Innholdsfortegnelse for April 2017 i Chat It's Fate

I'd been looking for love for five years when I went to visit a psychic named Amelia in November 2014. I didn’t usually believe in mediums, but I went along with my friend anyway. Amelia said I’d find true love with the initials RG. I didn’t think much of it, but months later I met the love of my life, and we’re still together to this day. His initials are JM, and last month I told him the story of the psychic and how she’d been wrong. But then he pointed something out. We’d met by pure chance at a concert by a singer named Rhiannon Giddens… RG! I couldn’t believe it, it turns out that Amelia had been right all along. Charlotte Ellis, 27, Ilford £25! Have you had…

Name in lights Back in November 1994, I started working as a prison officer. But I began seeing ghostly figures walking about, heard voices speaking to me. So I went to see a medium who said I should visit a spiritual church. ‘No way,’ I scoffed. ‘I’m not into all that weird stuff.’ But somehow the medium persuaded me to go along. That’s when I realised – I wasn’t off my rocker… I was psychic! When I blurted it out at work that I could see ghosts, my colleagues asked for readings, and I soon began working as a psychic medium. ‘How can I reach more people?’ I asked Spirit one evening. That night, I dreamt of a pair of red curtains. I knew Spirit was telling me to work…

Q & A She doesn’t want help Dear Jayda How can I help my friend, 16, who cuts herself? She wants me to keep it a secret. Name and location withheld Some people cut themselves as they can’t find a way to cope with difficult feelings. I’m glad your friend’s talking to you about her self-harming – that’s the first step. But you need to tell her that you can’t keep it a secret because you care. She may be angry, but tell an adult. Treatment can be successful, 90% stop within a year of starting. For support, contact info@harmless.org.uk I’m worried for my baby Dear Jayda 'm pregnant and have gestational diabetes. I Could this be bad for my baby? Suzy, 34, North London Dear Suzy Gestational diabetes only…

Blue Cool blue governs our body clock - waking us up at daybreak, and keeping us alert until dusk. It is the maternal deep ocean and the vast sky above. In Christianity, the Madonna’s almost always in blue. She’s dressed in ultramarine robes, meaning she’s literally clad in the truth or in the Heavens. It’s the colour of the Buddha Akshobhya, who’s portrayed with one hand touching Earth to represent contact with truth. And to Hindus, blue is the might of Lord Rama and Krishna, who protect us from evil. Key qualities Truth, peace and freedom. Blue meditation Conquer a bully emotionally with this Buddhist meditation. Sit before a lit blue candle with one hand on the ground. Imagine you’re the Blue Buddha Akshobhya with a mind as clear as…

‘Was she a spirit, trying to tell me the future?’ I’d seen that face before. I’d seen those hands. Those rings on those fingers, those bangles around those wrists. The gypsy. She was back. And I knew what that meant. Something was going to happen. Something very important. It was February 2004. But me and the gypsy had met for the first time in 1986. I was a younger woman back then. A dream? But the gypsy had looked the same then as she did now. Same raven-coloured hair tied up loosely under a scarlet headscarf. Same full, womanly figure under a purple bodice. Even her smile was the same. ‘You’re pregnant,’ she’d whispered in my ear. And as soon as she’d said it, I woke up. In bed. My…

Whose iron hand?! On returning from holiday, I washed and dried all the laundry, but when it came to the ironing, I couldn't find the iron anywhere. I knew exactly where I’d left it, so I was a bit puzzled. After a week of searching, I resigned myself to buying a new one. Then one afternoon, I was in the lounge when something caught my eye in the kitchen. I couldn’t believe it when I saw my iron sitting on the table where I’d already looked. I was bewildered. I wonder who or what may have moved it… S Tiley, Coventry Unholy carry on In the basement of Dublin’s Christ Church Cathedral, black markets were once rife. But a doctor got caught and was charged with murder. And his spirit’s…

Joanna’s monthly blog Stops and starts Mercury switches to reverse on the 10th, while Venus moves forwards again on the 15th. There are tricky issues to address, whether it’s things you’ve been ignoring or events that take you by surprise. Venus will show you where your heart lies. Don’t hesitate around love opportunities. Universal link The Full Moon in Libra on the 11th is another major part of this picture, sensitising relationship concerns. The sign of the scales isn’t just about balance and weighing things up, although these things will count, but also about recognising that whatever one person does or says automatically affects another. We’re all part of the same universal daisy chain. Luck object If you find a stray eyelash on your face, rescue it with your finger,…

