Innholdsfortegnelse for May 2017 i Chat It's Fate

After losing my husband Steve, I saw a medium called Christina in Kent with my daughter. She said Steve wished he’d been able to say goodbye to me and our children. She told me that he knew I kissed his photo every night. Christina pointed to her right arm, commenting that Steve loved the tattoo my daughter had for him. Steve also revealed that he was happy his old, dear friend Paul came to the funeral even though they hadn’t seen each other for years, and that he cheered along to one of the songs. I was in awe of what Christina said, it was amazing that she knew so much. £25! Have you had an amazing reading lately that you’d like to share with us? Or have you taken…

Out of Africa As a spiritual person, I'm interested in the principles of living harmlessly and making a positive difference to the world. I even run a business that awards bonuses to people based on their acts of kindness. But my life-changing moment happened on a work trip when I visited Kibera in Kenya, the largest urban slum in Africa. I saw some of the amazing work being done there, and was prompted to help set up a charity in the UK to give support to people living in abject poverty. It’s called LiveKind and we help projects set up to assist women and children who are victims of gender-based violence. We’ve helped them find safe houses and get emergency medical care. It’s not been easy as I work on…

Of course, many fears are entirely rational, such as snakes or spiders, and fire or heights, but a phobia that affects you every day and stops you enjoying life isn’t natural. For example, you might be so afraid of flying you have nightmares about it, even if you don’t ever intend to fly. In this instance, it’s quite likely you experienced a plane crash in a past life. You might have a fear of seagulls, but be fine with every other bird, which implies you may have died in an obscure way. Perhaps you were collecting seagulls’ eggs to eat while climbing on a cliff and fell when a gull attacked you. If you suffer from an extreme unexplained fear, something that no-one else can make sense of, then a…

Q & A I’m another Doc Martin! Dear Jayda When I see blood, I faint! It’s scary and embarrassing. I black out when my kid cuts herself. Why is this? Jim, 28, Manchester Dear Jim Fifteen percent of us faint at the sight of blood due to a rise in blood pressure followed by a rapid drop. Our ancestors may have had a fainting gene – warriors who passed out and looked dead didn’t get killed, so survived to pass on this trait! Applied Tension will train you to raise your blood pressure. Go to www.anxietybc.com/sites/default/files/AppliedTension.pdf Drastic action needed? Dear Jayda I get bad hay fever - even antihistamines don't help. My exams are coming up. Should I take steroids? Charlene, 16, Nottingham Dear Charlene Desperate times call for desperate…

We’re a nation of pet lovers, but the animal we’re drawn to can reveal more about our personality and psychic gifts. Pets can be powerful totems that help us at different times. They have a distinctive energy that we can work with. Think about the animal you’re most attracted to, then check out our guide. Cat Egyptians believed cats were sacred to the Goddess Bast. Anyone harming a hair on their furry heads paid with their life! The Ancient Brits had a different opinion, believing they were the familiars of witches, or even witches themselves. In some tales they were fairies who’d shape-shifted into form and Celts believed if you looked into the eyes of a puss you’d see the Other World. Those drawn to Cat have a desire to…

‘I saw Dwain on a podium with a gold medal’ I love a glam night out. So when my publisher friend Judy rang to invite me along to a book launch she was holding, I jumped at the chance. ‘That’d be lovely,’ I beamed. Judy told me the book was sportsman Dwain Chambers’ autobiography Race Against Me: My Story. But I’m not into sport, had never heard of Dwain Chambers. Truth be told, I just fancied a night out on the town! A psychic It was February 2009, and I was staying in London while I worked as a medium on a psychic TV channel. So that night, I got dressed up in a floaty black dress, headed off to the event, which was held in a function room in…

