Innholdsfortegnelse for 02-Feb-17 i Drum English

PAPAS TSOTETSI YES If you’re a Christian, you must accept the whole Bible and not cherry-pick the parts that work for you or your lifestyle. The Bible also hits out against sex outside of marriage, but you don’t see people who indulge in this sin walk out of a service when a pastor touches on this subject. The pastor is someone who preaches the gospel; they can’t change verses to accommodate Somizi. HENRY CANNALLIANCE MNGOMEZULU NO Not everything written in the Bible is right. The Bible is antihomosexual and “instructs” that gays be “killed”. To me, that’s wrong. Elijah killed Baal’s prophets for their beliefs – also wrong; and Jesus was killed for his deeds – wrong. I’m not gay but I don’t like the slamming of gays. Let people…

‘It wasn’t taken seriously at home, but I was really hurt’ LATE BLOOMERS are proof that with a bit of time and determination you can achieve wonders. Just look at Uzalo actress Dawn Thandeka King. The 39-year-old entered the world of showbiz only in 2012, playing a domestic worker on Mzansi Magic telenovela iNkaba. But she really caught our attention when she took on the part of Lindiwe Xulu, the wife of self-made gangster Muzi Xulu on the most-watched drama in the country, Uzalo. Now she’s the leading lady on Mzansi Magic’s new all-female prison drama series, Lockdown. It’s similar to the American hit show Orange is the New Black. Despite all this new-found fame, we discover the bubbly actress has managed to stay grounded. Unlike some stars who will…

OVER THE years she tried almost everything to shed the kilos: the liquid protein diet, where she “literally starved myself” for months; the no-white diet that cut out milk, flour, salt and sugar; and the acacia berry diet that involved taking supplements to stave off hunger. But every time the weight came steadily creeping back. Oprah Winfrey, the world’s most famous talk show host and one of the most successful businesswomen the planet has ever seen, just couldn’t win when it came to the battle of the bulge. But this time she believes she’s done it. The 63-year-old mogul is a svelte size 12 after shedding 20 kg – without depriving herself. Oprah joined Weight Watchers 18 months ago, the popular diet programme that’s been around since 1963, and was…

BEFORE YOU START Start with a base coat. Paint a solid colour over the nail and let it dry. You can use any colour as a base but the colours of the art must be bright and distinct. Keep nail polish remover and a cotton bud close by to correct any mistakes. Use a toothpick, hairpin or dotting tool to make dots and lines. EASY POLKA DOT Start by making the bigger dots randomly, leaving space in between. Fill these spaces with smaller dots. Use two or three different colours. Wait for the dots to dry then apply a top coat to seal in the layers and add shine. TRICKY BOW Make a dot in the middle of the nail then draw four lines on either side of the circle…

I DON’T TRUST HIM Q I’m a 30-year-old woman with five kids and recently met a 47-year-old man with three kids. He says he truly loves me and is willing to marry me. But there are women who call him whenever I’m with him. When I ask him about it he says that’s his past, but he entertains them on WhatsApp. We fought a month ago over that but he maintains I’m his woman. I really love him but I barely trust him. MOYO, E-MAIL A Trust is one of the cornerstones of a relationship. It won’t survive other challenges without it. It isn’t fair that you have to deal with your partner entertaining past girlfriends while he claims to want to have a future with you. If he’s stuck…

STATISTICS show that more than 140 million children around the world are orphans. The absence of fathers in particular might produce broken, angry and bitter adults. It is not God’s design for any child to grow up without a father. FATHER TO THE FATHERLESS Psalm 68:5 says of God: “A father to the fatherless, a defender of widows, is God in his holy dwelling.” This is good news to anyone who has been abandoned by or who has lost their biological father - you do not have to remain fatherless. MAKE GOD YOUR GUIDE John 1:12-13 teaches the following: “But as many as received Him, to them He gave the right to become children of God, even to those who believe in His name, who were born, not of blood…

