Innholdsfortegnelse for 22 October 2015 i Drum English

THERE’S a lot to be said for human resilience, faith and the power of prayer. This week the story of 15-year-old Fezile Hlophe (page 98) really tugged at our heart strings. Diagnosed with throat cancer before he even hit his teens, the handsome and smart young man from Soweto bravely battled this potentially life-threatening disease – until he beat it, proving the old adage true: cancer can be beaten. “Always believe you have the power to beat this thing,” is his sound advice on dealing with this life-changing diagnosis – advice that we can apply to anything in life, really. Fezile’s story of hope and triumph also serves to remind us that cancer affects us all – even if it doesn’t run in your family. With the warm, long summer…

In an effort to tackle corruption in the SAPS, the ANC has proposed that police officers be rotated around the country and not work at the same police station all the time. Do you think this move will help rid SAPS of corruption? XOLANI NKOSI NO This is just another empty promise by the Government to make people believe in the police system again. It won’t make a difference because crime will continue to escalate. Even if you rotate the police, it won’t stop them from behaving the same way in a different area. TEBATSO KOBELI YES This can put an end to corruption in the police force but police officers won’t get the opportunity to build a relationship with people in the communities they operate in. The police deal…

JUST one year after saying ‘I do’ in a lavish ceremony, it seems the cracks are already beginning to show. Social media has exposed a rather rocky situation at the home of our Home Affairs Minister, Malusi Gigaba. His wife Noma and another woman have been slinging insults at each other, and these recently reached a new and very public low. WAR OF WORDS Noma has apparently been waging a war of words with Buhle Mkhize, a fashion stylist currently based in New York who describes herself as a “glam guru”. The two women have been going at each other with guns blazing. It also appears that this battle over the minister has been going on for over a year now. Buhle took things to the next level when she…

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SICILIAN PASTA This easy-to-prepare dish is quick to make and packed with flavour. PREPARATION: 5 MIN COOKING: 15-20 MIN SERVES 4 500 g penne pasta45 ml (3 tbsp) olive oil2 cloves garlic, sliced6 anchovy fillets250 g baby tomatoes, quartered20 g rocketsalt and freshly ground pepper 1 Cook the pasta in boiling salted water until just done. Drain and set aside. 2 Heat the olive oil and sauté the garlic slices over low heat. Finely chop 3 anchovies and add to the pan. Fry until the garlic is golden and the anchovies begin to disintegrate. 3 Add the garlic and anchovy mixture to the cooked pasta and toss. 4 Chop the remaining anchovies and add to the pasta along with the baby tomato quarters and rocket. Toss to mix. 5 Season…

QI DON’T CLIMAX I’ve been sexually active since I was 20 but I cannot reach climax during lovemaking. I’ve tried four different partners but nothing’s changed. Is something wrong with me? I also want to start a family soon so will my problem affect my fertility? AYANDA A Women have difficulty climaxing during intercourse because the old in-and-out method just does not provide enough direct clitoral stimulation to get most women aroused. There is nothing wrong with this. It is perfectly normal. Also, you don’t need to be orgasmic to get pregnant. In your particular case, you might get that clitoral stimulation with the woman-on-top position. Spooning (side-by-side with your back to his chest) also allows men to provide direct clitoral stimulation quite easily. You can try oral sex or…

Many workers think meetings are a waste of time as they take them away from important tasks. So if you’re running a meeting, here are tips on how to make it count: 1 Draw up an agenda. Let colleagues who are attending the meeting know what to expect. Draw up an agenda including when the meeting will start and end and what will be discussed. Prepare for your meeting so you don’t go off-topic. 2 Have goals. Hold meetings to kickoff projects or make new announcements. Subsequent meetings should be used to review progress and hold each other accountable, instead of praising a few colleagues. 3 Keep it useful. Meetings should be about sharing and receiving information that’s useful to everyone. Give everyone an opportunity to speak. This will make…