Joanna’s monthly blog Flexible approach The Full Moon in mysterious Scorpio on the 10th is about as witchy as it gets! Book a psychic reading, do spells and listen closely to your inner voice. The flip side is highly-charged emotional matters coming out into the open. Affairs or any kind of triangular setup will be super-sensitised, as will power battles. Move quietly into your own authority, but remember it’s always better to bend rather than snap. All or nothing Fresh starts are characterised by choices, and not of the easy kind. This New Moon on the 25th coincides with Venus squaring up to uncompromising Pluto, so there’s an all-or-nothing flavour in the mix. You can’t change and stay the same. Let go of what no longer serves you, no matter…

Your relationship Mars is powering through your sign so you’ve nowhere to hide if you’re lazy about love. Plan date nights and shout about the things your other half wants to achieve. Moral support might demand a sacrifice though, especially around the time of the Gemini New Moon on the 25th. New love Thrills aren’t in short supply as the planet ruling the libido, Mars, is in Gemini all month. Love and friendship like each other, and events between the 10th and 12th promise to add a thrill to a romance. If you’re unsure about the longterm potential of a new lover in your life, slow down. Career and money Your intuition and imagination are your secret weapon. Use both to good effect, and you’ll slip into a role that…

Your relationship Have you really analysed why a conflict of opinions came about? A message has got scrambled along the way. Mercury switching direction in Aries revs up your mind to sort out facts from assumptions. Talking about sexual needs is part of this, so grab your moment on the 10th. New love The sap’s rising as love planet Venus shines a light on your sex life. If you want to indulge your libido and enjoy a love affair, you’re in luck. But practise safe sex, especially on the 25th. There’s romance over the second Bank Holiday weekend, but it’s not a top month to pursue anything long-term. Career and money The planets are on your side. Get out there and aim for what you want in your career and…

Your relationship Mars marching through your Partnership Sector is moving you into a whole new groove. Your shared and individual goals are gathering speed, and the more your enthusiasm inspires each other, the more you’ll achieve. You won’t agree on everything, but you’re definitely heading for the winning line! New love Love planet Venus moves forwards with confidence in your Romance Sector, promising new love. Someone pops back into your life on the 3rd or 10th. If they’re in touch repeatedly, this is a sign that it’s meant to be. Don’t get the negative vibe just because you’ve been hurt or let down in the past. Career and money Don’t shirk work! Put in the graft and the financial rewards will be plentiful. It’s a good time to set up…

Your relationship It’s a dynamic start to the month as Mercury gathers speed in your Mind Sector and meets up with Uranus at the time of the Full Moon on the 10th. Some twists and turns are in the mix, but you’ll thrive on change. You can’t bear being in a rut, so be the mover and shaker. New love You enjoy meeting new people and talking about love, but it can’t continue like that. Be more decisive about who you want. This month’s astrology is good for socialising, but your fear of commitment could hold you back from the love you deserve. Career and money If you’re going round in circles, generating new work ideas but rarely seeing them through to fruition, rethink your strategy. The Full Moon in…

Robbers held up the bank in our quiet village Dear Miss Crimebuster I've lived in the same small village all my life and love every brick of it. So I was shocked to hear that robbers have held up our local bank. That sort of thing just doesn't happen in a place like this. It seems what we're seeing in films is happening everywhere. It's made me feel unsafe. Bridget, 59, location withheld Dear Bridget A blue van and three men were involved in this crime, but it didn’t go according to plan. They were bungling idiots, and will be caught as they have left a trail behind. Large sentences await them. Rest assured that your beloved village will return to normal, and you’ll feel secure once more. I’ve misplaced…

The Earth moved me to ask! Dear Yasmin While visiting New Zealand, I was woken by an earthquake. As the Earth shuddered, I thought, I don’t want to die alone. Which leads me to ask, will I ever find my soulmate? Sandra, 52, Henley-on-Thames Dear Sandra You’ve had Saturn opposing your love planet Venus, so you may have felt quite lonely recently. But your progressed Jupiter (happy days and good luck) will link to your Venus (love and abundance) between now and 2020. The next three years will be the best ever to find love. Your card is Nurture Yourself – you must love yourself before finding your partner. Home or away? Dear Yasmin Should we make a new home abroad? I just can't decide what's best for my kids.…