PARTING SHOT A husband is desperate to end an argument that he and his wife have been having, so he offers to buy her a new car. She refuses his offer, saying, “That’s not quite what I had in mind.” The desperate man then offers her a new house. Again she rejects his offer: “That’s not quite what I had in mind.” Curious, he asks, “What exactly did you have in mind?” “I’d like a divorce,” she replies. “I hadn’t planned on spending quite that much,” he says. THAT’S THE SPIRIT! Before performing a baptism, a priest approaches the young father and says solemnly: “Baptism is a serious step – are you prepared for it?” “I think so,” the man replies. “My wife has made snacks and we have a…

TSIKI TSIKI hitmaker DUNCAN MBAMBO truly believes the hand that gives is blessed. Recently, the rapper bought groceries for a young boy, SPHELELE MDITSHWA, who was begging on the streets near Gateway Mall in Umhlanga. Duncan was leaving the mall with a friend when they noticed the 14-year-old asking for money. “At first I thought he was one of those street kids who’ve run away from home to be beggars in town,” the rapper tells us. But Duncan’s friend started questioning Sphelele asking why he wanted money. “He told us he wants to buy food. We gave him the money and warned him not to buy drugs,” he explains. As they were leaving, Sphelele kneeled down and prayed – a gesture that moved Duncan to approach the child again. “He…

HAMBA KAHLE, THANDI KLAASEN She was said to be the late Nelson Mandela’s favourite singer, but Thandi Klaasen also entertained many jazz-lovers around the world (Time to say goodbye, 26 January). Not only was she a great singer, “she was the embodiment of triumph over adversity” as the BBC described her. Thandi racked up many accolades, including South Africa’s highest award, and her soft, warm voice will be sorely missed. May she rest in peace! BRENDA RABOTHU, E-MAIL BORN-FREES IN INVISIBLE CELL What can compare to the uncertainty of not knowing which direction your life is going? When you’ve dropped out of university – with no qualification – have no family to turn to for assistance and experience constant rejection at job interviews, the cold world becomes more menacing when…

‘Things are not looking good at all, the boy is really sick’ MZANSI IS still mourning the untimely passing in December of legendary singer Sfiso Ncwane – now fans are confronting the fact that gospel’s prodigal son, Lundi Tyamara – who’s been in hospital for two months – is seriously ill. Photos of the fragile-looking crooner recently went viral on social media, prompting an outpour of sympathy and get-well wishes from industry friends and other prominent figures, including EFF chief Julius Malema. But the sickly singer is determined to fight for his life and has even penned a new song from his hospital bed detailing his experience. “He’s working on a single called Nomakwenzekani Empilweni yam (No matter what happens in my life). However, at this stage I can’t confirm…

INDIAN CHICKPEA AND BUTTERNUT CURRY The korma paste used in this dish adds the spice and fragrance that this laid-back creamy vegetable curry needs. PREPARATION: 10 MIN COOKING: 45 MIN SERVES 4 15 ml (1 tbsp) oil 2 onions, chopped 3 cloves garlic, chopped handful coriander, chopped 400 g butternut, cubed 30 ml (2 tbsp) korma paste 400 g can chickpeas 400 g can coconut milk 400 ml water salt handful spinach 125 ml (½ cup) frozen peas 250 ml (1 cup) basmati rice, cooked 1 Heat the oil in a large, deep pan and cook the onions, garlic and coriander over low heat for 10 minutes until soft. 2 Add the butternut and continue to cook for 5 minutes. Add the korma paste and cook for about a minute,…

MY PERIODS HAVE STOPPED Q I’m 22, and have not had my period for four months. I also feel pain in my uterus. I took four pregnancy tests, but they were all negative. Is this normal? SAMKELISIWE, SMS A It isn’t normal for a woman of your age to miss a period without there being a physiological or pathological explanation. Pregnancy is just one possible cause of not having your period. It could be caused by anything from emotional or physical stress, drastic weight loss and vigorous exercise to an underactive thyroid, PCOS (polycystic ovarian syndrome), the effects of prolonged oral or injectable contraceptive use, excessive male hormones or tumours of the pituitary (the gland in the brain responsible for hormonal balance), which increase the production of prolactin levels. A…

