Innholdsfortegnelse for February 2013 i Cosmopolitan

1. Mika Brzezinski Veteran reporter and cohost of MSNBC's Morning Joe, Brzezinski shares business advice in her column, "The 5 Best Work Rules I've Learned" (p. 120). Big break: covering a triple murder for Fox when no one else was free. "Bottles were thrown and I was taunted, but I got my report on air." Most inspiring woman: "My sculptor mother. She's in her 80s and makes art with an ax and chain saw." 2. Marissa Hermanson In "Can Looking Too Young Hurt You at Work?" (p. 113), writer Hermanson recounts her experience with the too-young curse. Hermanson is the editor-in-chief of Breathe, a Southeast-based lifestyle magazine. Most inspiring woman: "Nellie Bly. She was a muckraking journalist who faked her own insanity to write an exposÉ about asylum living. Talk…

PROGRESSIVE PROPS "I was so impressed with your inclusion of Ellen DeGeneres and Portia de Rossi in 'If They Break Up, We Quit Life!' Articles like these are helping to normalize homosexual relationships." —Claire M., Worcester, Mass. HOLIDAY CHEER "Loved 'Party Season Tips and Tricks.' I'm looking forward to eating and drinking my way through the holidays this year and not putting on the extra pounds associated with the season! —Kelsey D., Wilmington, N.C. YOUNG AND GIFTED "I love that Taylor Swift was on the cover of the December issue. It's so amazing that she has accomplished so much by 23.…Wow!" —Laken M., Auburn, Ind. SWEETS SHAMING "The blurb on the cover, 'So You Ate a Cupcake? Fast Moves to Burn it Off!' really bothered me. You made it sound…

BFFs FUN Meryl Streep snapping selfies with Hillary Clinton? Our Instagram is jealous! FEARLESS Kellie Pickler shaves her head in solidarity with her best friend, who has cancer. FAIL Robert De Niro allegedly scolded Jay-Z in public because Hova never returned his calls. Aren't you guys a little old for that? SUPER-SMOKY EYES FUN Blended, not stirred. Love the way Skyfall's Bérénice Marlohe plays up her peeps. FEARLESS Heavy lids, narrowed eyes—as always, Kristen Stewart shows how edgy-face is done. FAIL So Ke$ha swept her chimney today.… BABY DADDIES FUN Romeo Beckham gets a faux Harper tattoo to match dad David's real one. All together now: aww! FEARLESS Colin Farrell reveals his son's Angelman syndrome, which leads to developmental disabilities. FAIL Halle Berry's ex, Gabriel Aubry, sports a nasty shiner…

CONFESSIONS Yours COSMO READERS SHARE THEIR MOST TOE-CURLING STORIES AND STEAMIEST SECRETS. Catch of the Day "I was on a weekend beach vacation with my best friend when we ran into another one of our friends who was there for a bachelor party in the same area. We all ended up going out and partying together, and I met this really hot guy. We totally hit it off—we were dancing closely all night and even stayed up talking until five in the morning, just him and me. He was so perfect—or so I thought. The catch? Turns out, he was the groom." —Laura H. Not So Picture-Perfect "I had a giant crush on one of my best guy friends but couldn't work up the courage to tell him. One afternoon,…

1. Move Like Jagger Maroon 5 kicks off their 2013 tour this month. Still traumatized by Adam Levine's performance on American Horror Story? Hearing him serenade you will help you get over it. 2. Get Your Tickets! Breakfast at Tiffany's goes to Broadway this month. Emilia Clarke (of HBO's Game of Thrones) will star as the legendary Holly Golightly. (Don't worry. She'll leave her white-blonde hair in the Seven Kingdoms.) 3. Muddy Up Dirty Girl Mud Run (GoDirtyGirl.com) holds 5K mud runs nationwide for women of all athletic abilities. Post–obstacle course, bond with fellow runners at an after-party. 4. Party Fat Tuesday–Style Mardi Gras is February 12: Throw on some beads, and indulge in whatever you're planning to give up for the next 40 days. 5. Take a Tasty Break…

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Nanette Lepore for JCPenney The latest designer to join the Olsens and Charlotte Ronson at JCP is Nanette Lepore. Wear these flashy, girlie looks this weekend. WU WHAT WEAR Designer Jason Wu mixes his signature uptown style with Jane Birkin–inspired influences for his first collection of Miss Wu, a more affordable line, available at Nordstrom; prices start at $195. A look from Miss Wu Jacket, L'Amour by Nanette Lepore, $50, jcp.com Crop top, L'Amour by Nanette Lepore, $17, jcp.com Prabal Gurung for Target A fave of Jennifer Lawrence and Diane Kruger, Prabal Gurung lends his red-carpet genius to the rest of us. With prices as low as $19.99, shop early on February 10 to avoid missing out (remember the Missoni massacre of 2011?). The New Statement Piece Make your…

$2 Hair Trend Hot off the runway! Zipper headbands—the finishing touches on the looks at the Erin Fetherston show. To rock one for less than the cost of a latte, buy a 28-inch zipper from a fabric store (about $2). Unzip it halfway, then wrap it around your head and tie in a knot at your nape. Always Smell Amazing Perfumer Ann Gottlieb (who created these iconic spritzes) shares her secrets. TIP 1 People crave warmth in winter, so musk (in the perfumes shown here) is especially enticing now. TIP 2 Make any scent more office-appropriate by spraying it on concealed spots (try the back of your neck or cleavage). TIP 3 Strong spices like garlic and curry permeate pores and alter perfume. Skip them when you want a scent…

NAOMI CHIN, 23 "After a tough breakup, I bleached my hair and swiped on bold lipstick. Now it's my thing." Maybelline New York Color Sensational Lipcolor in On Fire Red, $7.50 Maybelline New York Sensational Lip Gloss in Captivating Coral, $7.49 MARIA VALENTINE, 25 "I got these cool frames in a giveaway by Liking them on Facebook. I love how my mani matches them." Chanel Le Vernis in Vertigo, $26, creates tortoiseshell tips. LAMAIA PRINGLE, 21 "I constantly switch up my hair texture.…Soon it'll be straight. So conditioner is key." L'Oréal EverCrème Deep Nourishing Masque, $9 ANGELA PHAM, 24 "I go foundation-free as often as possible. My skin looks more radiant when it breathes." Wake up glowing with Clinique Moisture Surge Overnight Mask, $32. Dior Capture Totale Makeup Base SPF…

