-produced tune. But at the pre-chorus and chorus you’ll start bopping your head. We love him on the melancholy acoustic guitar-driven This Town, which should be an anthem for guys who break up with girls and later regret it.…

SO WHAT do you do for a living? It’s a question most of us have been asked at some stage or other – it’s small-talk staple, after all. Most of us have easy enough answers: we work in an office, we’re teachers, physiotherapists, bookkeepers, shop owners, whatever. But there are some people whose jobs are rather more unusual – and in some cases downright bizarre. Take Jen Glantz, for instance. Her job? Professional bridesmaid. It all started when Jen, who’s American, spotted a gap in the market. Weddings can be great fun but they can also be hard work, she reasoned – including for bridesmaids who have to do a lot of running around. Some brides don’t want members of their party to miss out on the fun. Which is…

DLAMINI HANGS UP HER BOOTS Former Banyana Banyana captain AMANDA DLAMINI is hanging up her national team boots. The KwaZulu-Natal-born player recently decided to retire from international soccer at 29. Dlamini, who has over 100 international caps for Banyana, said she’d like to give up-and-coming players a chance to showcase their talents. “It‘s time for me to pursue my other passions and open room for new and younger talent to represent South Africa. It has always been my dream to reach this mark of exiting the national team with many good memories,” she said in a statement. She said she’s grateful for all the opportunities she’s been given, including playing “alongside legends such as Portia Modise, Veronica Phewa and Nompumelelo Nyandeni.” NGIDI’S DREAM TEST START It was like a dream.…

HE’S been in the industry for just five years so LOYISO MADINGA couldn’t believe it when he landed one of the biggest jobs of his career. The comedian has joined Trevor Noah’s The Daily Show as its Africa correspondent and says it’s all thanks to his funny friend. “Trevor is very kind; he lets me sleep on his chest sometimes while I tell him my deepest, darkest secrets,” Loyiso quips. Jokes aside, the pair met on the Nationwild Tour in 2014. “I got to know him there and sometimes when I go to New York to do shows I get to chill with him through mutual friends. I’m not going to claim that he’s my best bud in the world; he’s my boss now! He’s super cool.” Loyiso (31) auditioned…

BABY BLUES SHE seems to have it all – a new hubby, gorgeous baby, stellar career . . . But even the seemingly superhuman SERENA WILLIAMS has down days. In a new interview in Vogue magazine, the tennis ace reveals she’s battled since her daughter, ALEXIS OLYMPIA OHANIAN JR, was born in September last year. The little girl features on the cover with her mom – she’s probably the youngest person to grace the cover of the style bible. Serena doesn’t outright say she suffered from postpartum depression but the symptoms she describes sound a lot like the condition that affects so many women. It didn’t help that she was bedridden for six weeks after having a C-section. “Sometimes I get really down and feel like, man, I can’t do…