GENERATIONS: THE LEGACY Angela (LEBOHANG MTHUNZI) isn’t ready to forgive and forget yet. Zola is devastated when he sees what’s inside the package he receives. Gadaffi’s off-hand remark makes his guest very suspicious. Lucy is furious when she figures out what her brother’s up to. Namhla’s had enough and tells Lesedi she’s on her own. RHYTHM CITY Thandeka promises Solomon that she’ll take control of Red. Fikile offers to help Mampho and Reneilwe with their plan. Thandeka tells Doc that the only way to keep Solomon (SEPUTLA SEBOGODI) off their backs is if she takes over the running of the company. Zinzi decides to go to Zer011 to tell David what she thinks of him and is surprised to see Bongi there with him. SCANDAL! Dintle has an unsettling encounter…

HE FLASHES a smile and greets us as he strolls into our Auckland Park offices one windy afternoon. He cuts a fine, relaxed figure in a pair of baggy black jeans, takkies and a black T-shirt. He’s just finished hosting his breakfast show, The Morning Fix, which he presents every weekday from 8 am to 10 am. Mo Flava, as he’s popularly known, is no stranger to radio. He was originally a host on YFM, but the job became bigger and better in April this year when he bagged the gig at Metro FM. MADE FOR MEDIA Born and bred in Dube, Soweto, Mo – whose real name is Moeti Tsiki – seems to be in his element on air. Apart from radio, he’s done some work on TV –…

TO BECOME a soccer referee is hard and physically demanding. Gruelling and intense endurance exercises test whether you have the ability to cover the 90 minutes required to handle a football match. Only a select few graduate to become the 23rd man on the field. Yet Fezile Hlophe is unfazed. The 15-year-old Emdeni High School pupil, who only three years ago was afflicted with cancer of the throat, is determined to beat the odds and become a professional referee. He has fully recovered to take his position in the centre of a football field where he referees matches in the ABC Motsepe League, the fourth tier of South African football. CANCER AWARENESS MONTH In a month dedicated to the awareness and fight against cancer, Fezile has emerged as a beacon…

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WANT to be like BEYONCÉ? Well, now you can, says her father, MATHEW KNOWLES. He’s offering a masterclass on how to be like Queen B. Mathew, who was instrumental in his daughter’s success, is offering a one-day boot camp for singers, producers and dancers How much will this set you back? You’ll pay R2 800 for a standard package and double for a VIP one, for which Mr Knowles will throw in a private lunch and photo opportunity with him. Why settle for only one Beyoncé, when we can get Bey-twicé too?…

A LESSON TO LEARN I guess there’s an important lesson for all celebrities to learn from Sfiso Ncwane’s feud with his mother (It’s War, 1 October). It was quite something when he gave an expensive Mercedes to his pastor, and it created a lot of publicity for him. But it didn’t take long before his mother and his baby’s mother told the world that his “charity” didn’t start at home. Any celebrity who chooses to follow in his footsteps has been warned – take care of your own first. SINDI, GERMISTON RETHINKING RACISM Racism is far from coming to an end. As long as we view one another differently - by the colour of our skin, opinions and reasoning - we can never treat one another as equals. One needs…

THE execution-style killing of businessman Wandile Bozwana (43) once again puts the spotlight on dodgy politics and murky tender allocations worth billions of rands in the North West. News of corruption has flown thick and fast from the province, often interspersed with reports of the deaths of politicians or government officials who have spoken out about procurement irregularities and tender fraud. Intimidation and death threats are the order of the day in a province that has the infamous record of allocating a tender for one of the most expensive roads – in Koster and just 50 km long but costing more than R250 million (R5 million per kilometre). National Spokesperson for the Congress of the People (Cope) Dennis Bloem says the assassination shows that the mafia is flourishing inside as…

THEO KGOSINKWE looks snazzy as he walks into our studios in matching denim jeans, shirt and All-Star sneakers. With him is his new protegé, Boitumelo “Melo” Lesejane. The 23-year-old was an Idols SA top 10 finalist in 2013, and when she was the first to leave that elite group in the competition, she thought it was the end of her music career. But unbeknown to Melo, someone had been watching and was ready to snatch this aspiring singer to join his record company. And that person is none other than the one half of the successful duo Mafikizolo, well-known for his enticing dance moves on stage and now owner of new music label 360 Degrees Entertainment. “It was a blessing in disguise when she didn’t win,” Theo laughs, but is…