AQUA MANI Try a different shade of teal on each tip. Ulta Glazed and Confused Professional Nail Lacquer, $7.50 for 5 SHADE SAVER With color-locking conditioner, there's no touch-up rush. L'Oréal Color Vibrancy Conditioner, $5 INSTA-GLOW Pearl-based powder offers a burst of radiance. Wet N Wild Fergie Reflect Shimmer Palette, $6 OH, BEHAVE See ya, winter static! A drop of this flattens flyaways and frizz. Rusk Being Sexy Cream, $5 HOT SPOT Polka-dot mani stickers take the mess out of nail art. Aéropostale Nail Stickers, $2 STARE TACTIC A tube that lets you squeeze every last drop of mascara? Genius! Jane Volumizing Mascara, $7 MAIN TWEEZE Keep your arches in check with this brow-shaping duo. Revlon Mini Tweezer Set to Go, $6.50 for both ONE GLOSS FITS ALL The lip…

For years, I had thought of going off the Pill—not because it made me feel bloated or that it was time to rev up the baby-making machine (reasons a few friends stopped renewing their Rxs). But because after 15 years of popping it—every, single, day—I started to become wary of the constant flood of fake hormones and wondered if my body could actually work its menstruation magic naturally. At one annual exam, I mentioned my jump-ship plan to my gynecologist as he scribbled my normal prescription. Other than a semicurious "Why?" and nod to the obvious fact that I'd have to use another form of protection, he gave his blessing, then handed me my new Rx…which I filled. The reason: As an ex–beauty editor who has interviewed the country's top…

MIKA BRZENZINSKI, COHOST OF MORNING JOE AND COSMO CAREER COACH, REVEALS THE MOST USEFUL ADVICE SHE'S GOTTEN FROM SOME BIG-DEAL PEOPLE SHE'S MET. 1 Get Enough Sleep My friend Arianna Huffington, creator of The Huffington Post, taught me something I'm still working on: Get a good night's sleep. Some young women think they can go out all night, drink, and still be at the top of their game at work. You will look and feel better and make every decision better if you're well-rested. 2 Leave Drama at the Door Bosses should never hear about the drama in your personal life—your sick cat, your crazy ex-boyfriend. I learned that years ago when I asked Phil Griffin, the president of MSNBC, for a raise. I said I couldn't afford to buy…

IT'S 1 P.M. on a Sunday afternoon, and Kelly Clarkson is braless, bleary-eyed, and recovering from a hard-core dose of NyQuil. Hanging on her 45-foot tour bus—her home for nine months last year—she's just devoured a bowl of Special K Red Berries, and her pups, Security, a Maltese, and Joplin, a black miniature labradoodle, are snuggled in her lap. Lounging in her favorite sweatpants and a faded rocker tee, Kelly is completely unself–conscious. "One thing I love about Kelly is her ability to not give a shit," says her buddy Blake Shelton, who duetted with Kelly last year. "She's not running for office. She's a badass singer, a badass songwriter, and that's her focus. The whole celebrity thing just doesn't matter to her." The girl from Burleson, Texas, has had…

AH, THE HOLY GRAIL OF GETTING IT ON: IT'S THAT RICHER, MORE CONNECTED SEX THAT MAKES YOU SMILE EVERY TIME YOU THINK ABOUT IT—BUT STOPS SHORT OF BEING ROMANCE-NOVEL CHEESY. AND YES, IT EXISTS. HERE'S HOW TO FIND THE SWEET SPOT. Ten bucks says you saw the title of this article and thought, Great—a story about lighting candles, making a sappy playlist, and having the schmoopiest, most cloyingly sweet sex ever on Valentine's Day. Pass! But hold up. If you think romantic sex is unbearably cheesy, you probably have the wrong impression—and you could be denying yourself some super-hot nights. "Romantic sex doesn't have to involve rose petals or frilly lingerie—it's simply about having an emotional connection with your partner, and it doesn't have to be sappy," reassures sex and…

TWEET US! Is it ever okay to cheat and stay silent? Tweet @Cosmopolitan #ForKeeps. A streetlight used to shine in the bedroom window of the apartment where I lived with my fiancée. Before I cheated on her, I never thought about the light; I'd simply get out of bed whenever it was keeping me awake and shut the blinds. "What is it?" she'd mumble. "Nothing," I'd say. "The streetlight." "'Kay," she'd reply. "Sogni d'oro." "Sogni d'oro." Golden dreams. It was an Italian good night that we'd adopted after living in Italy for a while. I liked the way it rolled off her tongue, the ritual of saying it aloud that felt like a promise. Then I cheated. It happened far away, at a high-rise hotel in a cold European city,…

DAVE AND I INSTANTLY HIT IT OFF, BUT I NEVER EXPECTED THAT OUR RELATIONSHIP WOULD GO THERE. Anonymous, as told to Amary Wiggin From the moment we met, I knew Dave and I were going to have a fabulous relationship. So fabulous that when the tall, handsome guy from theater class asked for my number, I immediately called my mom. "Oh, my god," I gushed into the phone. "I just met the cutest gay guy!" Dave* and I became friends during my sophomore year of college, when he was a freshman. We were two artsy, sarcastic kids majoring in science. When we met, he had been out of the closet for a year and had a boyfriend, and I was excited to explore a friendship with him, given how much…

WHY ARE YOU FEELING MORE STUDENT-LOAN MISERY THAN THE GUYS YOU SAT NEXT TO IN CLASS? COSMOPOLITAN INVESTIGATES HOW COLLEGE DEBT IS CHANGING WHERE YOU LIVE, WHERE YOU WORK, AND EVEN WHO YOU CHOOSE TO DATE AND MARRY. Brenda Errichiello did everything right. She worked three jobs during college, earned a 3.9 GPA, and graduated with a bachelor's degree in music and history education from Michigan's Albion College. She was also $92,000 in debt. Errichiello knew she would need financial aid but let her mother handle the details. When she finally looked at her paperwork in her junior year, she realized she was $50,000 in the hole. "I figured I had already invested so much, I might as well finish," says Errichiello, now 27 and living in Des Plaines, Illinois.…

Michelle Postorino, a 24-year-old administrative assistant who lives in Woodland Park, New Jersey, has the checklist down: a great boyfriend, a job she loves, and weekends packed with parties. She loves her life. But still, when she looks around at some of her friends, she starts to think her life may not be good enough after all. "I'm truly happy right now, but seeing big things happen all around me—college friends getting engaged or promoted—makes me feel pressured," she says. "I feel like I should be ready—financially, emotionally, and otherwise—for those same steps too." Rachel Kanner, a 21-year-old actress from Chicago, feels it too. "I love being in a creative field, but when I see people on Twitter and Facebook talking about a YouTube sensation who made it overnight or…

