Innholdsfortegnelse for 12-Oct-17 i Drum English

KIDS SHOULD BE KIDS Preteens regard themselves as teenagers while teenagers consider themselves adults. This is why you find so many young girls getting involved in intimate relationships, as a lack of information about the dangers of unprotected sex often ends with them getting pregnant at a young age and exposes them to HIV and sexually transmitted diseases. Teen and preteen mothers find the responsibility of raising a baby too much to handle. In poor families where the only source of income is social grant money, these young moms are forced to drop out of school.The teenagers who consider themselves adults smoke cigarettes and drink alcohol like nobody’s business. Even worse, some do drugs. Life is better for children when it’s lived step by step. Children must focus their youthful…

Actress Khanyi Mbau shelled out R95 000 for a waist reduction surgery, breast implants and liposuction in order to create an hourglass figure, saying she wants “a perfect aesthetic, like a doll”. Drum readers weighed in on her transformation. Her money. Her rules. MAMAKAMO MPHOLO MERCY LOL, if I had the money I’d also fix a few things, it doesn’t change who I am. MINNIE ZULU I believe that if it makes you happy then you should go for whatever works for you. It’s your body and money at the end of the day. MBALI NTOMB’EMHLOPHE HLATSHWAYO If I had the money I would do the same. LEBOGANG MAMABOLO She is too obsessed with her body. It’s dangerous. CAPA AVU PHUMZA Well done, Khanyi. I really love your new look.…

RIDICULOUS. That’s what she thought when people first started suggesting she throw her hat into the ring and enter the race for ANC president. She wasn’t going to do this, she told herself. She’d just buried her husband and, with very little time on her hands, a campaign trail was the last thing she needed. But as time went by the idea of having a woman at the helm of the ruling party began to excite her. “I think we’re ready for it,” she says. “South Africa is the kind of democracy that would take easily to a woman president.” Lindiwe Sisulu is sitting in the living room of her ministerial residence in Pretoria, a stone’s throw from the Union Buildings. It’s a home as stylish as the fashion-forward minister…

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1 KEEP SKIN CLEAN Wash your face twice a day to keep your pores clear of dirt, oil and dead skin cells. If you exercise, wash your face immediately afterwards to prevent dirt build-up, and never go to bed with make-up on. Using a purifying facial mask will also help to cleanse your skin. 2 SCRUB-A-DUB Use an exfoliating product a few times a week – twice if you have sensitive skin, more often if not. Apply the product in a circular motion moving upward, but be gentle – you don’t have to rub your face raw to remove build-up. 3 BE SUN SMART Protect your face from the sun’s harmful UV rays. Skin ageing caused by sun damage makes your pores bigger. Other lifestyle habits that speed up ageing,…

THEY’RE three little words you never want to hear – you have cancer. For Nomsimelelo Somagaca they were particularly painful, as her mother had died from the dreaded disease a few years before and she was convinced this diagnosis was also the end for her. Nomsimelelo (42) was diagnosed with the most common cancer in women around the world – breast cancer. Luckily, she received treatment in time and is still with us to share her story. Her traumatic journey began three years ago. “I had a big lump on the side of my right breast,” she recalls. “But I didn’t think anything of it because I was still breastfeeding my little boy, Chulumanco, who was three at the time. However, a colleague told me I should see a doctor.”…

LIBRA 23 SEP – 22 OCT Your planet, good-natured Venus, moves into your sign this week which means you should be in for a smooth ride. Whether you have social activities in mind, have plans for a romantic getaway with your partner or want to catch up with overdue chores, you can look forward to things going your way. A surprising twist in your love life or unexpected turn of events might add an exciting spin to life. YOUR LUCKY NUMBERS 38, 36, 31, 23, 49, 32 SCORPIO 23 Oct – 21 Nov Mercury, the cosmic networker, moves into your sign this week so it’s a good time to be out and about. Whether you want to promote your business, gain info about a mystery you’re trying to solve or…

DIKELEDI: CHILD OF TEARS, NO MORE BY ACHMAT DANGOR (PICADOR AFRICA) R175* What’s in a name? Quite a lot, if you’re a woman named Dikeledi and born in Harlem. In an attempt to understand the complex history of her father’s family and country, Dikeledi Tau, an investigative journalist, reconstructs four generations of the Tau family – using fragments of material left by her father. It’s set in the turbulent ’80s and ’90s in apartheid South Africa and focused on one family’s daily struggles. As Dikeledi starts untangling the stories, she uncovers a crime syndicate and is attacked by gunmen looking for info. Her aunt, also named Dikeledi, is shot trying to rescue her. In a conversation after she’s shot, Aunt Dikeledi tries to get her niece to go back to…

