WE AMERICANS ARE voracious consumers of advice, seeking wisdom wherever we can find it: podcasts, books, TED Talks, life coaches, influencers, religion, therapy, Dear Abby, barbers, bartenders, Uber drivers—the list goes on. I'd like to add my personal source for guidance: obituaries.
It turns out, the dead know a thing or two about living. I've been an avid obit reader for decades for the same reason that artist Maira Kalman says she reads them every morning: “Maybe it is a way of trying to figure out, before the day begins, what is important.”
Recently, I've begun using my TikTok account, called Tips from Dead People, to share some life lessons I've learned from obituaries. Here are a few favorites:
Success is measured in kindness.
Maureen Brennan-Weaver of Harrisburg, Pennsylvania, was…
