Innholdsfortegnelse for January 2019 i Cosmopolitan India

Happy New Year! My hopes for you, in 2019, include more love, happiness, shoes, and success. And less judgement. You see, while we’ve always suspected it, there is now solid proof to back things up: women are judged more harshly than men, when it comes to pretty much everything. Sigh. One study found that when a woman makes a mistake at work, the repercussions to her reputation and credibility are more serious than if a man made the same error. When a male police officer ended up with 25 injured civilians, his rating dropped by 10 percent; but when a female police officer made the same mistake, her ratings dropped by 30 percent! Similarly, following the death of a patient, male surgeons still received the same number of physician referrals,…

“I rushed into the bathroom at college to pee. While sitting down in a stall, I noticed a pair of huge sneakers passing by. Then a herd of boys came into the room. I was in the wrong bathroom! I jumped on top of the seat so my shoes wouldn’t give me away, and I sat like that for a whole five minutes.” —AMAN K., 23 “I once saw my friend’s boyfriend with another girl at a bar. When they left, my other friend and I got in a car and followed them. We pulled up to the side of his car and started screaming, but when I looked closer, I saw it wasn’t her boyfriend after all. We were too embarrassed to admit the mix-up, so we just sped…

1 Poochki Poochki, the label, is an ode to Poochki, the founders’ pet manx cat. Enter carefully-chosen Indian textiles and hand block prints (on the garments, not the feline). Designers Ishanee Mukherjee and Anirudh Chawla (who also cracked the Lakmé Fashion Week GenNext Programme) are inspired by flora and fauna, and their recent LFW collection features a delightful stir of cloud and stork prints, vivid colours, and a smattering of texture and crinkle. A combination of standout aesthetic and easy wearability makes Poochki a label worth owning. 2 Two Point Two Studio Subscribing to an ‘agender’, ‘genderless’ concept, Two Point Two blurs the male-female fashion lines. Fun fact: their recent collection, titled Ze—The New Me, uses Ze as a pronoun bridge between He and She. Browse through the collection to find…

SPRING FEVER An ode to free-spirited women, Pallavi Mohan’s SS/19 collection—Summer Daisy—is all about flowy silhouettes, delicate fabrics, and the brand’s signature Not So Serious embroidery. If you’re looking at a wardrobe reboot, swap your muted items with these überfeminine, pastel beauties. WILD WILD WEST If you love the ’70s, we’ve got great news—it’s BIG right now. Some of the most coveted designers revived this era and sent their models down the runway in styles ranging from fringed leather jackets (as seen at Philosophy Di Lorenzo Serafini), cosy blanket coats (check out Isabel Marant), and multihued patchwork skirts, à la Ralph Lauren that scream boho-chic. TREND ALERT Puffer jackets are to winter what floral dresses are to summer. They are comfy, chic, and go with everything, right from jeans to…

LAYER 1 Essence These liquids replenish the skin after cleansing, says Jenna Walsh, a skin therapist at Heyday LA. (Think of them as the refreshing ice in your drink.) Saturate a cotton pad with one that has hydrating ingredients such as ceramides or rose water (like Garnier’s), then pat it all over your face. LAYER 2 Serum Like your liquor, this is potent! It should contain actives to target specific skin concerns such as acne, hyperpigmentation, fine lines, or dryness, says New York-based dermatologist Dendy Engelman, MD. (Murad’s nourishes and battles wrinkles.) Apply it before the essence dries, as wet skin is more absorptive. LAYER 2 Cream A well-balanced bev has a watery component—like tonic or juice—and so does healthy, hydrated skin. Get your complexion’s H2O fix in the form…

As you step into 2019, stocked up with all the new year resolutions, Casio just made keeping at least some of them easier! Let your fitness and health goals this year be taken care of by their Baby G watches—a series engineered to aid your daily workouts, in style! With a plethora of features that will not only help you keep track of all your fitness activities with effortless ease, it also boasts options that will remind you to up the anté when you start slacking, keep you going even when you may forget to take care of yourselves! So whether it is small steps towards #fitnessgoals by keeping tabs on your activity, or to check how many pizza-calories from last night you shed in the rigorous training session this…

