Innholdsfortegnelse for March 2016 i Chat It's Fate

I've had an affinity with trumpet players ever since I was 18. I woke up one day to Louis Armstrong singing What A Wonderful World . And it was - I'd just passed my A-levels and was seeing a great man! So my heart broke when I read Clarence's story on p4 . He'd been one of Britain's top players when he was paralysed in a car crash. His courage is a tribute to the tenacity of human spirit. He was helped by a voice promising him fulfilment. Belief in a greater power is transforming. Mirror man We took these pictures on a ghost hunt at a shop known to be haunted in Littlehampton, and we can’t explain the figure in the mirror. Is the original owner still keeping…

Plumbing new heights! Face-first, I found myself in a tunnel of light, feeling at total peace. Wonderful smells were around me. What I didn’t know was that I’d died – I’d been hit by a car, and my heart had stopped beating. When I opened my eyes, I was floating above my body. A man with a halo and a white robe was next to me. ‘Hello, Tommy,’ he said telepathically. He taught me eight revelations about the nature of Heaven and Earth. I didn’t understand why he’d chosen me to impart his wisdom to – I was just a plumber! But, once I’d recovered, I used my new knowledge to help others. I’m no longer a plumber – I now teach people to love themselves and tell them they…

Kathryn Alice is a relationship coach and the best-selling author of Love Will Find You . If you’re looking for romance, her combination of common-sense advice, magical tips and knowledge of the power of attraction will help invite the right person into your life. Here’s how… Take this class to: Increase your sense of self-worth Break old and unhelpful attachments Manifest your perfect mate What’s holding you back? If you're wondering why you haven't found The One, take a look at yourself and be honest: are you attached to someone else? Is there someone in your life who makes promises, suggesting you’ve got a future, but never actually delivers? Before you even try to find love, you have to dissolve any such attachments. Kathryn suggests the following: List the reasons…

Research suggests 1.5 million people in the UK may suffer from a mental health problem called multiple personality disorder. Its medical name is dissociative identity disorder (DID). Screen presence In 1957, a film The Three Faces Of Eve told the story of Chris Costner Sizemore, who had three personalities. But years later, she revealed that it was a total of 22. Then in 1976, the book Sybil , about the life of a psychiatric patient with 16 personalities, was made into a film. The truth Sybil caused a public reaction and cases of DID rose from fewer than 100 to thousands.Then it came to light that the patient had lied to get attention. Sadly, this means a lot of people still question the…

Equinox action! The ancient festival of the Spring Equinox celebrates fertility, and hares are more fertile than the Easter Bunny! Older than rabbits in the British Isles, our ancient ancestors would definitely have seen them hopping about! In March, these intriguing animals are often seen boxing for mates by the light of the Moon. They’re active at night, which adds to their aura of mystery. Hares are revered in folklore the world over, and many believed they could move between this world and the spirit realms. Buddha’s buddy One story tells how the Lord Buddha was hungry in the forest when he saw a hare. The creature told him to light a fire and prepare a pot. Buddha did this, and the noble animal jumped into the pot. Showing his…

The majestic castle cast a shadow over me as I peered up. It was August last year… Me and my hubby David, 59, were visiting the capital, and the Tower of London was top of the list. The landmark’s history was so intriguing and I must have looked like any other tourist as I took photos. But as a medium, my psychic sense told me where to shoot pics. Spirits I’ve captured many ghosts on camera – my photos have even hit national headlines, and I’ve been dubbed the psychic paparazzo! I thought the Tower would have plenty of ghostly activity, so as I stood on the green, I tuned into Spirit. There were two spirits in particular I wanted to make contact with – the famous murdered princes in…