GENERATIONS: THE LEGACY Zitha uses a clever tactic to buy time. Gadaffi (VUYO DABULA) is delighted to hear about his ex-wife’s woes. Wandile saves the day. Nolwazi’s dreams are shattered. Mazwi is determined to forget the love of his life. Nelisiwe has good and bad news. Tshidi turns to her ex. Jack tries to lure the Moroka heir. Things go very wrong for Lesedi. Mrekza manages to worm his way into S’khaftin Chicken. MUVHANGO Vusi’s secret breaks Thandaza. Mulimisi puts his fate in Azwindini’s hands. Thandaza continues to go behind Vusi’s back. KK (MACDONALD NDOU) causes trouble in the royal house. Katlego’s family won’t let Thandaza push them around. Nonny comes clean to Pule. Katlego and Vusi’s relationship starts to crack. James is intent on celebrating Busi’s graduation and there’s…

‘There was very little talk among the men’ ‘When they finally reached the vessel they would be sailing on, the men were breathless with joy’ IT WAS a glorious day, the sun massaging the men of the Fifth Battalion’s faces with its fingers of warmth as they stood at attention, in full uniform, at the Depot in Cape Town. It was 16 January 1917. A cool morning breeze blew from the sea. A group of seagulls hovered above the water, occasionally swooping to the ground below to fight over a morsel of food. There was very little talk among the men as they made their way towards the dock, laden with their kit. The boisterousness that had characterised their departure from their towns and villages, the loud mayhem they had…

WITH her signature long red braids and barefoot performances, the red-locked queen, better known as Lady X, is unmissable. Born Xolisa Mvula, the star who hails from Port Elizabeth made waves with her debut single, Zono Zininzi, last year. This year she’s set to release her first album, and we can’t wait! We find out more about the feisty fashionista. Why do you perform without shoes? It centres me and it’s the only way I can truly be me, give my all on stage and to my audience. I’m free when I’m barefoot – free to connect with my audience, my music and with myself. You’re quite the fashionista. What are your favourite accessories? My favourite accessories will always be my neckpieces. I collect them from every African country and…

PRODUCTION CONSULTANT: SAM COWEN The author and broadcaster started her career at Primedia Broadcasting on radio station 702. She later moved to sister station 94.7 to co-present Joburg’s biggest breakfast show, where she spent 18 years. PSYCHOLOGIST: NEO PULE Specialising in relationships and family dynamics, Neo is a counselling psychologist registered with the Health Professions Council of South Africa. She has a degree in counselling psychology and is studying towards her doctorate. She works in private practice in Sunnyside, Pretoria. RELATIONSHIP SPECIALIST: PAULA QUINSEE With a BA degree in marketing and 14 years of experience in the field, Paula is also a relationship expert, facilitator and life coach. She teaches individuals and organisations the importance of healthy relationships by using emotional intelligence. SEXOLOGIST: PROFESSOR SHINGAI MUTAMBIRWA Professor Mutambirwa is the…

AFRO-POP singing sensation KELLY KHUMALO’s life is currently on a high: her new album, My Truth, is getting major airplay on radio stations and she’s bagging gigs left, right and centre. The star is in her element and it seems part of the reason Kelly is so happy is because she apparently has a new bae, MARVIN COHEN. He’s the producer of SABC1’s music show LiveAmp. They’ve apparently been dating for a couple of months but haven’t gone public with the relationship. “Kelly and Marvin are so in love, and they have been for a while. Initially people thought she was dating his friend, producer and voiceover artist Wenzile Dlamini (known popularly as Sjulad), but that’s not the case. Kelly is dating Marvin,” a source close to the pair reveals.…

