Innholdsfortegnelse for December 2020 i Chat It's Fate

In the words of Slade’s Noddy Holder, ‘it’s Chrissstmaaaas!’ December is one of my favourite months of the year – as it is most people’s, I’d imagine – and we’ve got an issue packed full of festive fun for you. I particularly love our festive treats oracle on p16 – what does your favourite Christmas snack say about you? I’m a mulled wine girl myself! If you’re stuck for gift ideas, then take a look at our gift guide on p46, as there’s some lovely suggestions for the spiritual person in your life – or perhaps you! Go ahead and treat yourself – why not? As usual, we’ve got some fabulous true-life stories – Carol Corr’s story about her daughter Joleen’s death on p4 is absolutely heart-breaking. Have a super…

The universe is always trying to communicate with us, to guide us and connect with us, but the problem is, we don’t always see the signs – or if we do, we just put them down to coincidence. But sometimes, we are able to trust our intuition and accept the message the universe is trying to send us – as Carol Corr did when she saw the rainbow sent to her by her daughter in spirit, Joleen. She knew immediately that it was Joleen telling her that she was at peace now. Of course, rainbows aren’t the only means by which spirit, or the universe, communicates with us. If you keep hearing the same song on the radio, seeing the same numbers around you, or having repetitive dreams, the universe…

Celebrity PAST LIFE Some people think Mark Zuckerbeg has become a bit bossy – deleting millions of posts he doesn’t agree with. Could it be because he was once King Philip IV of France, whose nick-name was ‘The Iron King’ because of his totally rigid and inflexible personality? The Bishop of Pamiers, said of him: ‘He is neither man nor beast. He is a statue.’ Meditation mandalas Do you have trouble ‘switching off’ in order to meditate? Jenny digitally paints channelled meditation mandalas especially for you. You just stare into the image and take flight into a spiritual connection with your guides. See all Jenny’s paintings on her website jennysmedley.co.uk JENNY’S IN-DEPTH Regression BIG TOP TERROR Dear Jenny I’ve looked into my last life but only seen my brutal ending.…

Kyle Gray, 32, from Glasgow The first week at primary school is challenging for any kid, but it was particularly worrying for me, because my Nana, who lived with us, had just been taken to hospital. I was delighted when I woke up a few nights later to find her in my bedroom. ‘You’re back, Nana!’ I said, beaming. She smiled at me, then gently rolled me over in bed and tickled my back. I fell asleep with her watching over me. The next morning, I hurried downstairs, expecting to see her in the kitchen – but she wasn’t there. ‘Where’s Nana?’ I asked Mum. Mum’s eyes were red, as if she’d been crying. ‘We’ve got some news, Kyle,’ she said gently. ‘Your Nana’s gone to Heaven.’ ‘B-but she can’t…

Whether you’re expecting a child or not, we all dream about babies now and again. These are usually positive dreams that symbolise new beginnings, new projects, and happy potential in the air, as well as joy, innocence, purity and being vulnerable. Here are a few more examples of babies in dreamland! A TINY HELPLESS BABY symbolises feelings of helplessness, extreme vulnerability, or even incompetence and an inability to act as you might wish. A SMILING BABY means something new in your life is bringing you wonderful happiness and joy, or at least has the possibility of doing so. FORGETTING YOU HAVE A BABY can represent aspects of yourself you’ve neglected or abandoned, which you might do well to give more attention to now. Old hobbies, pursuits or interests could benefit…

1st Communications planet Mercury breezes into Sagittarius bringing openness and truth. 6th Love planet Venus in scorching Scorpio makes a beautiful aspect with imaginative Neptune in sensitive Pisces, bringing healing and subtlety. 14th The eclipse in open-hearted and open-minded Sag brings a happy feel – and love planet Venus makes a benefic link to planet of good fortune Jupiter. Not only that, but Mercury in truth-seeking Sagittarius makes a marvellous reach to planet of energy and assertion Mars, which is very at home in fiery Aries. 17th Heavyweight Saturn steps into humanitarian Aquarius. 21st The Sun beams into Capricorn, sign of leadership.…

Making an entrance Don’t just hang any old wreath at your door. Good fortune starts at your threshold, so use your wreath to attract the life you’d like. Make your own wreath if you can, using evergreen fronds of holly and ivy, which signify life and health to all the family. However, if you don’t have the time or inclination for that, you can simply customise a bought or even a plastic wreath by weaving in strands of dried herbs. Sage will attract wisdom, and thyme beckons to the faerie folk (wouldn’t you just love a house elf to help you with the washing up!). Rosemary helps you to remember what’s important, while sweet-smelling lavender brings love and friendship. Be imaginative, and attach symbols of anything you desire, such as…