Q & A They were so real I could feel them Dear Roi de Lune My recurring dream is always at my grandparents’ house –I revisit stuff we did together. Grandad died when I was 5, my nan when I was 20. I can physically feel my grandad’s jumper and smell Nan’s perfume… I was very close to them. Alex, 25, Norwich Dear Alex The house in your dream symbolises your psyche, and how you see yourself – your dream is a reflection of how you’ve changed. You yearn for happier days like the ones when you were little. I was chomping on red meat Dear Roi de Lune Recently, I dreamt I was sitting at work and eating nothing but raw meat all day! People couldn’t believe what I…

‘My methods can show you what a CV doesn’t’ Off the charts The use of astrology in business is becoming more widespread, but it's not something that firms advertise. My client list includes city investors, accountancy firms, holistic therapists, a hair salon and interior designers. When I do an astrology chart relating to employment, I look for characteristics like reliability and confidence, as well as anything specified by my client. A good astrologer can give an accurate portrait of a person, which is more than you can glean from any interview. For example, an accountancy firm was looking for a trainee and sent me the dates of births of prospective candidates so I could draw up birth charts. The MD’s favourite was an Aquarius who had performed well face-to-face. But…

Your relationship If you’ve had enough of blazing rows, steer your relationship away from emotional triggers and re-establish a settled daily routine. You benefit most from a harmonious atmosphere, but your partner will appreciate your efforts, too. If you have kids, put on a united front and agree on limits for spending. New love Events early in the month determine whether a dalliance at work is going anywhere. It’s wise to keep work and romance separate for now. If you’re looking for new lurve, it’s via your friends that satisfaction is found. A new relationship develops quickly when you discover a shared interest in music, film or art. Venus and Neptune promise romance on 19th/20th. Career and money Take advantage of an opportunity to meet new people who can influence…

Your relationship A happy vibe envelops the start of the month as Venus continues her journey through your Relationship Sector. Make the most of good times so you have memories based on equality and fairness. This is important if sensitive issues arise concerning children or romance. Dealing with anything hidden needs special attention and a gentle touch. New love Mars in your Romance Sector after the 6th is the equivalent of a dashing suitor who sweeps you off your feet. If you meet someone new, hold on to your hat as you’re promised passion! But don’t compromise your own needs to be with this person. Double check they have a soft side and lack an excessive amount of emotional baggage. Career and money Pay close attention to the small print…

Your relationship There’s a mismatch between what you want and what your beloved’s demanding! Rather than ignore any dissatisfaction, deal with it. Lovers Venus and Mars are in conflict mid-month, which’ll bring matters to a head. Whatever it is, talk and listen – don’t let things fester. New love A romantic lover’s about to walk into your life as the Sun, Mercury and Venus align in your Romance Sector. The 11th/12th and 20th are oozing with potential. The best venue to meet someone is a music concert, art gallery or mind-body-spirit talk. If you’re harbouring feelings for an ex, perform a ritual to forgive and let go. Career and money Mars powers into your Money Sector on the 6th and kickstarts your desire to make money fast. A bold approach…

Your relationship The start of the month signals full-on action, whether that’s your future together or a proposal. What you put in place now brings you a peak period of happiness in nine months. Easter weekend looks lively and when you socialise as a couple, you receive compliments and validation. Friends and neighbours love hanging out with the pair of you. New love Make the most of love planet Venus in Aquarius up until the 12th, and dreams come true. You know you’ve met someone special when you click immediately. Conversely, you’re in dangerous territory if you mix friendship and love. Once chatty planet Mercury enters your Communication Sector on the 22nd, hit the dating scene with enthusiasm. Career and money Action planet Mars departs your Career Sector on the…

Would anyone believe me? Dear Miss Crimebuster I'm 59 now and I feel I need to tell someone about what happened when I was 12 and part of a church-hall group. There was a youth worker there who abused me. I never spoke out, as I didn't think anyone would believe me. I now hear that he's done things to other girls. I tried to block it out for years, but the torment's never left me. Name withheld, 59, Northern Ireland Dear Anonymous Please call a helpline, like the National Office for Abuse Victims on freephone 1800 252524. They’ll be able to help you in so many ways. You’ll be able to get the legal process underway, and other victims will come forward. Remember, you aren’t to blame. Your loving…

