Innholdsfortegnelse for 08-Jun-17 i Drum English

A chain of domestic violence events led to the death of Karabo Mokoena (We can’t say goodbye, 25 May). Men teach this language of violence to their children when they turn their wives and/or girlfriends into punching bags. Unlearning this culture of violence is a mammoth task, but worth the effort. A generation of young children is at risk of following in violent adults’ footsteps as violence begets more violence. Following #MenAreTrash, as men and women, we once more step into the corridors of ignorance as spectators – folding our arms while the Karabos of the world are victimised when, for a change, we shouldn’t be minding our own business. May the Mokoenas find strength during their time of bereavement. SANDILE NTULI, E-MAIL The abuse of women didn’t start today,…

BONGI NDLAZILWANA TSAMANE Yassssss my Queen B – bag it, boo . . . You deserve all the good things coming your way, but we still want you on radio! MAMOKGETLE OLGA MATHESU Only women will be negative towards the success of another woman. All this post is saying is that Bonang got a new job, and instead of congratulating her, we hear things that have absolutely nothing to do with the news. Will the pull-her-down syndrome among women ever end? To Bonang “Queen B” Matheba, your good work and authenticity keep you standing. There will always be haters but you can’t keep a good woman down. RAMUKOBELO RAMUDZUWA There’s something about Bonang that emancipates a person. BRAIGHTON BRITSO GUMBO Why are people saying there are no jobs when it…

The “controllers”: Zuma, Atul, Ajay and Rajesh Gupta. They are responsible for securing access to and maintaining control over South Africa’s resources. The elite: Ace Magashule, premier of the Free State; Mosebenzi Zwane, minister of mineral resources; Malusi Gigaba, minister of finance; Brian Molefe, CEO of Eskom; and Anoj Singh, CFO of Eskom. The elite are responsible for establishing networks of patronage to ensure the distribution of benefits for the controllers. For example, the report says, the appointment of Gigaba as minister of public enterprises in 2010 was to allow the deployment of Zuma allies Brian Molefe and Anoj Singh at Transnet and Eskom to “prise open” opportunities to exploit control at these organisations. The brokers: Iqbal Sharma, chairperson of Transnet’s board tender committee; Salim Essa, a Gupta business associate;…

A double-breasted jacket creates an instant smart look. Add a tailored blouse to the ensemble for a feminine touch. When choosing a shift dress opt for one that’s tailored around your waistline – it’ll enhance your curves. If you are short have tailored pants altered in-store for a better fit. If your tailored jacket doesn’t fit snugly over the shoulders – have it altered. The length of the sleeves can be adjusted too.…

RED WINE Dab, don’t rub, the stain with a clean, damp cotton cloth to absorb any excess wine. Then put the stained portion of the garment over an empty bowl, secure with a rubber band and sprinkle a generous portion of salt on the stain. Pour hot water over the area and let the stained section soak in the salt and water for a few minutes. Clean the salt off. LIPSTICK Dishwashing liquid is made to clean greasy dishes so it’s perfect for oily lipstick stains. Blot the stain with a paper towel, then cover it with dishwashing liquid and leave to soak for 15 minutes. Rinse with water. SWEAT Rid white shirts of unsightly armpit stains (caused by deodorant and sweat) by applying a paste made of lemon juice…

‘Trust is fragile, and most people seem to forget a relationship without it is doomed‘ I DON’T TRUST HIM  Q I’m 26 and dating a 35-year-old man. We’ve been living together for three years but I found out last year he was talking to his ex-girlfriend on WhatsApp. I asked him to stop and he promised to tell her not to contact him any more, but they continued chatting. One day I pretended to be my boyfriend and talked to the girl on WhatsApp. Shortly after she stopped calling him, but it didn’t last long and he didn’t tell me they were in contact again. I don’t trust him but I love him. NM, E-MAIL A Trust is fragile, and most people seem to forget a relationship without it is doomed.…

