Innholdsfortegnelse for January 8, 2015 i Drum English

I MUST admit I’m a Sophie Ndaba fan. I love her spirit and her “nothing can keep me down” attitude. Mostly, I love Sophie’s hustle. It’s like no other I’ve ever seen. If there ever was a South African superstar, Sophie is it. She and her former alter ego, Queen Moroka, are legends. You don’t believe me?Then try meeting her in a public place. We tried to do the infamous Joburg lunches but we never got past the second item on the agenda. From the moment she walked in, she was mobbed. Try having a meeting with someone who has fans queuing up to the door to take selfies with her . . . Once, I threatened to send her an invoice for the number of cell phone pics I…

STUART MUSUMHI, LOMBARDY EAST YES Trocrastination is a habit i would like to get rid of. it’s something i do every day and it has affected me in a negative way. if i’m going to make 2015 a better year, that’s how i’m starting. i consistently put things off, saying maybe tomorrow or the next time, but i never get to it. ANESU RUSIKE, PARKMORE YES My obsessive compulsive disorder (oCD). because i have oCD, i expect others to be the same. so the little things bother me and the people i surround myself with are not as detailed as i am. it’s a habit that i will have to change. i like for things to be in a specific way, and it bugs me when my friends can’t be…

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CORN FRITTERS WITH HARISSA DIP PREPARATION: 10 MIN COOKING: 15-20 MIN SERVES 4 FRITTERS 2 eggs, whisked 125 ml (½ cup) milk 60 ml (¼ cup) finely chopped parsley 500 ml (2 cups) self-raising flour salt and freshly ground pepper 1 can (410 g) whole kernel corn 250 ml (1 cup) peas oil for deep-frying HARISSA DIP 30 ml (2 tbsp) harissa paste juice of 1 lemon 30 ml (2 tbsp) olive oil 1 FRITTERS Whisk together the eggs, milk and parsley. 2 Tut the flour in a large mixing bowl and season with salt and freshly ground pepper. 3 Make a well in the middle of the seasoned flour and pour in the milk mixture. beat until blended then stir in the corn kernels and peas. 4 in a…

MY COMPANY ISN’T OPERATIONAL I’ve a registered company but it’s not operating because I haven’t marketed it. I also don’t have equipment and a business profile. My plan is to run a cleaning and catering company but I don’t want to be limited in case there are other opportunities. Can you please help me with tips on how I can operate it? ZaMEKa, E-Mail JOSHUA ANSWERS the most logical thing to do is to start with a business idea; work on it then test it with the market and thereafter choose whether or not to register a vehicle (a type of business formation) to launch it.on the flipside, some business people first register their companies – and still succeed in business. the only limitation to first registering the business is…

Dr Womteto is a mother of four and has worked as a doctor at public hospitals and in private practice for 20 years. E-mail Dr Nomteto at doctor@drum.co.za or SMS the keywords DR NOMTETO, followed by your question and name to 34926. Each SMS (160 characters) costs R2. WE ONLY HAVE SONS My boyfriend of 10 years and I have three children – all boys. Can this be due to the fact that only one of his testicles is functioning after he suffered from a sickness many years ago? WorriED, E-Mail DR NOMTETO ANSWERS Wo, illness doesn’t affect the gender of a child. if you want a daughter, the best approach is to visit a fertility clinic where they can separate the male and female sperm (centrifuge). they then do…

SCANDAL! Gloria is surprised by some reactions, and Maletsatsi (JoyCE sKEFu) is even more surprised by a request. scelo finds himself in a compromising position. an explosion causes fear. Mangi is unaware that he’s setting himself up for unwanted attention. a discovery in anzani’s hotel room leads lerumo to a horrifying realisation. Dintle starts to lay her trap. Gontse has a cunning plan to ensure that Gloria is not lonely. Dustbin Man plays anzani a blood-curdling recording. Mmadika surprises Kitso with an assignment, but Kitso plots an even bigger surprise. ZABALAZA David’s behaviour confuses Neli. Gasta (BABY CELE) thinks Moss should return home. KG shares the big news with everyone. Ray realises he needs to make his own moves. Waka and Siphokazi’s future looks bright again. Siphokazi and Waka meet…