1 Find seductive inspo. Spend time together looking at photos online—artsy Tumblr erotica, sexy movie scenes—that capture the feed you want, recommends JonGunnar Gylfason of JonGunnar Gylfason Photography, in New Orleans, USA. 2 If there are no boudoir photographers in your area, ask a friend to help. A close friend might make things more comfortable…and affordable. 3 Discuss boundaries with both your partner and the photographer. Explain what you’re comfortable with and which things are too private for the session, says Delia. 4 Make a playlist that brings your sultry sides out to play during the shoot. Try Spotify’s ‘Feeling Sexy’ playlist.…

When your partner tries to seduce you, you feel kind of repulsed or disgusted. ☐ Yes ☐ No You and your SO have little to no emotional intimacy with each other. ☐ Yes ☐ No One of you uses the lack of sex as a weapon against the other. ☐ Yes ☐ No IF YOU ANSWERED MOSTLY YES, you and your partner may be experiencing problems that are deeper than just a lack of physical intimacy. Have a meaningful talk about your relationship to determine the real issues. IF YOU ANSWERED MOSTLY NO, you will likely emerge from this time stronger and still compatible. Heat things up by trying out experiences that reveal new sides of each other.…

So you just had a boozy brunch with your bestie, where you caught up on life, love, and the pursuit of free champs. You hugged, said good-bye, and parted ways. An hour later, you scroll Insta and see she posted a photo from the meal with a caption that’s so… not the experience you actually just had. “This can be confusing because when you feel like you’re close to somebody and they seem like someone else online; it feels almost like a betrayal,” says Miriam. Your pal may be projecting a certain persona so others find her more Like-worthy. If that’s the case, consider muting her feed. (No need to block—that’s a little drastic.) “This lets you both remain connected on social media and preserves the healthier aspects of your…

Silently judging your cousin who grinds away at the office every weekend? Secretly jealous of your BFF who barely works and relies on her flush SO for support? These feelings are normal, but remember: “There’s no one-size-fits-all when it comes to a career,” says Sara Bliss. Just because you have one level of ambition doesn’t mean everyone else has to view their life in the same way. “Usually, when we’re feeling judgy of someone else, we’re not taking everything into account,” says Alison Green. Maybe that workaholic is paying down her house loans. Or perhaps your pal is dealing with mental-health issues that hinder her work vibe. Whatever the case, focus on your own goals. You don’t want friends harshing on your path, right? So leave them to theirs.…

Q. My ex and I had a crazy breakup. After months of not speaking, we now smile when we see each other. What impression will he get if I ask him to catch up over coffee? A: He’ll think you’re still into him. If that’s the case, fine. But if you’re not, you’d better clarify what that latte date means from the start. Say something like, ‘Hey, I know it was the right thing for us to break up, but now that it’s over, I’d like to grab a quick coffee and chat’. Q: Are there any body language cues I can track to know if a first date is interested in me? A: If he can’t take his eyes off you and leans in close to hear what you’re…

Hair: Italo Gregorio for StyleCraft; Make-Up: Katie Jane Hughes (Assisted By: Suki Tsujimoto); Manicure: Julie Kandalec using Chanel Vernis; Models: Iesha Hodges/One Management, and Maia Cotton/The Lions.…

Skeyndor Power Oxygen City Pollution Block Gel-Cream + O2, ₹3,180 This gel-cream will help you rejuvenate skin that appears fatigued due to pollution—it’s got perfluorodecalin content (an oxygen-trapping molecule) and active agents in the formula, which work by forming a protective film on the face that maintains hydration and helps recover your skin’s lost glow. Bath & Body Works Happy Vibes Shower Gel, ₹1,295 This happy blend of crisp pear, pink citrus, fresh honeysuckle, sheer vetiver, and dewy orchid will wrap your skin in feel-good vibes! Plus, the formula’s packed with moisturising shea butter and nourishing Vitamin E which leaves skin feeling soft all day long. Guerlain Shalimar Souffle Intense, ₹8,150/50ml This iconic fume inspired by India needs no introduction. However, what you do need to know about its new…

