“It was a dating website – ‘mytransgenderdate.com’, or something,” says 39-year-old Ratiwat NoNie Wachirakanok, a Thai trans woman. That’s where she met Gilles Baderspach, 43, a gay man from France. Three months in, he’d flown down to Thailand, where the pair had spent two weeks together. Within a week of returning home, Baderspach proposed. Maybe the U-Haul syndrome wasn’t exclusive to lesbians after all. “I’ve been waiting for this!” NoNie told him and, within six months, they’d married twice – first, in a religious ceremony in Thailand, and later, through an official marriage registration with the French government. Today, the couple live in Montreux, Switzerland, and there’s talk of getting married for a third time.
On January 23, 2025, Thailand became the first country in south-east Asia to legalise same-sex…