Life’s such a struggle Dear Yasmin I've been unhappy in my job for years and just struggle along. The same goes for money. When do you see this changing? Sharon, 48, Dublin Dear Sharon My first instinct on reading this is to remind you that nothing’s likely to change on its own. If you’ve been unhappy for years, it’s really up to you, and only you, to do something about it, agreed? Very soon you’ll have the planet of dreams and confusion, Neptune, on your Sun. If you want to use this cycle positively, it’s time for you to dream up your ideal job. Literally daydream about it. Write down the duties you would like to be performing and start to look around for a job that fits your ideal…

You'll need a length of red cord, a red candle and a quiet evening during the waxing moon. Have a nice bath and make sure you’re all calm and fragrant. These are love deities you’re dealing with and they appreciate nice appearances! Sit down in front of your lit candle, and circle the red cord in a figure of eight around yourself and the candle. Now, describe the perfect partner. Use descriptive words like ‘friendly’, ‘loving’, ‘tidy’, ‘clever’, and blow breath towards the candle with each word – without blowing out the candle. When you’re happy that you’ve described the perfect partner, stand up, blow out your candle and wrap it with the cord – keep them in a drawer near your bed.…

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Last week, someone told me about a startling experience that he’d recently gone through. It took place at night, as the person in question was sleeping. Suddenly he was wide awake, unable to move, and with the distinct feeling that an ominous presence was in his room with him. Yet his body was literally frozen. Unhappy spirit? My acquaintance told me that one of his main concerns was that the presence was the spirit of an old lady who’d passed away in the house before he’d moved in. He was terrified that the former owner was showing her displeasure at this new tenant in her home. This person isn’t the first to recount such a story. In fact, there are countless similar tales related on a regular basis… But what…

‘I heard a voice speak to me. It was male…’ The sun was beaming down as I got into my car, ready to make the journey south from Newcastle. It was August 1995 and my brother Harry’s stag do was about to take place in our hometown of Shoeburyness. I’d got out of work early so I could join him. Even better, it was going to be a surprise. He thought I was too busy with my career as a trumpet player to go. Content My friend Emma joined me for the ride and when she fell asleep, I reflected on how well things were going. I was so pleased that Harry had found love, and I was looking forward to a big family wedding. My mum was travelling from…

I’m stuck again,’ my mum, Rose, groaned. She passed her computer handset to my son Adam, then 9. ‘Get me past the hard bit!’ she begged. Adam giggled. ‘OK, Nanan,’ he smiled. Adam got his grandma to the next level on her favourite game, Sonic the Hedgehog. It was 2000, and the new Sony PlayStation 2 had just come out. And while not many grandmas are computer game addicts, my mum loved them! ‘Mum left a message from the spirit world!’ Gadget gran It all started in the early 1980s when I bought her a calculator with a Space Invaders game on it. After that, she was hooked. When a new game console came out, she wanted it. Of course, Adam and my younger son Neil, then 4, loved going…

Move it! Psyllium husks could be your bathroom buddy, whatever your tummy trouble. Made from an Indian plant and sometimes called ispaghula, when taken with water the fibre swells in the gut and gets intestines moving to shift constipation. It also soaks up water if you have diarrhoea to make a firmer stool. It could help with IBS and Crohn’s disease. Check with the doc before using if you have either of these medical conditions, though. Hip hop for health Osteoporosis, the thinning of bones, affects 3 million people in the UK. Researchers asked men aged 65-80 to hop on one leg – the same one, over a year. Scans showed improvement in the bone density of the hopping leg. Exercise strengthens bones, but the elderly need to be careful…