High-drama accessories are major right now. And this gold-plated, stone-studded hairband by Ornamas, ₹5,200, is perfect for channelling your inner princess. I love how this fun corset-style crop top by Papa Don’t Preach, ₹35,000, can lighten up any outfit. The colour is just so fresh! I’m crushing over all things logo-ed ATM. (It’s a great way to show your loyalty towards a favourite brand!) And this belt by Gucci, ₹33,855, is packed with the right amount of bling, making it perfect for both day and night. These ankle-length booties by Charles & Keith, ₹8,499, take the dark floral trend to a new level. Pair ’em with an itty-bitty monochrome dress to let them shine. This mini disco fanny pack by Outhouse, ₹35,000, has got just what I want in a…

The winning style mantra for 2019: find your colour (preferably a super-bright one!) and wear it head-to-toe. It’s a trend that’s been around for a while, but celebrities have taken it upon themselves to ensure that the colder months don’t end up dulling their sparkle in any way! Case in point: vivid top-to-toe looks in all kinds of fabulous textures, shapes and styles, for a truly striking look.…

“You become the First Lady and people are like, well, she’s too busy, she doesn’t want to talk. To all my friends, I’d be like, Tell me about your son. And it’s like, You don’t want to hear about that. I absolutely do. I had to find a way to continue to remind my girlfriends that I’m here for them. I started planning these boot camps at Camp David every three months because, I thought, we’re gonna do stuff that’s healthy. A lot of my friends are my age, reaching middle age. So I would have my trainer, one of the chefs from the White House, go to Camp David, and we’d set up, like, four days of really hard exercise. I eliminated sugar and wine. And then people were…

1 Star-Studded Difficulty 3/3 Boldly go where no (wo)man has gone before with this sci-fi masterpiece, courtesy of Prada AW/18. “Stencil out the shape with make-up tape,” says Sascha Jackson, Lead Make-Up at Stila. Place a curved piece of tape from the middle of the crease to the corner of the eyebrow and another from the outer corner of the eye up. Colour in the uncovered section with a pale blue eyeshadow stick, stopping at the centre of the lid. Add a cat-eye flick using a cobalt liner and dot silver face gems over the shadow. Remove the tape, then lightly smudge the eyeliner along the lower lashes, drawing the line out parallel to the upper wing. Add pale blue liquid liner to the inner corner of the lower waterline to…

Delicate Darlings If soft and sparkling scents are your thing, these babies are all you need. Fragrant without being too overpowering, they offer a sweet touch thanks to a varying combination of citrusy fruits, floral heart, and a wood base. Let’s Spice Things Up Looking for fumes that make a statement? Opt for one of these intense fragrances that feature notes like floral, musky, and woody, with a hint of spice to awaken the senses. A Sweet Surprise Formulated with good-enough-to-eat ingredients like cocoa essence, blackcurrants, and cherries, these scents are young and daring, and will dress your skin in delectable sweetness. On a Happy Note Featuring heady notes of white flowers (like orange blossom), and citrus plants (like tangerine), these scents will instantly transport you to a spring garden…

The first thing that comes to mind when you look at the young actor is that she’s shy. But Janhvi Kapoor will change the way you perceive her within minutes of meeting her. She walks in with a reserved air, exchanging mandatory niceties with the crew, immediately settling in the make-up chair in a corner, fiddling with her phone while listening to music. But the second we give her a cropped wig, her inner child comes to the fore. Janhvi’s now consumed in clicking the right selfie to share with her friends and fam—not to keep them updated on what she’s up to, mind you, but to prank them. “I love this look. As soon as I put on the wig, I thought of clicking a few pictures and convincing…