WAY HOME A man is driving home from work when he’s pulled over for not wearing a seat belt. Two days later – same ticket, same cop. “So,” the cop says, “have you learnt anything?” “Yes, I have,” the man replies, “I’ve learnt I need to take a different way home from work.” ENGLISH LESSONS On Facebook the English language has few friends. Three examples: Post: I can’t stand people that don’t know the difference between your and you’re. There so dumb. Response: Their, their, calm down. Post: Is it me or does nobody have manors these days? Response: I just have a normal house. Post: I do not have patients for stupid today. Response: Patience. LAUGH OUT LOUD I told my girlfriend she drew her eyebrows too high. She…

IT’S not every day a soccer player reaches a century so when Willard Katsande recently attained his double century appearance, Kaizer Chiefs management handed him a special jersey to celebrate his impressive achievement. “It means a lot for me to reach this milestone under a big brand like Kaizer Chiefs,” the defensive midfielder tells us of his 200 appearances for the team. “It shows my hard work is paying off and I will cherish this moment for the rest of my life.” Nicknamed Salt and Vinegar because he shares a name with chip-maker Willards, he joins Itumeleng Khune and Siphiwe Tshabalala in the Amakhosi 200-club. Katsande (31) joined the Glamour Boys back in 2011 and has only missed 16 matches while playing for the club. His dedication to the game…

FORMER US president BARACK OBAMA (56) confirmed he was tearing up and was overcome by emotion when he and MICHELLE (53), took eldest daughter MALIA (19) to her new residence at Harvard University in August. “For those of us who have daughters, it just happens fast. I dropped off Malia at college, and I was saying to Joe and Jill [Biden] that it was a little bit like open-heart surgery,” he said at the Beau Biden Foundation‘s golf and tennis invitational recently, adding that he “was proud that I did not cry in front of her . . . It was rough!”. Barack, along with two other former presidents, GEORGE W BUSH and BILL CLINTON, recently attended the Presidents Cup golf tournament to watch the first tee shots. The ex-presidents…

HOW lucky we are to have such rich talent in Mzansi – from our celebrated TV icons to ordinary South Africans doing extraordinary things. This issue is packed with such people. There’s veteran actress Pamela Nomvete opening up about her fascinating life (see page 6). And man-of-the-moment Warren Masemola shares insights into his life with DRUM readers (read more on page 80). Also packing an inspirational punch is Ncumisa Ndelu, a woman whose innovative saving plan allows her to travel around the globe. Ncumisa’s clever stockpiling strategy led to an amazing reduction in her grocery bill. Turn to page 20 to see how she does it and learn how you can save some bucks too. Until next week, THE DRUM TEAM We would love to hear your thoughts on issues…

‘I was very successful but I didn’t know how to handle it ’ SHE’S best known for the serious, powerful and often tragic characters she portrays so convincingly on screen. Who could ever forget Ntsiki Lukhele, the infamous baddie she brought to life in Generations in the late 1990s – a character still considered one of the best TV villains of all time? But the woman we see today is anything but serious. Posing for pictures, Pamela Nomvete cracks jokes, pulls funny faces and has everyone in stitches. It’s almost impossible to fathom that she once plunged into the depths of depression, and was so down and out, she was homeless and had to sleep in her car. She’d hit rock bottom but managed to beg and borrow enough to…

HE’S one of radio’s most popular guys, a true gentleman of the airwaves – silky-voiced, urbane, amusing and smart. So listeners to 702 were disappointed when Breakfast Show anchor Xolani Gwala announced he was embarking on a period of radio silence while he dealt with a serious health issue. Fans wondered what was going on. Then came the devastating announcement: he has cancer. And it’s bad. In an emotionally charged broadcast on 702, Xolani (42) opened up to colleague Stephen Grootes and discussed the gruelling road ahead. “Under the circumstances I’m okay, but obviously I’m living with something inside and it’s massive,” Xolani says matter-of-factly. “After thorough investigations, they found I have colon cancer, which is advanced – quite advanced.” Xolani was hesitant at first to talk about what was…

COCONUT RICE WITH PORK AND GINGER AND PEANUT SAUCE SERVES 8 PREPARATION: 15 MIN COOKING: 35 MIN RICE 375ml (1½c) jasmine rice 1 can (400ml) coconut milk 1 garlic clove, crushed 5 ml (1t) salt 375ml (1½c) water SALAD 10 ml (2t) butter 5 ml (1t) sesame oil 500-800 g pork fillet, cut into small cubes salt and pepper 2 red peppers, finely chopped 1 red cabbage, shredded 375ml (1½c) finely grated carrot handful of fresh coriander, chopped 3-4 spring onions, thinly sliced SAUCE 80ml (½c) peanut butter 30ml (2T) honey 15ml (1T) finely grated fresh ginger 30ml (2T) rice vinegar 5ml (1t) sesame oil 60-80ml (¼-½c) water TO SERVE 45ml (3T) sesame seeds, toasted lime slices 1 RICE Rinse the rice until the water runs clear. In a medium…