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‘Rumours said that the president had a meeting with aliens’ I love a good alien mystery and, believe me, there are a load out there. After all, we can’t be the only intelligent life to exist in the Universe, surely? One of my favourites concerns the American president Dwight ‘Ike’ Eisenhower and what he apparently got up to in 1954. It all started when Ike suddenly vanished from the public eye in February of that year. Dead? In fact, he was so conspicuous by his absence that the press was ready to run with the story that he had in fact, passed away, popped his presidential clogs, taken office in the great White House in the sky… you get the drift. But just as things were getting a little crazy,…

‘I knew not to get attached to anyone or anything’ ‘I realised that England wasn’t my Utopia’ The deafening sound of sirens rang out through the dark streets. My mum Gina grabbed my hand and pulled me through the jostling crowds. I was 10 and despite being in this situation before, I was petrified. Twice a year, for as far back as I could remember, we’d be forced to hide out in a tunnel, huddling up close with other folk from our home city of Pogradec in Central Albania, until we were told to leave. Unease I didn’t understand what was happening. Were we about to be bombed? Was an army going to move in? Was life ever going to be the same again? It was only when I was…

Crystal fact Sunstone So-called because of its stunning spangled appearance, this crystal is usually a gorgeous orange, yellow or reddish brown. Native Americans traded with these lush gemstones, and they were an important part of Medicine Wheel shows. Over in Europe, the Vikings used them as compasses. Furthermore, they bestow good fortune, joy and positivity to their owners. If you find it impossible to say no to people, buy sunstone! Healers use it to soothe sore throats and ulcers. It’s found in Norway, Sweden, Pennsylvania, Oregon and North Carolina. Ghostly Inspirations Wendy Richard Wendy Richard MBE couldn't have been more different to her dour alter ego, EastEnders' Pauline Fowler. She loved to laugh! Her parents ran the Shepherd's Tavern in London's Mayfair from 1948-1953, and Elizabeth Taylor was known to…

‘Vanga was said to have foretold her own death’ Some 40 years ago, in August 1976, a Bosnian actress and singer called Silvana Armenulic went to see the blind clairvoyant Baba Vanga. Vanga, from Bulgaria, had built up a following as a healer and soothsayer. A death Unfortunately, Silvana’s meeting with Vanga didn’t go well. The psychic refused to speak. After a while, she said, ‘You don’t have to pay. I do not want to speak with you. Not now. Go and come back in three months’. Vanga then changed her mind, saying, ‘Wait. In fact, you will not be able to come.’ Silvana fled the woman’s home in tears, taking it as confirmation she would die. Two months later, on 10 October 1976, Silvana, 38, was killed in a…

‘Suddenly the glass flew to YES on the Ouija board’ Signs across the divide All fired up It was a Friday night and a few mates had popped over for a takeaway. ‘I've brought a Ouija board to try,' my pal Fiona grinned. I knew about Ouija boards, but I’d never tried one before. The plain wooden board had letters and numbers printed in an arc shape. It also had the words ‘YES’ and ‘NO’ etched on it. Fiona turned a wine glass upside down and told us to place a finger lightly on the base of it. ‘Is anybody there?’ she asked, quietly. Suddenly the glass flew to ‘YES’ on the board. It hovered for a second, then moved to the letter ‘F’, then ‘I’… Fiona? But then the…

Your relationship Venus gathering speed picks May out as the most important love month of the year. This doesn’t mean it’ll be all magnolia and moonlight, but there are plenty of romantic moments. You have several long-running issues, especially a partner’s problems that have affected you both, to work through. New love Someone’s found a match and reignited passion. A person you met around Valentine’s Day makes a reappearance and the excitement soars. Venus is up to speed in Aries, so say what you want! Don’t limit your options, but get out there and enjoy dating without any longterm promises. Career and money Ask the right questions and refuse to take no for an answer – persistence pays off. The Full Moon on the 10th is an ideal date to…