FAMOUS GEMINIS KANYE WEST 8 JUNE TD JAKES 9 JUNE SASHA OBAMA 10 JUNE JORJA SMITH 11 JUNE BRYAN HABANA 12 JUNE DONALD TRUMP 14 JUNE MAKING AND MANAGING MONEY Gemini likes talking about making money more than actually earning it. Spends cash on books and gadgets. Having cash means having choices. Gemini might be a sucker for a get-rich-quick scheme. When it comes to money, it’s a matter of easy come, easy go. Gemini has a flair for commerce and a head for business. Gemini has many different strands of income. GEMINI 21 MAY – 20 JUN With both the sun and Mercury travelling through your sign, life should be running on all cylinders. Whether in your career, on a social level or in your personal life, things should…

FOLLOWING in the footsteps of a parent who’s a sports legend is no easy task – especially when he’s regarded as one of the finest fast bowlers South Africa has ever produced. Masimphuthando Ntini is only too aware of the expectation that’s been heaped on his shoulders and he feels the weight of the pressure every time he walks onto a cricket pitch. Being the son of Makhaya Ntini might be a lot to deal with but he’s learning to cope with all the comparisons. “This is my name and I can’t change it,” Thando says matter-of-factly. “The most important thing is that it doesn’t affect my game.” And so far he seems to be doing a good job of keeping cool, calm and collected. Thando was selected for the…

IF YOU didn’t have a chance to sit down and watch the South African Music Awards, fear not – DRUM has you covered! Our gorgeous pictures starting on page 80 will allow you to take in all the outfits, hairdos, accessories and super smiles to your heart’s content. Of course, we also love the fact there’s so much talent on display and the music was a showcase of South Africa’s finest. Let us know what your favourite performance and outfits were by dropping an e-mail to letters@drum.co.za Another celebration of beauty and talent is Jessica Nkosi, the cover star of our new edition of DRUM Hair. The actress talks wigs and weaves in the latest offering of this award-winning magazine – and shows off a stunning array of styles that’ll…

THEY waited for months to see her strumming her guitar, because, like them, she was a small-town girl – but she had made it big. Thanks to her electrifying stage presence and beautiful voice, Bulelwa Mkutukana, better known as Zahara, has even been compared to the legendary Brenda Fassie. And like MaBrrr, she’s no stranger to controversy: in the latest drama to surround the songbird, she has been accused of squandering a R2 million donation meant for school uniforms for poor school children in Phumlani village in the Eastern Cape, where she grew up. But Zahara (28), who has recently made headlines with rumours she’s practically bankrupt, denies the allegation. When the celebrated singer hosted a sports day sponsored by the department of arts and culture for school children in…

JANET Jackson has done it, as have Halle Berry and Mariah Carey – and she sees no reason why she can’t do it too. Candy “Tsa Mandebele” Mokwena is talking about having a baby after 40 and she’ll join the ranks of the older moms, she says determinedly. “I’m a healthy 47, so it’s not too late for me to have another child,” she tells us exclusively. After months of denying she’s in a relationship, singing sensation and 2017 South African Music Awards nominee Candy is finally opening up about the man she’s been secretly dating for eight years. But first the mother of two, who’s never been married, wants to walk down the aisle and wed her 35-year-old businessman bae, who she prefers not to name. “When I was…

NOMBULELO SOKOYI Age: 29 From: Thokoza, Johannesburg Occupation: Merchandiser DARING DREADS Dreads can be styled so many ways – contrary to the popular belief that they’re not versatile. And if you’ve run out of styles, you can always add colour for a totally different look. STYLIST SAYS Nombulelo’s blonde colour wasn’t looking vibrant and didn’t suit her skin tone, so we added a pop of rusty red that was bright but not too shocking. The colour goes well with her skin tone. – Thato TIP Ask your stylist for advice on hair colours that suit your skin tone. You may find the colour you want doesn’t actually complement your complexion. TRY THESE PRODUCTS TIP Dreadlocks can suffer from colour damage, so ensure you treat them regularly after colouring Black Like…