SURPRISE: YOU CAN SKIP YOUR SELF-EXAMS You grew up hearing a monthly breast self-exam is a must, but experts now say the early-detection effectiveness of BSEs is low. Why? If a lump is big enough to feel, it's probably not that early. Docs now preach "breast awareness"—knowing what looks and feels normal for you. Then you'll notice the real red flags: subtle changes in nipple appearance; red, scaly skin; or random discharge. Source: Debbie Saslow, PhD, American Cancer Society Your Period Has Perks Sure, we all groan as we ride the hormonal highs and lows of our monthly cycles. But those fluctuations actually have some unexpectedly rad side effects. Guess why my hair looks so good? Week 1 Bonus When your period shows up, that's cycle day one. By day…

START A SPRING FLING WITH THESE FRESH AND FLIRTY PIECES. HERE, THE KEY TRENDS FOR THE SEASON. PASTELS Top, $2,500, shorts, $730, large cuff, $1,300, and shoes, $930, Dior WHITE Dress, Jill Stuart, $668 ORIGAMI Dress, $4,190, dark-gold cuff, $865, and shoes, $795, Lanvin RUFFLES Top, Gucci, $1,795; silver ring, Patricia von Musulin, $1,200 BEAUTY TIP Edge up a girlie outfit with intense smoky eyes. Rim lids with a charcoal shadow crayon (try CoverGirl Smoky Shadow Blast in Onyx Smoke, $9), and blend up to brows. LEATHER Top, $1,500, skirt, $990, and boots, $2,600, Salvatore Ferragamo; gold double-chain bracelet, Phillips House, $8,100; black metal cuffs, Alexis Bittar, $215 each BEAUTY TIP The secret to soft, bouncy curls: Smooth in a lightweight cream (like L'OrÉal Paris EverCurl Hydracharge Leave-In Cream, $9)…

It feels like forever since Hannah took her pensive stroll down the Coney Island boardwalk and shoved day-old wedding cake in her mouth—we've been dealing with major Girls withdrawal ever since. But come January 13, the show's second season starts on HBO (Sundays at 9 p.m.), and the dry spell will mercifully end. We can't wait to gather our girls and see what creator Lena Dunham has planned for Hannah, Jessa, Marnie, and Shoshanna (not to mention Adam, Charlie, Ray, and Elijah). From tailor-made drinks to craveable bites, here's everything you need to make your viewing sessions a hit. WHAT TO DRINK Brooklyn bartender Marcine Franckowiak witnesses Girls-worthy scenes every night. "People on dates have awkward conversations until they get drunk—then they make out," she says. Try the character-inspired cocktails…

YOU'RE A SMART, INDEPENDENT WOMAN…AND YOU HAVE A LEAKY TOILET. NO NEED FOR A PANICKED CALL TO YOUR DAD OR TO DROP CASH ON A PLUMBER. THE HANDSOME HANDYMEN OF STYLE NETWORK'S BUILT ARE HERE TO GIVE YOU A HOW-TO LESSON TO REMEMBER (WITH A SIDE OF EYE CANDY). GAGE CASS on Setting Up aSweet Stereo System Look, any girl can use an iPod dock. You're cooler than that. To do it the better way, it's all about surround sound. Go into Best Buy or a specialty audio shop, and ask someone there for a home-theater surround-sound system (warning: a really good one will cost you up to $500). Say it authoritatively or you'll get upsold. Back at your place, find a home for the big receiver—anywhere that's eye level,…

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"Let's go get naked!" Julianne joked before heading off to change into a new look. A girl's dream: Racks and racks of designer clothes Filling out her Cosmo Quiz: Julianne's biggest guilty pleasure? See her answer on page 156! Her lunch: Barley salad with pesto and quinoa. Healthy and delish. Goofing off while getting glam with hairstylist Italo Gregorio Picking the perfect accessories with stylist Isabel Dupré Songs heard on set: "Lights," by Ellie Goulding; "Helena Beat," by Foster the People; and "Sail," by Awolnation A trained ballroom dancer, she knows how to move! Eye candy! Our stylists laid out three full tables of bracelets and rings. Watch Her in Action! For a look at our cover shoot and to hear more about Julianne's love life, check out our behind-the-scenes…

"This is my first semester as a graduate student, and I spend a lot of time studying. I realized I need to do creative things as well so I don't go crazy from all the schoolwork. My fix: I go to a museum, then a new restaurant. It helps me feel more balanced." RUI WANG, 23, INTERNATIONAL EDUCATION GRADUATE STUDENT, FROM KUNMING, CHINA "I was a professional dancer in Russia—I did folk, go-go, and a bit of hip-hop—but I came to New York City to take classes to improve my English. While I'm here, I go to lots of live performances. Rap shows are my favorite! They're crazy and fun." KRISTINA MOKEEVA, 20, ENGLISH STUDENT, FROM MOSCOW, RUSSIA "We need to figure out how to resolve the financial crisis. I've…

SHOWIEST COURTSIDE EMBRACE Hello, kiss cam! Justin Timberlake and Jessica Biel go at it at the game. BEST REACTION SHOT Mary-Kate Olsen gets a hands-on kiss from older man Olivier Sarkozy. Happy? Scared? We can't tell. SWEETEST CLASS ACT Alicia Keys and Swizz Beatz hold hands and melt hearts. MOST SHAMELESS BOOB GRAB Even Helen Mirren can't resist Biel's charms. Incoming… …and contact! PROUDEST PUPPY LOVE She must really be a dog person. CUTEST DUO Emma Stone and Andrew Garfield: Finally, a worthy It Couple. ICKIEST GROPE FEST Doug Hutchison and Courtney Stodden put the scene in obscene. BOLDEST BROMANTIC GESTURE Deer-ly beloved…will SNL's Taran Killam and Justin Long live happily ever after? GROSSEST BOOTY GRAB Scott Disick gets cheeky with Kourtney Kardashian.…

I first spotted Josh at a launch party for a new iPhone app in New York City. He was six feet tall with blond hair, and he was wearing a suit so he stood out from the rest of the Zuckerberg-esque hoodied guys. I liked that. Even though I'm a bit of a tech geek myself—I run a social-media marketing business—I love a man who dresses up, so I went to introduce myself. I liked Josh immediately—he had a confident vibe. He told me he sold life insurance, and at the end of the night, I gave him my card. He e-mailed me the next day. We ended up dating for a month—but when we slept together for the first time, he didn't call me for two full days afterward.…