Your relationship There’s tricky lunar activity to handle this month, so you may feel moody. Don’t take it out on your other half! Be honest about what’s making you insecure. Events unfolding around the 19th have a massive role to play in the dynamics of your relationship and your partner’s aspirations. New love When it comes to new love, make sure any potential relationship is on your terms. Don’t let someone else take control. The romantic Full Moon in Scorpio mid-month is your best bet for an intimate connection. If you decide to focus on friendship, that’s fine, as it’s through your friends you’ll find the comfort you crave. Career and money Talk planet Mercury turns direct in your Career Sector on the 3rd, the ideal day to approach your…

Your relationship Mercury’s turnaround on the 3rd in your Partnership Sector makes it a time for talking heads! Your other half will surprise you by showing you how to see a problem as an opportunity. For those of you planning to get married or move into together, there may be a few obstacles. New love You’ve got no excuse for holding back as key planets begin to surge forward in your Relationship Sector. Spontaneous gestures align gorgeous surprises, making this an exciting time for love. There’s a foreign theme to love, so widen your search to embrace travel and different cultures. Career and money Negotiate a deal that helps your need for security, and brings finances into focus. The spotlight may be linked to work or home. You may feel…

Your relationship Have you been expecting too much of your other half? Or maybe they’ve been so caught up with family you’ve been left out? Your inner child needs a hug. Reassurance is coming your way, especially on the 11th when Mercury links with Saturn. This is great for closure, such as making final decisions. New love The Sun lights up your Romance Sector, so don’t hold back. The 4th and 28th are perfect for a romantic date. Love might beckon in the form of a childhood sweetheart, and a family occasion is where you’ll find love. Beware an envious friend who might try to spoil the party. Career and money Your workplace may well become a battleground! Argumentative Mars is in this sector of your horoscope, so tempers will…

‘It’s an honour to help by getting rid of evil entities’ ‘A shadowy black figure was swooping towardsme’ ‘My soul has been around for thousands of years’ It’s not every day you encounter a sex predator ghoul, but that’s what happened to me in May last year. You see, as a medium and paranormal investigator, part of the job is helping people who have been possessed by nasty spirits. That’s why my friend, fellow medium Mandy Fellows, and I had been called in by a man called John, who was worried that his girlfriend Linda had been taken over by an evil entity or energy. As we stood in the front room of the house in Morecombe, Lancashire, Linda rushed up to me, snarling in my face. Life force She…

One Day Without Shoes Day Friday 12 May Friday 12 May is One Day Without Shoes Day. This is to show solidarity with all the people in the world who have no shoes to wear. Going barefoot not only brings humanity together – it draws you closer to the earth and can be truly magical. Soothing steps Taking off your shoes can be very liberating, and is good for your feet. Go barefoot outdoors on any surface that is clean and comfortable. Stroll on the grass, feeling the vibrant plant life beneath your tootsies. Walk on smooth stone, drawing into you the ancient knowledge of the earth. Step out into the sea or a shallow river, aware that the waters you are swishing through are connected to all the water…

‘With Mum getting frail, I missed Dad more than ever’ ‘Jill had predicted my windfall four months ago’ ‘When I go, bury me in the cheapest box!’ my dad, Alan Roberts, then 68, said. That was him all over. Strong, independent, he never wanted fuss. A Teddy Boy in his youth, he’d always neat hair. He doted on my mum Edith, now 79. Bought her roses every week. After my carer job, I’d visit my folks most days. Reading Sadly, Dad passed away in July 2007, age 70, of leukaemia. We gave him a quiet send off, as he’d instructed. Tearfully, I placed a single rose on his coffin. Then, I planted a rose bush in Mum’s garden. Everyone missed him dearly. Knowing he’d want me to care for…

Numerology is the study of the deeper meanings of numbers, expressing a quality as well as a quantity. It was taught by the Greek philosopher Pythagoras, and is also found in astrology, Tarot and the mystical doctrine of the Qabalah. Numbers are forming patterns around us all the time, and by paying attention to these you can harmonise your life and take control. Daily digit Your birthday has a strong effect on your personality. Combined with the current date, it will influence the kind of day you have. To find your day number, add together the digits in your birthday with the actual date. For instance, if you were born on the 26th and today is the 18th, add 2+6+1+8 to total 17. Then add 1+7 to equal 8. So,…