PART 2 2015’s trends for your career and love life ARIES 21 March –19April WORK AND MONEY: your career might be a source of stress up until mid-June, a situation which could recur from Wovember through to the end of the year. From mid-august, opportunities at work are bound to lead to job satisfaction, with october and Wovember being the months in which to be particularly dynamic. be mindful of taking an assertive rather than aggressive approach. april and May are the best months to strengthen your financial position - be enterprising and proactive, but avoid taking hasty risks. With your money planet Venus moving backwards during august, spending too much cash on leisure and pleasure can burn a hole in your pocket. if you play your cards right, you…

HOW DO I DUMP MY GIRLFRIENDS? i’m dating five girls but i want to dump them because i recently met a white girl who i’ve fallen for. What do i tell my other girlfriends? thabo FAITH MAGADANI (19) REPLIES i’m not sure what her race has to do with anything, thabo, but if you really like her personality (and not just her looks) then i suggest you be honest with the other girls. speak to them individually and tell them that you don’t think the relationship is working out and that you think its best that you go your separate ways. you don’t have to tell them about all the other girls or your new boo because that may just add insult to injury.if you are sure that you want…

FROM the time she won acting talent search Class Act three years ago, she knew that the show was the answer to her prayers to become an actress. One could say Tumie Ngumla has found her destiny. She’s wanted to act ever since she can remember, but her parents were determined to steer her into other, more conventional, career choices. First they wanted her to pursue a future in advertising, but she hated it.Then they enrolled her in a marketing course but she loathed that too, and dropped out in frustration. Then a chance, once-in-a-lifetime opportunity presented itself when a friend asked Tumie to accompany her to the Class Act auditions in 2011. But the mischievous friend had written Tumie’s name on the list of prospective actors who were trying…

WHEN YOU see her on television or on the red carpet, she’s always camera-ready, radiant and glamorous. But today we meet a girl who’s almost the opposite of the sexy, sassy fashionista,TV personality and actress we thought we knew. Looking relaxed in a simple floral dress, Minenhle Dlamini (24) is taking it easy at the Karkloof Safari Spa outside Pietermaritzburg.This time there are no celebrity groupies tailing her, no paparazzi and no television crew. Instead, she’s accompanied by members of her close-knit family to ring in the NewYear in style. Only the presence of her manager and publicist, Pumza Nohashe, gives away her celebrity status. Minnie greets us with a smile and introduces us to her mother, Queen (57). Minnie’s mom is beautiful and lively, just like her celebrity daughter.…

Writetousat Po Box 653284, Benmore 2010,e-mailusat letters@drum.co.zaor SMS 32113 MISS WORLD IS OURS I’m proud to be part of a winning nation. Rolene Strauss being crowned Miss World goes to show that South Africa is a beautiful country filled with beautiful ladies. This should inspire our young ladies out there to walk tall and embrace their beauty. Well done, Miss World.You are beautiful. AMOS CUPIDO MABOPANE, E-Mail KEEPING THE POWER ON For how long shall we remain a country that always reacts to a crisis instead of planning ahead for it? It shows a lack of visionary leadership if we have known for years about the latest electricity crisis, but didn’t do anything about it. After ’94 we planned to develop infrastructure and build thousands of RDP houses but nobody…

AFTER a staggering 21 years playing Generations’ much-loved Queen Moroka, many wondered what would happen to actress Sophie Ndaba after she and 15 other actors were axed from the soapie. Would she bounce back? Would we ever see her again on our small screens? Will she survive what many considered to be a very public break-up with one of the country’s top soapies? Not to worry: the actress recently sat down with DRUM to address the questions troubling her fans. It’s an overcast Monday afternoon when we meet Sophie in Bedfordview on Gauteng’s affluent East Rand, at the five star St Andrews Hotel and Spa. Pinning her down for our meeting proved a difficult task as her events-organising company, Sophla Event Management, keeps her extremely busy. “I had back-to-back meetings,”…

THE FIRST words she said to her mom after the Miss World crown had been placed on her head was, “Mom, can you believe it?” Theresa Strauss was speechless when her daughter, Rolene, was announced the new MissWorld – only the third South African and the first in 40 years . “I said, ‘Lolla, I can believe it’,” Theresa tells DRUM’s sister magazine,YOU, from London the day after Rolene outshone more than 120 beautiful women from around the globe to be named the new Miss World at a glittering ceremony. “You chase the dream with your child then it happens. It’s overwhelming.” The 22-year-old medical student received so many messages after she was crowned; her cellphone battery died within minutes. She managed to sneak a few minutes out of her…