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COSMO'S FASHION DIRECTOR SHOWS YOU HOW T0 WORK THIS SEASON'S MOST EXOTIC TREND INTO ANY ALL-AMERICAN WARDROBE. "Pair a bright, structured jacket with a loose, romantic top." Blazer, Elizabeth and James, $495, saks.com Top, Elizabeth and James, $345, saks.com Handbag, Imoshion Handbags, $45, imoshionstore.com Bracelets, Megan Odabash, $150 each, Carleen Ligozio, 631-204-0104 Top, Willow and Clay, $88, willowclay.com Shoes, Ivy Kirzhner New York, $695, madisonlosangeles.com Pants, Elie Tahari, $298, neimanmarcus.com Notepad and pen, Iomoi, $28, shopiomoi.com Earrings, Suzanna Dai, $190, fragments.com Necklace, Ben-Amun, $245, ben-amun.com "Try the trend with plated earrings if you're not ready to go all out." "This necklace looks like it came from far away and adds a global touch." Shorts, H&M $39.95, hm.com Shoes, AMI Clubwear, $31.99, amiclubwear.com Dress, Rebecca…

T-shirt, Jessica Simpson Collection, $49, macys.com Shorts, Princess Vera Wang, $34, kohls.com Bra, VPL, $85, store.vplnyc.com Watches, Swatch, $120 each, swatch.com Pants, Isabel Lu, $145, isabellu.com Top, Juicy Couture, $278, juicycouture.com Clutch, Cosmopolitan, $35, jcp.com Chanel spring/ summer 2013 Cool headphones have major street cred. Headphones, Nixon, $70, nixon.com Shoes, Ohne Titel, $975, barneys.com Booties, DKNY, $325, dkny.com A mesh tank layered over a cami or bustier is the perfect way to show off without letting it all hang out. Stella McCartney spring/summer 2013 Pants, Parker, $253, intermixonline.com Top, Allen B., $25, jcp.com Tank top, Hard Tail, $56, hardtailforever.com Dress, VPL, $375, Barneys NYC, 212-826-8900 Camera, Nikon, $180, nikonusa.com GREAT NEW SHADES Tinted lenses lend a high-performance vibe to the…

STEP 1 You're in control of this trend's intensity. To rock it runway-style, sweep a vivid shade of shadow— like violet, emerald, or clementine—across lids. (An extrabold move: Take it above the crease and along inner corners.) For a subtler vibe, opt for a muted blue or gray instead. STEP 2 Using lash glue, affix the sequins. Go crystal crazy (like the models here), or apply a few to a single eye zone: inner or outer corners or along the upper lash line. Even one jewel can add mystique.…

THE PRO Dani Scarcella, a makeup artist in New York City THE PREP Tweeze any obvious strays, then brush down brows. 1. With a brow pencil (use a shade lighter than hairs), gently sketch across the top of the brow from mid-point (or arch) to tail, creating definition along your natural root line. 2. Brush hairs up (they'll hide the line you just made), and gently connect the bottom brow line. (Top inner corners should be left bare—it looks more natural.) 3. Dip an angled brush into matching brow powder, then sweep a light layer across the entire brow. This shadowing effect fills in gaps in a soft, diffused way. 4. Brush through arches in an up-and-out direction to soften any lines and lift excess powder. Repeat the motion with…

Q. Should I pumice my soles before, during, or after showering? A. Before. Moisture (from the shower or your skin) can soften a pumice stick or stone, making it less abrasive. SOURCE: JIN SOON, SPA OWNER IN NYC Slough with Heel to Toe Natural Lava Rock Pumice Stone, $7.50. After showering, rub on L'Occitane Shea Butter Foot Cream, $28. Q. My hair color came out too dark. How can I lighten it without a second trip to the salon? A. Use a clarifying shampoo every other wash. It contains more detergent than traditional formulas, which helps remove excess pigment. SOURCE: KYLE WHITE, LEAD COLORIST AT OSCAR BLANDI SALON Q: Is there a fun, new trend that'll get me out of a makeup rut? A. Yes—the bold blue-liner look from Stella…

MY PLAYLIST I love the new No Doubt and Rihanna albums (1). They're perfect to play at shoots. MY LATEST SPLURGE This Michael Jackson–esque IRO jacket (2), which I wear as a blazer. It looks cool and professional but is comfy enough for work and travel. MY SUGAR FIX Like all of Hollywood, I'm obsessed with Fonuts (3) vegan doughnuts. The strawberry ones are delish! MY MAGIC WAND The Sarah Potempa Beachwaver (4) is a staple for creating surfer-girl waves. MY DATE-NIGHT GO-TO The rooftop at L.A.'s Petit Ermitage (5) is romantic and whimsical…like a scene from Alice in Wonderland. The people watching is great. MY COMIC RELIEF My client Mindy Kaling—she's a modern-day Bridget Jones; her show and book (6) crack me up. MY CHILL TRICK The cassis-scented candle…

Once at a coffee shop, a woman in her mid-30s tapped me on the shoulder. As I turned around, she quickly apologized: "Sorry, miss. I thought you were someone else." "Sarah*?" I asked. "I'm Marissa." "Oh, my goodness," she giggled. "I thought I had the wrong person. You just look so…young!" "I get that a lot," I told her. At the time, I was interviewing Sarah for a story I was writing. I was 24, and it was my first week on the job as editor-in-chief of a regional women's magazine. Our awkward exchange was one of many I've experienced as a young woman in a big job. People expect a much older-looking person, not a short blonde girl who could pass for a college sorority sister. I've always looked…

THE REAL POWER PLAYERS OF D. C. JOB WELL DONE, VOTERS: 20 OF THE 100 U.S. SENATORS ARE NOW WOMEN—A NEW RECORD. YES, 50 WOULD BE BETTER…BUT THESE FIVE NEW STARS IN THEIR FRESHMAN TERM ARE OFF TO AN AMAZING START. HAWAII MAZIE HIRONO DEMOCRAT TRACK RECORD Supported education. As Congresswoman, she helped secure more than $115 million in federal funding for island schools. TOP PRIORITY Strengthen U.S. schools and protect the environment in pristine spots like Hawaii ALSO COOL When Hirono was 8 years old, her mom bravely fled an abusive marriage in Japan and brought her kids to Hawaii with little more than the clothes they were wearing. NEBRASKA DEB FISCHER REPUBLICAN TRACK RECORD Made the streets safer. As a member of the Nebraska Legislature, she championed a…