When US-based body-positivity influencers like Tess Holliday and Jessamyn Stanley took to Instagram in the early 2010s, they cultivated a space where unaltered images of women’s bodies challenged beauty norms and where you didn’t need a flat belly or cellulite-free thighs to attract thousands of supportive comments. On a perfection-obsessed platform, their accounts gained millions of Likes and followers. Their message has finally gone mainstream, with major fashion brands expanding their sizing options and featuring women with diverse and often unretouched bodies in ad campaigns. Hop on the Aerie, ThirdLove, or Thinx social-media accounts and you’ll see models with soft curves and belly rolls posing alongside those with ripped abs. On the ASOS and Outdoor Voices sites, un-Photoshopped women of varying sizes rock spandex. J.Crew, Marks & Spencer, and FabAlley…

We have a news flash for you: bosses rarely get to do the things they love. They have to make a lot of high-level decisions, and they probably enjoyed whatever they were doing right up until the point they got promoted. Yeah, it’s really great when you get a chic title and your fatter paycheck reflects that, but what people rarely tell you is that the C-suite life isn’t for everyone. When you think about what kind of success you want, the goal is to be real with yourself about what you want to spend your time doing, and sometimes that thing is not leading a big team or being in charge. That doesn’t make you a failure. Being successful can mean that you genuinely value the time you spend…

1. The second the clock strikes midnight on NYE, you’ll be: a. Just getting started. Who’s ready for the most epic 2am club crawl?! b. Air-kissing your BFFs before they real-kiss their BFs. c. Cracking open your new 2019 journal with your Future Is Female pen in hand. 2. Rent and food excluded, last year you spent the most money on: a. Unredeemed (and now expired) voucher deals for fancy caviar facials and goat yoga. b. An unlimited data plan, so you can binge-stream rom-coms whenever the thirst strikes. c. Coffee, coffee, more coffee—and late-night Ubers home from work. 3. For your new profile picture, you used a photo from: a. Halloween. The only thing scarier than your Handmaid’s Tale costume is the length of your roots RN. b. Snapchat. So…

HOW TO CALCULATE YOUR BIRTH AND LIFE PATH NUMBER For your birth number, add the digits of your birth date. For example, if your birthday falls on the 21st of any month, your birth number is 2+1=3. For the life path number, reduce your birth date, month, and year into single digits and then add them up. For example, if you were born on 21.07.1992, then the resulting digits will be: 2+1=3, 7=7, 1+9+9+2=21=2+1=3. So, your life path number will be 3+7+3=13=1+3=4. 21.03–19.04 ARIES ASTRO This year, the more you try to push things forward, the more roadblocks you’re likely to encounter. Instead, use this time to take stock of what you’ve accomplished so far, and what you want to achieve. Things are looking good at work—go after what you…

NEW YEAR, NEW ME “As a plus-size woman, I’ve always admired Sonakshi Sinha for promoting a healthy body image and being comfortable in her skin. And after reading her interview, I’m determined to get fitter in 2019. Also, I agree with her approach to dating. I don’t think we should get into a relationship just for the sake of it. Better be single than miserable, right?” —Rhea Sahni SO LONG 2018! “Phew, 2018 was quite a year! And although I knew about the landmark moments like the decriminalisation of Section 377 and India’s #MeToo movement, it was interesting to read about the other important events in The Year That Was. On that note, I’m taking inspo from Cocktail Hour to kick-start 2019.” —Ira Malik ALL THE SINGLE LADIES “I’ve been…

1 Brocade is one of the ‘It’ fabrics for 2019. And there’s something about this dress that’s both traditional and avant-garde, which will totally make you stand out. Dress, Grassroot by Anita Dongre, ₹36,990 2 Make a bee-line for these shoulder dusters. Pull your hair back and team these babies with an off-shoulder outfit for maximum impact. Butterfly motif earrings, Varnika Arora, ₹3,850 3 Redefine athleisure with this luxe sweatshirt, featuring an embellished Russian doll. It’s got a lot going for itself: a bold pop of colour, intricately embroidered pattern, and slouchy silhouette that’s perfect for days when you want to keep it casual-chic. Sweatshirt, Kukoon, ₹10,500 4 Running shoes never looked this good. This pair—inspired by metallic finishes from the ’90s—is perfect to hit a party, post your sweat…