Crystal fact Larimar This exquisite blue crystal is also known as the Atlantis Stone. The Dominican Miguel Mendez (who rediscovered it in 1974 – it first came to light in 1916) named it by taking the first three letters of his daughter’s name, Larissa, and mar , the Spanish for sea. Larimar is used to calm fears, reduce stress and ward off ill temper. It can also help overcome fear of doctors and hospitals. It’s only found in the Dominican Republic – once believed to have been part of Atlantis. Ghostly Inspirations Lewis Carol Built in 1861, The Chestnuts, in Guildford, was beloved by Lewis Carroll, author of Alice’s Adventures in Wonderland and Through the Looking-Glass. He rented it as a home for his unmarried sisters, and…

‘Bla Jungfrun has been linked to curses’ Breaking a mirror may get you seven years of bad luck, but taking a stone from an island off the east coast of Sweden could land you a lifetime of misfortune, unless you return it. For centuries, the uninhabited Bla Jungfrun has been linked to witchcraft, supernatural powers and curses. The Devil Legend has it that, at Easter, witches gather on the island to indulge in Devil worship. The island is just 0.27 square miles and its name translates as the Blue Virgin or Blue Maiden. The name was originally used by sailors to avoid provoking the evil spirits they thought lived there. And anyone who pockets a stone does so at their own risk. The close town of Oskarshamn regularly gets rocks…

Joanna’s monthly blog Mars is in Sagittarius The action planet arrives in this energetic sign on the 6th. During the next few months, he’ll go in and out of this sign, but, for now, it’s full steam ahead. Living your life adventurously in a way that’s true to you is a hallmark of Mars, so don’t worry about end results – just get that ball rolling! Double act Expansive Jupiter does everything in a big way, and Pluto loves to transform. As these planets harmonise on the 16th, it’s the time to seize an opportunity. Look out for themes of second chances or for developments in connection with something that started last Autumn. Baby-bump news If you’re expecting in March, here are a couple of auspicious names for your new…

Your relationship Lusty Mars enters your Relationship Sector on the 6th and revs up your passion quota, which is great news in the bedroom. One or both of you will either go full throttle or slam on the brakes. This could result in conflict, especially if you disagree about a personal issue. A friend’s intervention over Easter helps you work things out. New love The Eclipse in your Romance Sector on the 23rd indicates a significant turning point and can change the course of new love. Wait a couple of days after the Eclipse to make up your mind, and then decide who’s worth pursuing and who’s relegated to the bench. Try not to become overly dramatic about romance. Career and money Your ruler Mercury makes a quick dash through…

Your relationship This is the most important month of the year for love! You’ll soon understand why through the events that arise and the decisions that are made. The Eclipse on the 9th is the turning point as it falls in your Relationship Sector. The 11th/12th and 20th are packed full of potential. They’re dates you won’t forget! New love Fantasy wins over reality as Neptune’s seductive perfume draws you in. When you widen your criteria beyond what you dream is possible or what you believe you deserve, you open yourself up to a new and transformative way of loving. Events in the middle of the month reveal how miraculous new love can be. Career and money When you have faith in your abilities, it’s easy to disregard other people’s…

Your relationship The condition of your partnership depends how much time you give to family or your loved one. How does your partner react when you’re focused on personal goals? If they step in with an open heart, all good. If they start simmering with resentment, you have your work cut out. Start by being sensitive to how they’re feeling, but stand your ground. New love Passionate Mars in Sagittarius, from the 6th, puts you in the mood for lurve. You want action and a lover who’s decisive. There are times when it feels as if you’re getting nowhere, but once the Spring Equinox arrives, your fortunes change. A triangle situation presents obstacles, but you’re not prepared to give in this time. Career and money Your ability to be successful…

Your relationship Venus brings happiness to your sign of Pisces after the 12th. Make the most of this and prioritise intimacy. If Valentine’s Day didn’t live up to expectations, make up for it now. The weekend of the 19th/20th looks good for a date. This month’s stars offer you the opportunity to put the past behind you and start over. New love Your imagination kicks into overdrive, which has its pros and cons. There’s nothing wrong with loving the whole idea of romance if you believe you’ll meet someone. Yet it’s important to keep your feet firmly on the ground before you get carried away. Double check whether your feelings for a new lover are reciprocated. Career and money If your ambition’s been lacking, it’s all change once powerhouse Mars…