EVERYONE seems to be talking about BB and CC creams, but are they really that important? Should you try them out, or are they just a foundation with a fancy new name? Let’s find out. BB CREAMS BB stands for blemish balm, and although some people say it’s just a tinted moisturiser, it offers a bit more. BB creams give you sun protection, clear blemishes and moisturise. Depending on your skin type and its condition, these creams can offer similar coverage to a foundation, but their most important characteristic is that they’re not as heavy on your skin. Their coverage also looks more natural and are better suited for dry skin. CC CREAMS CC stands for colour-correcting. These creams are seen as an improvement on BB Creams, although they don’t…

CLASSIC COMBO If choosing a colour scheme for a room makes you break out in a sweat, an easy rule of thumb is that if the colours go well together in nature, they’ll look great in your home. Think of the ocean when decorating with blue and white. 1 Blue walls anchor a calming, 2 neutral scheme. Blue works just as well on the 3 floor or ceiling as on the walls. Large pieces of furniture in a deep, rich blue automatically become the focal point of any room. 4 A blue and white theme pairs easily with many other colours such as green, orange and fuchsia pink to name a few. STOCKISTS @home 0860-666-674; Boardmans 0800-203-925; Coricraft 011-611-8700, 021-505-6640; Game 0861-4263-2273; Makro 0860-300-999; Mr Price Home 0800-212-535; PEP Home…

Q IN LOVE WITH MY ABUSIVE YOUNGER PARTNER I’m dying inside. I’m in love with a young guy who is 16 years my junior. We were together for four years. Please help me to forget him because now he treats me badly, but it’s so hard for me to leave him. OLDER WOMAN, SMS A It can be difficult to leave a relationship and the person you love - you always hope they will love you back and be the person you fell in love with. I really urge you to find your strength and the support you need to help you make the decision you seem to want to make: to leave him and forget about this relationship. Draw on your network of friends and family for support. Or,…

AS HE goes about his day at trendy eatery The Whippet in Linden, Randburg, Ofentse Morake does more than cook up a storm. As the Executive Chef Ofentse (27) oversees the preparation of all the dishes made by a team of chefs, and as Head of Product Development he researches global food and drinks trends to adapt them to the local consumer for an upcoming grab-and-go coffee and food company, FLIGHT Coffee. Ofentse was born in Ga-Rankuwa outside Pretoria, but grew up in Theresapark. He learnt how to cook by watching his mom and aunt prepare traditional Setswana food. Simple egg and pasta dishes were among the first meals he learnt to make. He now lives in Randburg and aims to be more than merely a skilled cook or culinary…

THE GLOVES are off and things are about to get worse for Suffocate (Mduduzi Mabaso), as his two wives, Puleng (TEBOGO KHALO) and Niki (NOLO PHIRI), battle it out as they share his sub-urban townhouse. And if that isn’t enough, there’s some mama drama. When Niki confronts Puleng’s mother, Cuba (MAGI NONINZI WILLIAMS), for meddling in their lives she makes a shocking discovery: Suffo and Puleng hooked up on his and Niki’s wedding night. But then Puleng finds out that Cuba has been using muthi to try and get her to conceive. It seems Cuba’s method works, but it could put Puleng in danger. Only time will tell what the consequences of ever-meddling Cuba’s actions will be. On the other side, Suffo remains mum about the steamy affair, but maybe…

TAKE OUR QUICK QUIZ 1. HOW MANY MAIN COLOURS ARE THERE IN A RAINBOW? A. Six B. Five C. Four D. Seven 2. WHAT IS A NÉGLIGÉE? A. A doll B. A nightgown C. A cake D. A dog 3. IN WHICH CITY WILL YOU FIND BUCKINGHAM PALACE? A. Newcastle B. Edgbaston C. London D. New Jersey 4. IN WHICH ROUND OF THE 2015 US OPEN DID TENNIS CHAMPION SERENA WILLIAMS LOSE? A. Quarterfinal B. First C. Final D. Semifinal 5. WHERE WILL YOU FIND THE VALLEY OF A THOUSAND HILLS? A. North West B. KwaZulu-Natal C. Limpopo D. East London 6. WHAT CHARACTERISTIC IS DISTINCTIVE TO DALMATIANS? A. Spots B. Stripes C. Moles D. Wrinkles 7. WHAT WAS ALBERT EINSTEIN’S MAIN FIELD OF EXPERTISE? A. Physics B. Economics C.…