FEBRUARY 14 MIGHT AS WELL BE CALLED NATIONAL CLICHÉ DAY. THIS YEAR, SKIP THE SAME OLD 8 P.M. DINNER RESERVATION, AND PLAN AN OUT-OF-THE-BOX NIGHT. 1. REV HIS ENGINE Men love nothing more than cars and sex. Rent his most coveted hot rod, and have a backseat romp before dinner at your favorite spot. Sports car + sex = Best. Girlfriend. Ever. 2. HOME SWEET HOME Dating a mama's boy? Make his mom's famous spaghetti recipe to show how attentive you are. Plus, she'll love you for it, and if that isn't a Valentine's Day miracle, we don't know what is. 3. PLAYDATE Give your man foreplay that lasts for hours. Take him to your favorite naughty toy shop, and tell him he can buy anything he wants. Your guy's…

Recently, Sara Blakely, the inventor of our dear, dear friend Spanx, was named to the Forbes list of billionaires for the first time ever. So many of us rely on the body shapers to contain a muffin top or slim our thighs. But they also have a secondary use; they help keep you from having sex with a guy you like. "When I'm into someone, I don't want to ruin things by having sex with him too soon," says Liz (not her real name), 27. "The problem is, I usually want to have sex with him so badly that I don't trust myself not to go too far with him when we are making out." So she squeezes herself into her grossest pair of Spanx. "I have an extra-ugly girdle…

Q. The guy I'm seeing takes forever to orgasm. What does that mean? A. Define forever: If 15 minutes feels like an eternity, then you're probably just having boring sex, sorry to say. So spice it up a bit! But if he repeatedly takes longer than 30 minutes, there's likely something going on in his head—so much of sex is mental. To bring it up without making him want to crawl into a hole and hide, ask him casually during pillow talk: "I've noticed that you take a while to finish. Is that how you usually are? Or is there something going on with us?" Your question may start a dialogue and make him feel more at ease. But if his delay continues and he doesn't know why, he should…

AFTER YEARS OF FRIENDSHIP, you'd probably say that you tell your BFF everything. She knows all about your crush on Hot Neighbor Guy and that time you called in sick to sneak in some retail therapy. But when it comes to giving her your honest feedback on her relationship mishaps or pointing out her cringe-worthy office habits, you've probably told her what you thought she wanted to hear, just to spare her feelings. Sidestepping the truth with friends is a natural instinct. "Women have been taught to do what it takes to keep the peace in their friendships rather than to be completely honest," says Ellen Connell, PsyD, a relationships therapist in San Diego. And if you've ever given your honest opinion to a friend only to have it backfire,…

As I got ready for my 25th birthday party, I looked in the mirror and burst into tears. I'd bought a dress for the occasion—a short, black, slinky number. Under the warm lighting of the store, I'd been fooled into thinking that I looked great and I could mask my discontent in a layer of silk. Back in my apartment, I saw the truth: I was overweight and unhappy. I'd been a normal weight and active growing up, doing gymnastics and playing tennis in high school. But once I graduated college, my workouts were reduced to half-hearted Spinning sessions, and it would have taken a miraculous metabolism to combat my new love for Chinese takeout and beer. By my birthday, I was carrying close to 200 pounds on my 5-foot-5…

Instead of enjoying a night of postsex bliss, you've spent eight hours staring at the ceiling, waiting for the nearest pharmacy to open. You know you need emergency contraception (EC)—fast—but your stomach is turning so much, it feels like there's already a baby flipping around. FIRST, TRY TO RELAX. The sooner you take EC, the more effective it is, but you have a little wiggle room. Behind-the-counter EC options, including Plan B One-Step and Next Choice, are 89 percent effective at preventing pregnancy for 72 hours after unprotected sex. Plus, a newer prescription option, called Ella, works up to five days after sex. IF YOU'RE UNDER 17—or if you want to take Ella, regardless of age—you'll need a prescription. Find a clinic where you can get an Rx quickly at…

RESOLUTION REBOOT You kicked off 2013 with a get-in-shape resolution, but if you're like 36% of Americans, you've fizzled by February 1. Get fired up again with these recommit tips tweeted to @Cosmopolitan by Hollywood trainers. (Even starlets need motivation!) "Commit 2 the process (not the scale). Break down steps u need 2 take each day. Did you walk 10,000 steps? Eat 5 times? Sleep 7-8 hrs?" @HarleyPasternak (Harley Pasternak, trainer to Megan Fox and Sophia Bush) "Follow every lower-body exercise with a core move: sit-ups, crunches, twists, or a 45-sec plank. Every move, all year. Results motivate." @Gunnar (Gunnar Peterson, trainer to Kim Kardashian and Sofia Vergara) "Pick activities you enjoy. If you love how you're spending your time, you'll have fun, keep going back for more, and get…

INTRODUCING OUR GYM-CLASS HEROES—MESH FABRICS, ATHLETIC OUTERWEAR, AND GRAPHICS THAT MOVE. MESH MODE COAT, $495, SWIMSUIT, $96, SKIRT, $295, BACKPACK, $495, AND SHOES, $325, DKNY; SILVER NECKLACE, $260, AND SILVER RING, $300, DINOSAUR DESIGNS; WHITE RING, ALEXIS BITTAR, $125 BEAUTY TIP The makeup equivalent of a strong, graphic dress? A thick cat eye. Trace a chunky eye marker (like CoverGirl Line Blast 24-Hour Eyeliner, $6.88) against lashes. SIDE LINES DRESS, LOUISE GOLDIN, $2,000; LARGE CHROME LIQUID BANGLE, $390, AND MEDIUM CHROME LIQUID BANGLE, $280, DINOSAUR DESIGNS; SILVER-PLATED BANGLE, ROBERT LEE MORRIS, $250; CLUTCH, JIMMY CHOO, $1,925 MAKE THE CUT JACKET, $225, AND BAG, $358, MICHAEL MICHAEL KORS; DRESS, LACOSTE, PRICE UPON REQUEST; BRA WORN UNDERNEATH DRESS, CALVIN KLEIN UNDERWEAR, $20; WATCH, MICHAEL KORS, $195; RED TERRY-CLOTH WRISTBAND, AMERICAN APPAREL, $4;…

If you take a natural, free-spirited approach with your bedroom, your man will be turned on by your confidence, says interior designer Kate Dougherty, assistant set decorator for the gorgeous film Moonrise Kingdom. "The sexiest bed is fresh and clutter-free," she says. "I want the room to feel as naked as I am. When your bed feels right, you'll never want to leave." Here, Kate offers her styling inspirations for arranging the perfect Valentine's Day scenario. SET THE SCENE Let the atmosphere do the talking while you're both consumed with other details. Have romantic poetry on hand, and fill the room with scented candles, fluffy pillows, and a crisp floral arrangement. As a favorite album crackles on a record player, your inhibitions will dissolve. GET SUPER COMFY Wrap yourself up…