What makes an eclipse? A Solar Eclipse takes place when the New Moon passes between the Sun and Earth. A Lunar Eclipse occurs when the Sun and a Full Moon align with Earth between them. The Earth’s shadow falls on the Moon. It’s worth marking the eclipses on your calendar. Think of them as when the Universe will be ‘shifting gears’. If you want to make big changes in your life, there’s no better time… New Moon Eclipses of 2016 9 March  This month brings a New Moon Eclipse in the sign of Pisces. It’s a very soothing lunation. If you want to heal any part of your life – from your love-life now to solving any hurt from any time – work on yourself around this eclipse. In particular,…

‘The shape had no real form but it moved fluidly’ As the music pumped, I twirled and spun around the pole. I’d been pole dancing for years and had recently started teaching classes, too. I often recorded the dances to see how they looked and if they could be improved. Blue beam In May 2007, as I sat down to watch a video of my latest routine, I froze. I thought I’d been alone in the studio as I’d practised that day. But now, I could see a vivid blue beam across the screen. What was it? Definitely not dust or some kind of reflection. I watched more, and the shape began to move around the pole. It had no real form but moved fluidly around me. I couldn’t take…

Dear Yasmin My hamster Gucci died suddenly from what I think was a heart attack. I watched her die and hugged her. I feel guilty I couldn’t save her and hope she wasn’t in pain. She was only 8 months old and we had a bond. Is she happy and still around? Ashanti-Rose, 26, Sleaford Dear Ashanti-Rose I drew you a card and you got Memories: Your memories are like diamonds in a treasure chest of your spirit… Remember the happier moments with your loved ones who are here in the Spirit World – for neither time nor distance can stop the energy of love that you have for one another. This suggests you did share a bond with Gucci, who hasn’t forgotten you on the other side. Treasure her…

• Tegan becomes a hot favourite for baby girl names. Will Sophia beg Liam Payne to take her back? • A brass statue of a child in Bodrum commemorates refugee deaths. • A government minister’s affair with a journalist is exposed. Sad news for model Kendall Jenner and her sister, Kylie? • Debate is raging in Eire about changing their flag. • Nicola Walker could land a steamy part as a GP having an affair with a patient. • Hugh Bonneville’s past may come back to haunt him. Will Barack Obama push through a bill on gun control? Wow! Could there be another sibling for Prince George and Princess Charlotte? • An ocean liner gets into trouble on the South African coast. • For Lotto luck, try 9, 14, 16,…

Q & A I’m mad for Morris! Dear Jenny I’ve always felt comforted by anything with a William Morris print – cups, coasters, stationery and even clothes. I’m sure it’s linked to a past life as none of my friends and family are into this thing. Jane, 53, London Dear Jane Your name in this life is no coincidence, for you were Jane Burden, wife of William Morris, but you were never in love with him, and the marriage crumbled. So it’s not William Morris that you’re drawn to but artefacts of that time, which remind you of Wilfrid Blunt, the man you really did fall in love with. Find a photo of your lover and your memories will flood back. Fairies brought me gifts Dear Jenny When I had…

Q & A It’s a cluster of misery Dear Jayda For years, I’ve had cluster headaches without breaks. Which alternative therapy do you suggest? Steve, 44, Weybridge Dear Steve Cluster headaches are one of the most painful conditions to have. They often come at the same time of day or night and last 30-60 mins or three hours. Most sufferers get headaches for 4-12 weeks at a time, once a year, but you’re one of the unlucky 20% with no respite. Regular acupuncture is good. There is little reliable research, but sufferers report excellent results. I may be lopsided Dear Jayda When I wear trousers, I have to turn up one side. Is one leg shorter? Fatima, 35, Birmingham Dear Fatima Most of us are a bit wonky! If you…