SLEEVE IT OUT Your shirt sleeves have been all lonely and hidden away inside your coat for so long. Do as the fash pack does, and set them free by pulling them through your longest outer layer. Tricky? Ruche up the outer layer and secure with a thin rubber band in your elbow crease. SCARF MEASURES Go big on ‘improvised’ scarves, mainly because they add an insouciant spin to any outfit. Big and chunky usually wins the show (an old cashmere jumper is the best), or try a silk scarf tied in a ‘tough’ bandana style. SHEELS: SOCKS+HEELS Socks extend the life of summer and evening shoes—and you can forgo a pedi. Handwash special socks as you would your best bra. TURN UP THE VOLUME Playing with proportion is an…

MANVI ARORA, 18 “I enjoy styling vintage trends, and that’s what I’ve done here. I’ve teamed a pair of skinny newspaper-print pants with a white ruffle-sleeved blouse. To add contrast, I’ve added an orange, statement, origami bag.” JASLEEN SAHNEY, 19 “I’ve always been inspired by JLo’s slouchy trousers-and-crop top look because it’s both comfy and chic. These orange cargo pants pair fabulously with black, and that’s why I’ve opted for simple sneakers and a crop top to let ’em shine.” KRATIKA GUPTA, 21 “A no-fuss, casual outfit is my staple look on most days. These ripped, flared jeans do the job well when paired with interesting extras like a satin shirt and coloured sunglasses.” AAKSHI KASHYAP, 24 “This oversized coat is my go-to winter essential. To keep the look daytime-chic,…

REDUCE REDNESS When you’re dealing with a flushed face or an angry breakout, green is your calming BFF. That’s because green and red are opposites on the colour wheel—they counteract each other, says celebrity make-up artist Vincent Oquendo. Smashbox Cosmetics Colour Correcting Stick in Get Less Red, ₹1,800 HIDE HYPERPIGMENTATION Dark spots, post-inflammatory marks from old breakouts, and melasma are tough to hide without layers of concealer. To the rescue: a yellow-tinted primer or corrector. It’ll neutralise uneven pigment and, bonus, minimise purple-coloured veins. LA Girl HD Pro Concealer Color Corrector in Yellow, ₹595 DIMINISH DARK CIRCLES Red correctors can negate the bluish tones under eyes. “If your skin tone is light or medium, choose an orange shade. If you’re darker, opt for red,” says Glamsquad Artistic Director Kelli J…

DRAWING THE LINE The humble eyeliner has changed many forms over the years—graphic, arty, cat eye to name a few. And the backstage pros have reinvented it yet again. Outlining eyes with colourful liners seems to be the trend du jour, and one that can be worked in both OTT and dainty ways. While Sies Marjan and Paolo Steve chose bright hues to draw out the shape of the eyes, models at Anna Sui adorned their upper lids with complementing colours like pink and purple, working the ‘double liner’. Not a fan of big, bold lines that draw attention to your peepers? Opt for thin, arty strokes that look delicate yet edgy, à la Jason Wu or Jeremy Scott. Skin Saviours! Battling dry, parched skin? Try some ceramide-rich products—fatty acids…

To this day, no-one fully understands why in the early stages of dating, couples want to rip each other’s clothes off—yet the longer they stay together, the more that urge fades. What we do know: that this happens often—like, really often. And there are so many factors at play with erotic cravings in relationships—and why they ebb and flow—that it makes analysing the phenomenon difficult. For starters, sexual desire is an elusive and complex thing. It’s mental, physical, emotional, and contextual. It also occurs differently in women than it does in men. And we all have this story in our heads that if sex with a partner starts out hot, it has only one place to go: down. That belief in itself may be limiting us more than we realise.…