TIP  If you’re going to apply wallpaper yourself, avoid the ones with intricate details. If the pattern on one roll of wallpaper needs to align perfectly with the next roll it’s best to leave it to the professionals. To perk up a smaller room, choose wallpaper with a light background – it will make the space look bigger. TIP  Flower patterns can be a bit too feminine, so be sure about the type of wallpaper you want to put up in large rooms like the TV room. Stick to botanical patterns like large leaves or branches instead. Smaller flowers can look too busy so it’s better to use these in small rooms like a guest toilet. STOCKISTS Dream Weaver Studios 011 262 4946, dreamweaverstudios.co.za; Hertex 021-914-3390, hertex.co.za; Off the Wallpapers…

‘Menopause is not seasonal so you can battle it at any time. As your oestrogen levels begin to drop, many menopausal symptoms are unpleasant’ WHEN WILL I OVULATE?  Q I’m 28, have irregular periods and I’m also HIV-positive. I want a baby, so how can I work out what my ovulation date is so I can become pregnant? DIMAKATSO, SMS A It’s very difficult to work out your ovulation date when you have irregular periods. A doctor needs to know your medical history, including the dates of your period for at least the past three months and any medication you’ve been taking. You’re probably experiencing what is known as dysfunctional uterine bleeding, so further tests like blood tests to check your hormones and an ultrasound of the abdomen to check for…

1 The Compton rapper is ruling the charts with his fourth hit album, Damn. – it topped the US Billboard 200 album chart. He made Billboard history when he became the first artist to score nine concurrent songs in the top 10 of the On-Demand Streaming Songs chart. 2 The album features collabs with big names like U2 and Rihanna. 3 Damn. shows some introspection. “Damn. is the idea of ‘I can’t change the world until I change myself’,” Kendrick says. “So when you listen to records like Pride., Humble., Lust. and Love., they’re all just human emotions and me looking in the mirror and coming to grips with them.” 4 He faced backlash with the video for Humble.: He’s dressed as the pope and sits at Jesus’ spot at…

TRENDS EDGY EMBELLISHMENTS / SPOTLIGHT GIRL POWER! WHICH SUPERHEROINE ARE YOU? / UNCOVERED GET TO KNOW KAIEN CRUZ My favourite acting role was Max in Saints and Sinners. This character was mischievous, corrupt and very unpredictable – the typical class clown/ cool kid. It’s also my favourite role because director Denny Miller gave me the freedom to take the character where I wanted to, which helped me grow immensely as an actor. A cellphone, my mini library including my Bible, and vegetable seeds to plant food are the three things I’d take to a deserted island. Advice to my 17-year-old self: You think you might have it all figured out, but you don’t. Be patient. There’s more to come. Ous’ Marjorie Langa, who plays my mom (Gloria Legae)…

Mostly A’s WONDER WOMAN A true leader with confidence and a go-getter with a strong personality – this would typically describe you. You use your persuasiveness and wisdom to keep control of stuff in your space. You love spending time with all your friends and family – and, just like Wonder Woman, you’re not afraid to speak your mind. Mostly B’s HARLEY QUINN You totes have a bit of Harley in you – unpredictable, kind of disorganised and sometimes a clown. You love messing around in class and you’re confident enough to be the centre of attention as you try out a new joke, even if no one gets it! Mostly C’s SUPERGIRL You’re happy-go-lucky, optimistic and sweet just like Supergirl. Sometimes you’re a little clumsy, but you learn from…

LET’S UNITE AGAINST VIOLENCE NOT a day goes by that we don’t hear or read about the horrendous murder of women and children. What gives me chills at night is the kidnappings, rapes and killings of women and children (We can’t say goodbye, 25 May). Women used to run to men for protection but now we even fear those closest to us. And what’s painful is that there are some men who think it’s a woman’s fault – “She doesn’t dress properly,” they say or “She must have done something”. This is the mindset that’ll destroy many people. No one deserves to be murdered, no matter what they’ve done. This is a plea to men who see a need to kill women: please don’t kill us. If a woman has…