My aura’s never the same Dear Lorelei On different occasions I’ve been told my aura is white, multi-coloured, and dark blue. Which is it? Shelly, 50, Banbury, Oxon Dear Shelly Auras change, even minute by minute, because your energy state, which produces your aura, also changes. At this time, your aura’s showing no organisation in your life. You dash from crisis to crisis, never sorting out anything. Relax and plan, and then it’ll stabilise. Your fave colours interpreted Dear Lorelei I run three businesses, but can't justify the money I spend on them. Should I step back from one? My favourite colours are yellow, lime-green and silver. Sharyn, 45, Yorkshire Dear Sharyn Yellow signifies optimism, lime-green, playfulness, silver, achievement – you’re torn between fun and money. Relegate the area you…

Have a little faith I was listening to the radio when Tony Christie - best known for (Is This The Way To) Amarillo - came on. He started talking about his unshakeable belief in angels. A few years ago, Tony ruptured two discs in his back. Months of pain and medication left him depressed – and, in desperation, his wife suggested asking the angels for help. As they prayed, Tony felt something shift in his back. He suddenly felt pain free! And his doctors were amazed to find he was completely healed. It’s great to hear of modern-day miracles – there might be more if we had a little faith. Let me know if you’ve experienced a miracle. Michelle Cherub’s corner Peter, my son, was born with a cleft lip.…

Canadian Liz Leafloor, who writes for the history and archaeology website Ancient Origins, says: ‘Folklore in Sweden speaks of the dark curses and witchcraft found on the craggy island of Bla Jungfrun. With a reputation of mythical inhabitants, it’s no surprise that ancient mariners gave the island a wide berth, avoiding the giants in favour of good fishing and calm seas. The prehistoric people’s rituals involving fire and heavy hammering must’ve been an intense experience, perhaps done to ward off the supernatural perils of the island, especially trolls, who were thought to hide deep in the many dark caves. Walking the mysterious stone labyrinth may give insight into these ancient legends.’ For more information about Liz, see www.lizleafloor.com…

Signs across the divide The brightest eyes ‘Are you awake?' I said to my husband, Richard, 32, one night last August. We’d just gone to bed when two circles of light appeared on the wall. We’ve got a thick blind over the window so there’s no way the light was from outside. ‘They’re not circles,’ Richard said. ‘They’re eyes.’ Straightaway, I knew. Matthew. I was 8 when my baby brother was born, with his mop of jet-black hair and big, twinkling eyes. Mum and I would often play Bright Eyes to him on our record player. But when Matthew was 3 months, Mum asked me to check on him during a nap. I raced up to his cot… ‘He’s not breathing!’ I shouted to Mum. The coroner ruled a cot…

Your relationship The Eclipse in your Relationship Sector on the 23rd is a defining moment. An emotional issue has been affecting your relationship – not for the better. Put the past behind you. A crisis in your partner’s life acts as a catalyst. Sweep out the old to create space for new energy to come in. New love Romance looks lively as soon as March begins, especially if you’re socialising more than usual. But you’re not ready to wear your heart on your sleeve. Keep your feelings to yourself until you’re confident your attraction to someone will be reciprocated. If you feel vulnerable, take love slow. Career and money A work venture focused on long-term goals prospers, and it’s a good time to invest in a regular job or a…

Your relationship The month’s events hinge around a pivotal connection between Jupiter and Pluto on the 16th, linking your Communication and Relationship Sectors. Talk to each other about the big issues, and dig deep to unearth new truths. That way, your relationship will flourish. New love After a whirlwind start to the year, it’s difficult to keep romance burning bright. Use time apart to decide if there are important issues you want to find out about before you commit yourself. A long-distance relationship can blossom, but take it one day at a time. Don’t let your tendency to fantasise run away with you. Career and money Listen carefully if you hear news of a job opening or a work-related opportunity near the beginning of the month. Someone has your best…