Loyal Insta followers are the best. They Like all your posts, send you hearts in the DMs, and tell you your thirst-trap pics are hot. But could they cut it as real-world friends? Lots of seeming BFF-doms now spring up online, and they can be legit connections. But so-called Follow friendships don’t necessarily carry the same perks as ones you nurture IRL. “You might know what she had for lunch, but she doesn’t know that you’re going through a hard time because you don’t post about it,” says US-based psychologist Andrea Bonior, PhD, author of The Friendship Fix. “Social platforms make things murky,” adds Montreal-based friendship researcher Miriam Kirmayer. “People might have different perceptions of how close you are.” If you do post about a rough patch, you might hope…

IS YOUR JOB ENOUGH FOR YOU? Are you ever embarrassed by your work performance? ☐ Yes ☐ No Have you been consistently miserable in your position for more than two months? ☐ Yes ☐ No Do you have what you thought would be your dream job but feel totally unfulfilled? ☐ Yes ☐ No If you answered mostly Yes, you may be frustrated with your current gig or need a career refresh that aligns with your definition of success. Think about pivoting to a new industry. “Find a job that utilises your strengths and you’ll be more likely to be happy,” says Sara Bliss, author of Take The Leap. If you answered mostly No, you seem to know what kind of work sitch fits your preferred lifestyle. Continue checking in…

Ginger Fizz Effervescent with a subtle kick ½ tsp. grated ginger 2 thin slices fresh mango 60ml mango juice 118ml ginger beer In a tall glass, muddle ginger and mango slices. Add mango juice and ginger beer, and stir. Add ice, and garnish with a slice of lime. So-Cal Mule For when you crave something light and citrusy 90ml sparkling limeade 60ml pear juice 22ml fresh lime juice 22ml maple syrup In a highball glass, combine limeade, juices and maple syrup, and stir. Add ice, and garnish with a sprig of mint. Sparkling Tart Apple Fruity and bubbly with just the right amount of tang 150ml sparkling apple-grape juice ½ tsp. balsamic vinegar Pour juice into a wine glass, and add vinegar. Garnish with a sprig of fresh rosemary. SOURCE:…

Models: Avanti Nagrath at Runway Lifestyle Modelling Agency; (dog) Beau; Hair and Make-Up: Amanender Sidhu; Fashion Intern: Manvi Bhatnagar; Fashion Assistant: Simran Handa…

ON THE COVER Amit Aggarwal—The Kila, Seven Style Mile, Mehrauli, ND. Purple Paisley— Dunhill Dome, Bandra West, Mumbai. Sapna Mehta— Shiv Tapi Building, Off Hughes Road, Mumbai. FASHION 431-88 by Shweta Kapur— www.431-88.com. Accessorize— Ambience Mall, Vasant Kunj, ND. Adidas— DLF Promenade, Vasant Kunj, ND. Aisha Rao— www.perniaspopupshop.com. Aldo— DLF Promenade, Vasant Kunj, ND. Alpana Neeraj— www.perniaspopupshop.com. Angrakhaa— www.angrakhaa.com. Anushé Pirani— Instagram: @anushepirani. Anushka Bajaj— R-3, Greater Kailash-I, ND. Archana Rao— www.archanaraolabel.com. Auruhfy— 558, Ghitorni, ND. Bhumika Sharma— M-163, Greater Kailash-1, ND. Black Sheep by Breviloquent— www.breviloquent.in. Call It Spring— DLF Mall Of India, Noida, UP. Calvin Klein— DLF Mall Of India, Noida, UP. Charles & Keith— DLF Promenade, Vasant Kunj, ND. Christian Dior— DLF Emporio, Vasant Kunj, ND. Christian Louboutin— DLF Emporio, Vasant Kunj, ND. Coach— DLF Emporio, Vasant Kunj, ND. Crazy Palette— Greater Kailash-II, ND. Deepa Gurnani— www.deepagurnani.com. Firdaus…