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T hE Way you store your fruit and vegetables could strip them of flavour and nutrients – and cost you more money. tossing all the produce you buy in the fridge might seem like the safest option, but it’s the worst place for certain fresh fruit, vegetables and other produce. Extending their lifespan, and getting the most nutrients from them, is down to simple storage rules. here’s how . . . SALAD LEAVES Darker leaves typically have more nutrients, but it varies from leaf to leaf. For example, spinach is great for vitamins a and C, while watercress is rich in vitamin C and manganese. Watercress is considered a nutritional powerhouse that’s believed to have anticancer properties. STORAGE TIPS Keep lettuce in a perforated plastic bag in the crisper drawer…

a mother of two teens, this psychology graduate is a life coach and trauma counsellor who has been helping people for 20 years. Need advice? E-mail sisdolly@drum.co.za or SMS the keyword SIS DOLLY followed by your question and name to 32113. Each SMS (160 characters) costs R1. I’M HIS SIDE CHICK I’m 20 and have been with my boyfriend for six years. He has four kids and lives with one of his baby mamas. He always hides me from her and it hurts me because I don’t get enough time with him. His girlfriend always insults me and all he does is apologise afterwards. Do you think he loves me or should I just move on? WM, sMs SIS DOLLY ANSWERS Do you want to be invisible or do you…

SOME of us would like to make up for what we didn’t achieve last year. Others would like to reinvent themselves, or simply make a few changes to the way they run their lives. Don’t let the excitement of the NewYear wear off. Let the new habits you adopt become your routine. “Be open to new ideas and be willing to practise new behaviours to transform your life,” says Mavis Mazhura, an international human behaviour specialist. A practical habit to adopt is to take some “me time” to ease the pressure of everyday demands. “Take time out to think, meditate or pray to tap into the power within,” she suggests. 1 MIND AND SPIRITUALITY: You can improve the quality of your life with simple decisions like stressing less and making…

THE MARRIAGE CHRONICLES DRAMA (Mzansi Thursday 00:00) three married couples go to a couples’ retreat at a secluded estate. there they are encouraged to share all their feelings and desires, no matter how outrageous. starring DarriW DEWitt hEWsoW. DOLLARS AND WHTE PIPES DRAMA (SABC1 Friday22:00) bernie (CliWt briWK) a young man from the Cape Flats, where gangs, drugs and poverty are commonplace scams his way into a job at a nightclub in the city and works his way up from bar hand to manager. ALEX CROSS THRILLER (Mzansi Saturday 20:00) Detroit homicide detective and forensic psychologist alex Cross (tylEr TErry) is committed to the law. When a wealthy woman is found dead and partially dismembered in her mansion Cross and his team are assigned to the case, and they soon…

1. ON WHICH SINGING COMPETITION IS FORMER SPICE GIRL MEL B A JUDGE? a. the X Factor uK b. the Voice C. the X Factor usa D. american idol 2. WHAT IS THE MOST POPULAR SOCIAL NETWORK SITE IN THE WORLD? a. instagram b. Facebook C. twitter D. tumblr 3. WHO WAS CROWNED FORMULA ONE CHAMPION IN ABU DHABI RECENTLY? a. Wico rosberg b. sebastian Vettel C. lewis hamilton D. Jenson button 4. WHICH SOCCER STAR IS NOT NOMINATED FOR THE 2014 FIFA BALLON D’OR AWARD? a. lionel Messi b. Manuel Weuer C. Franck ribéry D. Cristiano ronaldo 5. IN WHICH CITY WILL YOU FIND THE CASTLE OF GOOD HOPE? a. Cape town b. Durban C. Tretoria D. soweto 6. WHICH ENGLISH PREMIER LEAGUE SOCCER TEAM IS OWNED BY A…

We know her as tonya rock, Chris’ irritating younger sister, from the hilarious sitcom Everybody hates Chris. although she was just 11 when she landed the role, imani has blossomed into a grown woman and her career is growing too. the 21-year-old also played the role of olympic-winning gymnast Gabby Douglas in a feel-good movie about the inspirational young athlete’s life. What was the most challenging part of the role? “the gymnastics aspect . . . it was very foreign to my body. i’ve never moved like that before.it was pretty challenging, but it was a great challenge!” When she’s not honing her craft imani loves watching the Fixer, Washville and once upon a time. she also can’t get enough of these two chick flicks: he’s Just Wot that into…