Your relationship The link between head and heart is powerful. This means you can successfully see off a challenge if you feel understood. Keep chit chat flowing! If you do, you’ll feel sanguine about revising plans you’d made together, ditching a bad idea, whether that’s yours or theirs, or accepting that others need your partner more than you do right now. New love It’s a month when you find that business and pleasure don’t blend well. Perhaps it’s time to knock a work affair on the head or to get real about an infatuation that’s going nowhere. Once you’re strong enough to accept what you can’t have, you’ll be able to enjoy yourself more and make the most of your social life. Career and money You’re rarely on top form…

Your relationship Venus slides back into your Partnership Sector and squares up to taskmaster Saturn on the 8th and the 21st. This means difficult love issues land in your lap. Either you’ll be dealing with a problem that refuses to be brushed under the carpet, or you’ll realise that some things will never change. Whatever it is, accept it with your usual aplomb. New love A potential relationship may be plodding along, but events over the Easter weekend flag up a green light for affairs of the heart. Ditch your sensible persona and remind the world that you’re a true romantic. Don’t be disheartened if an attraction continues to proceed at an slow pace as there are genuine reasons. When the time is right, love will win the day. Career…

Your relationship Big-hearted Jupiter cuddling up to the Full Moon on the 11th promises great things. Who cares if you aren’t thinking as one on everything? It’s how you arrive at compromise that proves how joined at the hip you two are. A shared social life brings you closer, especially when you make an effort with those important to your partner. New love You’re more generous than most, but you’re no pushover. You won’t allow bad behaviour to dominate when it comes to love. Someone new could bounce into your life on the 14th and 28th, but they might quickly bounce back out. Put some boundaries in place so the other person knows what you will and won’t accept. Career and money Tread a safe and steady path when it…

Your relationship You may have been going through a rocky patch or biding your time to say what’s in your heart. Venus getting back on track in your sign brings a powerful romance revival. But you still need to tread on eggshells. Some things are better left unsaid. Focus on making your love life a place of joy and everything will be easier, especially after the 21st. New love Love planet Venus turns direct in Pisces on the 15th. A love spark rekindles as someone you met earlier this year reappears in your life. You could find this all upsetting as nagging doubt remains. You might also wonder how a new relationship will fit with your life goals. Take your time on decisions. Career and money Your ruling planet Jupiter…

They assaulted an old man Dear Miss Crimebuster I work in a pub and two men were bragging at the bar about breaking into an old man’s house. From the sounds of it, this was a revenge attack. When they realised I’d overheard them, they quickly turned it into a joke. I’m upset as the old man had to go to hospital. They know the publican and I’m scared I’ll lose my job, but I feel I should help. Pippa, 24, Northampton Dear Pippa Your grandad in spirit is proud of your moral backbone, so follow those instincts. Call the local police anonymously. Don’t worry about the job as a better opportunity is coming your way. Think about working in the caring profession as it’d suit your sensitive nature. Thousands…

Where does my destiny lie? Dear Yasmin Am I destined to live abroad or in London? I feel a pull to overseas but I don't know how it'll happen. Sharon, 46, London Dear Sharon It is my humble opinion that destiny plays less of a part and free will more of a role in our futures. If you want to go overseas, then work on that. Explore options, look on overseas jobs websites, talk to friends abroad. Doing this will set the changes in motion. Your chart shows promise for that scenario or for working for an overseas company. I drew you a card and you got: Connect with heaven. Ask and you shall receive. Talk to your angels asap. Love hasn’t come calling Dear Yasmin…

There's nothing like a lovely compliment for turning a dark day into a bright one! It you’re feeling down in the dumps about your appearance, ignore your reaction to what you see in the mirror. Who cares if you aren’t a size-0 or your nose isn’t the perfect shape? Take a step back and look at the real you. You’re unique – there’s no-one else in the world quite like you. How to use your Magical Potions Dreamcatcher Cover a box with wrapping paper and put your best toiletries inside. Stick the Dreamcatcher on top. Make the connection For a month, enjoy using use the items from the box to send a signal into the Universe that you love being you. What you like, other people will, too. Dreamcatcher…