WHOLE FISH IN GINGER AND SOY When you buy a whole fish, make sure it’s fresh. To test for freshness, poke the fish with your finger – it should spring back. PREPARATION: 10 MIN COOKING: 20 MIN SERVES 4 1 whole yellowtail 60 ml (¼ cup) oil 3 cm fresh ginger, finely julienned 60 ml (¼ cup) water 1 ml (¼ tsp) salt 2,5 ml (½ tsp) sugar 60 ml (¼ cup) soy sauce pinch of white pepper 3 spring onions, sliced handful coriander, chopped 1 red chilli, chopped Preheat oven to 200 °C. 1 Remove any scales, especially on the belly, the edges, the head and tail, using a sharp knife. 2 Cut off any fins with kitchen scissors. Leave the tail and head intact for presentation purposes. Slit…

ANTIVIRUS SOFTWARE It’s becoming both easier and more popular to do your banking on your phone – but you have to make sure it’s safe. All major South African banks offer anti-virus software you can download from your app store. For example, Nedbank uses Trusteer Rapport and Absa and FNB use Trend Micro. These programs safeguard computers, tablets and smartphones. The software is usually free for the first year but after that your bank might charge an admin fee. SIM SWOPS Fraudsters contact your cellphone provider and tell them you need a new SIM card. Your cellphone is linked to the new number and the network blocks your old SIM. Now all SMSes sent to your cell number go to the new SIM – including those from your bank. If…

ISIDINGO Nikiwe disappoints Gabriel when she tells him how she really feels. The short-listed candidates for the caretaker position are announced and Nkadimeng urges Sechaba to swallow his pride and take the money. Meanwhile, Georgie (DARLINGTON MICHAELS) and Obakeng return to a stiff reception. Gabriel is apologetic about what happened and wants it to stay under wraps. GENERATIONS: THE LEGACY Cosmo (RONNIE NYAKALE) is worried about his sister’s sinister plans. The Morokas rally to support Mazwi, while the baby’s true saviour is isolated. Doctor Lebese warns that Rorisang is not out of the woods yet. Jack’s suggestion leaves Tebogo reeling, while Namhla tells Detective Roberts she’s done. Lucy hates having to grovel but realises she has no choice. SCANDAL! Quinton manages to talk someone off the ledge, and Boniswa (LUSANDA…

1 Even though the 18-year-old opened with Sketchy Bongo and the Wolfpack for Justin Bieber on his recent tour to Mzansi, she didn’t get to meet him! “Opening for Justin Bieber was insane; the energy in the crowd was crazy, it made me feel so hyped even when I got off stage. I didn’t meet him but he was around us a few times,” she says. 2 What’s it like working with Sketchy? “Working with him and the rest of the Wolfpack is something I didn’t expect would happen, but I’m glad it did because it’s been amazing so far. I’ve learnt a lot and continue to learn every time we’re together, whether it’s musically or just life lessons,” she dishes. 3 She’s a small-town girl destined for big things.…

YOU FIRST, NO YOU FIRST A pregnant woman wants her child to have very good manners. Every night before bed she rubs her stomach and says: “Be kind, be kind.” Nine months come and go and she doesn’t have the baby. She refuses to have doctors examine her because it’s against her beliefs. She dies at 70 and still hasn’t given birth. The mystery is solved when doctors examine her. Inside her womb they find two little men saying to each other: “No, brother, after you . . .” TAKING IT LITERALLY A panda walks into a bar and after thinking it over, the bartender lets him stay. The panda eats his dinner and asks for the bill. He looks at the bill, nods his head and shoots the waiter…

AMFAR GALA STAR LOOK Va-va-voom! Nicki Minaj was superglam in a Roberto Cavalli Couture gown at the amfAR Gala in Cannes. The beading, the ruffles, the lace, the flawless face and the super-long locks – all on point.…