THE RECENT announcement by Fifa that the number of teams at the 2026 World Cup will be increased to 48 brought great jubilation around the world and in Africa, in particular. But before anyone gets too excited, fans of the beautiful game should be hoping that the African soccer federations get their houses in order long before the event. There’s no doubt that there’s a lot of talent on the continent, as Nigeria showed by winning a silver medal at the past Olympics. But unless the soccer administrators start running a tight, organised ship, all that will happen is that more African countries will have embarrassing stories of not paying players; there will be no flights to get players to the tournament or there will be a lack of kits…

‘My body was shivering, I thought my child was dead’ IT WAS an unforgettable month for the Pitso family, one that changed their lives forever. In June 2014 their little boy, who was then only two years old, was allegedly run over by a neighbour. Now the family claims Bokamoso Pitso is unable to speak and still wears nappies as a result. His impoverished parents feel hopeless and lost. They have taken the five-year-old to hospital often, but nothing seems to have made a difference to his health. In their one-bedroom RDP house in Bophelong in Gauteng, Bokamoso welcomes us with a smile, but starts crying soon after. He covers his ears, seemingly in pain, and then runs to the bedroom. His mother, Mamosebetsi Tsotestsi (29), notices our alarm at…

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1. THE LATE GEORGE MICHAEL FORMED PART OF WHICH DUO . . .? A. Bam B. Wham C. Pet Shop Boys D. Mania 2. A BABY GIRAFFE IS A . . .? A. Hatchling B. Kitten C. Cub D. Calf 3. ACCORDING TO THE POEM, TUESDAY’S CHILD IS FULL OF . . .? A. Haste B. Laughs C. Grace D. Woe 4. EARTH IS ALSO KNOWN AS THE . . . PLANET? A. Blue B. Red C. Green D. Ringed 5. WHICH ANIMAL IS ON SOUTH AFRICA’S R100 NOTE? A. Elephant B. Buffalo C. Lion D. Leopard 6. WHAT IS THE MAIN LANGUAGE SPOKEN IN MEXICO? A. Spanish B. Portuguese C. English D. Italian 7. THE GOLDEN GATE NATIONAL PARK IS IN WHICH PROVINCE? A. Mpumalanga B. Free State C.…

MOVIE TALK Lion tells the story of five-year-old Saroo (Sunny) who gets lost on the streets of Kolkata, India, thousands of kilometres from home. He survives many challenges before being adopted by an Australian couple, and 25 years later he sets out to find his lost family. The older Saroo is played by Slumdog Millionaire star Dev Patel. A STAR IS BORN The eight-year-old beat out 2 000 other hopeful child actors to play Saroo – despite not being able to speak English! Sunny, who speaks Hindi, learnt his lines phonetically and uses a translator for press interviews. The young star explains that he and director Garth Davis developed a type of sign language for emotional scenes in which he had to feel extremely scared or sad. CO-STAR CARE Little…

YOU CAN see it every time you read the news – in parts of the world poor people are dying of starvation while in other parts smug tycoons are stitching up lucrative deals and travelling in private jets. But a new report reveals just how skewed the divide between the haves and the have-nots really is: eight people between them possess the same amount of wealth as the poorest half of the world combined. This means, according to the mind-boggling figures released by British charity group Oxfam, that this small group of men – mainly Americans – are collectively as wealthy as the poorest 3,5 billion of Earth’s inhabitants. “Across the world, people are being left behind. Their wages are stagnating, yet corporate bosses take home million-dollar bonuses,” Winnie Byanyima,…

THE METRO FM Music Awards is undoubtedly one of the best-organised award ceremonies in the country, so it comes as no surprise that even the announcement of the finalists turned out to be a flawless do – complete with gourmet grub and drinks. Metro FM’s Unathi Msengana emceed the event held at the swanky The Forum, in the exclusive corporate district The Campus in Joburg, where songbird Amanda Black walked away with five nominations, including Song of the Year for her hit Amazulu. Crack guitarist Jimmy Dludlu got a nod for Best Urban Jazz Album category while rapper KWESTA is also nominated for Song of the Year for Ngud’. Said Metro FM station manager SIBONGILE MTYALI: “2016 saw the introduction of the 90 % local music quota and as a…