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‘I realised that for the first time in my life, I was free’ Only sorrow On holiday one year, when Donnie was 5, Robert suddenly suffered a heart attack and died. He was only 53 and at first I felt only sorrow. I couldn’t remember anything but the good times. For two years, I was haunted by him. I felt like he carried on controlling me. Sheer fear If I was out shopping or in the park, I’d still wonder if Robert was following me, or if staying out too long would have consequences later on. At night, I’d see a shadow coming over me as I lay in bed in the dark. I’d feel it touch my feet, sending chills straight through me. Sometimes it was a positive experience,…

Q & A Is a past life hacking my computer? Dear Jenny My PC’s been attacked by viruses for months now. I wonder if this has a past-life reason, as you often say this could be a cause for many problems? Jack, 32, Mundham, Norfolk Dear Jack In a roundabout way, yes. You’ve been able to deal with these virus attacks because they were sent by an amateur – someone you knew in a past life who holds a grudge. You both lived in the western USA in the 1800s, and you were a professional gambler who cheated him at cards. He lost a gold mine which went on to make you rich. If you go for past-life regression, you might be able to put things right. Who could love…

‘I’m glad I was able to help free my brother from the guilt’ As I lay on the therapist’s couch, I felt relaxed and took a few deep breaths. I had gone to see Jan Reid for an energy boost, and the hands-on healing was working. Halfway through the session, Jan took me on a guided meditation. I had asked for this visualisation because I was curious to see if I could access any past lives, which was something I had never done previously. ‘You see yourself in a forest,’ said Jan softly, ‘Walk into a clearing where you find a door in a tree, step through the door and you’ll find yourself in a tunnel. When you come out of the tunnel, you’ll be in a past life.’ Flying…

I could change people’s lives Dear Katie I’m a psychic medium and a certified healer. I’ve never used my gift on others, though, as I fear changing lives forever. Wendy, 52, Ipswich Dear Wendy Your aura is so vibrant! You are indeed a natural healer with a huge heart, ready to pour out love to those in need. The violet tones around your head show you to be deeply intuitive. Don’t be afraid, it is your purpose to help. Your fave colours interpreted Dear Katie, Progress is so slow with my business, and I just can't seem to attract like-minded people into it. My three favourite colours are black, pink and silver. Ella, 32, Derbyshire Dear Ella Wear more pink, the colour of self-worth. Fear’s blocking you in a big…

Often I'm asked if I can see angels, and I have to be honest. I say no, at least not in the way they mean, but there have been many occasions when I have felt an angel by my side. These are usually at times of great stress when I have really needed to feel their loving presence. I believe everyone can sense angels, but seeing them in all their glory? That’s a tricky one. After all, what does an angel look like? Everyone has their own idea, from the classic humanoid with wings to beings composed of light. I think that on the rare occasions they show themselves, they take a form that we can understand. Michelle Cherub's corner When Dad died, I was worried how my son Jonny,…

Q & A Used nappies appeared in my garden Dear Roi de Lune My horrible neighbour kept throwing her baby’s nappies in my garden. Rats came from her place to mine, and her bloke parked in front of my gates! Often, our mail is sent to her in real life, but she won’t hand it back. Johanna, 39, London Dear Johanna Your negative relationship with your neighbour is having a harmful effect. You feel she is obstructive, but have a look at the reasons for her behaviour. Have you done anything to prompt it? If not, take a small peace offering round in the hope of improving things. If that doesn’t work, moving might be the answer. Good luck. Culture corner John Lennon was fascinated by the number nine, and…

Your relationship You’re about to be pounded by a time of emotional intensity. The Full Moon in your Partnership Sector on the 10th has surprises in store. Whatever your personal scenario, there are no half measures and your other half surprises you by being unusually demanding. An injection of full-blooded passion is exactly what you need. New love Mercury’s turnaround on the 3rd flags up new information. If you’ve been waiting on a potential lover to get back to you, the start of the month is pivotal. Your stars look brilliant for a passionate love affair, but not ideal for a committed relationship. The Full Moon on the 10th brings much needed clarity. Career and money Ambitious Mars in your Money Sector is good news for cash-making ventures. Be bold…