GET A SNEAK PEEK AT WHAT TO LOOK FORWARD TO… AND WHAT TO WATCH OUT FOR. Aquarius BIRTHDAY GIRL (JAN. 21–FEB. 18) STRENGTHS: Helpful, inventive, witty WEAKNESSES: Impulsive, stubborn, flaky WHAT MAKES YOU SEXY: You are comfortable with your body and have no problem voicing your opinions—a confidence that turns heads. YOUR BIRTHDAY MONTH: Restless Jupiter has you itching for new experiences near the 11th. Try a ballet-inspired class or sign up for a drawing course—reenergize your routine. DATING TIP: Suggest a trip to an art museum for a date near the 23rd. Scholarly Mercury will bring out your intellectual side, so be ready to impress with your trademark thoughtful commentary. LOVE ADVICE: You're craving some close contact with your man early this month. Sensual Venus suggests taking a bath…

1. When you hear that your frenemy from college started a success-ful blog, you: A Visit it, realize it's only making you mad, then go back to browsing on Zappos. B Bookmark it and hate-read it every morning. C Scoff at the naive idea that a blog is any indicator of success. 2. If you didn't have internet access for 24 hours, you'd feel: A Lost. You just don't feel like yourself when you're not plugged in. B Annoyed. It's pretty inconvenient, but you'll survive. C Like it was Saturday (usually your off-line day). 3. Your Instagram feed consists mostly of: A Super-sexy selfies. B Intricate-looking cocktails. C Your kitten. 4. You just got bitched at by your boss. When you get…

It was an intoxicating mix: 100 of Cosmo's most powerful readers at Michael's, the hottest lunch spot in the city. We masterminded a takeover—women only! We even made up our own menu serving a classic Cobb salad—with a Cosmo twist of lobster!—that regular diners enjoyed for the rest of the week, with a portion of the price going to help victims of Hurricane Sandy. Trailblazers: Diane von Furstenberg and Gov. Maggie Hassan of New Hampshire From bottom left: Gilt Groupe chair Susan Lyne; curator Thelma Golden with painter Elizabeth Peyton; FEED's Lauren Bush Lauren and designer Rebecca Minkoff SJP joined me for salad and gossip. Top TV producer Meryl Poster Inspiring leaders: Rep. Tulsi Gabbard, Stephanie Schriock of EMILY's List, former Orlando police chief Val Demings, and Rep. Elizabeth Esty…

Q. Can Two Alpha Females Be Friends? A. The Golden Globes is the less stodgy Oscars: it combines all our favorite stars in one place…with drinks! But this year's Globes generated another kind of buzz with Tina Fey and Amy Poehler as cohosts. Not only are they individually hilarious and have proven chemistry, as shown on SNL's "Weekend Update," they're also real-life best friends. Together, they transcend well-written material and comic timing; they're the real deal. And that's where the magic happens—their quick quips are like inside jokes they're letting the rest of us in on. But perhaps the greatest takeaway from their pairing is a reminder that powerful women can be friends, share the spotlight, and not be viewed as competitors. The existence of megawatt BFFs spits in the…

SEXY Cute Vacation Lovin' How to put your hands in your pants Derek Jeter, with or without a few extra pounds Flirty bird (love the feather peplum, Jess!) Will and Kate are having a baby! Long, leggy lines Being game for anything VS. SKANKY Gross Seaside Humpin' How not to put your hands in your pants Derek Eater jokes. It's the off-season; cut the guy some slack! Dirty bird (cheesy, crotch-y, just plain wrong) @RoyalFetus is a thing on Twitter. Scary, squeeze-y stripes Being thrown out of a game for trash-talking another fan (looking at you, Nick Lachey)…

Decode His… Bed Linens Who knew? A guy's mattress can provide some crucial intel about his mind's inner workings. Sam Gosling, PhD, author of Snoop: What Your Stuff Says About You, analyzes your man's sheets. NEUTRALS The Straight Shooter Simple, basic bedding in black, tan, or white indicates that he's uncomplicated and direct. You may not be having contortionist-style sex on those vanilla-hued sheets, but at least you'll never have to wonder what's on his mind. BRIGHT COLORS The Rebel Electric blue is a choice. And it's one that says he isn't afraid to go against the grain. Vivid palettes also signal someone who requires a lot of stimulation, so dating this guy can be fun but exhausting. SATIN FINISH The High-Maintenance Dude If he's resting pretty on 1,000-thread-count Egyptian…

Watch, Bulova, $250, bulova.com Skirt, Elie Tahari, $798, saks.com Top, Harlyn, $142, hawthornboutique.com Clutch, Tory Burch, $295, toryburch.com Shoes, Kelsi Dagger, $119, piperlime.com Necklace, Express, $29.90, express.com A tailored shirt keeps shorts looking professional. Top, Gap, $49.95, gap.com Shorts, BCBG Max Azria, $448, bcbg.com Cuffs, GoJane, $13.80 each, gojane.com Bag, Kate Spade New York, $368, katespade.com Opt for nude nail polish if you wear peep-toes to work. Dress, H&M, $49.95, hm.com Jacket, SuperTrash, $455, supertrash.com Clutches, GoJane, $13.80 each,gojane.com Bracelet, CC Skye, $150, blissworld.com Top, Bebe, $179, bebe.com Folding jotter, Smythson, $330, smythson.com Bracelets, Vita Fede, $350 to $375, karenegren.com Pants, Club Monaco, $149.50, clubmonaco.com Shoes, Aldo Rise x Preen, $155, aldoshoes.com Bag, Bebe, $198,…

THE CLASSIC COLOR COMBO IN BOLD GEOMETRIC PATTERNS IS THE ULTIMATE EXERCISE IN CONTRASTS. Necklace, Alexis Bittar, $495, alexisbittar.com Shoes, Eric Rutberg Transparent, $275, evesapple.com Add a little texture to break up an all-black look. Shoes, Rock and Republic, $69.99, kohls.com Sunglasses, Fantas-Eyes, $15, fantas-eyes.com Bag, Triple 7, $59.99, modcloth.com Victoria Beckham Booties, Fiebiger, $85, lulus.com Necklace, Laruicci, $320, laruicci.com Clutch, Michael Michael Kors, $198, 866-709-KORS Booties, MLE, $169, miashoes.com Pair sky-high booties with a mini for maximum effect. Striped pouch, Furla, $58, furla.com; polka-dot pouch, Furla, $48, furla.com Bangle, Sequin, $48, 212-398-7563 Shoes, Nine West, $89, piperlime.com Graphic black-and-white freshens up spring florals. Shoes, Rachel Roy, $325, piperlime.com Clutch, Topshop, $70, topshop.com Shoes, Pour La Victoire, $325, piperlime.com Shoes,…