Your relationship The first half of the month is easier than the second, and fun brings a welcome touch of light relief. Yet it’s the Eclipse on the 23rd that’s decisive for romance. Events over the last two and a half years reach their conclusion and a new stage begins. Too much compromise won’t solve anything now, have a think about what it is you really want. New love A spontaneous move pays off. Act fast on the 1st or 3rd, and you win over someone new. Keep love light and avoid anyone who bores you. The person who focuses on the negative or launches in with a heavy conversation is unlikely to change drastically. The 23rd is a turning point as you unburden yourself of old emotional issues. Career…

Your relationship It’s the things that don’t get said that have the greatest effect on your relationship. Dare to bare, and reveal how you feel about something that’s affected you emotionally. This isn’t safe territory for you as you’re a private person, but if keeping quiet causes you inner turmoil, get it off your chest. When you focus on future plans, you’re back on solid ground. New love The most powerful planetary activity is taking place behind the scenes. Perhaps you’re in the midst of a secret attraction or you have emotional baggage to deal with. This is a sensitive period in your life, so look for a kind lover. Get to know one another. The 20th is most auspicious for making the first move. Career and money The Eclipse…

‘Something was trying to force my insides out of me’ On the surface, I looked like I was having the time of my life. But it was the opposite. It was December 2010 and I’d just split from my long-term boyfriend. I was out every night, drinking, dancing. But it wasn’t helping, not really. I had drunken rows with friends. I got emotional and I couldn’t concentrate at work. ‘Everything seems too hard to deal with,’ I confessed to a friend. ‘Don’t worry, it’s just the break-up, you’ll soon be back to normal,’ she said. Scary I wasn’t convinced. I’d broken up with boyfriends in the past, had never felt like this before. Weeks became months and I didn’t feel better. It all came to a head one morning in…

Witch report Born in 1775 in Bodmin, Cornwall, Joan Wytte was no ordinary witch. She was a rabble-rouser, too! Often called the ‘fighting fairy woman’, Joan was famous for her psychic gifts. She also had a reputation for brawling in the streets. Those who’d seen her fight claimed she had supernatural strength. Joan was eventually imprisoned for fighting in public and died of pneumonia at the age of 38. Your March ritual Try this ritual to get rid of unwelcome stuff! Mould bread and water into a ball. Think about what you’d like to let go, then throw it under a tree! Say: ‘Begone. Fade away. Back to the Earth for another day. I’m released, just as I say. Be gone. Now fade away.’ Riddle’s remedies Dear Kirsten My new…

I’m still waiting! Dear Yasmin When will I meet the ideal man for me? I feel like I’ve been waiting for years! Christiana, 39, London Dear Christiana Your love planet Venus is in Sagittarius – a sign that is notoriously hard to pin down! So even if you meet one eligible suitor after another, chances are, you’ll find it hard to give up your freedom. You’ll probably come up with excuses to make sure you don’t end up tied down. That said, most of this year is a very good time to meet someone. You could even get married as the commitment planet Saturn moves over your Venus for the first time in your adult life! Just don’t get involved with a heartbreaker. A card for everyone Yasmin has drawn…

‘The spare bedroom doubles as my cave’ Pram? Tick! Nappies? Tick! Toddlers? Tick! Bag filled with every possible toy, drink, and nibble you could need? Tick! Just your average, doting mum, right? To see me with my children on the village high street, you wouldn’t doubt it for a second. And like all busy mums, my days are a whirlwind of playgroups, swimming lessons and endless piles of washing. A pagan But once my three, Tove, 5, Vigo, 3, and youngest, Zevi, 1, are tucked up, I take on a very different role. See, I’m a white witch – so I fit my witchy activities, such as casting spells and reading tarot cards, around family life. A pagan, I believe in respecting nature, animals and all living things. I never…