NEW RECRUIT A young policeman is still in training. His commanding officer asks, “Mpho, what would you do if you see a kidnapping?” Mpho answers,“I’d wake him up.” NEW YEAR’S EVE on Wew year’s Eve, ona is in no shape to drive so he sensibly leaves his van in the car park and walks home. as he’s wobbling along, he’s stopped by a policeman. “What are you doing out here at 4 am?” asks the police officer. “i’m on my way to a lecture,” answers ona. “and who on Earth is going to give a lecture at this time?” enquires the constable sarcastically. “My wife,” slurs ona grimly. DIET RESOLUTIONS FOR THE NEW YEAR 2011: i will get my weight down below 100 kg. 2012: i will follow my new…

COMEDIAN Chris Mapane is one of the funniest people in Mzansi. His success has come just in time for his 30th birthday, but he can well remember the trials of his earlier days, losing his father and being homeless while pursuing his career. At first Chris seems shy and reserved but minutes into our interview, he has us in stitches as he cracks joke after joke. SO YOU’VE JUST TURNED 30, A MILESTONE FOR MANY PEOPLE. HOW DO YOU FEEL? Nothing actually, I feel normal. From a very young age, I’ve never celebrated my birthday. I’ve never had a cake for my birthday in my whole life. I was born on 23 December so by that time in Viljoenskroon, Free State, where I grew up, people were busy with Christmas…

THE January transfer window is approaching fast. Many PSL football clubs are scouring the market in search of the ultimate prize – quality players. Everyone’s looking to make the deals that will help their teams dominate the SA soccer scene. DRUM listened out for some rumoured moves. GEOFREY MASSA COULD MOVE TO A BIGGER CLUB With Geofrey Massa’s contract at the university of Tretoria running out in May 2015, amatuks could be forced to cash in on the burly striker in the upcoming transfer window. Massa has been in good nick for club and country this year, attracting attention from a number of clubs seeking a proven goal scorer. the 28-year-old has yet to decide where his future lies, but signs indicate he could well be tempted to make a…

GABRIEL TEMUDZANI 10 FEBRUARY AQUARIUS aquarians love sharing knowledge for the betterment of humanity, as well as new theories and ideas. Teople are their priority. your personality is socially lively, affectionate and generally popular. however, you do need to make a conscious effort to sympathise with and understand people for whom you don’t feel personal affection. Widen your interests, as you have abundant emotional vitality. Depersonalise your approach to life and see the world as it is and not as a reflection of yourself; learn to express own ideas within the group. Come september, Mars’ practical nature will help ground you but be careful not to become too obsessed with details. ITUMELENG KHUNE 20 JUNE GEMINI Gemini is a sign with good language and communication skills. you express your emotions…

IT WAS no surprise when Terrence Howard made our Hollywood scumbag list (Hollywood’s Scumbags, 11 December 2014) for his long history of abuse against women.The bad-boy actor was recently taken back to court by his ex-wife Michelle Ghent (36) for unpaid spousal support dating back to their divorce settlement in 2011, totalling a staggering R5 million. In the settlement, the 45-year-old Terrence managed to keep the majority of his assets, including his two properties, as well having Michelle return his Range Rover. However, Michelle was to receive spousal support of over R55 000 a month for three years. The amount she’s suing for includes the unpaid spousal support with interest, her lawyer’s fees, and a trip the couple had taken to Costa Rica in 2012 while trying to reconcile. She…

As WE celebrate the matric pass rate of 2014 and are about to start a new school year, it is once again evident that most of the schools that aren’t performing are in the poor communities. those schools have no proper educational facilities such as computer labs and libraries. the urban schools, on the other hand, enjoy the convenience of these educational facilities. that is why they always have higher matric pass rates. the situation forces some poor learners to drop out of school. Wo wonder south africa has a high unemployment rate. the youth can’t have a vision without the right infrastructure through which to test their skills. The learners who study by candlelight and manage to pass with distinctions should serve as motivators for all the other learners…