• A man dressed as a cat robs homes in the Midlands. • Will hundreds of factories close down in China? • Homelessness is reaching epidemic proportions. • The Palace makes a stunning announcement. 50s-style hair will be the new trend. A baby daughter for Cheryl and Liam? • Has Mariah Carey permanently lost her voice? • Russia is suspected of using a chemical weapon. • For Lotto luck, go for 3, 12, 18, 22, 29 and 44. For EuroMillions, go for 1, 15, 24, 33 and 45, Lucky stars 2 and 5. Will an old neck problem immoblise Charlize Theron? COMING IN MAY CHAT IT’S FATE!…

‘Three of our friends had been killed’ ‘Once again, my life had been spared’ Raising my glass, I just couldn’t stop myself grinning. ‘To us!’ I said with my fellow squaddies as we downed our pints. At the young age of 17, we’d finally been placed in our regiments after a gruelling training period. For me, it was a dream come true. I’d joined up in 1968 at just 15 years old. The Army life was all I’d ever wanted. Fatal crash Most of us fancied a Chinese after the pub, but my pal Randolf had other ideas. ‘We’re not going home!’ he said. ‘I’ve got to finish my drink.’ I was hungry, but instinct took over. For some reason I just knew I had to stay with Randolf. ‘You…

Crystal fact Aragonite This exquisite gem was first found in Aragon, Spain in 1797, from whence it gets its name. Aragonite can be colourless, peachy brown or grey, and comes in various shades of white. It's often found with crystals clustered onto each other! Aragonite works with all the chakras – but is good with the root chakra for grounding and releasing issues. It’s used for broken bones and sore knees. Aragonite is found in Spain, Slovakia, France, the UK, Sicily, Morocco and Namibia, and many other countries. Ghostly Inspirations Christian Dior French couturier, Christian Dior, grew up in Les Rhumbs, a fantasy-filled villa in Granville, France. It looks out to sea, feeding dreams and thoughts of huge horizons. Christian and his mum Madeleine spent many happy hours decorating it…

‘Furniture moved when the girl was around’ In the mid-1920s, a rich Austrian countess rescued Eleonore Zugun, a young peasant girl, from an asylum. She whisked her away to Vienna and then brought her to London. The reason? The 13-year-old Romanian had apparently suffered attacks of poltergeist activity and stigmata. Whipped? Fearing possession by Dracu (the Devil), local villagers ensured she was locked away. Fascinated, Countess Zoe Wassilko-Serecki arranged for the girl to have tests at the National Laboratory of Psychical Research, London. She reported how she’d seen marks appear on the girl’s arm, and how they had grown into a number of ‘cruellooking’ weals that resembled the wounds of someone who’d been whipped with a cane. She also told how the girl had been drinking a cuppa when she’d…

Signs across the divide Sweet treat My dad Stuart loved baking. As a kid, I can remember him making scones - I loved gobbling them with jam! We were so close. So when he passed away from a heart attack in 2010, I was distraught. In time, I met my fiance Gareth, 34, and we had Robyn, 3. Then last year we moved into a new house and quickly set up Robyn’s toy kitchen. But after a week, Robyn pointed to the spare room. ‘Grandad!’ she smiled. I thought she was being silly. She often visited her grandad, Gareth’s dad, so I thought she was just playing pretend. But over the next few weeks, she kept pointing to the spare room. ‘I can see Grandad,’ she said. And when she…

Your relationship Love never ceases to be a learning curve – even the things that you thought were sorted may do a u-turn. The top item on the list is money, but you need to rethink your position on subjects that are making you touchy. You’ll find the answers around the 11th with the Full Moon shining a powerful searchlight into your Partnership Sector. New love It’s time to sort out any messes that have occurred in your love life recently. Be pro-active, but don’t be rigid in your expectations of the outcome. There are still a few twists and turns to come before you see if love is meant to be. Easter weekend is good for an act of forgiveness as the theme of sacrifice takes priority. Career and…