So you’ve felt a wave of grief, anger, confusion, low self-esteem and maybe even jealousy all at once, thanks to your broken heart. But now you feel ready to hit the dating scene again and you’ve built up the confidence to ask a girl out. Here’s what to do: ON THE DATE: DO’S Try to be calm – nerves can come across as low-esteem, which can be a huge turn-off. Hold the door for her (it’s not sexist, it shows consideration). Pay for her if you asked her out (unless you both agreed to split the bill). Put your cellphone away so it doesn’t distract you, and annoy your date. Sell yourself, as in all the good bits and your favourite hobbies. But don’t be boastful. Be polite and considerate,…

FLIRTING, fashion and laughter were the order of the evening at the recent Gauteng Sports Awards, held at the Silverstar Casino in Krugersdorp. Sports Minister FIKILE “RAZZMATAZZ” MBALULA was his usual talkative and colourful self – he unwittingly spilled the beans on Robert Marawa and PEARL THUSI’S relationship when he joked that Robert should watch out because Pearl’s “cleavage is growing”. That must have annoyed the couple, who are keeping their relationship on the down-low. Despite reports that the pair is engaged and ready for lobolo negotiations, Pearl told us that “I’m not dating Robert”. Drama aside, the night had a few other noteworthy moments too. In an emotional tribute, former Springbok player JOOST VAN DER WESTHUIZEN, who is chronically ill with a motor neuron disease, was honoured and presented…

TENSIONS between LIL WAYNE and BIRDMAN are rising over claims that their joint record label owes Wayne money. Wayne and Birdman founded Cash Money together. Lil Wayne then started his own imprint, Young Money, of which he owns 49 % and Cash Money owns 51 %. Now Wayne claims that not only has Cash Money cheated him out of big bucks, it has also cheated his artists such as DRAKE, Nicki Minaj and Tyga too. He claims to have correspondence from the artists who believe they were short-changed. Nicki also claimed that producers of her album weren’t paid in full, something which is said to be Cash Money’s responsibility. Lil Wayne also alleges he’d been trying for years to sign a new talent, CHANEL WEST COAST, but Birdman keeps blocking…

THINGS are looking up for TONI BRAXTON. The singer has a popular reality show, a successful album and a tour with BABYFACE – and now a biopic of her life will be produced by US cable channel Lifetime. The lead actress who will play the R&B songstress has yet to be announced but what is certain is that Toni herself will be on hand to produce the film adaptation of her memoir, Un-Break My Heart. The movie will be about the ups and downs of the Grammy Award-winning singers’ career and personal life, including her struggle with lupus, financial woes, divorce and difficulties as a mom. Other actors linked to the film include SKYE P MARSHALL and TIFFANY HINES, who will play Toni’s sisters TOWANDA and Tamar respectively, and GAVIN…

THE BEST of Young Hollywood came to party at this year’s Teen Vogue Young Hollywood Issue party. From actors and actresses to musicians, the future of Hollywood didn’t disappoint on the red carpet. Bold prints dominated the event – actress KAT GRAHAM, model JASMINE SANDERS and AVA DASH rocked this ever-popular style. Kat nailed it when she paired her matching pants and coat with a crop top to show off her toned midriff, while Jasmine opted to show her trim back and legs in a jumpsuit. You’ve got a head start when your mother is fashion designer Rachel Roy; Ava didn’t set a fashion foot wrong with her bright ensemble. Rocking another popular trend this season – a jumpsuit – was actress AERIEL MIRANDA, who looked picture perfect. Though bright…