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‘The worst is over, so now you need to do right by your baby – she deserves to know her maternal roots’ Q SHE WANTS A BREAK I’m a 21-year-old guy and I was in a relationship with a 17-year-old girl. Things were really good, so much so that I could actually see her as my wife. But recently she told me she needed some space. It hurt me a lot but she promised me we’ll continue our relationship when she’s feeling better. Now I’m so scared she might move on – even though she says she loves me. What’s wrong with me? HEARTBROKEN, EMAIL A She’s the one who wants a break and it might have nothing to do with you. Don’t blame yourself over someone else’s decision. If…

GENERATIONS: THE LEGACY Fana’s shocked when he sees what is in the package. Smanga is determined to get to the truth about Thabi’s murder. There’s confusion when an explosion rips through Siqalo. Fana is horrified to learn the extent of his father’s dealings. Gadaffi’s (VUYO DABULA) needs to get to a hospital fast. Brian rats Mpho out. Nolwazi’s relationship ends. MUVHANGO Vuyiseka has her eyes on someone. Gizara takes a turn for the worse. Vho-Masindi attempts to sow division between KK and Tshidi. Matshidiso is (BUHLE SAMUELS) torn between her love of money and doing what’s right. Vusi and Sthe are shocked by what Vuyi has to say to them. Vho-Masindi ensures Matshidiso will betray KK. Vho-Sara suspects Hangwani of witchcraft. ISIDINGO Kgothalo tearfully confesses to Rajesh that Tyson broke…

YOU’VE been looking forward to a quiet evening of much-needed me-time in front of the TV when your boss asks you to stay late to help finish an urgent project. Your heart sinks but you immediately agree, staying on until the job is done. Sound like you? If so, you’re an Obliger, one of the four personality types bestselling American author Gretchen Rubin has identified in her new book, The Four Tendencies. According to Gretchen – whose books all focus on human nature and the pursuit of happiness – Obligers are by far the biggest group, made up of people who are eager to respond to outer expectations but not very good at meeting their own. The other three types are Upholders, Questioners and Rebels. Upholders, of which Rubin is…

GONGS FOR THE BRAZILIANS MAMELODI Sundowns went from victory on the field against Platinum Stars to victory on the stage of the Gauteng Sports Awards. The team’s HLOMPHO KEKANA was crowned Sports Personality of the Year, while coach Pitso Mosimane won Coach of the Year. The club was named Sports Team of the Year – they won the African Champions League in October last year, a first for a South African team since Orlando Pirates claimed the title in 1995. Accolades given to other sports stars included Sportsman of the Year, to Lawrence Brittian of Tuks Rowing, and Sportswoman of the Year, to Tanita Ramburuth Hurt of Wits Sport. Technical Official of the Year went to Mpho Makhoba of Tennis South Africa. IT’S A DRAW AFTER their crushing 57-0 defeat…

HAVING just spent a cool $88 million (R1,19 billion) on a mansion in August, BEYONCÉ (36) and JAY-Z (47) have splashed out on a second home – admittedly a smaller, less expensive place. Insiders say they couldn’t resist getting it for a steal at just $26 million (R351 million). The 1 115 square-metre waterfront estate in the Hamptons, in Long Island, New York, has seven bedrooms – quite a bit smaller than the 2 787 square-metre, six-building compound they own in Bel Air, Los Angeles. Their new home borders a nature reserve, and their infinity edged pool and spa overlook a scenic pond. The gardens feature “fruit trees and lush lawns”, a source says. It sounds like a lovely getaway spot for the couple and their kids, Blue Ivy (5)…

GREY’S Anatomy star JESSE WILLIAMS reached a temporary settlement with his estranged wife, ARYN DRAKE-LEE. The actor agreed to pay her $100 000 (R1,35 million) for spousal and child support – they have two kids – and $60 000 (R811 000) for legal and other costs. According to court papers, he has to pay her in three instalments from his first three Grey’s pay cheques from the current season. Aryn alleges Jesse has anger issues and has the kids “around too many women”. She’d earlier asked the courts for full custody of the children and an order that he not be allowed to introduce them to any of his girlfriends until he’s dated them for at least six months. Jesse responded by saying he was working “tirelessly to maintain his…

I WORK as a cashier in a convenience store. A customer left the shop without taking his wallet, which contained his bank cards, driver’s licence and R1 200 cash. I put the wallet in a safe place, knowing the customer would certainly come back for it, which he did, about an hour later. Without hesitation I gave the wallet to him with a smile. When he was satisfied the contents were still intact he just said, “Thank you”, and left the shop. Subsequently my colleagues said I should’ve asked for a reward from the man. There was a big fuss about the matter, so much so that at first I regretted my decision to not ask for a reward. But I soon came to my senses. I cursed the kind…