Your relationship Get ready for the 6th, which marks a turning point in your lives together. As Saturn switches direction, and Mars aligns with all-or-nothing Pluto in your Partnership Sector, an event will set the tone for months to come. If you keep ducking that crucial conversation, you’ll create an alienating distance. New love This month, there’s no such thing as a final decision when it comes to love. Try not to become disheartened if a relationship ends abruptly. Events close to the New Moon on the 26th pave the way for a lurve renewal. Just keep expectations realistic and don’t let the sound of wedding bells whisk you away to an unlikely world. Enjoy a fling over the Easter weekend! Career and money The workplace offers excitement, but a…

Your relationship The Full Moon in your sign on the 11th lies at the heart of a sensitive picture. You’re famed for avoiding arguments, but now you need to stand your ground. You must respect your partner’s point of view, even if you find it baffling, but don’t give up your own. Lightbulb moments on both sides have you looking at each other in a new, deliciously sexy way. New love If you feel wary about entering into a new relationship, you’re spot on! You need to root out more info before you can be sure. Events over the Easter weekend signal a turning point, but don’t listen so much to other peoples’ opinions that you forget your own. Your patience will be rewarded when loving Venus returns to passionate…

Your relationship Love planet Venus is squaring up to Saturn twice this month, and is a warning sign that you need to put in extra effort. Saturn switching direction at the same time underlines the message. One of you may be making huge life-changing decisions, and needs the other’s support. The 24th brings satisfying results. New love Mars in your Romance Sector until the 21st turns on your sensual nature. Let your inner sex goddess come to the fore. The power of touch matters, so use it when you can’t rely on words to express how you feel. From the 9th-20th, worry less about what you hear and focus more on what you experience. Career and money The Full Moon on the 11th takes place in your Career Sector. Wait…

Animal communication is my true calling The methodical ticking of the clock on the night stand. My hubby snoring softly next to me. And aside from that? Silence. Well, it was the middle of the night after all. But I couldn’t sleep a wink. My thoughts were talking away loudly. Image after image flashed up in my mind. But what did they mean? A code Sounds a little peculiar, doesn’t it? Well, it’s not the first time it’s happened. See, I’m what they call an animal communicator. ‘It means I can telepathically speak to pets,’ I say, whenever people ask what that means. So night after night, my thoughts will fill with images, communicated to me by the animal world. Like a code. And it’s my job to crack it.…

‘I’ve lost dozens of mates – it could’ve been me’ Nearly died One night, we were on a training mission in a Hercules plane. We were coming in to land when the plane suddenly shot upwards. ‘What the..?’ I gasped. It turned out the pilot had nearly hit the airfield fence. We would have all died for certain. As time went on, I realised how deeply in tune I was with the spiritual world. My life had been spared too many times, it was more than just a coincidence. Suicide In April 1982, the Falklands War broke out. My colleagues and I were ordered to ambush an Argentinian base. We all knew it was a suicide mission. Arriving at the Falklands, we were filled with trepidation. We knew it could…

Q & A They don’t like me back Dear Jenny For ages, I’ve had feelings for my boss’s daughter. However, I’m 90 per cent sure she doesn’t feel the same. I always develop feelings for girls who don’t reciprocate! Andrew, 25, Wigston, Leicester Dear Andrew Only a thin veil separates you from your past lives. The women you’re attracted to were connected to you intimately in those times, and that’s why they are drawn into your circle. But then their spirit guides step in and move them away because there are past-life memories that should be left back there. If they aren’t, they will distract you, while your real soul mate passes you by. Try to step back from your feelings, and watch to see who comes to you. I…

‘A beautiful white light appeared, shimmered towards me’ Leafing through my favourite glossy magazine, I suddenly stopped at a picture of gorgeous model Naomi Campbell. ‘I wish I looked like that,’ I sighed, gazing enviously at her long, slim legs and toned body. Like so many women, I fought a constant battle with my weight. And being surrounded by images of beautiful, skinny models made things so much worse. Dizzy spell I was so desperate to be slim, in the day I starved myself, nibbling lettuce and nuts and drinking water. But by night, I was so hungry, weak and exhausted, I craved sugary, fatty food. I waited until my kids Jaada, now 19, and Teigh, 14, were asleep in bed. Then I gorged packs of shortbread and chocolate fingers,…