The article ANC Predator Dad (1 October) is a true picture of what’s happening in our society today. Sugar daddies are killing young women’s futures and the parents just turn a blind eye. Some mothers accept expensive gifts from their kids’ sugar daddies and don’t consider the effect this has on their children’s future. Parents should be encouraging us teen girls to concentrate on our studies and wait for the right time to engage in sexual relationships. Teaching us to be gold-diggers won’t get us anywhere and it doesn’t help that these mothers are children themselves. Sadly, most of the fathers don’t take responsibility for supporting their offspring. All children should be guided and their education must be made the No 1 priority. Down with sugar daddies! NANCY KUBU, E-MAIL…

HELL hath no fury like a “Madame Gigi” scorned, it seems. It looks like Somizi “Madame Gigi” Mhlongo’s gay lover, Themba Zuma, was having his bread buttered on both sides – secretly having a love affair with a woman while still in a relationship with Somizi. The popular Idols SA judge apparently saw red when he came across raunchy messages Themba exchanged with the mystery woman. He allegedly called the woman and made it clear to her that Themba was his man and that she should leave him alone. According to her, the news came as a total shock. LOVE TRIANGLE DRUM tracked down the woman involved in the love triangle (only known as Tshidi) and she confirms she was madly in love with Themba but had no choice but…

PORTIA’S STORY Portia Matuludi (30) is a project manager and lives in Vosloorus on the East Rand. Her boyfriend, Fanele Mabuza, wrote to us: “Portia has a promising career. Her job requires her to always be elegantly dressed because she manages staff, trains interns, oversees students’ progress and organises functions. I see her struggling to put together an outfit every day and eventually settle for black clothes, which comprises 80 % of her wardrobe. A makeover will be a good guideline for her.” PORTIA’S REACTION “The makeover was magic! I still can’t believe it’s me. I loved my eyebrows and my hair pulled back. Black will always be a favourite colour, but I now have other ideas on how to mix and match and still keep my look professional and…

FLAKY PASTRY CHICKEN GIZZARD PIE Making puff pastry doesn’t need to be time consuming. Try this simple method. PREPARATION: 20 MIN COOKING: 50 MIN SERVES 4–6 375 ml (1 ½ cups) flourpinch of salt160 g butter30 ml (2 tbsp) water FILLING 1 onion, finely chopped1 clove garlic400 g chicken gizzards, cooked250 g chicken hearts2 sprigs thyme250 g mushrooms, sliced250 ml (1 cup) chicken stock30 ml (2 tbsp) floursalt and pepper Preheat oven to 180 °C and line a baking sheet with baking paper. 1 In a mixing bowl, add the flour and salt together. Then rub in half the butter until it resembles breadcrumbs. Add the water and knead until a soft dough forms. 2 Roll out the dough in the shape of a rectangle. Cut the remaining butter into…

Q BLOOD IN MY URINE I’m 32 and 20 weeks pregnant. I went to the clinic and when the nurse tested my urine she said there’s blood in it. What could be the cause? SINDISWA, E-MAIL A Next time you’re at the doctor, don’t leave without getting answers if something’s unclear. In your case, being pregnant with blood in the urine could be anything from inflammation to infection to a new growth that might or might not be cancerous. It could also be early signs of an incomplete abortion, even though the amount blood isn’t visible to the naked eye. Having blood in the urine while pregnant needs vigorous attention and action. If you have to wait for a response from a medical column it may be too late. Whatever…

QUALITIES NEEDED The most important are passion, creativity, skill, patience, determination, attitude, drive, sacrifice and a strong work ethic. QUALIFICATIONS You need matric and a City & Guilds food preparation and culinary arts qualification, and at least three years’ practical chef’s experience in a top kitchen. Capsicum offers part- and full-time courses. A one-year certificate in food preparation and cooking costs R47 000 full time and R39 000 part time. They also offer a two-year City & Guilds combination programme in culinary arts (R168 000). The HTA School of Culinary Art offers a two-year diploma in food preparation and culinary arts at around R123 000. CAREER PROSPECTS The starting level in this profession is referred to as a commis chef. The next level is a chef de partie and head…

