Philosophy & Psychology
Love in a F*cked-Up World: How to Build Relationships, Hook Up, and Raise Hell Together.
By Dean Spade.
Jan. 2025. 352p. Algonquin, paper, $19.99 (9781643756462). 158.1.
This inclusive guide to interpersonal relationships is not only for fans of self-help books. Lawyer, professor, and trans activist Spade (Mu tual Aid, 2020) explains that too often, books about dating, romance, and sex are unhelpful and deeply exclusionary, addressing issues only from a heteronormative, white, Christian perspective. For all lovers and friends, regardless of sexual orientation, gender identity, income, and family background, this book is broken into sections about managing issues like isolation, jealousy, conflict, and change management in a world that, with its ecological and social catastrophes, can exacerbate our strife. The radical truth: we must love each other…