What do you want to find in your Christmas stocking? Waking up on Christmas morning and tearing into your stocking is always a thrill, whether you’re a kid or a grown-up! But of course, you do hope that Santa knows you well enough to choose the right gifts for you. The good news for everyone’s favourite jolly bearded gentleman is that your star sign should give him a good idea of what you might want... ARIES Ariens are famously competitive, so anything that gives them a chance to win at their favourite activity would light their fire. Sports gear, tools or a voucher for something daredevil like wing-walking could appeal. Aries rules the head, so funky hats and hair-slides are a fun choice, too. YOUR ARIES GIFT TO YOURSELF Organise…

SIGNS ACROSS THE divide Murderer’s lair Steve Smith, 33, from Reading The True Crime Museum in Hastings is built in cliffs and caves once used by smugglers, and situated under the old Palace Court Hotel said to be haunted by the spirit of 20th century occultist Aleister Crowley, described at the time as the ‘wickedest man in the world!’ The museum is full of items that have been used in sometimes horrific crimes, which got me wondering: do they hold residual energy? We’d heard reports of shadowy figures, banging and ghostly voices, so when our paranormal group UK Ghost Hunting visited the museum, we were eager to begin our investigation. Infamous killer We started off near the Amelia Dyer exhibit. Amelia Dyer was a Victorian serial killer who’s infamous for…

Carol Corr, 48, from Belfast Blustering into my house, arms full of shopping bags, my daughter Joleen immediately took charge. ‘Right, Mammy, what needs to be done?’ she said briskly. The eldest of my five kids, she’d almost been a second mum to her younger siblings, helping out with bath times and changing nappies. By her early twenties, Joleen had her own flat just round the corner from my house, but she still popped round every day to give me a hand with the kids – or just to hang out. ‘What do you fancy doing today, Mammy?’ she’d ask me. ‘How about an eyebrow tint and gossipy lunch?’ She called those girlie days her ‘Me and Mam quality time’. Joleen was bright and independent with everything going for her,…

WHAT’S IN YOUR spooky snaps? Double trouble Dear Sally My step daughter often feels spirits around her. The other day I was talking to her on Facetime and I thought her husband was standing behind her until she told me he was at work. She took a picture of some poles she was selling and later noticed a face in the curtain. Could you make any sense of it? Emma, Lancashire Dear Emma Thank you for sending me this fascinating photograph. I can see the face of a man in the reflection of the curtain, and standing next to him, the reflection of a woman with her hands clasped and shoulder length blonde hair. If I just described your daughter, then that is her refection while taking the photograph!…

Katie paints your spirit guide Dear Katie I’d love to know who my spirit guide is and how they can help me with my career! Maria, 51, Hertfordshire Dear Maria Your spirit guide is Anne, an American teacher from the 19th century. She experienced many disadvantages but used these to help others who were suffering with the same problems. She is with you to guide you to see how your lessons can be your blessings, and how you can use the experiences that have disadvantaged you to help others. You are here to support others on their journey. You have the potential to become a teacher in your own life, whether in the education system or in a more spiritual field. Calling on Anne will help you step into your…

At the time of writing this, we don’t know what Christmas will look like this year. Will we all gather around a heaped dinner table with our extended families, as we usually do – or could it be a case of ‘pierce film before microwaving’ if we’re eating our turkey and Christmas pudding alone, unable to socialise with our loved ones? Whatever happens, one thing I do know is that nobody will be truly alone, as there will always be at least one angel with you. Of course they are always with us – but in times of need, they are extra vigilant, surrounding us with their love and protection. Remember that you can be an angel on Earth too – if there are folks living alone near you, you…

Sagittarius The Sagittarius nature Happy go-lucky, big-hearted and broad-minded – you’re a good mate to have. As you’re always looking for adventure, every day is a journey of discovery for you. Unsurprisingly, you adore travel and learning about new cultures and new views. A natural extrovert with a fab sense of humour, you’re not afraid of change and you go after life and goals with gusto. You can’t bear being pinned down and you loathe narrow-minded people. Some people may find you outrageous or over-the-top – you may have to curb your honest and outspoken nature at times. Tactlessness can be an issue! Your love life You’re just as adventurous and lusty between the sheets as you are in life! Anyone with you as a lover can expect plenty of…

Top EXPERT Jenna Leigh-Raine It may feel as though it’s everyone for themselves at the moment, but look out for a friend or neighbour. Be their light so they might be yours. December may open a new era in possibilities while a dead wood stands behind you. COLEEN NOLAN I feel the presence of a lady in spirit with Coleen, and I think she’s exactly in the right place at the right time in the right moment. Her sons will be her protectors. I feel her agent will be creating deals to help her put together some kind of narrative about her life with her sisters. In December, I see a beautiful candle and it is symbolising faith and spirit. ROMAN KEMP I sense a travelogue is on its way,…