THE ENGLISH dictionary defines adultery as “consensual sexual intercourse between a married person and a person other than their spouse”. The Bible warns about the dangers of adultery in Proverbs 7:7-23: If you fall into the trap of adultery, you are like an ox going to the slaughter or a bird flying right into a snare. When you commit adultery, you pay with your own life. SWEET DECEPTION Proverbs 9:17-18 reads: “[17] Stolen water is sweet and bread eaten in secret is pleasant. [18] But little do they know that the dead are found there.” In other words, adultery is pleasant, even more pleasant than marital intimacy, but at the same time it is deadly, and those who practice it are digging a grave for themselves. A PRICE TO PAY…

SCORPIO OCT 23 – NOV 21 The Scorpio time of the year is rapidly approaching and it’s soon time to party and celebrate your birthday. As someone who doesn’t go for half measures, you might want to get your friends together and have a proper bash. This is also an appropriate time to make positive changes in your life, whether on a professional or personal level. The process of transformation might have to start with some cleaning out. YOUR LUCKY NUMBERS 34, 10, 5, 31, 22, 2 SAGITTARIUS Nov 22 – Dec 20 If you play your cards right in the professional arena, this could be a time of material abundance. Make an effort to focus on your goals, optimise opportunities and make friends instead of enemies. On the topic…

LOCAL IS LEKKER Originally from Pietermaritzburg, Candice (34) moved to America when she was 19 to work as an au pair. After settling in sunny Los Angeles, she’s now a singer-songwriter, and has an album called The Mood Kill. HER BREAKTHROUGH The leggy beauty took up acting and modelling while waiting for a lucky break. “I kept writing and singing, working hard to survive. Things weren’t always easy; there were times when I didn’t even have a place to stay.” DUETS WITH DR. DRE She worked with Dre on his first album in 16 years for the remake of Straight Outta Compton, appearing on the track Medicine Man, which also features Eminem. “I bumped into Dre . . . and was floored. We started talking about music and he asked…

WHAT’S IT ABOUT? Meet Malcolm (played by Shameik Moore), a geek who lives with his single mom in the rough neighbourhood of Inglewood, Los Angeles in California. With dreams of attending Harvard and an obsession with ’90s hip-hop, Malcolm almost automatically becomes a target for bullies. When Malcolm isn’t fantasising about his neighbourhood crush (Mad Max star Zoë Kravitz), he’s often surrounded by his fellow dweebs: a lesbian named Diggy (Extant break-out star Kiersey Clemons) and a smart mouth named Jib (played by Tony Revolori). A$AP Rocky, (real name Rakim Mayers), makes his first big screen appearance as Dom, a gun-toting drug dealer who also grew up in downtown Los Angeles and befriends Malcolm and his posse of BFFs. ROCKY’S ROLE A$AP Rocky was cast after helping then-girlfriend Chanel Iman…

MODEL and hip-hop artist AMBER ROSE recently broke down on stage at a SlutWalk – a protest that spreads the message that it’s inexcusable for women to be subject to sexual violence based on their appearance. She also took the chance to speak about her ex-husband, rapper WIZ KHALIFA, and ex-boyfriend KANYE WEST “slut shaming” her. Wiz rapped in his song For Everybody that Amber was “just a stripper”, while Kanye said in an interview that he had to take 30 showers after dating Amber before Kim Kardashian would consider dating him. Amber indicated that Wiz had apologised and that she’s forgiven him. She’s even posted a picture on both Instagram and Twitter of them cosying up to each other – could they have got back together?…

WHEN Top Gun actor TOM CRUISE failed to pitch at his daughter’s wedding, the rumour mill went into overdrive. However, it turns out none of the parents were invited to the wedding. According to reports, 22-year-old BELLA CRUISE and her husband, Max Parker, wanted an intimate gathering with only a few friends at the swanky Dorchester hotel in London, England. The Mission Impossible star is said to have been okay with his adopted daughter’s decision and even footed the bill for the wedding. Not only is WILL SMITH back in the studio working on new material, but he’ll set off on a world tour with DJ Jazzy Jeff. “I’m popping into the studio every day and am looking for artists to collaborate with,” he says. “I’ve probably recorded 30 songs.…