A CONNIVING, unscrupulous gangster and pseudo-businessman has made his appearance on SABC1’s Generations:The Legacy, and seems to be a hit with viewers. Despite still being wrapped in controversy following its off-screen drama that saw 16 principal cast members axed in 2014, the new-look Generations has been lauded as a stylish production. And Tau Mogale’s wicked brother-in-law, Kumkani “Gaddafi” Phakade, played by Vuyo Dabula, is earning his stripes as a compelling soapie villain too. By contrast,Vuyo (38) is a salt-of-the-earth kind of guy: a committed husband to his wife, Lele, and a devoted father to their six-month-old son. “I’m a husband and a father,” saysVuyo. This well-mannered and talented actor, who adores his parents too, is an all-round likeable guy. He couldn’t be more different from Gaddafi even if he tried.…

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15-MINUTE MEAL TUNA BURGER THESE TUNA PATTIES ARE FULL OF flAVOUR AND KEEP FOR UP TO TWO DAYS IN THE REFRIGERATOR. PREPARATION TIME: 5 MIN COOKING TIME: 5 MIN SERVES 4 2 x 170 g canned tuna 10 ml (2 tsp) Dijon mustard 2 bread slices, torn into pieces ¼ lemon zest, grated 15 ml (1 tbsp) liquid from the cans of tuna handful parsley, chopped salt and black pepper 1 egg 30 ml (2 tbsp) olive oil 4 mini buns, lettuce, cucumber and carrots to serve 1 in a medium bowl, mix together tuna, mustard, bread, lemon zest, water and parsley. taste the mixture for seasoning purposes before adding the egg. Mix in the egg. 2 Divide the mixture into four equal parts. Form each part into a ball,…

bra Mo is a father of one and a tV writer. he is also member of the brothers For life campaign and the Fatherhood Foundation. Have a problem? E-mail testotherapy@drum.co.za, Tweet us @Testo_DRUM or write to Testo-therapy at DRUM, PO Box 653284, Benmore 2010. MY TEENAGE SON DOESN’T LISTEN My son is 19 and in Grade 12. I’ve been raising him from the age of three because his father passed on. Lately, he’s been behaving oddly. He recently said he doesn’t want to go to school anymore because Jesus spoke to him telling him to save souls instead. He has alienated the family, saying they worship earthly things instead of following God’s ways. I asked his church for advice, hoping for counselling but nothing has happened. I feel he’s possessed…

there’s an alternative way to bring about change: instead of making resolutions, rather think about having a theme, says simangele Mphahlele, a life coach based in Midrand. “For example, write down ‘this is my year for adventure or to become debt-free’ and then note the activities to support the theme. allocate dates according to the order and be specific about the activity.” here’s how: Tut up the list where you can see it and remind yourself daily – on your fridge, mirror or screen saver. Decide what you will start with and put them in order of priority. think about what you will need to make the activity happen. remind yourself regularly of the benefits of achieving particular goals. Tut images of the activities around you, at the office or…

CAPRICORN 21 DEC – 20 JAN if you struggle to get the ball rolling this week, chances are behaviour patterns or subconscious traits are sabotaging your attempts. upon reflection, you may find that feelings of doubt, fear and guilt are the culprits blocking you from going for your goals. the best way forward is to address the underlying issues, so take time out for some soul-searching. YOUR LUCKY NUMBERS 43, 27, 14, 39, 38, 42 AQUARIUS 21 Jan – 18 Feb social interaction and networking is the name of your game this week. your friendly approach is likely to open doors. Chances are you’ll meet like-minded souls in your community and come up with useful projects. impart your knowledge, but remember to also be open to the viewpoints of others.…

What’s a hip-hop awards show without lots of swag? Wothing! and celebs who attended the recent south african hip hop awards didn’t disappoint. DiWEo MoEKEtsi, riKy riCK and DJ sWitCh were among the stars who turned out at the lyric theatre in Gold reef City to celebrate and recognise the country’s top hip-hop talent. Dineo rocked a tight black number with cut-out detail and mesh inserts. “the hip hop awards are about pushing boundaries and that’s what i did,” she explains. she was accompanied by her boyfriend, solo, who channelled Tharrell Williams in a big green buffalo hat and colourful sweatshirt. the star Dust singer was happy to take home the Wewcomer of the year award. DJ sWitCh also took home a Tyramid – the name of the award –…