At this time of year, it’s usually wonderful running a pub, seeing the regulars crowd in for a glass of their favourite tipple and some Christmas cheer! I’ve been running The Rose and Crown in Tewin, Hertfordshire, since August 2017, with the help of my wife Martine and our son Gabriel, who’s now 22. But although the 17th century former coaching inn is picture-postcard pretty, from the moment we moved in, we sensed something decidedly weird about it. It was our cleaner, Maria, who had first let it drop that the pub had a reputation locally. ‘People say it’s haunted,’ she told me matter-of-factly. As an ex-London cabbie, I considered myself no-nonsense, level-headed. ‘I don’t believe in all that stuff,’ I replied firmly. But as the weeks went by, I…

JUST BUMBLING ALONG Dear Jackie My pet rat Bumble passed away aged two years and three months. Please could you reassure me that he did not suffer during his passing. Karen, Nottingham Dear Karen Bumble was very friendly, didn’t bite and loved the freedom you gave him. I see him running along skirting boards, and he mentions your dressing gown. He had a friend that he would hop over – they were great mates. He could stand up on his hind legs for ages like he was trying to get your attention. He would play you up by hiding from you but would appear back again; it was like a game to him. I feel that he passed away naturally, perhaps in his sleep. He didn’t look old and skinny,…

DEMON DOLL Locals in Old Swan, Liverpool have been spooked by the appearance of a creepy ‘cursed’ doll nailed to a tree. The Liverpool Echo reported that it was first spotted by Old Swan resident Dawn Hall, who passes the tree, near a busy road junction, every day on the way to work. She said of the doll, which is made from cloth and has a sign saying ‘Evil live (sic) here’ attached to it, ‘It looks like it’s been there for a while...Now I’ve taken pictures of it, I feel spooked and wondering, am I cursed now?’ Old Swan has a spooky history – in 1973, 3,561 bodies were found buried in coffins piled 16 deep in St Oswald’s Street. To this day, nobody knows why they were there…

Sister act Dear Michelle During lockdown, my sister decided that she knew what was best for our elderly parents, and effectively took control of their finances even though they are neither daft nor confused and have been managing perfectly well. Mum and Dad are not happy about this, and they want me to sort it out! How do I do it without causing a massive row? Pam, 55, London Dear Pam I am using Kyle Gray’s Keepers of the Light oracle cards for intuition. Open communication is essential. Mercury suggests having a heart-to-heart with your sister to talk all this through. If it’s not feasible to go out for coffee or lunch, go to her home and make sure it’s a private chat. Be sure to speak with love in…

APPLEY EVER AFTER Dear Roi I dreamt I had no eyes – just big empty sockets instead. I was so upset! But then I stuffed two huge apples into the holes left by my lack of eyes, and was happy again. Why? Robyn Babangida, 23, London Dear Robyn Your dream of having no eyes suggests you’ve experienced a sudden loss of naivety, as though you have learned something very important lately. The apples represent your newfound wisdom! You’ve discovered by this enlightenment that you can now see and understand things much more clearly, as they really are, which is a really precious gift if you think about it, isn’t it? There’s no place like home Dear Roi My dream took place in the 1970s in France; I had my own…

Let’s face it, 2020 has been a big year. The Saturn/Pluto conjunction in Capricorn kickstarted a tumultuous 12 months which concludes with a solar eclipse in Sagittarius on 14th Dec and a highly significant fusion of Saturn and Jupiter in Aquarius. The eclipse brings us a new beginning connected to our belief systems, but when Saturn and Jupiter traverse into Aquarius on the 17th and 19th, they’ll really shake things up. Saturn is all about structure and limitations, Jupiter is about opportunity, and Aquarius represents humanity and idealism. Where, then, will this lead us? Well, the conjunction between Jupiter and Saturn on 21st opens a door to remaking the world in a fairer way. Old structures are transforming, allowing Jupiter and Saturn to come together in air signs, which will…

RIDDLE’S REMEDIES Dear Kirsten I’d really like to meet someone special this Christmas, is there a spell to make my dream come true? Jenny, Scarborough Dear Jenny Try this fun wish spell. Write your heart’s desire on a small piece of paper. Word it as if it’s already come true, so you might say: ‘I have new love in my life.’ Put the paper inside a red balloon, this colour is associated with love. Blow the balloon up and with every puff of air, imagine you’re sending out a stream of loving energy into the universe. As you tie the balloon, repeat the affirmation in your mind, then release it into the sky! Your December ritual Morena can protect you from harm or misadventure at this time of year. Take…