I feel dreadful Dear Katie I’m always sick and I’ve been in pain for over two years. I’ve also just lost my job. What lessons am I not learning? Eleny, 42, London Dear Eleny Your aura’s a dark yellow, which reveals you’re hard on yourself, especially when you make comparisons with others. Don’t blame yourself for your ailments as this’ll only lead to more problems. Bring more self-love into your life for psychological and spiritual wellbeing. Your fave colours interpreted Dear Katie Will kids be a part of my future? My favourite colours are gold, white and silver. Selina, 31, Norwich, Norfolk Dear Selina There’s good news on the way! Gold shows you’re divinely protected. White is an indicator of new life and fertility, and the silver shows a change…

Lately, I found a copy of You Learn By Living: Eleven Keys For A More Fulfilling Life by 20th-Century role model, Eleanor Roosevelt. Published more than 50 years ago, and written when the author was 76, this book still has great advice on how to live a fulfilling life. Full of timeless and inspirational wisdom. Eleanor was born in New York in 1884 when life and attitudes to women were different. In 1905, she married a distant cousin, Franklin Roosevelt, who went on to serve four terms as President. Eleanor used her position to fight for rights for the less well off, women and every race. One of my favourite quotes shows not just her strength, but also her wonderful sense of humour: ‘A woman is like a teabag, you…

Q & A We kept splitting up Dear Roi de Lune Recently, I dreamt that my girlfriend and I both kept trying to split up. We’re happy together, but each time one of us ended it, we’d be fine, but get back together shortly afterwards. Then we’d go on to do it again later on in the dream. Shamus, 23, Cork Dear Shamus Your dream is a message about your relationship, but not about splitting up. You’re both changing, and are on differing trajectories right now, but each of you know this. Relax! Your subconscious is sending you reassurance that change is natural and you’ll come through it. Culture corner Famous for its fan-shaped layout, the lovely German city of Karlsruhe (translated as Charles’ repose) was created by Margrave Charles…

"Was it the Queen’s misery I’d tuned in to?" Fit for a queen 'What an incredible place,' I said to my husband Graham. It was 2004 and we were on holiday in Norfolk with our two young sons. We’d driven past Castle Rising, a partially ruined but still imposing piece of 12th-Century architecture, and spontaneously decided to pay it a visit. It was a sunny day, but as I entered the castle’s keep, I was suddenly overwhelmed with a feeling of melancholy. As I walked round, I felt increasingly shaken and agitated. It was totally bizarre, but I’m a bit psychic – all the women in my family are. And now, it was as if I was feeling someone else’s depression. I became increasingly desperate to leave, but didn’t want…

Your relationship Your other half is on a mission, absorbed with their own personal matters. But don’t try to be controlling. Mercury’s turnaround signals that you’d be well advised not to make too many demands and that some things are best kept to yourself. A moving heart-to-heart around the 20th, however, reveals how special your intimacy really is. New love Love planet Venus is on go slow until the 15th, so don’t fret about rushing love. You might be drawn back towards a person you met at the start of the year or discover you have feelings for someone unexpected. Either way, the Easter weekend is the turning point for a sexy liaison when unrequited feelings can be healed. Career and money Events close to the Full Moon reveal which…

Your relationship The first half of the month sees you wrestling with lots of challenges. Some of these are linked to your partner’s work or health issues. Be sympathetic rather than short-tempered. Mid-month, you’re both back in tune when the Sun harmonises with Saturn – and Venus smiles on your libido! New love If you had it your way, your love life would be colourful and dramatic in equal measure – a grand romance that whisks you away on an adventure. In reality, you discover it’s hard for love to flourish when worries about money, sex or the kids dominate. This month, you’re more likely to find a kindred spirit with similar plus points and weaknesses to you. Career and money Your working life benefits from a regular routine and…

Your relationship Mars marches on through your Partnership Sector. His job is to stir up strife, and it would be all too easy to see your other half as the enemy. Neither of you is the bad guy, so quit bitching and blaming. Mars is also about passion, positivity and flow, so give your love life a dynamic shake-up. The weekend of the 15th is fabulous for togetherness. New love New decisions have little to do with your brain and a lot to do with your heart. Let feelings guide you. Once love planet Venus returns to direct motion in your Romance Sector on the 15th, romance wafts back into your life. There is a choice to be made – heart matters come at the cost of something else… Career…