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AS YOU stare closely at your skin in the mirror you can’t help but notice those unsightly pores and blackheads on your nose, chin and forehead. You might hate them, but pores actually have an important function. Each pore houses a hair follicle and beneath it lies the sebaceous gland. These glands release sebum, your skin’s natural, protective oil, which travels through your pores to reach the skin’s surface. The good news is there’s plenty you can do to make pores appear smaller. When oil, dirt and dead skin cells build up in pores, they appear bigger. So if you keep your skin clean and prevent oil and dirt build-up, they’ll seem smaller. The correct face care and make-up products can also go a long way to make your pores…

DEBT is a major cause of financial stress. A total of 64% of participants in Old Mutual’s Savings and Investment Monitor indicated that their stress levels are overwhelming because they have too much debt and are struggling to manage it. Before taking out any kind of loan, you should consider whether you can really afford it and whether it’s worth the money and the stress. Be honest with yourself when answering the following questions. 1 CAN I AFFORD IT? Before buying an expensive item on credit or taking out a loan you need to work out if you’ll be able to make the payments. Calculate this by subtracting all your existing expenses from your income. Your bank statements are a clear record of your income and expenses. Your starting point…

It feels like forever since we’ve had any new music from Fergie. Her solo debut, The Dutchess, dropped way back in 2006 but finally she’s back with even more Fergalicious goodness in the aptly titled Double Dutchess. The 13-track album is a mix of hip-hop infused pop, R&B and ballads. The combo might sound random, but Fergie reminds us this is not unlike The Dutchess. “The common thread was that [the tracks] are all organic to me. I can’t put out an album of just one style of music – of what’s ‘on trend’. I would feel like a fraud,” the singer told Entertainment Weekly. Double Dutchess features guest appearances by Rick Ross and Nicki Minaj. The 42-year-old mom of one’s second album has been a long time coming, but…

1 Which farm animal is the most intelligent? A. Goat B. Ostrich C. Goose D. Pig 2 Sicily is the largest island in which sea? A. Mediterranean B. Black C. Baltic D. Red 3 How far away is the moon from Earth? A. 384 400km B. 1,23 million km C. 805 200km D. 204 600km 4 What type of rays are primarily responsible for sunburn? A. UVA B. SPF C. UVC D. UVB 5 When did the Boer War start? A. 1890 B. 1899 C. 1902 D. 1909 6 What is carbon’s chemical element? A. C B. Ca C. B D. Bn 7 Which animal has the fastest metabolism? A. Eagle B. Hummingbird C. Owl D. Vulture 8 Which colour isn’t found in a rainbow? A. Orange B. Indigo C.…

HE FOUND his voice in the most unlikely of places – behind bars. The chants, the beats and the haunting a cappella sounds of prison songs inspired the young felon and drug addict and helped him realise he had to turn his life around. In fact, the music made such an impression on Samkelo Mdolomba that he joined an a cappella singing group soon after he was released from jail in 2000 and returned to school – and he hasn’t looked back since. That group of talented teens – consisting of Samkelo, Buhlebendalo Mda, Ntsika Ngxanga and Luphindo Ngxanga – would go on to become the award-winning band The Soil, but without Samkelo. Throughout their time together the sounds Samkelo had heard during his two-month stint in jail for attempted…

GIVE him high heels, silk stockings and a feather boa and he’ll rock them effortlessly. Cover him in prison overalls and terrifying tattoos and he’ll become one of the most hardcore gangsters you’ve ever seen. Need someone to play a sappy bridegroom who tears up on command in a music video and he’s your guy. And if you’re looking for someone with a compelling voice to say “Give that man a Bells” in your whisky ad, he’ll rise to the occasion. Nothing is impossible for this actor who treats life like a stage and adapts to every situation as effortlessly as a chameleon. And right now Warren Masemola (34) is wowing South Africa in the biggest show on TV: SABC1’s Tjovitjo, the hard-hitting drama series that drew a staggering 5,7…

SHE’S so good at being bad in e.tv’s Scandal! that people often assume she’s like that in real life too. But KGOMOTSO CHRISTOPHER couldn’t be more different from her character, Yvonne. The actress, who recently joined hands with fellow actors to highlight the plight of male victims of abusive relationships, tells us some of the things we don’t know about her. I usually practise my lines . . . after winning the battle of bedtime with my kids at around 9pm. When there’s complete silence in the house I learn my lines via audio recordings. Jerry Mofokeng inspires me because . . . he’s the artist I always aspired to be – timeless yet contemporary, rooted in the influences of the past on his artistry yet completely a man of…