Inge Christopher, $210, ingechristopher.com Gucci, $1,790, Overture Judith Leiber, $795, overturejudithleiber.com Diane von Furstenberg, $395, 646-486-4800 Kotur, $750, neimanmarcus.com Kotur, $950, saks.com Edie Parker, $1,395, bergdorfgoodman.com Forever 21, $26.80, forever21.com Zara, $79.90, zara.com Brian Atwood, price upon request, brianatwood.com Express, $69.90, express.com AMI Clubwear, $40, amiclubwear.com BCBG Max Azria, $118, amazon.com Dillard's, $65, dillards.com Louis Vuitton, price upon request, louisvuitton.com Mandy Moore NAIL THE TREND: PAIR YOUR MANI TO YOUR BAG Double up geometric patterns for a polished punk vibe. Complement modern skin prints with pale, feminine polish. Mix edgy with traditional by topping houndstooth with a half-moon mani.…

INTERTWINED French-braid your top half, secure it at the crown, and finish braiding the tail normally. Make two tiny braids above the ears; pin them to the main braid. TWIN PEAKS Part hair down the middle, and cornrow (aka weave in an under- not overhanded fashion) each half near the part line. Pin tails into an updo. MILKMAID UPGRADE Tease roots (especially at the crown), then make a thick hairline braid. Sweep the rest into a chignon. FAIRY TAIL Side-part hair, and French-braid the deeper side from hairline to nape. Finger-comb strands on the other side into the braid, pin, then messily weave the tail. HAIR BAND Create a deep side part, and make four braids of varying widths across the top of your head. Twist all hair (braids too)…

EYE OPENER Her secret for a killer stare: Natural-looking lashes—"brushing through is key for no clumps," she says. (Her mascara pick: This one by Jane Iredale.) And peach eye shadow "makes my green eyes pop." Jergens Natural Glow Daily Moisturizer, $9 Chanel Illusion D'Ombre in Abstraction, $36 WAVE MAKER AnnaSophia's stint on the set of Soul Surfer made her a pro at scoring beach-babe waves. "I spray my hair with salt spray, throw it into a top knot, air-dry, then unravel." Her fave: Bumble and Bumble Surf Spray, $24 Jane Iredale PureLash Lengthening Mascara, $18 '80S PARTY As a grown-up, Carrie may have dissed scrunchies, but she rocked them in the '80s— and they're one of AnnaSophia's fave on-set accessories. HAIR APPARENT SJP's hair was watched as closely as her…

What girl doesn't love a little bling? Lucky for us, it was all over the runways. The best of the season: the gold-leafed eyes at Marchesa (right) and Chanel's 1932 collection (a new, jaw-dropping take on its very first fine-jewelry line, created 80 years ago)—and the new scent (above, right) inspired by it. I've rounded up lots more sparkly picks; try some (and send us photos!). They're the perfect way to sync up your inner diva with an outward shine. Treat yourself for V Day… or just because! Follow Cosmo's beauty director on Twitter and Instagram (@LeahWyar) Platinum When infused into nail polish, this metal adds luster and longevity (the shimmer anchors color to tips). It's also a hero ingredient in antiaging creams. Sally Hansen Diamond Strength Nail Color, $5…

@misscoatnay "I can't try on clothes in the winter without looking like I rubbed a balloon on top of my head. Help!" Dry, dehydrating air ups hair's positive charge, creating static. A light oil (1) keeps ions balanced. To calm static, use a dryer sheet. @carolynqd "Is there any way to let thick, wavy hair air-dry without using crunchy mousse?" Combine a puff of mousse with a dime-size drop of styling cream (2) for definition and a touchable texture. @DetectiveAmz "How do you get dark hair to stay vibrant longer?" Heat from water and styling tools swells the cuticle, letting color escape. Lower the temp, and always use a heat-protecting spray (3). @Rose_Sicoli "Can you train hair to produce less oil by not washing it as often?" Yes. Washing strips…

EVEN THE BEST OF US GET STUCK IN A NEW-IDEA BLACK HOLE SOMETIMES. HERE'S WHAT THE MOST CREATIVE WOMEN IN THE WORLD DO TO RECHARGE. Raise your hand if on January 1, you resolved to finally get your dream project off the ground—a jewelry line, a fan-fiction blog, a documentary film, or perhaps all the above. But a few weeks later, life has gotten in the way, and your amazing idea is just sitting there…festering. Yes, this happens to even the most successful women on the planet—and here, 24 of them reveal how they reignite that elusive spark. So get motivated! And take comfort in the fact that they're not above the occasional shot of whiskey to get the creative juices flowing. Trish McEvoy, founder of Trish McEvoy Beauty…

THESE WOMEN ARE KICKING ASS AND MAKING A DIFFERENCE. TULSI GABBARD, 31, Congresswoman (D-HI) The Island Overachiever When Gabbard was 21, voters made her the youngest person ever elected to state office in Hawaii. Then she cut her term short to join the National Guard, serving two tours in the Middle East. Now she has become the first Hindu in Congress and one of its first two female combat veterans. "When I decided to run for Congress, I was told left and right, 'Tulsi, you're a nice girl, but you're too young and inexperienced. It's not your time.' And these are the people who ask, 'Where's the next generation of leaders?'" Gabbard says. "On the trail, I was inspired by a 65-year-old woman who told me how inspired she was…

When I was in my early 20s, I had an affair with my boss. He was single; I was single. Who cared, really? (Well, except HR). I thought I loved him, and we were talking marriage in between trysts on his office desk. But then I discovered that I should have been spraying down his desk with Lysol: I was sharing it and the same man, it turned out, with another coworker. She was married. Her husband found out. It wasn't pretty. Somehow—and I'm a little fuzzy on the details—both the other woman and I ended up looking for new jobs, while Desk-Sex Boy ended up staying at the company and rising through the ranks. I wasn't fired, but I was devastated, and after several late-night drunk-dials, pouring my heart…

Carboholism. As much as it sounds like some fake word the diet industry came up with, I can assure you, it is a very real affliction. Exhibit A: Once, in the middle of a blizzard, I had such an intense need for chocolate-covered pretzels that I ran out into the storm—no coat, in flip-flops—and wandered around the deserted streets of New York until I got my fix. Clearly, I have a problem, and it's not just a lack of willpower. A growing body of research suggests that not only do refined carbs—like pasta, cake, croissants, and white rice—cause us to gain weight (by driving the body to store excess sugar as fat), but that for some people, they're also addictive. "Processed carbs and simple sugars are devoid of nutrients, fat,…