Your relationship Your home life is what counts. No matter what the outside world is throwing at the pair of you, leave your stress on the doorstep. You have more important things to talk about, and happiness grows through mutual day-to-day pleasures. The Sun-Uranus double act mid-April signals that the sky’s the limit. New love You’re not going to be short of energy in the month ahead. If you’re channelling your eagerness into the dating scene, then something exciting will fizzle! Friday nights are buzzing as long as you’re not angling for a commitment. Things could also turn complicated if an ex pops up unexpectedly. Keep your romantic options open. Career and money You’re brimming with ideas, but finding it hard to focus, so it’s easy to get distracted. Be…

‘I watched in delight as my name flashed up’ I stared at my computer in disbelief, my name was flashing on the screen. ‘I’ve won!’ I gasped. ‘Paul, I’ve won on the bingo,’ I said to my hubby. I’d signed up with Chat Mag Bingo back in 2011. My favourite I’d always enjoyed playing in the bingo halls by the sea when I was younger, and playing online at home was so convenient. Especially since I’m in a wheelchair, which makes it a little harder to get around. And I loved the website. It was so easy to use, and the bingo games were so colourful. If I had free time, or was relaxing at home, I’d buy a few tickets and enjoy a few games. Bejeweled Bingo was my…

“Finn wasn’t frightened by his spirit friend” Ghost of a British officer? Finn and Eva were there Wrapping up my kids in warm jackets, we made our way down to the woods for a bike ride. ‘Bet you can’t go as fast as me!’ my daughter Eva, 9, teased as Finn, 5, tried to catch up. As a single mum, nothing made me smile more than watching my kids play together. We cycled towards an abandoned railway line near the River Foyle in Derry, and I couldn’t resist taking photos of the children running wild. Camera shy Eva loved posing for the camera, but Finn always seemed to run away as the flash went off. Typical boy, I smiled. Back home, I ran the kids a bath and flicked back…

Abe no Seimei was Japan’s answer to Merlin, both legendary wizards in folklore. This magician inherited powers from his mum, a fox spirit, and he served many emperors using spells for healing and to banish evil spirits. Seimei could see invisible demons and battled evil creatures. He’s often depicted with 12 servant spirits. He lived a long life, but some say he never died. Your April ritual If someone’s ill, find a photo of them or write their name on a piece of paper. Place ginger root on top, then encircle with a black pepper for added protection. Picture the person looking and healthy and happy. Put on a window ledge for three days. Repeat with fresh ingredients if they remain unwell. Riddle’s remedies Dear Kirsten My job is under…

According to Jewish custom, spring is the ideal time to give your home a thorough clean to prepare it for Passover, this year from 10-18 April. The Celts liked to worship the coming of the season by planting seeds and clearing out the old, practices that were thought to be linked to Easter celebrations today. In world folklore, spring cleaning is an important tradition as it breathes new energy and light into your abode, and we’ve just marked National Spring Cleaning Week (6-12 March). Follow suit and boost your personal power by giving your home and life a mystical re-vamp! VIP lounge Curling up on the sofa after a hard day's work can feel so good. But energy can stagnate, so any rows leave a residue that clings to walls…

Have you heard? Aping it Humans have around the same number of hairs on their bodies as chimpanzees! But instead of looking like thick fur, most of ours are so fine they’re almost invisible. Thank goodness! Hide and seek Disguise the signs of late nights with Know Cosmetics No Dark Shadows Complexion Enhancer, £15, Superdrug. It blends well and is available in two shades, one for complexions with rose undertones and one for yellow undertones. Solid crew Inspired by an ancient medieval recipe, Angels On Bare Skin Fresh Cleanser, £7.25, Lush, contains lavender and rose to calm skin and kaolin to absorb grease. Just add water to turn it into a brightening paste! Sweet treat Don’t just eat chocolate – wash in it too! Palmolive Gourmet Chocolate Passion Shower Cream,…

This month, I return to a favourite subject of mine – aliens and UFOs. Have you ever wondered why NASA hasn’t been back to the Moon? Conspiracy theorists have been having a field day with that question, and coming up with some pretty outlandish – if not worrying – reasons why they haven’t. This could be my favourite… Consequences It’s been said that NASA was cautioned to stay away from the Moon by aliens that have occupied the place for countless years. One of the theories associated with this is that NASA and the human race were warned that there would be serious consequences if this threat was ignored. In other words, they would mount an attack. Coupled with this theory is the idea that structures – more precisely, buildings…