Your relationship The Full Moon on the 10th signals that your love life will be shook up – in fascinating ways! Plans and changes connected to family, home and property are on the agenda. But it’s vital to negotiate arrangements, as not everything will suit both of you. Too many other people are crowding in on your relationship, so carve out private time. New love Friends may be the first to step in and crush your romantic expectations. Don’t listen to doubters. Trust your instincts and do what feels right. Perhaps this means continuing a holiday romance or committing to a partner who has children. Career and money Your ruler the Sun is strong in your Career Sector until the 20th when communication planet Mercury takes over. You can get…

Your relationship You may have been fuming about something, but let it drop – your partner will breathe a sigh of relief! It’s vital to be as united as possible by the 10th, when an unpredictable Full Moon throws down challenges. This doesn’t have to be a bore – it could be a really exciting time if you take it in your stride. New love Don’t imagine that everyone else is in a loving relationship except you. Look carefully at what you do want when it comes to love – is it the thrill of a sexual liaison or a committed partnership you’re after? Romance wafts your way on the 4th or 28th. Career and money If you’ve been waiting to hear about a job, Mercury’s change of direction on…

Your relationship Your planets Jupiter and Neptune are forming an awkward alliance. Love isn’t only about feelings, so translate that into action. Have you been respecting your partner’s needs? Go that extra mile to be there for them. But remember, give and take needs to be in balance. New love If you’re not ready for a new relationship, don’t rush into things – save your energy for other areas of your life. You’re a romantic at heart, and this month your ruler Neptune teams up with planets in your Communication Sector on the 4th and 28th. Immerse yourself in love, but take the pace slow. Career and money Your future success lies in your own hands, and it’ll only confuse matters if you include your family in a big decision.…

My wife Sandra, 52, was getting more excited by the second. ‘Now I only need one more number,’ she told me excitedly. We were curled up in bed, me watching a film, Sandra playing Chat Mag Bingo. We’d both recently joined. I’d suggested it, as Sandra used to enjoy the bingo hall. Honeymoon Sandra won £150 within days! And now she was bouncing about beside me. ‘I did it!’ she shrieked, leaping up with excitement. She’d got the progressive jackpot on 75-ball bingo in the Lounge Room and won £2,383. ‘You weren’t kidding!’ I beamed as we celebrated. And we knew just what to spend our winnings on… We were planning to jet off to Tenerife for our two-week dream honeymoon and had been saving since our big, Everton-themed, white-and-blue…

‘My first session with John was pretty daunting’ ‘John, is that you?’ I murmured, my eyes closed. I could feel the great man draw near to me. ‘Let’s begin,’ he said. Obediently, I put pen to paper and began writing. My gift I’d discovered five years ago that I had a gift for channelling spirits when I started getting ‘letters’ from my grandma – friendly, happy letters, chatting about family. But she’d passed away when I was a child. I’d feel her spirit flowing through me and write down what she said. And once the spirit world caught on that I had this gift, it was as if they all wanted in on the action! The old woman known to me only as Mother was one of my main spirit…

Born in Calcutta in 1863, Margaret Murray was a famous Anglo-Indian witch and author. This pioneer of women’s rights was the first UK’s female lecturer in archaeology at University College, London. A practitioner of magic, she cursed less-deserving fellow academics. She may also have known the secret to longevity, living to the age of 100! Your May ritual Emerald is May’s birthstone. Wear for youthfulness and a long life. To enjoy a vitality boost without shelling out a fortune, opt for nature’s bounty and find a stone with green or pink shading. Anoint with a couple of drops of ylang ylang essential oil, wrap in silk and carry in your pocket or handbag. Riddle’s remedies Dear Kirsten I feel depressed about the future, can magic help? Liz, 50, Southampton Dear…