Q. I met two great guys around the same time, then things got serious with guy number one. Well, we just broke up. Is it okay to check in with guy number two? A. As long as you didn't end things with guy number two in a way that was especially ego shriveling (ignoring his calls, comparing his penis unfavorably with the penis of guy number one), you have another chance. In fact, he may be even more into you than he was before—many men love a woman who's hard to get. Still, you'll need to make sure guy number two doesn't feel like a consolation prize. Explain that things with guy number one had gotten to a point where he wanted to be exclusive, then say, "He was nice,…

As Superstorm Sandy descended on New York City, rain and storm winds rattled the windows of downtown's Crosby Street Hotel. Inside, actress Julianne Hough and her boyfriend, Ryan Seacrest—Hollywood's fast-rising, workaholic power couple—were stranded and alone. Their cell phones were, for once, strangely quiet. So they curled up in a king-size bed and hibernated with fellow bears: the potty-mouthed comedy Ted on the hotel TV and an enormous canister of gummy bears open on the duvet. "We couldn't work," Hough says, the next day. "We just got to stay in our bed and in our pajamas—until the power cut out." Let's just say they probably never saw the end of that talking-teddy-bear flick. "It was great," says Hough, smiling conspiratorially. "We put on some candles, had some sexy time.…Ha!" Hough…

It's 11 p.m. on a Saturday, and Sapphire, a gentlemen's club—a strip club—in NYC, is just starting to fill up. In one corner, a topless brunette with a butterfly tattoo across her lower back and fake breasts so full and firm, they look like they might burst, gives a lap dance to a group of rowdy 20somethings. A minute or so into it, someone reaches out and runs a finger along the side of the brunette's breast, boldly breaking the no-touch policy. The dancer shakes her finger playfully at the offender—not an entitled frat boy who thinks the rules don't apply to him, not a finance guy who is convinced the rules don't apply to him, but a young woman with curly blonde hair and a bright pink $18 cosmopolitan…

You know to bring home leftovers of mongo-size restaurant portions. Don't stop there. Slim down any restaurant meal with these surprising strategies. PICK A QUIET TABLE. Loud noise and visual distractions (from a window with a view to a busy street or TV screen) can compel you to eat more because you're not focused on how much food goes into your mouth. SCAN THE MENU ONLINE. You're more likely to order a healthy dish if you decide on it in advance than if you read mouthwatering menu descriptions on an empty stomach. BE THE FIRST TO ORDER. You've decided on grilled salmon, but once you hear your friend's order, you're suddenly dying for steak frites. Speak up first, then shut your menu. SOURCES: CORNELL UNIVERSITY, ANNUAL REVIEW OF NUTRITION STUDIES…

MEET YOUR TRAINER Tracy Anderson is a top fitness guru who helps A-listers like Gwyneth Paltrow, J.Lo, and Gisele sculpt lean, toned bods. Check her out at TracyAndersonMethod.com, and follow her on Twitter @TracyAnderson. Kneeling Hand Press 1 Begin on all fours with two 3-pound weights in your left hand, palm facing away from your body. Keep your right arm straight with palm flat on the ground. Maintain a slight bend in your left elbow. 2 Bend through your left elbow to push and extend left arm straight up to the ceiling, keeping your gaze at a fixed point on the ground and your neck relaxed. Return arm to floor; that's one rep. Do 30, and switch arms. Lasso Arm 1 Hold a weight in each hand. Extend both arms…

FLAMING LIPS OMBRé MOVES FROM MANES TO MOUTHS WITH THIS SCARLET-TO-ORANGE GRADATION. NOT ONLY IS IT FRESH, BUT IT'S ALSO A PLUMPING TECHNIQUE. "THE LIGHTER COLOR IN THE CENTER CREATES THE ILLUSION OF VOLUME," SAYS MAKEUP ARTIST CHARLOTTE WILLER FOR MAYBELLINE NEW YORK, WHO CRAFTED THE LOOKS YOU SEE HERE. FRENCH TWIST THIS MANI WAS INSPIRED BY BOTH THE OLD-SCHOOL FRENCH AND THE HUGE GEOMETRIC NAIL-ART TREND. "FOR A MODERN TAKE, I USED THE NATURAL NAIL—NOT NEUTRAL POLISH—AS THE BASE AND PLACED THE RUBY TIP ON A DIAGONAL," SAYS CELEBRITY NAIL PRO TRACYLEE. CHERRY CHEEKS WE'RE NOT SUGGESTING YOU TOSS OUT YOUR PINK OR PEACH BLUSHES. BUT CONSIDER THIS: "THE REDDER THE BLUSH, THE FRESHER IT MAKES YOU LOOK SINCE IT MIMICS YOUR FACE'S NATURAL FLUSH," SAYS WILLER. THIS CERISE…

THIS MENU IS QUICK ENOUGH (SO YOU CAN SPEND ALL DAY IN THE BEDROOM), SATISFYING ENOUGH (TO RECHARGE YOU FOR ROUND TWO), AND JUST PLAIN DELICIOUS. GO ON—START V DAY WITH A BANG. Grapefruit Elderflower Sparkler 1 ounce elderflower liqueur 1 ounce chilled pink grapefruit juice 3 ounces chilled Prosecco or sparkling wine Combine the elderflower liqueur and grapefruit juice. Top with Prosecco. Serves 1. Red Berry Salad 1 cup quartered strawberries, stems removed 1 cup raspberries 1 cup halved cherries, pits removed 1 tablespoon minced fresh mint 1 tablespoon sugar Mix all ingredients in a bowl, and voilÀ! Serves 2. Open-Faced Croque Madame 4 ½-inch-thick slices crusty bread, like a baguette ½ cup ricotta cheese ½ pound thinly sliced deli ham ½ cup grated GruyÈre cheese 4 large eggs…

I have a confession to make. Something I have resisted telling my friends even after three dirty vodka martinis on an empty stomach. Because once I say it, they won't just pity me—which is bad enough—they'll judge me. I judge people all the time, and my thoughts are so bitchy I judge myself for having them. So here goes: Sex with my boyfriend, my wonderful boyfriend who is probably going to propose soon, is terrible. He's pretty great in other ways, but I'd rather do CrossFit hungover than let him penetrate me. God, that is horrible. Which is why, when I stumbled into my apartment building at 2 a.m. this past Sunday morning and saw that Travis, Travis, was holding the elevator door for me, I knew I was in…